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“I Do” Wedding Ceremony www.youregettingmarried.com Page 1 of 1 “I DO” CEREMONY $225 A simple, less than 10 minute long Ceremony. With Short Vows, say I DO, Quick Ring exchange and a Kiss. This is not appropriate for a “Formal Venue” wedding. It is designed for a small at-home or park ceremony with just a few guests. It is a basic civil type ceremony. It includes unlimited telephone and e-mail support. This is a nice straight-forward ceremony with all the key elements. Opening Words We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, the joining of two hearts and to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite BRIDE and GROOM in marriage. Declaration of Consent GROOM do you take BRIDE to be your Wife? GROOM says, "I do". Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her? GROOM says, "I do". BRIDE do you take GROOM to be your Husband? BRIDE says, "I do". Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto him? BRIDE says, "I do". Exchange of Vows GROOM, repeat after me: I, GROOM take you BRIDE to be my wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. BRIDE, repeat after me: I, BRIDE take you GROOM to be my husband, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. Introduction of the Rings The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken. Rings Wedding rings are an unbroken circle of love, signifying to all the union of this couple in marriage." GROOM/BRIDE, This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honor you all the days of my life. And with this ring, I thee wed. GROOM/BRIDE, This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honor you all the days of my life. And with this ring, I thee wed. Closing By the power vested in me I now pronounce you ............ You may now kiss your GROOM/BRIDE. I present to you our happy couple Mr. ad Mrs…. Email me at [email protected] or call me at 203-644-4815 and I will be happy to answer any question you may have. I look forward to hearing from you!

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Page 1: “I DO” CEREMONY $225 · “I Do” Wedding Ceremony Page 1 of 1 “I DO” CEREMONY $225 A simple, less than 10 minute long Ceremony. With Short Vows, say I DO, Quick Ring exchange

“I Do” Wedding Ceremony www.youregettingmarried.com Page 1 of 1

“I DO” CEREMONY $225

A simple, less than 10 minute long Ceremony. With Short Vows, say I DO, Quick Ring exchange and a Kiss. This is not appropriate for a “Formal Venue” wedding. It is designed for a small at-home or park ceremony with just a

few guests. It is a basic civil type ceremony. It includes unlimited telephone and e-mail support.

This is a nice straight-forward ceremony with all the key elements.

Opening Words

We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, the joining of two hearts and to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite BRIDE and GROOM in marriage.

Declaration of Consent

GROOM do you take BRIDE to be your Wife? GROOM says, "I do".

Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her? GROOM says, "I do".

BRIDE do you take GROOM to be your Husband? BRIDE says, "I do".

Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto him? BRIDE says, "I do".

Exchange of Vows

GROOM, repeat after me: I, GROOM take you BRIDE to be my wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.

BRIDE, repeat after me: I, BRIDE take you GROOM to be my husband, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.

Introduction of the Rings

The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken.

Rings

Wedding rings are an unbroken circle of love, signifying to all the union of this couple in marriage."

GROOM/BRIDE, This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honor you all the days of my life. And with this ring, I thee wed.

GROOM/BRIDE, This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honor you all the days of my life. And with this ring, I thee wed.

Closing

By the power vested in me I now pronounce you ............

You may now kiss your GROOM/BRIDE.

I present to you our happy couple Mr. ad Mrs….

Email me at [email protected] or call me at 203-644-4815 and I will be happy to answer any question you may have. I look forward to hearing from you!

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“SIMPLY SWEET” CEREMONY $350

This is a Traditional, most popular, less than 20 minute long Ceremony. This is for Couples who want a Simple yet Sweet ceremony experience and there is no customization on this package. With simple Vows, say I DO, Ring Exchange and a Kiss. This is appropriate for a “Formal Venue” wedding. It is designed for any venue

with any amount of guests.

Opening Words

We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, the joining of two hearts and to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite this couple in marriage.

Should there be anyone who has cause why this couple should not be united in marriage, speak now or forever hold their peace (Alternate: Shush!!)

Who Gives this Woman/Man today to be married (optional)

Today we have come together to witness the joining of these two lives. For them, out of the routine of ordinary life, the extraordinary has happened. They met each other, fell in love and are finalizing it with their wedding. A good marriage must be created. It is never being too old to hold hands. It’s remembering to say I love you every day and it is not just marrying the right person its being the right partner.

Exchange of Vows

GROOM, repeat after me: I, GROOM take you BRIDE to be my wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.

