7 strategies for a brilliant first impression

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7 STRATEGIES FOR A BRILLIANT FIRST IMPRESSION

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Branding expert and best-selling author Sally Hogshead knows that we live in a distracted, competitive and commoditized world. According to some research the average attention span could be as low as 9 seconds (the same as a gold fish). You need to demonstrate your value immediately or your listener will be off to the next thing. Here's 7 strategies to make a brilliant first impression at your next conference, networking event, job interview or meeting.

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7 STRATEGIES FOR A BRILLIANT FIRST IMPRESSION

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INTRODUCTIONS HAVE A 90%

FAILURE RATE.

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It’s better to avoid introducing yourself to someone than to waste their time with weak communication. !

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Every time you introduce yourself, you are either adding value or taking up space.

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YOUR INFLUENCE AS A PROFESSIONAL WILL BE MEASURED BY YOUR ABILITY TO GET OTHERS TO LISTEN AND TAKE ACTION.

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1. Find one way to add VALUE to the conversation.

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What problem is your listener facing? !

How can you help overcome it?

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2. Understand how theWorld sees YOU.

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How is your personality most likely to impress others? You already have certain patterns of communication. !

These shape how people perceive you.

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INNOVATION

PASSION

POWER

PRESTIGE

TRUST

MYSTIQUE

ALERT

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So how does the world see you? !

If you haven’t discovered that yet, find out at: !

www.HowTheWorldSeesYou.com

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INNOVATION

HOW CAN YOU START THE CONVERSATION?

PASSION

POWER

PRESTIGE

TRUST

MYSTIQUE

ALERT

INTRODUCE YOURSELF WITH HUMOR,

CONNECT INSTANTLY WITH A WARM SMILE AND OPEN BODY

START A CONVERSION WITH A STRONG OPINION

OPEN TOPICS ABOUT IMPROVEMENT

MAKE THEM FEEL COMFORTABLE

ASK INTELLIGENT QUESTIONS

SHOW INTEREST BY ASKING FOR DETAILS

CREATED BY SALLY HOGSHEAD | DISCOVER MORE AT HOWTOFASCINATE.COM | EMAIL: [email protected] ©2014 FASCINATE, INC.

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3. Create your “Anthem.”

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An Anthem is a tagline for your personality. !

It’s how you are different and what you do best.

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Once you know what makes you valuable to others, you’re more authentic and confident.

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Build Your Anthem: !

www.HowToFascinate.com/Anthem

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4. Ask real questions.

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When it comes to first impressions, your questions matter more than your answers. The goal is to get away from trite topics, and get on a roll together.

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5. Consider what your listener will ALREADY be thinking and talking about.

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It’s easier to immediately connect with someone if you already know what they’re pondering… or struggling with… or excited about.

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6. Commit to a strong start.

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When introducing yourself, don’t wait for the other person to do all the work.

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TWEET THIS: !

“When it comes to first impressions, a weak start leads to a poor impression.” !

via @SallyHogshead

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So if you’re ready to make a brilliant first impression, create your Anthem now: !

www.HowToFascinate.com/Anthem

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7. Bring a sense of purpose to the conversation.

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TWEET THIS: !

“The purpose of a conversation is not to kill time, but to grow a connection.” !

via @SallyHogshead

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