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JoHN What do you do for Work? I work at a restaurant, and pursuing a life-long career in the fire department.

hoW and Why did you become involved With big brothers big sisters? I heard about the program through some people I worked with, and I had a friend that was a Big Sister. I became involved in the program because I love kids, and thought that it would be really cool to hang out with a little kid and do fun stuff with them.

What do you enjoy about the traditional Program? I enjoy watching Brodie grow up as a little kid, and going through the different stages in life. I remember when we first met and I taught him how to snowboard, (I actually didn’t have to do that much teaching; kids at a young age can pick up things pretty quickly). That was over six years ago now, and Brodie has become an awesome and wicked snowboarder; he’ll be way better than me by the time he reaches my age.

hoW often do you see your little and What do you do? In the first few years we would hang out at least once a week. We’ve done things like go-carting, waterslides, hang out at the beach, movies, dinner with his mom and grandma, and our favorite one - we go snowboarding at Sun Peaks. Our match is more on a casual basis now.

hoW does this relationshiP fit into your life? This relationship fits into my life just like everything else in life - like your job, going to the gym and staying fit, saving money for the future, family time, etc. You make it work, and you somehow just fit it into your schedule. It wasn’t hard for me to fit it in, since I love kids, and plus you’re doing a good thing. It’s a good way to “Pay It Forward”.

Who Would you recommend this Program to? I would recommend this program to anyone who loves kids, is looking for a way to give back to the community, who wants to pursue a career in helping and working with kids, or anyone that just has some extra time on their hands and wants to do something good.

have you seen any benefits in your little? One of the biggest benefits that I’ve seen in Brodie is that he now has job. I was a paperboy when I was a little kid, I started doing that when I was in grade seven. I was making around $30-$35 dollars a month. That was big money for me back then, lol. I think it’s important for kids once they are old enough, to get some sort of a job. Whether it’s delivering newspapers, cutting lawns, shoveling driveways, picking up beer cans (highway rest stops are the best spots for this), or working in the fast-food industry. This is important because it teaches kids the foundation of hard work and good work ethics. It also (hopefully) teaches them how to save money, but this is a whole different story now. I’m trying to teach Brodie the importance of saving money, and later on once you have a pile of cash - to put it into an investment. I can tell this lesson is going to take some time to teach Brodie, lol. You remember when you were a kid, when you had money the first thing you wanted to do was go to the mall and buy something cool, or go to 7-11 and buy some candies?

Why do you think that someone should volunteer in these Programs? I think that people should volunteer in these programs because it’s a fun way to create a relationship and mentor a young kid who needs a role model or someone to look up to. It’s also a good way to keep kids out of trouble, and to hopefully try and teach them useful life lessons they’ll need in the future when they become an adult.

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4 We’re Big Brothers Big Sisters

5 Mentoring Study

6 BBBS Staff

7 What if? - BBBS Programs List

8 Mentoring Couple - Wes and Carole

12 Terry Shupe

14 The Big Shout Out

15 Summer and Noelle

16 Bowl for Kids Sake

18 The Impact of Mentoring in Canada

19 Bullying Survey

20 Honouring Bill Pernitsky

21 Terri and Sandy

22 Veronica and Jane

24 Crystal and Sherri-Lea

25 Historical Timeline

31BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS The Daily News, Kamloops

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We’re Big Brothers Big sisters.At Big Brothers Big sisters, we believe every child should have the opportunity to reach his or her full potential as individuals and citizens – that by doing so, they will not only do well, they will also do good.

We believe that by changing the course of young lives, we can in turn change the course of a community’s future, a reduction in poverty and unemployment, safer schools and neighbourhoods and a renewed optimism for growth. It could even lead to change on a broader, more far-reaching scale.

We believe that opening a child’s eyes to what is opens the child’s mind to what could be.

For 100 years, Big Brothers Big Sisters has been making a positive difference in the lives of our nation’s youth by developing and implementing a wide range of mentoring programs — one-to-one and group programs, for school and beyond.

As role models, our mentors teach by example the importance of giving and giving back, of staying in school and of having respect for family, peers and community. Each time we pair a child with a mentor or introduce a group of students to an in-school program, we start something incredible – a life-changing relationship built on friendship, trust and empowerment.

Witnessing the transformation of a child into a confident, concerned and motivated young person is a remarkable thing. Ushering them into adulthood, seeing them grow into successful, responsible members of their community and society at large is even more satisfying. Proudly, it’s something our staff, volunteers and donors help bring about every day, and we’re very grateful for their generosity and support.

Whether it’s in the form of time or money, there is no more important investment individuals can make than in helping our nation’s children realize and share their full potential.

We’re Big Brothers Big Sisters, and we believe in the value of mentoring and values of mentoring.

Currently, almost 200 children are matched with volunteers in our mentoring programs. Our challenge is to find matches for the young people on our waiting lists.

our history in KAmloopsBig Brothers was organized in Kamloops in 1963, and in 1969, it was granted a charter and became a chapter of Big Brothers of B.C. Then, in 1978, the Kamloops chapter became a society and thus incorporated under the Societies Act. It wasn’t until 1984 that the Big Sisters program was incorporated and we became Big Brothers Big Sisters. The agency continues to grow: in 1991, we made our first Couples match; in 1995, the In-School Mentoring Program began; in 2003, the Aboriginal Mentoring Component was added; and in 2012, we launched the Sports Mentorship Program.

If you are thinking about becoming a mentor, please call Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kamloops & Region at 250-374-6134 or go to bbbskamloops.ca and Start Something.

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cAnAdA’s lArgest mentoring organization is turning 100 and is celebrating with a year-long public-education campaign to give Canadians fresh insights into the societal value of youth mentoring.

To mark the launch of this national effort, Big Brothers Big Sisters and the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH) are releasing the first results of one of the largest mentoring studies ever conducted.

The five-year study, which tracks the experiences of almost 1,000 children and teenagers registered with Big Brother Big Sisters agencies across Canada, found that those with a mentor are significantly more confident in their academic abilities and considerably less likely to display behavioural problems.

One stand-out finding is that girls in the study with a Big Sister were four times less likely to bully, fight, lie or express anger than girls without a mentor.

“This ground-breaking research confirms that mentoring changes the trajectory of young lives,” says Bruce MacDonald, president and CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada (BBBSC). “The findings will have a profoundly beneficial impact on our mentoring programs.”

The study’s findings are expected to bring about significant advances in how the agencies of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada (BBBSC) deliver mentoring services. Expected outcomes are more specialized pre-match training for the child, parents and mentor; more effective match support for all three participants to better manage expectations and earlier detection of special needs among children and teenagers.

BBBSC believes that this landmark study’s legacy will be longer and more successful matches and mentoring that is more closely tailored to individual needs.

The study was conducted by a team of academics led by Dr. David DeWit, a senior research scientist CAMH

in London, Ont., and Dr. Ellen Lipman, a psychiatrist and Professor at McMaster University in Hamilton. The research was made possible by a $1.7 million grant from the Canadian Institutes of Health Research (CIHR).