BRIDE, repeat after me: I, BRIDE take you GROOM to be my husband, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.

Declaration of Consent

GROOM do you take BRIDE to be your Wife? GROOM says, "I do".

Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her? GROOM says, "I do".

BRIDE do you take GROOM to be your Husband? BRIDE says, "I do".

Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto him? BRIDE says, "I do".

Introduction of the Rings

The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken.

Rings

Wedding rings are an unbroken circle of love, signifying to all the union of this couple in marriage."

GROOM/BRIDE, This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honor you all the days of my life. And with this ring, I thee wed.

GROOM/BRIDE, This ring is my sacred gift, with my promise that I will always love you, cherish you and honor you all the days of my life. And with this ring, I thee wed.

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Closing

By the power vested in me I now pronounce you ............

You may now kiss your GROOM/BRIDE.

I present to you our happy couple Mr. ad Mrs….

Email me at Email me at [email protected] or call me at 203-644-4815 and I will be happy to answer any

question you may have. I look forward to hearing from you!

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“OUR LOVE STORY” CEREMONY www.youregettingmarried.com Page 1 of 3

“OUR LOVE STORY” CEREMONY $475

This Ceremony is for couples who want a more personalized 30 minute long Ceremony. In this Ceremony, this is your love story; vision for married life; family/cultural traditions; favorite poetry; and/or any of our add-ins, all mixed together to create the most memorable ceremony experience ever. You can choose from our Alternate Selection of Vows and/or Wedding Ceremony Add On Ideas, add your love story and any poems you wish to

incorporate. We will work together to design something even more personal than the traditional Simply Sweet Ceremony. It is designed for any venue with any amount of guests. It includes unlimited telephone and e-mail support.

Introduction of Couple

We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, the joining of two hearts and to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes to the words which shall unite this couple in marriage.

Should there be anyone who has cause why this couple should not be united in marriage, speak now or forever hold their peace (Alternate: Shush!!)

Today we have come together to witness the joining of these two lives. For them, out of the routine of ordinary life, the extraordinary has happened. They met each other, fell in love and are finalizing it with their wedding. A good marriage must be created. It is never being too old to hold hands. It’s remembering to say I love you every day and it is not just marrying the right person its being the right partner.

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE – I)

Declaration of Consent

GROOM do you take BRIDE to be your Wife? GROOM says, "I do".

Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her? GROOM says, "I do".

BRIDE do you take GROOM to be your Husband? BRIDE says, "I do".

Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto him? BRIDE says, "I do".

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - II)

Parents Consent

Who gives this woman to be married to this man?

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - III)

Readings

Because this is a personal choice, you provide what you would like to be read here. This is optional.

(SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - IV)

Preparation for Vows

Today, your wedding day, is one brief day in time, and although your vows are spoken in a matter of minutes, they are

promises that will last a lifetime.

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - V)

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Exchange of Vows

GROOM, repeat after me: I, GROOM take you BRIDE to be my wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.

BRIDE, repeat after me: I, BRIDE take you GROOM to be my husband, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever.

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - VI)

Introduction of the Rings

The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken.

Rings

Wedding rings are an unbroken circle of love, signifying to all the union of this couple in marriage.

GROOM/BRIDE, With this ring - I marry you - and join my life with yours. Accept this ring - as a sign of my love and

faithfulness - for all the years to come.

GROOM/BRIDE, With this ring - I marry you - and join my life with yours. Accept this ring - as a sign of my love and

faithfulness - for all the years to come.

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - VIII)

Blessing of the Rings

This is Optional.

(SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - IX)

Add On Here

This is an optional event such as unity candle, sand ceremony etc. This will require you to purchase additional items.

(SELECT ANY ADD ON AND WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - X)

The Blessing of the Marriage

May you always share with each other the gifts of love and be one in heart and always beautiful of mind. And may

you always create a home together that puts in your hearts, love, generosity and kindness.

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - XI)

Closing Prayer or Blessing

This is Optional.

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - XII)

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Closing

Butterfly Ceremony, Dove Release, Breaking of the Glass, Jumping the Broom is done here

By the authority vested in me by the State of New York, I pronounce you to each other, husband and wife.

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - XIII)

Kiss Preparation

You have kissed a thousand times, maybe more. But today the feeling is new. No longer simply partners and best

friends, you have become husband and wife and can now seal the agreement with a kiss. Today your kiss is a promise.

It is now my pleasure to present ____ and ____ as Husband and Wife!

