3 ways to create lasting change 1)raise your standards 2)change your limiting beliefs 3)change your...

3 Ways to Create Lasting Change

1) Raise Your Standards2) Change Your Limiting Beliefs

3) Change Your Strategy

Step One: Raise Your Standards

• If you don’t set a baseline standard for what you’ll accept in life, you’ll find it easy to slip into behaviors and attitudes or a quality of life that’s far below what you deserve.

• Question: What will you no longer accept or tolerate?

• Question: What kind of person do you aspire to become?

Step Two: Change Your Limiting Beliefs

• Our beliefs shape every action, every thought, and every feeling we experience.

• Question: Name some examples of beliefs that are limiting.

Some limiting beliefs

• “I can’t do it.”• “I’m not smart/talented enough.”• “If I fail I’m a failure.”• “I can’t afford to make mistakes.”• “I don’t deserve it.”

The Power of Decision

• It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.

• Everyone can make a decision in an instant that can positively affect their lives.

• Question: So why don’t people make decisions that will turn their dreams into reality?

Fear!

• Most people are paralyzed by the fear that they don’t know exactly how to turn their dreams into reality, so they never make the decisions to accomplish their goals.

3 Decisions that Control your Destiny

• 3 decisions you make every moment of your life determine how you feel, what you do, and who you will become.

• If you don’t control these decisions, you simply aren’t in control of your life- when you control them, you begin to sculpt your experience.

3 Decisions that Control your Destiny

• 1) Your decisions about what you focus on.• 2) Your decisions about what things mean to

you.• 3) Your decisions about what to do to create

the results you desire.

• Question: What does this mean to you?