crystal river church of god
DESCRIPTION
"You Have a Choice" June 29, 2014 Bishop Ronnie ReidTRANSCRIPT
Hallelujah. The blood of Jesus, it is my
victory. I've got victory today because of the blo od
of Jesus. No matter what you're going through, no
matter what you've been through, no matter what you 're
facing, the blood of Jesus is your victory.
Hallelujah.
I want to talk to you for a little while this
morning on, "You Have a Choice." You have a choice .
Look at your neighbor and say, "You need to make go od
choices." You need to make good choices. You have a
choice. In the book of Deuteronomy, 30:19 is where
we'll begin, a very familiar passage of scripture.
When you get there, say Amen.
In the book of Deuteronomy, 30:19, it reads
like this: I called heaven and earth to record thi s
day against you that I have set before you life and
death, blessing and curses. Therefore, choose life
that both you or thou and thy seed may live. Choos e
life that you and your seed may live. That you may
love the Lord your God, and that you may obey his
voice, and that you may cleave unto him, for he is
your life. He is thy life and the length of thy da ys
that thou may dwell in the land that the Lord swear
unto thy fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac and to Jacob to
give them. For he is your life and the length of y our
1
days, and that you may dwell in the land which the
Lord swore to your fathers.
Would you let us pray. Father, thank you for
your blood. Thank you God that you have given us a
choice. And I praise you and I glorify you. God, I
pray that as I break open this word and as we begin to
preach this morning, I pray that you grant me that
which makes preaching easy and effective, and that is
the anointing of the Holy Ghost. God, without you, we
can't do it; but with you, we can do all things
through Jesus Christ. And the church said Amen.
I read a headline that kind of caught me.
And I wasn't sure about it at first, but then I beg an
to ponder on it for a couple of days, and it really
began to grab ahold of me, and this was it: Leader s
make choices, victims don't. Leaders make choices,
victims don't. And as I pondered on this statement , I
was reading a leadership magazine, or a leadership
article, I should say. And this was the statement on
there that I read: Leaders make choices, victims
don't.
But it began to get down into my spirit, and
then I began to think about realistically not just
leaders make decisions, but believers ought to make
decisions. That in order to be a believer, then yo u
2
had to make a decision somewhere along the line.
If you're going to be a believer, then there
was a choice that you had to make. And can I tell you
that almost daily, there's another choice that you
have to make, whether you're going to believe God's
word, or you're going to believe your circumstances .
Whether you're going to believe God's word, or whet her
you're going to believe what you see.
Well, wait a minute, Preacher. What I see is
real. No. What the word of God says, the unseen i s
more real than the seen. That the word of God tell s
us that what you see can pass away, but what you do n't
see will remain forever. What you do see will be
corrupted, but what you don't see can be
incorruptible. Can you say Amen?
So as I read that statement, the Lord began
to deal with me, and I began to not just think abou t
the leaders, but believers. And so let me talk to you
for a moment. Point number one is this: A believe r
can't continuously be a victim. A believer can't
continuously be a victim. "Well, I don't agree wit h
that." Well, not everybody can be right either.
And I'm not trying to be brash, but a
believer can't continuously be a victim because
somewhere along the line, you've got to get over a
3
victim mentality. Somewhere along the line, you've
got to make right choices, and every choice has a
price tag. Doesn't matter what it is, every choice
has a price tag. You know, and since I'm trying to
keep my weight down, I'm trying to keep healthy; an d
every time I put something into my mouth, I think
about how long I got to run to get that out of ther e.
Uh-huh. And I realize that some of it I won't ever
get out. But, anyway, chocolate runs through my
veins.
But, anyway, every time you make a choice,
you make a choice who you're to hang out with. You
make a choice with who you're to marry. You make a
choice of who you're going to love. You make a
choice. "Well, no, I didn't make a choice. It jus t
happened." No. You made a choice. You make a cho ice
whether you're going to stay together. You make a
choice.
A believer can't continuously be a victim.