(OR SELECT ANY WORDING FROM OUR ALTERNATE SELECTIONS PAGE - XIV)

Email me at [email protected] or call me at 203-644-4815 and I will be happy to answer any question you may have. I look forward to hearing from you!

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CATHOLIC INSPIRED CEREMONY

We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, the joining of two hearts. In this ceremony today we will witness the joining GROOM/BRIDE and GROOM/BRIDE in marriage. If there is anyone present who has just cause why this couple should not be united let them speak now or forever hold their peace. Who gives this man/woman to be married today (Optional) You have come together today so that the Lord may seal and strengthen your love in the presence of God and this community. Christ abundantly blesses your love, he strengthens you so that you may assume the duties of marriage in mutual and lasting fidelity, and so... in the presence of this community. Today we have come together to witness the joining of these two lives. For them, out of the routine of ordinary life, the extraordinary has happened. They met each other, fell in love and are finalizing it with their wedding Today. Romance is fun, but true love is something far more and it is their desire to love each other for life and that is what we are celebrating here today. A good marriage must be created. In marriage the "little" things are the big things. It is never being too old to hold hands. It is remembering to say, “I love you" at least once a day. It is never going to sleep angry. It is standing together and facing the world. It is speaking words of appreciation, and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow. It is a common search for the good and the beautiful. It is not only marrying the right person -- it is being the right partner

VOWS (face each other and hold hands)(repeat after me) I, GROOM/BRIDE take you GROOM/BRIDE to be my husband/wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honor you I will laugh with you and cry with you. I will love you faithfully Through the best and the worst, Through the difficult and the easy. Whatever may come I will always be there. As I have given you my hand to hold So I give you my life to keep I, GROOM/BRIDE take you GROOM/BRIDE to be my Husband/Wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honor you I will laugh with you and cry with you. I will love you faithfully Through the best and the worst, Through the difficult and the easy. Whatever may come I will always be there.

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As I have given you my hand to hold So I give you my life to keep

PRAYERS FOR THE FAITHFUL (call and response) Let us pray for peace, happiness and joy in everyone's life, both here at home, and around the world. Response: Lord, hear our prayer. Let us pray for the new additions to our families, that God looks over them, and that they are always surrounded by love and caring. Response: Lord, hear our prayer. Let us pray for those in our lives who are sick and healing, may their road to recovery be blessed. Response: Lord, hear our prayer. Let us pray for those who have traveled this road with us, but could not join us here today. We know that those people are close to us in spirit. Response: Lord, hear our prayer. GROOM/BRIDE AND GROOM/BRIDE I would ask that you always treat yourself and each other with respect, and remind yourselves often of what brought you together today. Give the highest priority to the tenderness, gentleness and kindness that your marriage deserves. When frustration and difficulty assail your marriage - as they do to every relationship at one time or another - focus on what still seems right between you, not only the part that seems wrong. This way, when clouds of trouble hide the sun in your lives and you lose sight of it for a moment, you can remember that the sun is still there. And if each of you will take responsibility for the quality of your life together, it will be marked by abundance and happiness.

I Do’s GROOM/BRIDE, do you take GROOM/BRIDE to be your Husband/Wife? ("I do") Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her forevermore? ("I do") GROOM/BRIDE, do you take GROOM/BRIDE to be your Husband/Wife? ("I do") Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him, forsaking all others and holding only unto him forevermore? ("I do") John 4:7-12 Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is born of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God—for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love. It is not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love has been brought to full expression through us.

Ring Exchange (who has the rings) (repeat after me) The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken.

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I GROOM/BRIDE, take thee, GROOM/BRIDE to be my Husband/Wife- To have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow, and I promise My love to you. Take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity in the name of the father, and of the son, and of the holy spirit. I GROOM/BRIDE, take thee GROOM/BRIDE, to be my Husband/Wife. To have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow, and I promise My love to you. Take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity in the name of the father, and of the son, and of the holy spirit. Lord, bless and consecrate this groom and bride in their love for each other. May these rings be a symbol of their true faith in each other, and always remind them of their love through the Christ to God.