“We showed that the positive findings held regardless of the children’s age, personal history, family circumstances or cultural identity,” explained DeWit. “Over time, Big Brother Big Sisters agencies will be able to counsel mentors on how best to engage with their ‘Little’ and will make it easier to identify the children most likely to benefit from having a mentor.”

Key findings:• Girls with a Big Sister are two and a half times more

likely than girls without a mentor to be confident in their ability to be successful at school.

• Boys with a Big Brother are three times less likely than boys without a mentor to suffer peer pressure anxiety, worrying about what other children think or say about them.

• Mentored boys are twice as likely to believe that school is fun and that doing well academically is important.

• Mentored boys are also half as likely as non-mentored boys to start bullying, fighting, lying, cheating, losing their temper or acting out in anger.

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The breadth and detail of this study are such that these findings are just a small sample of what will be released in future. Each new release of findings will illuminate the extent to which mentored children do better; why mentored children do better and Big Brother Big Sister agency methods that lead to the most-successful mentoring relationships.

Over time, Big Brother Big Sisters agencies will be able to counsel mentors on how best to engage with their “Little” based on their age, personal history, family circumstances and cultural identity. During the pre-match screening process, the study’s conclusions are also expected to make it easier to identify the children most

likely to benefit from having a mentor.

“When the findings of this research are fully understood, we expect that virtually every aspect of how we approach, design and maintain our mentoring relationships will be impacted,” says MacDonald. “The work of the project’s outstanding team, so ably led by Dr. DeWit and Dr. Lipman, will benefit children and teenagers in every region of Canada for generations.”

“We recognize that the work of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada has played a crucial role in the lives of many young Canadians,” says Dr. Anthony Phillips, Scientific Director of the CIHR Institute of Neurosciences, Mental Health and Addiction. “CIHR is pleased to support research that provides communities with information about youth mental health and healthy development in society.”

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rEnEw crEw MAnAgEr Doug Marchuk

MEntorIng coorDInAtor SupErvISor Shannon ritchie

IntErIM MEntorIng coorDInAtor SupErvISor tammy webb

In-SchooL MEntorIng coorDInAtor Kaila Mcgann

MEntorIng coorDInAtor - MErrItt, cLEArwAtEr & LogAn LAKE pam Bragg

MEntorIng coorDInAtor - trADItIonAL Jessica gordon

tEEn In-SchooL MEntorIng coorDInAtor - BArrIErE, chASE & KAMLoopS Sunny virdee

chILD & Youth MEntAL hEALth Support worKEr Kim Stanley

SportS MEntorShIp coorDInAtor Matt Barron

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our PrograMs trAditionAlThe Big Brother and Big Sister Community-Based mentoring programs that we offer provide children aged 6 to 16 with a role model and a friend to talk to and share the experiences of growing up with. Through regular outings (once a week for 2 to 4 hours), a relationship is developed between the mentor and the mentee. The relationship is built on trust and common interests, and is supported by our experienced case-workers. The result is a life changing experience for both the “Big” and the “Little”. This program requires volunteers to make at least a 1 year commitment.

sports mentorshipThe Sports Mentorship Program provides an opportunity for children and youth to spend quality, one-on-one time with a mentor who is as passionate about sport as they are. Mentors help the children develop their athletic skills while also demonstrating important life skills such as goal-setting, character development and of course good sportsmanship. Sports Mentorship is an invaluable chance for a young person to simultaneously gain a constructive influence and develop their athleticism, ultimately aiding them in navigating a positive life path. The program offers a less intensive time commitment than our Traditional Big Brother Big Sister program, to appeal to those who are interested in volunteering but unable to make a weekly commitment. It is also designed to fit into this particular demographics lifestyle.

in school mentorshipThe In School Mentoring and In School Teen Mentoring program provides girls and boys with a role model and a friend to talk to and share the experiences of growing up with, within school grounds. For one hour a week, mentors meet with their mentee and engage in activities such as board games, crafts or just hang out in the playground. The In School Mentoring program requires a weekly visit of 1 hour for the duration of the school year. Matches do not meet over the summer break or during other school holidays.

couples mentorshipCouples for Kids matches couples with a child for a two-to-one friendship. Children who spend time with a mentor gain confidence, learn new skills, discover more about their community and the world around them, and increase their capacity to care for others. Mentors grow from the experience in countless ways. They see a world of possibility open up through a child's eyes. The 'Couples for Kids' program offers great kids a model of a healthy adult connection as they may not have had this in their lives.

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Big Brothers Big sisters Builds coMMunitYBig Brothers Big Sisters of Kamloops & region currently serves clearwater, Barriere, chase, Logan Lake and our newest member Merritt. traditional, Adult In-School Mentorship and teen In-School Mentorship programs are offered in those communities. the teen In-School mentoring program is the strongest one in these communities as generally there is one high school and one elementary school with close ties to each other. clearwater, as one example has taken the ‘Designated physical Activity’ (DpA) last period on a wednesday and allows the approved BIgS for a nominal fee to be transported as a group to mentor their Little Buddies. the elementary school resounds with tall teens and small littles playing games, baking, shooting pucks, researching magic tricks and laughter. on any wednesday there can be 36 Bigs and Littles enjoying and growing together.

Merritt has a thriving Asset-Building committee comprised of community agencies, schools, rcMp and volunteers. through their endeavours we have started a rapidly growing teen In-School Mentoring program, some Adult In-School and traditional matches. we know it is successful when Littles are asking when “the BBBS person” is coming as they too want to have a Big Buddy.

Small communities use innovation to build relationships, make opportunities for matches and strengthen the work of successful friendships.


Jeff Schenderling, who operates Dutch Masters painting Services, moved to Kamloops from Langley a year ago. the 24-year-old says he grew up in a single-parent household and has always had a desire to help out a boy with a similar background.

Jeff credits a friend in Kamloops for getting him involved with the Big Brothers/Big Sisters program and after she shared her experience with her little sister.

“I was motivated to sign up,” he said. “I've been a Big Brother for 2-1/2 months now, creating memories with Joey, my 10-year-old Little (brother), that will last a lifetime.

“we do all sorts of activities every week, making it a rewarding experience for both of us.

“we’ve gone to the movies and arcades, we’ve cooked, played video games and gone to Blazers games.

“I plan to take him ice skating and teach him hockey. we also take my puppy for walks and to the dog park. Joey likes hanging out with him, too.”

“In spring and summer, we’ll do various sports and outdoor activities — hiking, swimming and other active stuff.”

WhatdoyoudoforWork? Wes is employed at HVC as a senior trainer. Carole is employed at BCLC and work in Player Services

how And why did you Become involved with Big brothErsbigsistErs? Wes has been interested in being a big brother since he was a young man, and then we chatted about it, learned that we could do it as a couple, and decided it was something we would like to do together.

