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Wi ll ia m L. Al bo tt , Ph .D. Li censed Psyc hol ogist - KS  909 SW Tenth - Topeka, ks 66604 785- 234-4 743 - fax 785-2 34-5068 May 26,2004 Jud ge David E. Brun s Sha wne e County Dis tri ct Court Division Twelv e Sha wne e Cou nty Court Hou se Top eka , KS 666 03- 392 2 RE: RICHARDSON v. DOMBROWSKI Case No. 96 D 217 Dea r Jud ge Bruns: Let me begi n wit h a note of apolo gy in re gar d to the del ay in pr ovi din g the cour t wit h this report. As you know I ha d a resp ira tor y ill ness tha t kep t me out of the off ice and bas ica lly render ed me to almost minimal phy sic al functi oni ng for over two weeks. Since my re turn my sta min a has been fai rly compromise d and thus tryi ng to "ca tch up" pro ved quite slo w. Wit h tha t not e of explanati on, I a m writing you in regard to t he above enc apt ion ed case and my role in th is contentious custod y con flict. To summa riz e my conta cts wit h the se ind ivi dua ls seems war ranted and ge rma ne. I fi rst wo rke d wit h this coup le upo n a referral from Jud ge Ric har d And erson. I met with the m for a t ota l of 15 ses sio ns ove r the time frame of Augus t, 200 2 to Apr il, 2003 and alt hou gh I t hou ght some progres s had be en mad e in dimi nis hin g the overt con fli ct the sessions then ter min ate d rat her abruptly dur ing one session whe n fol lowing a ser ies of accusa tio ns by Ms . Dombro wsk i, Mr. Richa rds on abr upt ly lef t the ses sio n and te rmi nat ed the process. Dur ing these ini tia l meet ing s my impression was t hat Ms. Dombro wsk i and Mr. Richa rds on had an extremel y dys fun cti ona l his tor y that was contin ued , eve n esc ala tin g, aft er the div orce. Ms. Dombrowsk i had acc use d Mr. Rich ardson of mu lti ple actions that inc lud e domest ic vio lence, rape, etc. and in the course of t he sessions the se accusa tio ns wer e fre que ntl y rep eat ed by her t o Mr. Ric har dso n. Mr. Rich ard son 's res pon se to thes e acc usa tio ns was to deny and th en ado pt a stance of ba sic all y "no res pon se" whe re he woul d jus t sit sil ent ly tur nin g phy sic all y awa y from her . In spite of the ofte n accusator y qua lit y of t hes e ses sio ns I t hou ght we wer e abl e to ach iev e some ( "compromises" about co-pare nti ng activities. Immediate complaints, as dis tin gui she d ) from his tor y, center ed around Ms. Do mbr owski belief that Mr. Ric har dso n did thi ngs to . pre vent Ms . Domb rowski fro m havi ng adequate parenting time with their daughter and Mr. Ric har dso n's compla int s wer e about Ms. Dombro wsk i fre que ntl y app eari ng in

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Judge David E. Bruns

RE: RICHARDSON v. DOMBROWSKI

Case No. 96 D 217

May 26.2004

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In March, 2004, Ms. Dombrowski and Mr. Richardson following orders of thecourt, began a process directed at facilitating co-parenting time and cooperation to this

end between the parties. I would note that also involved in the matter was a Case

(Manager, Mr. Lloyd Schwartz. In this process I met with the parties on two conjoint

) ses.sions and one indoivid,ual s.e.,s,s.iO.n.w,ith M,.s. Dom.,b..r.owski. ~...thtl~~_S.essl.... .onsour ..focusI  ~~gJ2~.~!.!.9Jlg.rr~I.!gi~.&yi~~~~_~~!.\Y£~l!M.s.;J) .QmpJ:Q\YskiarulheL.daught~. Ms.

Dombrowski was unwilling to arrange the visit at "safe visit"-after my office had

arranged for such a visit. My approach then was to attempt to arrange a session with Dr.

Rodeheffer, individual therapist for the daughter, and then also a joint session with Dr.