Wedding Prayer Bless their marriage, O God, as they begin their journey down the road of life together. We don't know what lies ahead for the road turns and bends. But help them to make the best of whatever comes their way. Help them to continue to enjoy each other as they did when they first met. Help them to realize that nothing nor no one is perfect and to look for the good in all things and all people including themselves. Help them to respect each other's likes and dislikes, opinions and beliefs, hopes and dreams and fears even though they may not always understand them. Help them to learn from each other and to help each other to grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Help them to realize that no matter what happens to them they will hold on to each other and know that things have a way of working out for the good. Help them to create for their children a peaceful, stable home of love as a foundation on which they can build their lives. But most of all, dear God, help them to keep lit the torch of love' that they now share so that by their loving example they may pass on the light of love to their children and to their children's children forever. Amen

Closing Comments To make your relationship work will take love. This is the core of your marriage and why you are here today. It will take trust, to know, that in your hearts, you truly want what is best for each other. It will take dedication, to stay open to one another - and to learn and grow together. It will take faith, to go forward together, without knowing exactly what the future brings. And it will take commitment, to hold true to the journey you both have pledged to today. My dear friends, let us turn to the lord and pray that he will bless GROOM/BRIDE & GROOM/BRIDE united them in true marriage today. Father you have made the union of husband and wife so holy as it symbolizes the marriage of two humans through Christ to God. Look with love upon GROOM/BRIDE & GROOM/BRIDE Fill them both with love for each other, both honoring and respecting each other and always seeing their love as a gift to be treasured. May the commitment which they are making be sacred not only for today but for the rest of their lives. We ask this blessing for them in the name of the father and the son and the holy spirit. By the power vested in me I now pronounce you . . . . . . . You may kiss your Groom/Bride. I would Like to introduce to you the happy couple…Mr. and Mrs……

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CHRISTIAN CEREMONY

We are gathered here today in the sight of God, and the presence of friends and loved ones, to celebrate one of life's greatest moments. We are here to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love, and to add our best wishes and blessings to the words that will unite GROOM/BRIDE and GROOM/BRIDE in holy matrimony. Who gives this man/woman to be married (Optional) GROOM/BRIDE and GROOM/BRIDE, marriage is the most important of all earthly relationships. It should be entered into reverently, thoughtfully and with full understanding of its sacred nature. Your marriage must stand by the strength of your love and the power of faith in each other and in God. Just as two threads woven in opposite directions form a beautiful tapestry, so to your two lives when merged together will make a beautiful marriage. 1st Corinthians Love is very patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never boastful or proud. Love is never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand it's own way. Love is not irritable or touchy. Love does not hold grudges and will hardly notice when others do it wrong. Love is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever truth wins out. If you love someone, you will be loyal to them no matter what the costs. You will always believe in them, always expect the best in them, and will always stand your ground in defending them.

VOWS (face each other and hold hands) (repeat after me) I, GROOM/BRIDE take you GROOM/BRIDE to be my husband/wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honor you I will laugh with you and cry with you. I will love you faithfully Through the best and the worst, Through the difficult and the easy. Whatever may come I will always be there. As I have given you my hand to hold So I give you my life to keep So help me God I, GROOM/BRIDE take you GROOM/BRIDE to be my Husband/Wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honor you I will laugh with you and cry with you. I will love you faithfully Through the best and the worst, Through the difficult and the easy. Whatever may come I will always be there. As I have given you my hand to hold So I give you my life to keep So help me God

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John 4:7-12 Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is born of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God—for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love. It is not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love has been brought to full expression through us.

I Do’s GROOM/BRIDE, do you take GROOM/BRIDE to be your Husband/Wife? ("I do") Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him/her, forsaking all others and holding only unto her forevermore? ("I do") GROOM/BRIDE, do you take GROOM/BRIDE to be your Husband/Wife? ("I do") Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect him/her, forsaking all others and holding only unto him forevermore? ("I do") The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken.

Ring Exchange (who has the rings) (repeat after me) I GROOM/BRIDE, take thee, GROOM/BRIDE to be my Husband/Wife- To have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow, and I promise My love to you. And with this ring, I take you as my Husband/Wife, for as long as we both shall live. I GROOM/BRIDE, take thee GROOM/BRIDE, to be my Husband/Wife. To have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow, and I promise My love to you. And with this ring, I take you as my husband/wife, for as long as we both shall live.