WhatdoyouEnjoyaboutthEcouplEsprogram? What we enjoy is the fact that we can share the relationship with our Little as a couple. We are able to offer our Little a multitude of things together, that we would not be able to offer if only one of us was a Big.

hoWoftEndoyousEEyourlittlEandWhatdoyoudo? We see our little once a week on average and try to do things according to the seasons. In other words we are outside more in the summers, swimming, cycling, camping, gardening, picnicing, playing bocce, hiking, watching our Littles soccer games, and come winter we do inside projects sometimes focused on the various holidays, we sew, cook, bake, do crafts, experiments, swim, read, and engage in winter sports such as skating and sledding.

hoWdoEsthisrElationshipfitintoyourlifE? Having a Little adds a new dimension to our lives that we never could have imagined.

whAt do you most enjoy ABout Being abigbrothErsandbigsistEr? Having a Little has given back rewards that we never anticipated when we started. Our growth as separate people and as a couple is amazing, funny how someone so little can teach you so much.

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? Speaking from our experience as a couple, this program would be great for other couples like ourselves who may or may not have young people in their lives and would enjoy having a young person around to share with and to mentor.

havEyousEEnanybEnEfitsinyourlittlE? Absolutely! Besides the obvious growth in her abilities, what we are seeing now is that she is growing so much as a person and we have seen her confidence level increase, she is more able to reach out to her peers and has learned about choices and the consequence of those choices.

why do you thinK thAt someone should voluntEErinthEsEprograms? We feel very blessed by our relationship with our Little. Our Little is delightful and can fill our week with joy and laughter. You may think you are only doing this for your Little, but, you will find out that the "rewards" you get back are manifold!

anyothErcommEntsyouWouldlikEtoadd? People say we are great to be volunteering to be "Bigs", repeatedly Wes and I say to each other, some people just don't get it do they. What we get back from our Little is truly amazing, we have grown so much, learned a ton, and we believe we are better people for having our Little in our lives. We always say, we get more that we give by far!

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ted how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? Started in 1981 when I was at UBC. One of my older brothers had been a “Big” and really enjoyed it. I was with my first Little Brother until I transferred to Kamloops in 1988. I then took a hiatus while I started my own family… until I learned of Big Buddies in 1998. (with whom I have had 4 matches) I began with Bastien when he was 7 and he is now 16!

you worKed in the in-school mentoring progrAm And the trAditionAl progrAm. WhatdoyouEnjoyaboutEachprogram? The Buddies program better suited my needs then, as it was a smaller time commitment and was easy to fit into my schedule…. unlike Big Bros., since it was at the school, there was less need for prep time/activity considerations, as we could just do “stuff ” at the school like shoot hoops, play on the computers etc. As you know, my relationship changed with Bastien so that now he is my Little Brother and the advantage to that is that we now have the latitude of doing stuff “off-campus”, so we can incorporate lots of different activities…..

WhatdoyoumostEnjoyaboutbEingabigbuddy? In life, if you are lucky, you have lots of friends…. but seldom are they as close or appreciative as a Little is to share your time! I volunteer for other causes (fundraising, etc.) but none offer such a tangible, immediate sense of contribution.

havEyousEEnanybEnEfitsinyourlittlE? I think they benefit from focused, individual attention… and it can offer them a perspective/relationship that they may not have exposure to at home (i.e. a male or female perspective). They gain a friend that is consistently there with no strings attached.

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthEsEprograms? It is rewarding, satisfying and a very convenient way to make a real difference in someone’s life and the Community!

christel how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? I became involved with the Big Brothers Big Sisters program when I saw a poster around my school. I thought that it was a really fun way to give back to my community and I didn’t know that this program would completely change my perspective on helping kids like my Little Buddy.

whAt do you enjoy ABout the in-school teen mEntoringprogram? I really find my time with my Buddy fun and exciting. I enjoyed her company because she always made me smile in her own quirky way. This program taught me how to reach out to kids like her and how to handle tough situations. I loved seeing her beam with happiness when it was time to visit.

hoWisthisrElationshipfittingintoyourlifE? My relationship with my Buddy just strengthened my passion in helping kids. I’ve always known that I would be working in a field where I could help kids. This relationship with my Buddy just reinforced my belief that if you give your time and your attention to kids who are in most need of it, you can really see the difference, not only in them, but also in the community.

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? I would recommend this program to kids my age or to any age group who are willing to give their time and effort to help kids in our community. It is really worth it. The smile that I put in that little girl`s face, for me, was the most important success that I have ever accomplished.

anythingElsEyouWouldlikEtoadd? I just want to thank the Big Brothers Big Sisters for giving me this opportunity. You encouraged me to reach out and help people and you taught me how to be a BIG Buddy. You have certainly helped me grow up and take responsibility for myself. I am hopeful that I will be in your program for a long time.


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how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? I was told about it from my school counsellor and decided that I should join because I love being able to interact and be a good role model to younger children.

whAt do you enjoy ABout the in-school teen mEntoringprogram? I enjoy being able to interact with my Little Buddy and be there for her. It’s gratifying to see growth in her personal development.

hoWoftEndoyousEEyourlittlEandWhatdoyoudo? I see my little buddy once a week for an hour.

hoWisthisrElationshipfittingintoyourlifE? It is fitting into my life great! I am able to teach myself how to manage my time.

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? I would recommend this program to any teen who is responsible and feels that they could make an impact on a child’s life. It is very important that they are able to show up consistently.

havEyounoticEdanybEnEfitsinyourlittlE? She is more open to talking about how she is feeling and what she wants to do. We have developed a mutual trust between us.

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthisprogram? If they enjoy interacting with children as well as if they want to impact a child’s life.

anythingElsEyouWouldlikEtoadd? I recommend it to any teen to join this program, and it makes me happy knowing that I impacted a child’s life.

gregWhatdoyoudoforWork? I currently work at the BC Liquor Distribution Center out in Dallas over the summer and I am a full time student and play basketball during the school year.

how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? I became involved with BBBS just by word of mouth and by hearing how those people affected their littles’ lives. I really wanted to do the same. Helping out someone is something I really enjoy doing.

WhatdoyouEnjoyaboutthEtraditionalprogram? I enjoy the Traditional Program because it allows for more freedom with my busy schedule and the same with my Little.

hoWoftEndoyousEEyourlittlEandWhatdoyoudo? I try to see my Little once a week but again when it’s busy, it’s busy. When we are together we go out for lunch/dinner, play video games, and just chill out.

hoWdoEsthisrElationshipfitintoyourlifE? I really enjoy the relationship with my Little because it’s like having a new friend that you can chill and laugh with and just have fun.

WhatdoyoumostEnjoyaboutbEingabigbrothErs? I really enjoy being a BB because I get to help out. Being there for someone when they need you always feels good.

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? I would recommend this to anyone that wants to make a difference in a child’s life.

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthEsEprograms? I think someone should join because they can make a difference and make a new friend!


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We’ve all had a mentor.Here’s an easy way to acknowledge them.

Doesn’t cost a cent, just a minute of your time.

We all have a special someone who’s made a difference in our lives. Parents, teachers,

coaches, sisters, brothers, friends, the list goes on. Most of us wish we could thank them but

it never seems to be the right time or the right place. Until now.