Rodeheffer, Ms. Dombrowski and the daughter. This conjoint visit was scheduled for

3/23/04 but Ms. Dombrowski did not appear for the session and later indicated that she

had made a mistake in writing down the time. A conjoint session was scheduled then for~ 4/13/04. On 3/21/04, Mr., RJ~h!!r,gs.Ql2calledmyoffice indicating that a protective order

had heen filedinPlatt-~ountyMissourLirid that he want~d to discontinue visits, he

ir;cticated th~the ipplication" fora protectIVe-order"incl~dedapp~r~~t'ly~~-i~cident which

occurred in my office's parking lot on 3/8/04. Following this call I contacted Lloyd

Schwartz and yourself seeking advice as to how to proceed. During this period I also

spoke with Mr. Hoffman (attorney for Mr. Richardson). Dr. Rodeheffer and I then

", r~"'. consulted and again it was my decision that until we knew more about the protective

'... , order that such a conjoint visit not take place given the limitations inherent in our offices

<) . to provide supervision of the daughter in the absence of one of the parents while waiting

\.~~~) " ) for the other parent. On the 29th

of March my office received a copy of the Protective

.;;--'.)! Order via Fax from Mr. Donald Hoffman. In reading the Protective Order it specifically  \ h'b'" pro I ItS:

" (1) "Abuse, threaten to abuse, stalk, molest, or disturb the peace of the

Petitioner wherever Petitioner may be found; and

(2) Communicate with Petitioner in any manner or through any medium"

[emphasis added]

Further in support of her request for this protective order Ms. Dombrowski indicated that

"March 8, 2004--in Parking lot threatened tofind me et kill me ...that I 

could not hide forever ... "

In that on this date, March 8, 2004 I had met with Ms. Dombrowski and Mr. Richardson

and thus I concluded that the parking lot was my office parking, I thought this to risk the

potential for violation of number1

above if I were to ask Mr. Richardson to bring hisdaughter to the office for her and Ms. Dombrowski to have a joint session. I would note

that if Ms. Dombrowski is in fact making reference to some interaction which took place

in my office parking, she did not report this to me or to my office staff at the time and

further, it was my recall that Mr. Richardson had left the parking area in advance of Ms.

Dombrowski and have no recall of their having interacted in that area.

Given the protective order issued out of Platt County Missouri, it was my

conclusion that any joint session would represent a violation of the second point noted

above and further should I meet with the parties individually and then attempt to share

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Judge David E. Bmns

RE: RICHARDSON v. DOMBROWSKI

Case No. 96 D 217

May 26, 2004

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any communication from Mr. Richardson to Ms. Dombrowski this would also violate

both provisions. I also concluded that my office has no resources which could be used to

provide child care/supervision of the daughter should Mr. Richardson bring her to the

office and leave before arrival of Ms. Dombrowski, I shared this conclusion with Dr.Rodeheffer (who shares office resources with me) and he agreed that we could not either

provide such supervision nor could we be able to insure that there would be no contact

between the parties.

I shared with you verbally that in light of the above, it was my recommendation

that any supervised visits between Ms. Dombrowski and her daughter be at Safe Visit as

they were prepared for such conditions as imposed by the protective order. I also shared

with you that I could not think of any way which I could effectively work with these

adults in addressing the parenting issues and thus I was asking that this provision of your

order be terminated pending receipt of this formal communication.

Although there are no formal allegations of Ms. Dombrowski having physically

abused her daughter, the presence of the Protective Order, in my professional opinion

leaves me in the position of having no alternatives to Safe Visit to recommend to the

court for supervised visits between Ms. Dombrowski and her daughter.

I am providing you sufficient copies of this letter so that you may distribute them

to the attorney's and the case manager. I am also attaching a copy of the Protective

Order. Should you have any questions or need clarification of any point, please contact

me.

Respectfully yours,

0..QL, ~;J,-< .~.William L. Alb~t-;;:.;:! .

Licensed Psychologist - KS

[Dombro\vski v Richardson letr I