over parenting is harmful for children

Over Parenting is harmful for children’s growth:

Lacking Creativity

Shadman Ameen

ID: 1310124630

Introduction

• Parents are the prime need of a child. • Assumption: middle class family in large number.• Most of the parents practice authoritarian

parenting.• Social dilemma • Over competitive schooling for children (dropout

rate raises) • Overall, creativity lacks in children for want of

divergent thinking.

Background of the topic• Definition of Over Parenting/Helicopter

Parenting• Benefits & Costs • Types of Parenting• Types of children• Competition and early maturity

Types of Parenting

• Authoritarian Parenting type• Authoritative Parenting type• Permissive Parenting type

Permissive Parenting

Types of Children

• Fun-Loving children • Sensitive children• Determined children • More serious children

Research Question• What type of parenting is practiced in Bangladesh? • What is the level of parents satisfaction in Bangladesh

perspective? • What is the psychological view of children to their

parents reaction? • What is the main cause of parents restriction in

Bangladesh? • What is the parenting type that is supported by general

people to initiate creativity among children? • What is the proper parental guidance and its benefits for

the development of children?

Hypothesis

• Helicopter parenting or, over parenting is harming school children which makes them less creative.

• Permissive parenting is the key solution.

Research Methodology • Primary Research –Survey Question

• Sample size 30 • NSU students• Other university student

through internet.

• Secondary Research – Parenting Science

website – Other internet

sources – Book of PDF

Primary Research –Why? My primary research Data is segregated into following parts. •Class difference in Bangladesh•Type of parenting practiced in Bangladesh•Satisfaction of parent in Bangladesh •Preference of Parenting type•Psychological impact on children at mocking•Competition in School increased dropout rate•Social disorganization: impact on children• Initiative to make youth or, children more creative

Class difference in Bangladesh• About 54.5% of Middle class. • 33.3% of Low class family • 12.1% selected Higher class

•Middle class family struggles a lot in the conventional world.

Meaning:

Type of parenting practiced in Bangladesh• About 42.4% participants chose “Authoritarian Parenting”• 30.3% chose “Permissive Parenting” • 27.3% chose “Authoritative parenting

• Authoritarian Parenting is more practiced in the nation.

Meaning:

Satisfaction of parent in Bangladesh • 70.6% selected “academic success” • 20.6% selected “honestly and sincerity” • 8.8% selected “personal creativity”

•Parents have more expectancy in academic arena.

Meaning:

Preference of Parenting style•About 85.3% want to have freedom of choice. • 11.8% wants welcoming to their choice•Less 3% wants strict guidance

• Children support to have Authoritative Parenting guidance.

Meaning:

Psychological impact on children at mocking• 47.1% loss of hope by mocking from their parents.• 44.1% feel mistreated• only 8.8% can make a good understanding with parents.

•Although, Authoritarian Parenting is practiced in Bangladesh, children are less interested to be mocked by their parents.

Meaning:

Competition in School increased dropout rate • 44.1% has strongly agreed •32.4% has agreed the argument • Disagreement and strongly disagree is surprisingly equal.

• Implementation of new exam question known as “creative question” has increased the dropout rate of school going children.

Meaning:

Social disorganization: impact on children• 70. 6% feels like strict guidance is due to social deviant works. • 29.4% feels like strict guidance is due to incapability to adapt into new community.

•Parent are more afraid and anxious about the social surroundings.

Meaning:

Initiative to make youth or, children more creative•About 61.8% has chosen option C•20.6% has chosen option A•17.6% has chosen option B

•People support permissive parenting to be creative.

Meaning:

Findings• Authoritarian Parenting style is visible most of the time to control

the youngster• Children are interested to be parented by permissive parenting style. • Middle class people are more in numbers impose more restriction on

their children.• Overall satisfaction of parents is on academic success• The relationship between parents and children is not flexible,

although authoritarian parenting theory says that "a good relationship is build up between parents and children."

• Competition from junior level schooling increased the dropout rate of Bengal medium school student although the question method was completely designed to judge children's creativity level.

Recommendation • Parents should encourage children to be more

divergent thinker• Good social surroundings. • Give support to your children to achieve success

in conventional life. • Competition is a must. But Children’s gradual

development is more necessary. • The more creative minds, the more the

progressive a country can be.

Conclusion• By judging the secondary data of parenting

style in Bangladesh and result from survey questionnaire supporting permissive parenting as solution of enrichment of creativity, it is confirm that over parenting is harmful to the children that force them to stop being creative.

• Solution to this issue is to practice permissive parenting.

Thank You!

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