The Big Shout Out is an initiative that acknowledges and celebrates mentors across

Canada. It’s all a part of the 100th anniversary of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada in 2013.

While it’s a wonderful organization, this campaign is not meant to promote Big Brothers Big

Sisters but rather the broader theme of mentorship.

What You Can Do. Help build shout outs all across the country! We’d simply like you

to tell us about your mentor starting January 14, 2013 at thebigshoutout.ca, or tweet your

Big Shout Out using #thebigshoutout, which will automatically appear on the twitter feed on

the website thebigshoutout.ca.The messaging is up to you. The angle is up to you. The tone

is up to you. You can tell us about whomever you want; however you want.

And don’t forget to encourage your family, friends, colleagues, and followers to give their own

shout outs, too.

Take a minute to celebrate someone who made a difference in your life. It's easy. Why not give

a BIG SHOUT OUT today?


with my family’s encouragement and friends’ support, I became a Big Sister. My Little and I have had the opportunity to do numerous activities with BBBS. Summer and I both feel very lucky with our match and we look forward to our weekly play dates!

one of my reasons for becoming a Big Sister is children laugh a lot more than adults do. thank you to the parents for sharing the gift of time by signing up their kids into the program.

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Your suPPort Will helP us deliver these needed PrograMs:All proceeds rAised By “Bowl for Kids sAKe” stAy in our community. Big Brothers And sisters must rAise its own Budget every yeAr in order to continue to help the children And youth who need our services.

Big Brothers Big sisters traditional PrograM A Big Brother or Big Sister is an adult volunteer who is matched with a child between the ages of 6 and 16 for a mentoring friendship. The Big and Little spend time together once a week having fun in the community.

in-school mentoring Another fun and rewarding program the In-School Mentoring program matches a volunteer (mentor) age 17+ with an elementary school child with activities taking place at the child’s school.

in-school teen mentoring A friendship-based, non-academic program that matches high school students (grade 10 - 12) with boys and girls (K -7,) for 1 hour a week with activities taking place at the child’s school.

sports mentorship This program matches a volunteer(s) with a child who shares a mutual sport interest in order to mentor the child by teaching life skills, goal setting, character and good sportsmanship.

couples for Kids Couples for Kids matches couples with a child for a two-to-one friendship. Children who spend time with a mentor gain confidence, learn new skills, discover more about their community and the world around them, and increase their capacity to care for others.

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we Believe every child should have the opportunity to reach his or her full potential, both as individuals and citizens – that by doing so, they will not only do well, they will also do good.

We believe that by changing the course of young lives we can in turn be changing the course of a community’s future. That it could lead to a reduction in poverty and unemployment. Or to safer schools and neighbourhoods. Or to a renewed optimism for growth. That it could even lead to change on a broader, more far-reaching scale.

We believe that opening a child’s eyes to what is – opens their mind to what could be.

Thank you for your continued support,

terri axani ExEcutivE DirEctor,Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kamloops & Region

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The Impact of Mentoring in CanadaBig Brothers Big Sisters

A 2010 Marketing Research and Intelligence Association VoxPop survey revealed that Parents fear for the well-being of their children and teenagers:

Parents are looking for resources to help

62 % fear that a Lack of Confidence is the biggest threat to the long-term well-being of their children and teenagers.

60 % see bullying as an important threat.

52 % say that a lack of interest in school is an important issue to address.

52 % see drug and alcohol use as a threat nationally.

45 % are concerned with gang crime involvement.

The same survey revealed:

8 out of 10 feel that all adults share a civic responsibility to help kids in their

communities get the guidance they need to be successful in life.

And yet, a quarter of Canadian parents have experienced difficulty accessing community resources to provide guidance for their child or teen.

Have more friends

Make decisions with more confidence

Get along better with their peers

Feel more supported

90 % agreed that their Big made them feel better about themselves.

77 % agreed that their Big helped them make better choices.

76 % agreed that they learnt right from wrong from their big.

Mentoring Works:A 2008 Harris Interactive Research Study of adults who were formerly Little Brothers and Little Sisters culminated in the following results:

children who have been mentored for over a year

...when compared with children who have not been mentored.

Our data also shows that:

for nearly 100 years, Big Brothers Big Sisters has been making a positive difference in the lives of the children by developing and implementing a wide range of mentoring programs.

Each time we pair a child with a volunteer we start something incredible—a lifechanging relationship built on trust, friendship and empowerment.

Serving as role models our mentors teach by example the importance of giving and giving back, of staying in school, and of having respect for family, peers and community.

the iMPact of Mentoring in canada


toronto, feBruAry 5, 2013 – A strong majoritay of Canadians (78 per cent) believe that not enough is being done to stop bullying in their communities, according to a new national survey commissioned by Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada (BBBSC) and Invesco Canada Ltd.

Three quarters of Canadians polled (76 per cent) think stronger anti-bullying legislation and stricter enforcement of those laws would be an effective way to reduce bullying. Ninety-four per cent of respondents also think that teachers and school administrators share responsibility for the prevention of bullying.

Moreover, 87 per cent of Canadians think that providing children and teenagers who bully others with a volunteer mentor is an effective intervention.

A reason why Canadians feel so strongly against bullying is that 59 per cent of those surveyed report they were abused by bullies as a child or teenager and 45 per cent believe they suffered lasting harm.

The Ipsos Reid survey was designed to examine current attitudes about bullying. The research studied the incidence of different forms of bullying, long-term harmful effects and what Canadians perceive as the most effective ways to stop or reduce bullying.

KeY findings• Among bullied Canadians, 72 per cent

said they were teased in a manner designed to humiliate; 71 per cent experienced verbal abuse and taunting; 43 per cent were slapped, shoved, hit or beaten and five per cent experienced online ridicule and humiliation.

• 42 per cent of bullied Canadians believe they would have benefited from having a volunteer mentor, such as a Big Sister or Big Brother, to provide support.

• Among bullied Canadians who suffered lasting harm, injurious effects included lack of confidence (69 per cent); low self-esteem (53 per cent); depression (29 per cent); anger management issues (23 per cent) and poor academic achievement (20 per cent).

• School-based interventions to stop bullying are seen as an effective deterrent by 90 per cent of Canadians.

• 92 per cent of Canadians believe that peer pressure by those who witness or hear about acts of bullying is an effective intervention.

• 90 per cent of respondents also believe that intervention by parents to protect their child or stop their child from abusing others is effective.

• Public awareness campaigns for children and teenagers to encourage them not to bully and to intervene when they see acts of bullying are viewed as an effective intervention by 84 per cent of Canadians.

Internet campaigns to identify and discourage bullies were perceived as an effective deterrent to prevent or reduce bullying by 72 per cent of respondents.

BBBSC is celebrating its 100th anniversary with a year-long public education campaign to give Canadians fresh insights into the societal value of youth mentoring.

The various youth mentoring services provided by volunteer Big Brothers and Big Sisters have proven to be instrumental in reducing bullying and other related negative behaviours such as lack of interest in school; truancy; low self-esteem and drug and alcohol abuse.