Somewhere along the line, you've got to quit having
that victim mentality. Yet, many great wannabe and
would-be greats, giants for God, have lived their
lives, certainly have lived a long time, but they h ave
not come into what God wants them to have, what God
wants them to do, because they continue to nurture
4
this victim mentality.
And it's not just in the pew or the seat,
it's in the pulpit. And preachers and pastors that I
deal with sometimes are always talking about what l ife
didn't give them, what life didn't give them, and
what -- well, in my arena with pastors, sometimes t hey
talk about what the Church of God didn't do for the m.
Well, let me tell you something. Whether you're a
preacher or not, the Church of God is not your God,
all right?
And so somewhere along the line, you've got
to quit talking about what side of the tracks you w ere
born on and what deal or what hand you've been deal t
and all of this and declare that bless God, God is no
respecter of person. What he did for one, he'll do
for me. And I don't have to be a second class
citizen. I don't have to sit on the back row, and I
don't have to sit and squander what God has given m e;
so, therefore, as for me and my house, not only sha ll
we serve the Lord, but we shall achieve what God ha s
called us to do. Can you say Amen?
They have allowed themselves to be victimized
by their circumstances. Now, here's the realty. S ome
of us have been victims of circumstances. But if y ou
continue to allow yourself to stay there, then you' re
5
not -- then you no longer become a victim of
circumstance. You get a victim mentality. What do
you mean, Pastor?
I didn't ask the Lord to be born into the
family that I was born into. And how many has ever
said that before? "Lord, why did you put me in thi s
family? Why did you put me in this dysfunctional
family?" I didn't ask that. I'm not saying I didn 't
have a good upbringing. Mom and dad loved me, love d
each other, but, man, fought like cats and dogs.
Here's the deal. I didn't ask to be born to a moth er
who was going to mother 11 children. When you're
number 10, you kind of get lost in the shuffle.
I didn't ask for my -- to be born to a mother
who was born into the Mississippi Delta, who her
father would come home and beat his wife and beat t he
children. Her stepmother would hide the children i n
order to keep the children safe. I didn't ask for
that. You know, you come out of that, you got some
issues.
I didn't ask for my dad to be born -- for my
dad to be -- thank God he became a preacher. But I
didn't ask to be born into that family where my dad
quit school in the 7th or 8th grade because his dad
was a drunk and he had to provide for the rest of h is
6
children -- or for the rest of his siblings. I did n't
ask for that. But yet my dad made a choice. My
mother made a choice. And even though I was born i nto
a Christian family, I still had to make a choice. And
you've got to make a choice on whether or not who
you're going to be and what you're going to do and who
you're going to serve. And I'm not going to let th e
devil or society or culture dictate to me who I am,
because God has already declared who I am. I am a
child of the living God, anointed with his anointin g
to do great works for him. Can you say Amen?
Believers can't continuously be a victim.
Why? Because let me tell you. Now, some of you no t
going to agree with me on this. Some of you haven' t
agreed with me already. But, anyway. Why? Becaus e
it can be nice to be a victim. It can be nice. Wh y?
Because here's why. It absolves you from any
responsibility for the outcome of your life.
I believe I'm going to say that again. It
absolves you from any responsibility for the outcom e
of your life. "Well, you know, I didn't have the
opportunities that others did." Why not? "Well, I
just didn't." No, no. I like what one guy said. One
guy said you can't change what hand you've been dea lt
in life. But what you can change, what really matt ers
7
is how you play the hand that you've been dealt.
Now, I know some of you-all know about cards,
and some of you-all still acting like you're holy, you
don't play cards or something. But you've got to k now
that you've got to play the hand that you've been
dealt, right? And you can declare and decide that I'm
going to sit here and let life live me, or I'm goin g
to live life, and I refuse to let the devil,
circumstances, culture, society, whatever, dictate who
I am and what I'm going to become, because my bible --
and here it comes. If you're truly a believer, the n
you can't have that victim mentality, because a
believer says that I can do all things through Chri st
which strengths me. Glory to God.
