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Communications 101: You Said What???
Dr. William Cross Sandra BeckSeminole Electric ITS Florida
August , 2010
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Communication
• a process by which we assign and convey meaning in an
attempt to create shared understanding.
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Psychological [Transmission] View
SourceReceiv
erEncoder Decoder
Feedback
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Learn to Listen
• Key Problem
• Thought is faster than talk.
• Techniques
• Listen with your eyes
• Listen with your mind
• Listen with your ears
• Listen by responding
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Help Others Listen
• Attention is key to retention
• Appeal to the eye
• Learning - we remember:
• 83 % seen
• 11% heard
• 9% smelled
• 2% touched
• 1% tasted
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Help Others Listen
• Attention is key to retention
• Appeal to the eye
• Eye control
• Body control
• Voice control
• Talk with your audience
• Don’t just be yourself
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Communication
i = n*(n-1)/2
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Communication
Communication
Culture, Shared roles,
Customs
Collective representation
of reality
People in groups
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Groups Are Systems
• Members interrelate
• One member change affects all
• Individual gains from group
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Group Effects
• Identification and
Emotional Support
• Social needs
• Assistance
• Affect behavior
• Support, Reinforcement
• Security, Protection
• Encouragement
• Rationale
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IT People
• Low social needs
• High need for recognition and praise
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IT Concerns
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Men and women are different!
• Communication• Women talk
• To resolve problems
• About feelings
• To bond
• To feel good
• About people
• Men talk• About practical matters
• About things
• Sports, jokes, women
• Men prefer to act.
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Differences
• Men talk to give
information or report.
• Women talk to collect
information or gain rapport.
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Helpful info
• Disagreement
• Women - affects relationship
• Men – can move to other issues
• Getting things done
• Women – build relationships
• Men – relationships form thru working on tasks
• Meetings
• Women – nod to show attention
• Men – nod to show agreement
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Tips for Females
• Don’t communicate when upset
• Get to the point
• Facts not Feelings
• Avoid Gossip
• Concentrate on Problem Solving
• Listen (with intellect not emotion)
• Avoid Power Struggles
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Women Can
• Use ‘voice male’
• Use report speak
• Bottom line first
• Resist the context
• Avoid HINT language
• Use I want/ I need
• Encourage questions
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Tips for Males
• Create bonds
• Admire her talent, not her attributes
• Be open
• Don't put the gag on gossip
• Understand her thought process
• Maintain a professional relationship
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Men Can
• Use voice-female
• Increase historical detail
• More background
• Use ‘rapport speak’
• More questions
• Move slowly to the bottom line
• Eye Contact
• Non verbal emphasis
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Persuasion
• What’s in it for them
• Make impact early
• Strong Arguments
• Support with evidence
• Positives are strongest
• Present Alternatives
• Balance Pros and Cons
• Anticipate Objections
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Evidence
• Personal Experience
• Authority (expert opinion)
• Comparisons (analogies or similes)
• Examples
• Statistics and Facts
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Presenting opportunities
• Objective
• Point of view
• Recommendation
• Situation
• Proposal
• Advantages
• Disadvantages
• Summary
• Action
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Conflict resolution
• The best victory is when the opponent surrenders of its
own accord before there are any actual hostilities...It is
best to win without fighting.
Sun-tzu, The Art of War.
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Conflict resolution
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Conflict resolution
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Conflict resolution
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Communications Skills Test
• http://www.queendom.com/tests/access_page/index.htm?i
dRegTest=683