The Ipsos Reid survey was commissioned by Big Brothers Big Sisters to mobilize Canadians against bullying in their communities. From February through April, Big Brothers Big Sisters agencies across Canada will be challenging individuals and companies to “step up and strike out bullying” by participating in fundraising bowling events called Bowl for Kids Sake.

“Ninety-five per cent of Canadians agree that freedom from bullying is the right of every child and teenager,” says Bruce MacDonald, president and CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada (BBBSC). “Clearly there is strong support for action to reduce bullying and its harmful effects on our communities. We invite Canadians to make a positive impact by participating or donating to the Bowl for Kids Sake event closest to them.”

People and businesses can donate to the Bowl for Kids Sake campaign or volunteer to fundraise by visiting www.bigbrothersbigsisters.ca. Canadians who want to stop bullying can also contact their local Big Brothers Big Sisters agency for information about local Bowl for Kids Sake events.

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Bill pernitsKy has been a volunteer with Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kamloops & Region since 1976. His commitment as a Big Brother to seven little brothers over this period as well as joining the Board of Directors in 2005 is amazing. He has also been involved in the Royal Canadian Air Cadets as a leader and won the B.C. Gold Duke of Edinburgh Award in 2009.

The secret to his longevity is that his whole family becomes involved to some degree as they all enjoy getting out and getting active. Bill has a daughter working on her masters in biology at Thompson Rivers University. His wife Patti has been the much-loved administrator for the Kamloops United Church pre-school for decades.

He has worked for Newport Structures for more than 20 years and is a job site foreman spending many hours at Highland Valley Copper Mine.

Bill is an exemplary volunteer, utilizing many of his strengths including patience, compassion, and playfulness. He is an extremely consistent and reliable Big Brother who enjoys motor biking, hiking, building things, watching Blazer games and is also up for trying anything new.

His dedication to Big Brothers Big Sisters and to his community is unparalleled in our agency.

Bill is an unsung hero and a positive influence to all seven boys and their families. His current “Little” has seen

an improvement in his grades, his attendance, and socialization at school.

We recently met another volunteer who shared with us a life-changing experience thanks to Bill. You never have to go far to hear people saying positive things about Bill and his community involvement.

On Friday, Jan. 18th, Bill was awarded with the Diamond Jubilee medal by the Hon. Cathy McLeod, MP, with family, friends and both a current and former little brother in attendance.

We are honoured that Bill is recognized for his commitment. The Diamond Jubilee medal is awarded to Canadians for their service, excellence and community involvement. The Diamond Jubilee medal marks the Queen’s 60-year reign and honours her decades of service.

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terri And sAndy were matched by Big Brothers Big Sisters in Vancouver 27 years ago.

“I could not wait until I was the legal age to become a Big Sister,” says Terri Axani, former Big Sister, board member and now executive director of Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kamloops & Region.

After committing to the process, she was matched within a month to Sandy, who was 8, the same age as Terri’s son Matthew.

“My childhood was a bit rough,” explains Sandy, now 33. “I was one of six kids (and) considered myself the forgotten one. My time with Terri was one-on-one and a relationship just for me. She was loving and caring and spent so much time with me. It made me feel important.”

The official match lasted for eight years. The pair lost touch for years but then re-united.

“It was fate that we came together again,” says Sandy.

“Seeing Terri again is the most amazing thing.

“It’s almost like a family reunion when she comes to our home,” says Terri. Sandy and her son came for Thanksgiving dinner a couple of years ago and Terri’s father was there as well.

“We often went to my father’s ranch for the weekend to visit. Sandy would get up at 6 a.m. and feed the horses,” laughs Terri.

“In the years we lost touch, I thought about our time together all the time,” says Sandy. “I don’t know what I would have done without the relationship. I really needed it.”

When Terri took Sandy out for lunch in April, the server that brought the birthday cake said, “I knew you guys were related!” when Terri referred to Sandy as her ‘Little Sister’.

“Much like a marriage, says Terri, “after so many years of knowing someone you start to look alike.”

Sandy sums up the importance of being Terri’s Little 27 years ago: “Some kids don’t have all that love and support. I felt loved by Terri. It was amazing.”

“I got as much or more from the match,” says Terri. “I love my work with Big Brothers Big Sisters because together we make a difference — one volunteer, one hour at a time. People come in thinking they are doing something for someone else and it ends up impacting their own life in incredible ways.”

“Big Brothers Big Sisters is Terri’s calling,” concludes Sandy with certainty.

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hi, i Am veronicA, I am 12 years old and have been in Big Brothers Big Sisters for three and a half years and have enjoyed every minute of it!

BBBS is fun organization that builds self-esteem and confidence for kids! BBBS has lots of events that are fun, exciting and loveable, and I am thankful to be involved. There is so much about BBBS that has made my life and others’ lives easier and more exciting! Some of those things are:

• Picnics with tons of fun games for the littles and bigs;

• Bowling parties and other crazy parties;

• Halloween pumpkin carving;

• Making gingerbread houses;

• Tubing at Harper Mountain ski area;

• a BBBS movie night at the Kamloops Cineplex Odeon;

• Occasional Blazers hockey tickets;

• We get to go to Fun Factor every year (which, believe me, is really, really fun!);

• BBBS helps kids and their families with Christmas hampers every year.

Canadian Tire supports BBBS kids in the Canadian Tire Jump Start program! I am in the Canadian Tire Jump Start program and I have been doing taekwondo for three and a half years through the program! I am on my blue belt and plan to go to my black belt! In taekwondo, I have made lots of new friends! I never would have been able to do taekwondo without the Jump Start program!

Tim Hortons Children’s Foundation has a remarkable camp in Kananaskis, Alberta. The camp has really fun activities that involve teamwork, making friends and confidence building!

I have a digestive disorder called celiac disease, and at this camp, they had amazing gluten-free food that was great tasting!

There was horseback riding, white-water rafting, real rock climbing, hiking, crafts, crazy and fun games, and you get to make your own music video and bring home a scrap book of memories!

Bluebird Foundation is a fantastic program. They lend you brand new equipment and give you a mentor to will teach you how to snowboard or ski! The BBBS kids are very happy to be able to be a part of the foundation. I am very happy because almost everybody in my class and other people I know already know how to snowboard, and now I am learning, too.

To me, the hockey games are pretty special! I love going to them and enjoy watching all the excitement! It was great when I got to shake the players’ hands downstairs, when they got off the ice rink!

I have had three big sisters in the three and a half years that I have been in BBBS. One of my big sisters, Lacey, moved away, but we sure had a lot of fun together! Some of the great times were:

• Going to Scoops ice cream parlour;

• Going to the park;

• Playing tennis, soccer and badminton;

• Taking some crazy, fun pictures together;

• Horseback riding at Erin Valley riding stables;

• Tubing at Harper Mountain;

• Making an album together.

Lacey and I still keep in touch even though she has moved far away, but she makes sure to visit me when she comes to Kamloops! And she always remembers my birthday and has a special place in my heart that will last a lifetime! Kristin was BBS buddy when I was in Grade 3.

