Chemistry in Your Relationship - A Secret to Improving the Chemistry in Your Relationship

Are you sitting there wondering to yourself whatever happened to the chemistry in your relationship? Longing for the time when you and your significant other did nothing besides spend quality time together. There often is one major obstacle that needs to be overcome when you are looking to improve the chemistry in your relationship.

Chemistry in Your Relationship - A Secret to Improving the Chemistry in Your Relationship

Are you sitting there wondering to yourself whatever happened to the chemistry in your relationship? Longing for the time when you and your significant other did nothing besides spend quality time together. There often is one major obstacle that needs to be overcome when you are looking to improve the chemistry in your relationship.

Allow me if I may to share with you a scenario.

Bob is on his way home from work and gets a call from his wife, Mary. She asks him if he could grab diapers on the way home, as she just ran out. Bob gets another call right after and in the course of conversation, he forgets to stop for the diapers.

Bob is on his way home from work and gets a call from his wife, Mary. She asks him if he could grab diapers on the way home, as she just ran out. Bob gets another call right after and in the course of conversation, he forgets to stop for the diapers.

Mary greets him in the kitchen and after having a stressful day, gets upset with Bob for not doing one simple favor. Bob says a half-hearted sorry and says no big deal, and that he will run back out after dinner and tells her to calm down. Yet as they eat, he can sense that Mary is still angry and he in turn gets angry with her. Before you know it they are in a full blown argument.

Ok…now imagine the same scenario...Mary calls and Bob forgets the diapers. But this time, Bob simply says he is sorry, takes Mary into his arms and gives her a hug, and apologizes for being forgetful. He tells her that he knows she had a stressful day and lets her know that he appreciates all that she does with the kids and all that she has to juggle on a daily basis, and that he shouldn’t have dropped the ball on such a small favor that she asked of him. Then Bob asks Mary to tell him about her day.

Ok…now imagine the same scenario...Mary calls and Bob forgets the diapers. But this time, Bob simply says he is sorry, takes Mary into his arms and gives her a hug, and apologizes for being forgetful. He tells her that he knows she had a stressful day and lets her know that he appreciates all that she does with the kids and all that she has to juggle on a daily basis, and that he shouldn’t have dropped the ball on such a small favor that she asked of him. Then Bob asks Mary to tell him about her day.

See the difference? Here is one of the major obstacles when it comes to chemistry and a healthy relationship between a man and a woman…it is the tendency of a man to always want to fix things!

More often than not, when a woman is upset, she is not looking for her man to fix it for her. Instead what she would prefer is for him just to take a minute, offer understanding and some empathy and let her know she is appreciated. To just take a few moments to simply listen to her.

Breakdowns to chemistry in your relationship can often be traced back to this one very tendency. To find out how to overcome this trait and others, and begin to repair or improve your relationship again, you need to visit here today: http://www.learnhowtogetyourexback.info.

Taylor Ranidae is passionate about love and relationships and writes articles focusing on helping people save their relationships and marriages. Her articles are a must read for anyone who is looking to either salvage or further enhance their relationship.