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THE WORLD AROUND USFAMILY VALUES

Jennifer FinchUniversity of Science and Technology Beijing

WHAT IS A VALUE? • You have been given ¥6000 RMB to do whatever you

like with it. What would you do with it?

• Share with someone around you what you would do with it.

Conclusion:• What you spend the money on represents some of

the things you value.

WHAT IS A VALUE? • What things did you do during the past week?• How did you spend your time?• With whom did you spend your time?

Conclusion:• What you choose to do with your time also

demonstrates or shows your values.

DEFINING VALUES• Qualities, characteristics, or ideas about

which we feel strongly.

• A belief or feeling that someone or something is worthwhile.

• Values are standards to guide your action, judgments, and attitudes.

VALUE AND LIFE

Our values affect how we interact with The World Around Us.

AMERICAN VALUESBelonging

Flexibility

Respect

Honesty

Forgiveness

Generosity

Curiosity

Communication

Responsibility/ Independence

Traditions

TYPES OF VALUES: Moral

Material Aesthetic

Intrinsic Extrinsic

American / UniversalGroup specific values

WHAT ARE YOUR FAMILY VALUES

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FAMILY

VALUES: GROWING UPAs a child growing up: traditions, generosity

Holidays: family gets together to celebrate special days, usually centered around a meal.

Thanksgiving Christmas

Easter

As a Parent:• Responsibility

• Communication

• Belonging

• Forgiveness

• Respect

MY FAMILY’S VALUES

American Family Traditions: Holidays• Christmas (Christian holiday, but also

celebrated by non-Christians) • Biggest holiday for many Americans• Different traditions for different

families.

• Thanksgiving: family get together for a special dinner• Easter: Christian families celebrate

OUR TRADITIONS

HOLIDAYS ON CAMPUSCampuses Empty: Most Students Go Home for Holidays

Some graduate students remain as they are working on research projects.

Some professors of friends have traditionally invited international students to their home for dinner.

FAMILY EXPECTATIONSExpectations: Family values determine expectations in many areas of your life.

Think of these areas and what does your family expect you to do?

FAMILY EXPECTATIONSDating: at what age? With what type of person?

Education & Career: Personal interest or what parents say to do?

Parents: At what age do you move out?

Friends: Are they welcome to visit the family?

Religion: Expected to have same as parents?

FAMILY EXPECTATIONSParenting Differences: Family values may determine expectations placed on students.

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FAMILY EXPECTATIONS “Wolf Dad”

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FRIENDSHIPS AND RELATIONSHIPS

VALUES: INFLUENCES AT DIFFERENT AGES

Ages 1-7 --- parentsAges 8-13 --- parents, teachers, heroes(sports, music, TV)

Ages 14-20 --- peers – “FRIENDS” (values because of peers or peers because of values?)Ages 21+ your values are established, but you may test your values from time to time.

FRIENDSHIPSIf studying or doing business abroad, make friends with local people.

Learn about each others cultures!

AMERICAN AND CHINA ONLINE

Social Networking

How do you feel about online dating?

AMERICAN AND CHINA ONLINE

MEDIA VALUES

MEDIA VALUES

View of Dating

MEDIA VALUES

View of Marriage

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THE WORLD AROUND USFAMILY VALUES

Jennifer FinchUniversity of Science and Technology Beijing

KNOW YOUR VALUESIdentify your values1. Brainstorm a list of the activities that you value

Examples spending time with children, work, exercise, spirituality/religion, quiet time for yourself, education, time with spouse, computer games, being with friends, etc.

2. Arrange the list in order of priority

3. Arrange the activities in order of how you actually spend your time each week and list the approximate hours you spend doing this activity.

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THE WORLD AROUND USFAMILY VALUES

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