She was a great person. Kristin and I had fun together once every week! I think the best time was when we wrote a book called Tom and Tawny’s Wild Adventure. It is a great book (I would say). I was the writer and Kristin was the illustrator. I would really love to publish it but have no clue how to! Sadly, Kristin moved to Prince George when I was starting Grade 4.

I feel very lucky to be in the BBBS program; they have done a lot for me and they are super nice.

veronica & Jane

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my nAme is jAne. My daughter Veronica and I have been a part of Big Brothers/Big Sisters in Kamloops for 3 ½ years and feel very lucky to be a part of this wonderful organization.

BBBS has provided many opportunities for Veronica that she would not otherwise have had. Various companies, organizations and others have worked with BBS to create wonderful opportunities for kids. I am a single working mother with a good job, but like so many others, we live paycheque to paycheque with nothing left over for the wonderful opportunities that are out there.

My daughter has been able to participate in the BBBS Christmas party every year. She looks forward to it and feels very good about it because the team goes the extra mile to make sure Veronica and I are able to participate fully, even with our special dietary needs with Celiac disease.

It may seem like a small thing, but to Veronica, it’s big because she’s often left out at functions when her dietary needs are not considered. The team also welcomes and interacts with Veronica and all the kids, knowing each and everyone of them. It’s a special gesture that tells Veronica that they genuinely cared about her. It really is wonderful to have such positive people in her life.

Veronica has been in taekwondo for the last three years, thanks to both BBBS and the sponsorship of the Canadian Tire Jump Start program. Veronica has just earned her sixth belt in taekwondo in the beginning of January 2013 and is very proud of this accomplishment.

She plans to work toward her black belt over the next few years. This would not have been possible without BBBS and the Canadian Tire Jump Start program.

Through BBBS and Tim Horton’s, Veronica was fortunate enough to attend a Tim Horton’s Children’s Camp at Camp Kananaskis in Alberta for 10 days last summer, and had a spectacular time. She came home with wonderful stories and more confidence than ever before. She had to confront her fear of flying and found it was OK. She made new friends, did amazing things and had lots of fun. The kitchen staff took good care of her for her diet and the camp leaders were kind, positive role models. Her memories of this amazing experience will be with her for as long as she lives, and will be something she will tell her own children about. I was surprised to realize how much I appreciated the time off from being full-time mom for those 10 days, so I am also grateful for that.

Veronica has also been fortunate enough to go to the rock-climbing gym twice and absolutely loved that. She also bowled with Strikes for Tykes, which she found to be an exciting experience.

We are thrilled that Veronica has been chosen to be part of the Blue Bird Foundation sports mentorship program. She gets to learn snowboarding at Sun Peaks Resort with a wonderful mentor and will be given six lessons until the end of March. Her first lesson was Jan. 20 and is excited about going back. Again, she felt well looked after by both her mentor and the Blue Bird Foundation Team.

There are so many things we are grateful for that simply would not have been possible without BBBS and all its supporters.

veronica and Steph at a taekwondo tournament in Kelowna.


my nAme is crystAl lilly I have been a Big Sister in the traditional Big Sisters program to 17-year-old Sherri-lea Salter for seven years. I always knew I wanted to be a “Big” one-day since my aunt was one for years and being an only child, I thought it would be great to have a “little” to be girly with.

When I found out Sherri was raised an only child as well, I knew it we would be a good match. Over the seven years we have been together we have enjoyed many fun activities like tubing, going to concerts and plays, watching movies, cooking and baking and always making a mess doing so!

We try to hang out at least once a week, sometimes more, sometimes less, depending on our schedules. During our first year together, we also started a scrapbook to remember all the fun times we have together. Our first one took us five years to finish, but hey, we did!!

Our favorite activity together is go to Starbucks, get steamed milk and read out loud to each other. We started doing this our first year together when I noticed Sherri was having a little trouble reading cards to a board game and my boss at NL Broadcasting recommended that I try doing creative reading out loud to help me with my radio reads. When we first started reading out loud, we read short ghost stories and I did most of the reading. Now Sherri reads her English homework to me and we are even reading full novels together.

Over the years, we have also had a couple of girly sleepovers and weekend trips. In November 2011, Sherri-lea came to Mexico as a bridesmaid at my wedding!

Every year, Sherri-lea and I put together a team for Big Brothers Big Sisters Bowl for Kids Sake (formerly Srikes for Tykes).

But we don’t do regular bowling! Everyone on our team picks a fun, crazy way to bowl. We have done tummy bowling, spinning bowling, and the one we won’t do again — piggyback bowling!

In retrospect, that was not the best idea, but still pretty funny until the BIG wipe out! We won’t go into detail but trust us, don’t try piggyback bowling this year!

All the small, silly things we have been doing together every week for the past seven years has made Sherri a huge part of my life.

We now have lots of little traditions and we are mistaken for actual sisters everywhere we go! Neither of us bothers to correct people because to us, we are!

I would highly recommend becoming a big to a little in our community. The Big Brothers and Big Sisters program is a wonderful organization that is always looking for enthusiastic men and women to spend a couple hours a week with kids who are looking for a role model, someone to talk to, and someone to have fun with. Plus it gives you an excuse to go to teenybopper movies!

It’s honestly a very fun and rewarding program to be part of and there are lots of different programs for people to choose from. I believe this program builds life-long friendships.

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at the BBBS breakfast to kick-off Bowl for Kids Sake 2012.

crystal and Sherri together at Sherri’s wedding in Mexico.

girls weekend getaway to pitt Meadows.


let’s celeBrAte together where we’ve Been, where we Are And where we Are going! Remember “you don’t know where you’re going unless you know where you come from.”

1940s- 1960sBig Brother Big sister movement The Toronto Chapter of Big Brothers is joined by groups in Hamilton, Halifax, Vancouver, Niagara Falls, St. Catharine’s, and several other Ontario cities.

historical facts 1940s CBS demonstrates the first colour TV in New York City, and WNBT in New York City becomes the country's first regular TV station, broadcasting to about 10,000 viewers; Canada joined the United Nations and more than one million Canadian women were working full-time.

1950s Canadian census set Canada's population at slightly more than 14 million.

Marilyn Bell became the first person to swim across Lake Ontario

The Canadian Bill of Rights was established.

1960s The Trans-Canada Highway opened on Sept. 3, 1962; Maurice Richard's number is retired by the Montreal Canadiens; the Flintstones are introduced on TV.

1970s Big Brothers of Canada separates from the U.S. and becomes a self-governing group. Within four years, Big Brothers of Canada grows to include 100 agencies across Canada, serving 8,000 boys. Also, in 1975, in Halifax, the first Big Brother/Big Sister agency in Canada is formed.

The Juno Awards for Canadian music are introduced;

Bobby Orr becomes the first National Hockey League defencemen to win the scoring title;

The cellphone was invented, in 1979.