Wedding Prayer Bless their marriage, O God, as they begin their journey down the road of life together. We don't know what lies ahead for the road turns and bends. But help them to make the best of whatever comes their way. Help them to continue to enjoy each other as they did when they first met. Help them to realize that nothing nor no one is perfect and to look for the good in all things and all people including themselves. Help them to respect each other's likes and dislikes, opinions and beliefs, hopes and dreams and fears even though they may not always understand them. Help them to learn from each other and to help each other to grow mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Help them to realize that no matter what happens to them they will hold on to each other and know that things have a way of working out for the good. Help them to create for their children a peaceful, stable home of love as a foundation on which they can build their lives. But most of all, dear God, help them to keep lit the torch of love' that they now share so that by their loving example they may pass on the light of love to their children and to their children's children forever. Amen By the power vested in me I now pronounce you . . . . . . . You may kiss your Groom/Bride. I would Like to introduce to you the happy couple…Mr. and Mrs……

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JEWISH INSPIRED CEREMONY Shalom!! We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, The Joining of 2 hearts. In this ceremony today we will witness the joining GROOM/BRIDE and GROOM/BRIDE in marriage. If there is anyone present who has just cause why this couple should not be united..... Sussh! Who gives this man/woman to be married today (Optional) Today we have come together to witness the joining of these two lives. For them, out of the routine of ordinary life, the extraordinary has happened. They met each other, fell in love and are finalizing it with their wedding Today. Romance is fun, but true love is something far more and it is their desire to love each other for life and that is what we are celebrating here today. GROOM/BRIDE and GROOM/BRIDE, life is given to each of us as individuals, and yet we must learn to live together. Love is given to us by our family and friends - we learn to love by being loved. Learning to love and living together is one of the greatest challenges of life; and it is the shared goal of a married life. But we also must remember that it is not humankind which created love, but God who created love. Blessed art thou, O Lord God, creator of all things. A good marriage must be created. In marriage the "little" things are the big things. It is never being too old to hold hands. It is remembering to say, “I love you" at least once a day. It is never going to sleep angry. It is standing together and facing the world. It is speaking words of appreciation, and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways. It is having the capacity to forgive and forget. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow. It is a common search for the good and the beautiful. It is not only marrying the right person -- it is being the right partner

Wine Blessing In this glass are the fruits of God, Humankind and Mother Earth. The years of our lives are like a cup of wine that is poured out for the sake of labor, honor and love. Many days you will sit at the same table and eat and drink together. Many are the experiences you will share. As with a glass of wine, one of you may find it sweet, the other perhaps dry or somehow different. Let the drink you share today serve as a reminder that although you may perceive things very differently, being right is never more important than being happy. With this space that you give each other, always putting your commitment to love and honor one another first, your lives together will grow deeper, richer and greatly satisfying, like a rare and fine wine. Blessed art thou oh lord our god king of the universe who has created the fruit of the vine. You may now drink from this fountain of love.

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VOWS (face each other and hold hands)(repeat after me) I, GROOM/BRIDE take you GROOM/BRIDE to be my husband/wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honor you I will laugh with you and cry with you. Through the best and the worst, Through the difficult and the easy. Whatever may come I will always be there. As I have given you my hand to hold So I give you my life to keep I, GROOM/BRIDE take you GROOM/BRIDE to be my Husband/Wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honor you I will laugh with you and cry with you. Through the best and the worst, Through the difficult and the easy. Whatever may come I will always be there. As I have given you my hand to hold So I give you my life to keep GROOM/BRIDE AND GROOM/BRIDE I would ask that you always treat yourself and each other with respect, and remind yourselves often of what brought you together today. Give the highest priority to the tenderness, gentleness and kindness that your marriage deserves. When frustration and difficulty assail your marriage - as they do to every relationship at one time or another - focus on what still seems right between you, not only the part that seems wrong. This way, when clouds of trouble hide the sun in your lives and you lose sight of it for a moment, you can remember that the sun is still there. And if each of you will take responsibility for the quality of your life together, it will be marked by abundance and happiness.

Benediction May the groom/bride and groom/bride now receive the benediction - "Blessed art Thou O Lord God, Ruler of the Universe, Creator of Man. "Blessed art Thou O Lord God, Ruler of the Universe, Who hast fashioned us in Thine own image and who established marriage for the fulfillment and perpetuation of life in accordance with Thy holy purpose. "Blessed art Thou O Lord God, Creator of man. "Blessed art Thou O Lord God, Ruler of the Universe, Who art the source of all gladness and joy. Through Thy grace we attain affection, companionship, love and peace. Grant that the love which unites this man and woman my grow in abiding happiness. May their family be ennobled through their devotion to the faith of Israel. May there be peace in their home, quietness and confidence in their hearts. May they be sustained by Thy comforting presence in the midst of our people and Thy promise of salvation of all mankind. "Blessed art Thou O Lord God, Ruler of the Universe, Who dost unite this man and this woman in the holy joy of matrimony. Amen"