It isn't the path of a great person of God,
and you can be a great person of God, but you've go t
to declare and decide that I refuse to be a victim.
Point number two is this. Circumstances alone does
not control our lives. You're not a ball in a pinb all
machine. You ever notice how you hit some of them
walls, and it bounces you here, and it bounces you
there. And you're just going through life, plunk,
plunk, plunk. "Well, I wish somebody would help me ."
No, no, no. Somebody wants to help you. Wants to
help you so bad that he died for you. Wanted to he lp
8
you so bad that he died for you and sent the Holy
Ghost to come and help you make right choices to ge t
your life back on track.
As a believer, as a leader, as a -- sometimes
I'm a counselor -- I don't want to hear about the
circumstances if you refuse to talk about your
choices. Everybody wants to tell you their
circumstances, but not everybody wants to talk abou t
their choices. And their choices is what's dictate d
their circumstances.
A believer doesn't give life permission to
determine his or her future. A believer says that I
don't care what life has dealt me. If I truly beli eve
in this Word, then I can have what it says I can ha ve.
I can be what it says I can be. And I can do what it
says I can do. That's good preaching, Pastor.
In life you're going to find that believers
live in the realm of choices while everybody else
lives in the realm of circumstances. Church, why?
Because believers should live by choice, not by
accident. You've got to live by choice, not by
accident. We're too -- we've got to become mission al
and intentional about what we do and who we are and
what we're going to do with the things that God has
given us.
9
You ever see people who do well and, you
know, and some people want to act like that's an
accident. I've got two good children, and I bind t he
devil in the name of Jesus. And let me help you,
they're not angels. I know that. Don't tell their
mama, but I know that. They're not angels, but I'v e
got two good kids that I trust. And let me tell yo u
this. That didn't come by happenstance.
This one girl who -- she's got two children
now, and I've known her since she was a child. And
her two children are little hellions. You know wha t
I'm talking about. You know who you are. You can' t
take your kids nowhere because no one wants them to
come because they going to tear up the house, or th ey
won't sit down and shut up. I'm going to say that.
Got to go baby proof the whole house before they co me,
got to move this, move that. No, no, no, no. This
girl said this to me, "Oh, but you were lucky. You
were lucky." Luck didn't have anything to do with it,
baby. Now, I'm blessed, but I chose. You chose.
You know, you look at people who own their
own business. "Oh, you're lucky." No, no. They
chose. They chose. You see people who are
successful. "Oh, you're lucky." No. They chose.
They made a choice. They made life choices, and th ey
10
make a choice every day of their life to choose.
It's amazing to me the harder I work and the
better choices that the Holy Spirit helps me make,
that the luckier I am. Kind of reminds me of that
farmer who said -- the preacher came out and said,
"Man, look what the Lord has done with this great,
beautiful farm." And the farmer say, "Yeah, but yo u
oughta seen it when God had it by himself." Choice s.
Choices. You may say that there are -- you may say
that there are times when you have absolutely no
choice. But even then, you still have a choice. W hat
do you mean, Pastor? Even when you have no control on
the things going on around you, you can control wha t's
going on on the inside of you. You've got to contr ol
what's going on on the inside, because you can't
always control what goes on on the outside. But
you've got to control what goes on on the inside.
That's right.
You see, I'm talking about your attitude.
And your attitude is hard to control sometimes. Wh y?
Because your attitude wants to be carnal. Your
attitude wants to be fleshy. It's a little
overwhelming to consider that every attitude that
you've ever had has been your choice. I don't like
the sound of that. Why? Because it puts the monke y
11
on my back, and I like the monkey being on somebody
else's back. But every attitude I've ever had, it is
my choice. You can't choose your circumstances, bu t
you can always choose your attitude toward the
circumstances.
When you're angry, it's because you chose to
be angry. When you're happy, it's because you chos e
to be happy. Don't ever let life's circumstances
dictate to you your attitude. Knowing that so many
times the attitude -- hear me -- the attitude that you
choose will begin to dictate toward the circumstanc es
that you're in. What do you mean? Hear me again.
