10Habits

From Lucky People

Everybody says that health is the most important thing. But a little bit of luck could do more. Many victims of earthquakes or airplane crashes can be very healthy, indeed…Psychologists say that a certain type of behavior favors luck. Others say that luck is by the side of those who take their chances. Here are 10 habits from the lucky people we must know :

You have to behave in such a manner as if you expected only good thingsto happen to you every day, not just from time to time. Optimism is the key.

Habit # 1 : Imagine that luck is on your side. 

"If you're convinced that you're a luckyperson, you will have a behavior whichwill determine those around you to be

more receptive with your person.”- Martin Seligman, Psychology Professor at

- the University of Pennsylvania.

Shyness, fury and resentments turn people against us. How to oppress them? First, look for thecause of those emotions, in order to stop them before they control you. If you succeed, you'llhave a better opinion about yourself, you'll be more optimistic and more extroverted. Changethe way you see difficult colleagues: "X is very good at her job, even if she is short-tempered.”

Habit # 2 : Try to control your negative emotions.

We can improve our chance by putting more trust in peopleand in the fact that good things will happen to us due to this.It is honest people that are actually appreciated.

Set clear and realistic goals with your colleagues and clients, but be prepared: these canchange. If demands overwhelm you and timescales become unrealistic, deal with the situation. Communicate your worries to your team.

Habit # 3 : Manage expectations.

"Life is what we make it,Always has been, Always will be."--- Grandma Moses

You won't be luckier if you stay home. If you're invited to certain events, enjoy the moments.Exploiting them, you can improve your luck. Be always ready, be prepared to make mistakes.We will gain more by learning than if we stay isolated or we are not interested in what's going around.

Habit # 4 : Do not believe the world is yours.

"The world belongs to those whoDream Boldly,Care Deeply,

And Work Diligently."

Go to the movies or gym, retreat to the country; shifting your focus brings mentaland physical relief. You'll come back with a fresh perspective, ready to tackle your problems.

Habit # 5 : Find an escape. 

Listen attentively to the conversationof others, music, even silence.

Worrying can keep you alert, but wallowing is pointless. Accept what you can't do and get on with what you are capable of. Don't panic when everything seems to have gone wrong. Talk topeople. Sharing your concerns with colleagues who've been through the same experiences willoffer you insight and coping strategies, decreasing anxiety.

Habit # 6 : Take charge.

"If life knocks you flat on your back, open your eyes: Above you are the stars."

Those that obsessively compare their life with the others end up being unhappy. For instance, if you'reobsessed with the fact that somebody was promoted at the office, you will feel like a loser. Nothing guarantees that the person is happy. In most cases, promotions bring about more headaches. What'sideal for others is not necessarily for you, too. Just focus on your own goals and desires.

Habit # 7 : Do not envy the others.

Life's Goal 

"A Faith to Live by, A Self to Live With, 

And a Purpose to Live For."

The more people you know, the more pleasant and prone to luck you are. Why? Becauseif we interact with powerful people they can share some information and introduce you toimportant persons. The more people you know, the more opportunities you will have.

Habit # 8 : Know more people

Many feel it is complicated to make friendships with such people and prefer staying home and party with close friends.It is actually much easier to keep in touch with such people,

through e-mails or postcards sent on certain occasions.

To be lucky, you should look at the past from a positive angle and at the present with optimism.People that pretend they're lucky remember more often the good experiences in their life than the bad ones. If something bad happens to them, they compare it with their worst situation fromwhich they managed to come out winning.

Habit # 9 : See the good part of the things. 

"We do not understandJoy, until we have felt sorrow;Faith until we are tested;Peace, until we are faced with conflict;Trust, until we are betrayed;Love until it is lost;Hope, until we are faced with doubts."

Habit # 10 : Create Happy Endings Whenever PossibleThe power of endings is quite remarkable.  People always remember the ending.  If theending is happy, the experience creates happiness.  Always tie loose ends, leave thingson a good note, and create happy endings in your life whenever possible.

"Never keep score in the game of life...Live happily."

Taking your chance towards your dreams and goals is clearly vital, but it’s not always easy to stay consistent and build momentum. Taking action is one of those important pieces to the puzzle along with proper planning and the drive to succeed. Grow these 10 important habits by taking action now and you will be lucky in your life!!!

"The contacts you establish in life, can at times open doors for you. If you use your knowledge and your ability to knowwhere that knowledge can be the most beneficial to you andyour contacts, then you will succeed and be the lucky person.

Thank You Very MuchSompong Yusoontorn