1980s Big Brothers of Big sisters internAtionAl is founded

O Canada was officially adopted as Canada's national anthem;

Terry Fox dipped his right (prosthetic) foot into the Atlantic Ocean at St. John's, Nfld, to begin his Marathon of Hope, a cross-Canada run to raise money for cancer research. On Sept.1, after running the equivalent of a marathon a day, Terry made the heart-wrenching announcement from the back of an ambulance in Thunder Bay, Ont., that the cancer had spread to his lungs. His Marathon of Hope ended.

1990s early 2000sBig Brothers Big sister movement

Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Canada, Big Sister of Canada, and Big Sister Association of Ontario merge to become Big Brothers Big Sisters of Canada.

Edmonton Oilers win the Stanley Cup four games to one over the Boston Bruins;

The Queen arrived for a 12-day tour to mark her Golden Jubilee as Queen of Canada.

Canada wins gold in both men’s and women’s hockey at the 2002 Winter Olympics in Salt Lake City, Utah..

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grade 12 student vishal, 17, says he has “been with BBBS for three years now! It’s a great experience!”

he’s found that, even though he’s the big brother, the program means a lot to him and makes him “feel like I’m good person. I love helping others, especially my little buddy!,” he said.

vishal and Little Brother, Delbert, “like to play board games, basketball, hockey, read or play games on the ipad!”

vishal looks forward to earning his degree in business, but right now, he’s enjoying playing sports, and doing “cool things to my car!”

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Jenn how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? I have had some past volunteer experience working with kids in large groups but always loved the opportunity to connect with a kid one-on-one within those groups so I had been thinking for a while that being a Big Sister would be something I would like to do.

whAt do you enjoy ABout thEbigsistErprogram? I’m really enjoying getting to know my Little Sister week by week and developing our friendship. I love that we are both learning from each other. Being involved in this program gives me the opportunity to take time out of my week to play and I think that benefits me as much as it does my Little Sister.

hoWoftEndoyousEEyourlittlEandWhatdoyoudo? I see her once a week and we do all kinds of fun stuff. When the weather was warmer we played at the park and swam in the river. We’ve also enjoyed carving pumpkins for Halloween, baking cookies, bowling and climbing at the climbing gym.

hoWisthisrElationshipfittingintoyourlifE? I set aside one evening a week to spend with my Little Sister. Weekends are usually quite busy for me so meeting mid-week is really convenient. It’s also a fun way to break up the work week.

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? I would recommend this program to anyone who loves kids. Even if you don’t think that you have time, take a look at your schedule and see if there are a few hours in the week that you can carve out to give to kid in your community. You won’t regret it!

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthisprogram? There are so many wonderful mutual benefits to this program. You will get a chance to provide support and friendship to a child and be a role model for them. In return you’ll get an opportunity to remember what the world looks like from a child’s point of view.

anythingElsEyouWouldlikEtoadd? I want to say a huge thank you to everyone at Big Brothers Big Sisters here in Kamloops for all of the work that they do to help kids in our community.

nathanWhatgradEarEyouinschool? Grade 12.

why did you Become involved with Big brothErsbigsistErs? To volunteer and get to hang out with kids!

whAt do you rememBer ABout mEntorsinyourlifE? They helped me to be the person I am today, and taught me many things.

whAt ideAs for Activities do you wAnt to do WithyourlittlEbuddy? Outside stuff, sports like football or soccer!

WhatWouldalittlEbuddylikEaboutyouasatEEnmEntor? The attention I give them and help in any way they need it.

why should other teenAgers (from grAde 10 - 12) applytobEatEEnmEntor? It is a great experience for both the child and the mentor, and I think it has a large impact on both lives.

how will you Know the relAtionship wAs successful At thEEndofthEschoolyEar? If the Little Buddy or I can walk away having learned something new!

anyothErcommEntsyouWouldlikEtoadd? I look forward to doing fun activities and learning!


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taYlorWhErEdoyougotoschool? I’m in Grade 11 at Westsyde Secondary School.

how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? I became involved in the program through my high school volunteer coordinator. It seemed like a good way to begin my volunteering within the community.

whAt did you enjoy ABout the tEEnmEntoringprogram? As my Little Buddy became more comfortable talking with me, I enjoyed being able to answer his questions about high school and listen to him talk about his goals.

hoWoftEndidyousEEyourlittlEbuddyandWhatdidyoudo? Once a week I spent time with my Buddy, we had fun playing board games and being out on the playground.

hoWdidthisrElationshipfitintoyourlifE? I have a younger sister but no brothers and it gave me a new perspective on how different boys and girls can be.

didyounoticEanybEnEfitsinyourlittlEbuddy? As my Little Buddy and I talked more about high school his attitude changed from nervousness to excitement about what was to come in the future.

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthisprogram? There are many children who need someone to talk to or share stories with who has the time to listen.

anythingElsEyouWouldlikEtoadd? I’m looking forward to meeting my next Little Buddy and forming a new friendship.

shaun how did you Become involved with bigbrothErsbigsistErs? “It was recommended by a friend.”

how often do you see your little andWhatdoyoudo? “I see my Little 3-5 times a month. Usually for about 2 hours each time. We do a lot of sports activities such as: lacrosse, football, bowling and golf. We also watch movies and go to hockey games.”

hoWdoEsthisrElationshipfitintoyourlifE? “Perfect, it is a great outlet! It gets my mind away from the fast paced realities of pushing a career.”

WhatdoyoumostEnjoyaboutbEingabigbrothEr? “Becoming a kid again! I get to see the world through the eyes of an 11 year old versus my intense busy day business outlook.”

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? “It would benefit anyone and everyone. I would have thought I would be the toughest to be able to manage more demand for my time. However, the benefits far outweigh the distraction from career goals. This program is for anyone from busy young professionals to mature retirees.”

havEyousEEnanybEnEfitsinyourlittlE? “He is a great kid! He knows he can always call me! He also has a new friend to help broaden his perspective.”

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthEsEprograms? “It brings a whole new aspect to your life. You get to see the world through they eyes of a young person. You also get to be a kid again! It is pretty cool and simple!

anyothErcommEntsyouWouldlikEtoadd? I highly recommend matching personalities…staff at Big Brothers Big Sisters are great at this. This is key for a successful match!”


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dougWhatdoyoudoforWork? I am the Renew Crew Manager at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Kamloops & Region.

how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? Some of the staff suggested that I do it. I have also always known about the program. I love kids and love to help them out and spend time with them! I started working in the In-School Mentoring Program by volunteering for one hour a week

whAt do you enjoy ABout the traditionalprogram? 2-3 hours a week is manageable and enjoyable! We have fun at whatever we do.

hoWdoEsthisrElationshipfitintoyourlifE? Perfectly!