The attitude that you choose will begin to
dictate your life circumstances, because if you're not
careful, you will make -- your attitude makes the
circumstances worse. Anybody agree with that? Let me
tell you this. You go into work and have a bad
attitude, it's going to, what? Affect your work. You
go in -- you go into -- you ever had -- anybody eve r
had their mama mad at somebody else but yet try to
brush your hair? Uh-huh. It affected more than ju st
them. They wasn't mad at you. But, man, "Mama,
you're killing me."
"Well, I'm sorry, baby. I'm not mad at you."
"Well, quit brushing my hair until you quit
12
being mad at somebody." Right?
Point number 3 is this: Cherish your right
to be happy, peaceful and joyful. Cherish your rig ht.
Wait a minute, Pastor. You mean I have a right to be
happy? Jesus said, "I come that you may have life and
that you may have it more abundantly."
Absolutely. If you're a believer, then you
have a right to have life. If you look at that Gre ek
word there, in life, it means zoe life. It means t hat
he came to put life in your life. He came to give you
a good time. But Romans 14:17 -- write it down. I 'll
be gone by the time you get there. Romans 14:17",
For the Kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but
righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Ghost.
Stuck in a tough situation? Begin to make
the choice to maintain a positive attitude. Anybod y
had a bad attitude when you're in a dispute, and yo ur
attitude chose -- you know, you choose some things and
some words and some inflexions of your voice that m ade
it worse than better.
In every corner, in every crack, in every
crevice lurks an excuse for you to pick up. If you 're
not careful, that's what will happen to you is you' ll
pick up excuses for why you are the way you are.
"Well, I was born this way." Well, if you're
13
a believer, you were born again. Here's the deal.
Here's the deal. If you're a believer, you were bo rn
again; but even though you were born again, your
personality didn't get born again. So what's got t o
happen, Pastor? That's what Paul said in Romans 12 :
Be not conformed of this world, but be transformed by
the renewing of your mind.
That's how your mind -- that's how your
attitude's got to change is by the renewing of your
mind. How many ever once -- how many have ever wen t
from an attitude where you didn't think you could d o
anything, but all of a sudden you got something. Y ou
got a principle. You grabbed ahold of it. And nex t
thing you know, you believed that you could do that
thing because you began to understand it. That is a
transformation of the mind.
You've got information that stirred up some
inspiration, that got some revelation going, that
caused a transformation in your life. And that's
what's got to happen in the word of God. You don't
just need information. And it's not going to happe n
by wearing the bible on your head. And it's not go ing
to happen by osmosis. I don't care, Jim, even thou gh
you don't have hair, it ain't going to work just by
putting it on there, right? You've got to put it
14
inside of your heart, put it inside of your spirit.
And when it begins to take hold, that's when the
transformation comes. And when the transformation
comes, that's when your life will be changed becaus e
you made a choice.
Why do you think the devil wants you to not
read this word? We can read novels, and we can rea d
books; but when it comes to this word, we don't wan t
to read. Why? Because the devil doesn't want you to
read it. Your flesh doesn't want you to read it,
because let me tell you something. Everybody's got an
opinion. And you know whose opinion I like best? My
own.
And your flesh has an opinion. Your flesh
wants you to stay the way you are. You know why?
Because it doesn't take any effort to stay the way you
are. If it doesn't take any effort to stay the way
you are, then, you know, we in general are lazy
people.
I wish I could sit up and eat ice cream. The
other day I had some Snicker -- some Snicker ice
cream, Snicker ice cream bars. Not Snicker bars th at
were frozen, Snicker ice cream bars. And I ate --
they're little 90 calorie ones. And I had to eat f ive
just to get enough of them. There's 12 in a box. I
15
could have ate the whole box without any trouble. I'm
just telling you right now, I could have ate the wh ole
box. I have no idea where I was going with that st ory
now. I've got my mind on them Snickers. Have no i dea
where I was going.