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I Do’s Do you GROOM/BRIDE take GROOM/BRIDE to be your husband/wife? ("I do"). Do you promise to love, cherish and protect him/her, whether in good fortune or in adversity, and to seek with him/her a life hallowed by the faith of Israel? ("I do") Do you GROOM/BRIDE take GROOM/BRIDE to be your husband/wife? ("I do"). Do you promise to love, cherish and protect him, whether in good fortune or in adversity, and to seek with him/her a life hallowed by the faith of Israel? ("I do") The ring is a symbol of the unbroken circle of love. Love freely given has no beginning and no end, no giver and no receiver for each is the giver and each is the receiver. May these rings always remind you of the vows you have taken.

Ring Exchange (who has the rings) (repeat after me) I GROOM/BRIDE, take thee, GROOM/BRIDE to be my Husband/Wife- To have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow, and I promise my love to you. And with this ring, I take you as my Husband/Wife, for as long as we both shall live according to the law of God / and the faith of Israel." I GROOM/BRIDE, take thee GROOM/BRIDE, to be my Husband/Wife. To have and to hold, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer, in joy and sorrow, and I promise my love to you. And with this ring, I take you as my husband/wife, for as long as we both shall live according to the law of God / and the faith of Israel." 7 Jewish blessings

1. You are blessed, Lord our God, the sovereign of the world, who created everything for his glory. 2. You are blessed, Lord our God, the sovereign of the world, the creator of man. 3. You are blessed, Lord our God, the sovereign of the world, who created man in His image, in the pattern of

His own likeness, and provided for the perpetuation of his kind. 4. You are blessed, Lord, the creator of man. Let the barren city be jubilantly happy and joyful at her joyous

reunion with her children. 5. You are blessed, Lord, who makes Zion rejoice with her children. Let the loving couple be very happy, just as

you made your creation happy in the Garden of Eden, so long ago. You are blessed, Lord, who makes the bridegroom and the bride happy.

6. You are blessed, Lord our God, the sovereign of the world, who created joy and celebration, bridegroom and bride, rejoicing, jubilation, pleasure and delight, love and brotherhood, peace and friendship. May there soon be heard, Lord our God, in the cities of Judea and in the streets of Jerusalem, the sound of joy and the sound of celebration, the voice of a bridegroom and the voice of a bride, the happy shouting of bridegrooms from their weddings and of young men from their feasts of song. You are blessed, Lord, who makes the bridegroom and the bride rejoice together.

7. You are blessed, Lord our God, the sovereign of the world, creator of the fruit of the vine.

Silent Prayer I ask you and all your dear ones to bow your heads in reverence. Silently pray that God will bless the home of GROOM/BRIDE and GROOM/BRIDE and that they each, and together, may achieve their highest hopes. (After short pause) "May the Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious unto you. May the Lord lift up his countenance unto to you, and give you peace. Amen")

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Closing Comments To make your relationship work will take love. This is the core of your marriage and why you are here today. It will take trust, to know, that in your hearts, you truly want what is best for each other. It will take dedication, to stay open to one another - and to learn and grow together. It will take faith, to go forward together, without knowing exactly what the future brings. And it will take commitment, to hold true to the journey you both have pledged to today.

Crushing of the Glass The final act of this ceremony is the shattering of the glass. This old custom has many traditions, with many interpretations. At one time it was meant to scare off demons that frequent celebrations (or pesky wedding guests) Today, the fragility of the glass suggests the frailty of human relationships. The groom/bride and groom/bride - and everyone –that they should consider these marriage vows as an IRREVOCABLE ACT. Just as permanent and final as the breaking of this glass is unchangeable. The glass is broken to protect this marriage with the implied prayer. ”May your bond of love be as difficult to break, as it would be to put back together these pieces of glass.” Knowing that this marriage is permanent, the Groom/Bride and Groom/Bride should strive every day to show each other love and respect and happiness. After GROOM/BRIDE breaks the glass, I invite everyone to shout the Hebrew words “Mazel Tov,” meaning “Good Luck” and “Congratulations.” CRUSH TIME By the power vested in me I now pronounce you . . . . . . . You may kiss your Groom/Bride. I would Like to introduce to you the happy couple…Mr. and Mrs……