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? Anyone of any age can do it!

anyothErcommEntsyouWouldlikEtoadd? More males should volunteer, there are so many boys waiting. The time commitment is very manageable. There are also different programs for everyone. If you can spare even one hour a week you can make a BIG DIFFERENCE!

stePhanie WhErEdoyougotoschool? I am currently a student at TRU and I am an in school mentor at Brock Middle School

how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? I got involved in the Kamloops Division of BBBS when I knew they needed In School Mentors and because it fit with my class schedule. I was also an unofficial Big Sister in my home community before moving to Kamloops and I miss my Little back home and did not realize the extent the impact of my move would have on both of us. This made me think that I could do something really special and become a role model to another young person here. I had gone through the process back home to become a big sister and really liked the way the agency gets involved in the community and creates an inclusive space for Little’s and their families, so I figured I would get involved here. It is also a great way to meet new people and connect with your inner child (we all have one)!

hoWoftEndoyousEEyourlittlEandWhatdoyoudo? I see my Little once a week, at a time that fits both of our schedules. We play games, read, do arts and crafts, hang out and talk about anything and everything! We are going to bake in the New Year. It is open to change and whatever is best suited to our interests! My Little has great ideas! We have also participated in out of school activities put on by BBBS....so far they have all been a blast!

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? Anyone with a big heart and time to share. The richness of the experience of being a Big Sister, Brother or Mentor to a young person is extremely fulfilling. It is a great opportunity to learn and share with someone who embraces the world with a non-judgmental perspective and who reminds us not to take life so seriously! It is about having fun and giving back to the community!

havEyounoticEdanybEnEfitsinyourlittlE? I can say, we have both gained a friend! In our time together we’ve shared experiences that I believe have enriched both of our lives. I have also been told by my Little’s teacher that our time together has affected her behavior positively!

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthisprogram? It is fun, flexible and requires only 1 hour a week. An hour may not seem like a long time but the positive affect on both the little and the big is tremendous.


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WhErEdoyougotoschool? I am currently attending Sa-Hali Secondary.

how And why did you get involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? I was once a Little myself. My friend told me they were joining and I didn’t know my school did it, so I applied and I got accepted.

hoWoftEndoyousEEyourlittlEandWhatdoyoudo? Every Wednesday at 12:30pm.

hoWisthisrElationshipfittingintoyourlifE? My relationship with my Little is fitting in well. I get to see him at most events with BBBS, which I like a lot. I can say hi and ask how he is.

WhoWouldyourEcommEndthisprogramto? I would recommend it to all my friends, and have recommended it to three of my best friends. It’s a great program and it helps you learn how to deal with little kids and how to handle a situation with them, at their age.

havEyounoticEdanybEnEfitsinyourlittlE? I realized my Little is more talkative and less shy.

WhydoyouthinksomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthisprogram? To be a good friend and role model to a Little, and to be there if they need someone to talk to.

anythingElsEyouWouldlikEtoadd? Thank you to Big Brothers Big Sisters for being great support when needed :)

MichaelWhatdoyoudoforWork? I am a Residential Care Worker, looking after high risk and special needs youth.

how And why did you Become involved WithbigbrothErsbigsistErs? There are many reasons why I became involved with BBBS, in short, I wanted to give back to the community that has given so much to me, and I will be applying to medical schools for September 2012... good volunteer experience is paramount to acceptance. The how of it was easy, I simply walked into the BBBS office and the staff showed me everything from there!

WhatdoyouEnjoyaboutEachthEin-schoolmEntoringprogram? Everything from interacting with school staff and my Little, to my walk to and from the school quickly became one of, if not the, highlight of each week.

hoWoftEndidyousEEyourlittlEandWhatdidyoudo? I tried to meet with my Little once per week, but this was not always possible from my end or his and the flexibility of the program is another big plus.

hoWdidthisrElationshipfitintoyourlifE? The relationship with my Little fit perfectly into my busy life of university responsibilities. I quickly began to look forward to this break in theoretical studies, aimed to improve lives in the future, to make a real difference in someone’s life now. The positive difference this relationship has made in my life is immeasurable.

WhatdidyoumostEnjoyaboutbEingabigbuddy? I enjoyed seeing the effects of being an unconditional friend to someone who needed one, and all the basketball and soccer was pretty fun too!

didyousEEanybEnEfitsinyourlittlE? I saw a number of benefits in my Little, but none greater than his confidence and openness.

WhydoyouthinkthatsomEonEshouldvoluntEErinthisprogram? People should volunteer in this program because, unlike many things in this world, the inevitable improvement of that persons life will not be based on the impoverishment of those less fortunate, but upon their cultivation and betterment. A true win-win experience.


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JoHN What do you do for Work? I work at a restaurant, and pursuing a life-long career in the fire department.

hoW and Why did you become involved With big brothers big sisters? I heard about the program through some people I worked with, and I had a friend that was a Big Sister. I became involved in the program because I love kids, and thought that it would be really cool to hang out with a little kid and do fun stuff with them.

What do you enjoy about the traditional Program? I enjoy watching Brodie grow up as a little kid, and going through the different stages in life. I remember when we first met and I taught him how to snowboard, (I actually didn’t have to do that much teaching; kids at a young age can pick up things pretty quickly). That was over six years ago now, and Brodie has become an awesome and wicked snowboarder; he’ll be way better than me by the time he reaches my age.

hoW often do you see your little and What do you do? In the first few years we would hang out at least once a week. We’ve done things like go-carting, waterslides, hang out at the beach, movies, dinner with his mom and grandma, and our favorite one - we go snowboarding at Sun Peaks. Our match is more on a casual basis now.

hoW does this relationshiP fit into your life? This relationship fits into my life just like everything else in life - like your job, going to the gym and staying fit, saving money for the future, family time, etc. You make it work, and you somehow just fit it into your schedule. It wasn’t hard for me to fit it in, since I love kids, and plus you’re doing a good thing. It’s a good way to “Pay It Forward”.

Who Would you recommend this Program to? I would recommend this program to anyone who loves kids, is looking for a way to give back to the community, who wants to pursue a career in helping and working with kids, or anyone that just has some extra time on their hands and wants to do something good.

have you seen any benefits in your little? One of the biggest benefits that I’ve seen in Brodie is that he now has job. I was a paperboy when I was a little kid, I started doing that when I was in grade seven. I was making around $30-$35 dollars a month. That was big money for me back then, lol. I think it’s important for kids once they are old enough, to get some sort of a job. Whether it’s delivering newspapers, cutting lawns, shoveling driveways, picking up beer cans (highway rest stops are the best spots for this), or working in the fast-food industry. This is important because it teaches kids the foundation of hard work and good work ethics. It also (hopefully) teaches them how to save money, but this is a whole different story now. I’m trying to teach Brodie the importance of saving money, and later on once you have a pile of cash - to put it into an investment. I can tell this lesson is going to take some time to teach Brodie, lol. You remember when you were a kid, when you had money the first thing you wanted to do was go to the mall and buy something cool, or go to 7-11 and buy some candies?

Why do you think that someone should volunteer in these Programs? I think that people should volunteer in these programs because it’s a fun way to create a relationship and mentor a young kid who needs a role model or someone to look up to. It’s also a good way to keep kids out of trouble, and to hopefully try and teach them useful life lessons they’ll need in the future when they become an adult.

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16 Bowl for Kids Sake

18 The Impact of Mentoring in Canada

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20 Honouring Bill Pernitsky

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