Choice. I made the choice not to eat all of
them. Laziness. Thank you. There it was. What I
wanted to do is I would love to be able to eat that
whole box and lay up in my chair and just enjoy the
fullness of that chocolate.
The other day my wife and I, we're walking.
We're trying to be a little healthier. And we were
walking, and I said, "I do not feel like doing this ."
She looked at me, and she said, "We ain't doing it
because we like it."
You know, let me tell you -- and I know
sometimes you get tired of hearing me say things li ke
this. But they tell you that you're supposed to ru n
or jog at a pace where you can carry on a
conversation. I'm glad to say that after five week s,
I found that pace. It's called walking.
I can walk and carry on a conversation.
That's what I can do. Because if I'm jogging, it
ain't no carrying on no conversation except for to
God. "God, help me. Jesus, help me. Help me, God ."
16
So the problem is, though, we get stuck in a
mentality, and we don't want to make choices. We j ust
want to let life live us instead of living life.
If you want to truly be a successful
believer, then you're going to have to stay out of the
corner where excuses live, because excuses you can
find every day. You're going to have to be willing to
take a long, hard look at why you are where you are
and why you are the way you are. And you have to b e
careful once you open the door for excuses to come
into your life, that all of its family is going to
move in with them.
The next thing you know, your life will be
out of control, and it's all because of excuses. I t
will all be because of the fact that you made some
choices. You're able to accomplish far more than y ou
ever thought possible. But you'll never realize yo ur
potential in the presence of excuses.
Hear me closely. You'll never realize your
potential in the presence of excuses. Why aren't y ou
doing something for the Lord? "Well, I'm busy."
Really? We do what we want to do. We do what we w ant
to do. It's amazing how unbusy we get when we need
Jesus. It's amazing when we want Jesus to do
something for us.
17
I got a phone call just the other day.
Somebody I hadn't heard from in six months. And it
come on my cell phone. And I thought, What in the
world? It's been longer than that. This person ai n't
ever called my cell phone. Ain't been to church in
three, four years. "I just need prayer."
What I wanted to say is, "I'm busy." I
didn't. I prayed. But that's what I wanted to do,
because that's what people do. We want prayer when
it's on our terms. But God said, "I want service a nd
allegiance on my terms." Good preaching, Pastor.
Let me tell you this, Church, you can do it.
You can do it. You can make right choices. Believ ers
make choices. Victims don't. Stand to your feet.
There's an old song we used to sing that I
have made my decision. I have staked my claim. Go od
thing I'm old, and I can remember. Let's see if I can
remember. I have -- no, that's not it. I have mad e
my decision. I have staked my claim. I've drawn a
line in the sand, and I'll not be ashamed. With th e
world behind me, and the cross before, I will serve
the Lord. Help me.
I have made my decision. I have staked my
claim. I've drawn a line in the sand, and I'll not be
ashamed. With the world behind me, and the cross
18
before, by the grace of God, I will serve the Lord.
Help me now.
I have made my decision. I have staked my
claim. I've drawn a line in the sand that I'll not be
ashamed. With the world behind me, and the cross
before, by the grace of God, I will serve the Lord.
By the grace of God, I will serve the Lord. By the
grace of God, I will serve the Lord.
I've made my decision. I've staked my claim.
That's what a choice is. A choice is a decision.
Jesus -- the apostle -- not the apostle, I'm sorry --
the prophet Elijah said, "How long will you be halt ed
between two decisions?"
Today, let's make a decision. Let's make a
choice. God, I'm going to serve you. Not just hal f
heartedly, but whole heartedly, and I'm going to be
all that you said I can be. Not just for my sake.
For the sake of my family, for the sake of my frien ds.
Because you know what? When the tide comes in, it
raises the level of all the boats, not just yours.
You be the tide. You be the tide.
Father, in the name of Jesus, thank you God
that you have given us a choice. And I pray in the
name of your son that we would make right decisions
and right choices. Lives hang in the balance. God
19
help us not to be a victim, but to be a victor in t he
name of Jesus. And the Church said Amen.
- - - -
20