+ ba 234- business communications february 28, 2011
TRANSCRIPT
+Overview for Today
Develop results-oriented communication skills for working effectively with different people
Define your behavioral preferences
Develop skills to held you identify different styles
Reflect on the different expectations
Adapt the way you work with others
+Questions
What challenges do you face:
-Communicating with others?
-Building productive relationships at work?
What impact do these challenges have on your work and business results?
Select one or two relationships you would like to work on during the workshop.
Three adjectives that describe you
Get prepared to share your answers with the class
Please answer the following questions individually
+Personal Behavioral Style
The next page shows 10 groups with 4 descriptive terms each.
For each group, decide which term is most applicable to you(4 points) and which is least applicable (1 point). Then decide which word is the next most applicable (3 points) and the next least applicable (2 points).
Please note down the points in the column marked .
The faster you decide the better. Please answer honestly and don’t try to give a “desirable” answer.
How is the questionnaire to be completed? 5 minutes
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B
C
D
Total: 100
Risk-taker
Good listener
Precise Generous
Consistent
Motivating Target-oriented
Critical
Assertive
Conscientious
Gregarious
Trusting
Charming
Reliable
Independent Self-disciplined
Convincing
Self-confident
Supportive Analytical
Forceful
Retiring Impulsive
Loyal
Controlled
Harmonious
Dedicated
Decisive
Direct
Accurate
Team-player Sociable
Patient
Diplomatic Enthusiastic
Target-oriented
Demanding
Optimistic Considerate
Trusting
Personal Behavioral Style
+Premises of the Model
We are creatures of habit.
We make judgments about other people.
Perception is everything.
+Definition: Assertiveness
The way in which a person is perceived as attempting to influence the thoughts and
actions of others
+Definition: Responsiveness
The way in which a person is perceived as expressing feelings when relating to
others
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People perceive their environment in different ways and tend to respond to it in similarly different ways. Consequently, there are four different behavioral styles: Processor, Pusher, Player and Pleaser.
Task-oriented
People-oriented
Highly assertive/Not very assertive/
Pleaser Player
PusherProcessor
Personal Behavioral Style
The 4P Model
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Strengths Concentrates on important details Makes decisions in a very structured
wayand is more objective than the others
Follows procedures and standards Is very diplomatic Tends towards critical thought and asks
questions Works under controlled conditions
Weaknesses
Gets lost in details Doesn’t like handing in work or delegating Follows rules/standards too rigidly Tries to avoid mistakes and hesitant in
making decisions Unwilling to try anything new Quick to take criticism personally Cautious in thought and tends towards
pessimism
Needs
Precise tasks/ job description Precisely defined performance targets Enough time to complete tasks Time for careful planning Detailed, high-quality work
Requires confirmation and security guarantees Opportunity for constructive criticism Specific feedback in relation to the services
rendered Tolerance in tense situations/ conflicts
Characteristics of Behavioural StylesThe Processor
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Strengths
Takes the lead Sets things moving Concentrates on immediate results Makes decisions quickly Accepts challenges Questions the status quo Very solutions-oriented
Weaknesses
Insensitive to the feelings of others Overlooks risks and warning signals Ignores important details Causes tension in teams Takes on too many tasks at once Demands too much of others Is over-controlling of others
Needs
A strong, extremely influential position New, different tasks Difficult tasks Works independently Direct answers, fewer discussions
Little control or monitoring Possibility of personal success Challenges and image Occasional “warning shots across the bow” Opportunity for practical experience
Characteristics of Behavioural StylesThe Pusher
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Strengths
Very gregarious and like to entertain others Creates a motivating atmosphere Exudes optimism and enthusiasm Likes to be the center of attention Likes to work in a team Can express himself clearly Expresses his feelings to others
Weaknesses
Doesn’t think things through to their logical conclusion
Not objective in the decision-making process
Regards opportunities too optimistically Talks too much and is too impulsive Tries to do too much at once Doesn’t like to be alone
Needs
Friendly, pleasant surroundings Freedom from details work and controls The opportunity to make suggestions Public recognition of his skills To be able to advise others
Freedom to express himself A “roll your sleeves up” attitude
Characteristics of Behavioural StylesThe Player
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Strengths
Likes to stay in one location Communicative, has a calming effect on
others Concentrates on people Creates a stable environment Observes accepted procedures Develops special expertise Listens attentively and patiently
Weaknesses
Rejects changes Does not meet deadlines under pressure Too tolerant and considerate Indecisive, never makes a decision Puts things off Often suppresses his own needs
Needs
Serious recognition As little conflict as possible Fixed, defined tasks Explanation and preparation of changes Regulated, ordered procedures
Recognition for work done Knowledge that he is making an important
contribution to team success Colleagues of similar competence and candor
Characteristics of Behavioural StylesThe Pleaser
+How do I Identify the Behavioral Style?
Processor Pusher
PlayerPleaser
Low level of sensitivity/ sensibilityLittle emotion/ task-oriented
High level of sensitivity/ sensibilityLots of emotion/ people-oriented
Highly assertive/plenty of energy/ proactive/extrovert
Not very assertive/ not much energy/ reactive/ introverted
Distanced and cautious
Conscientious and disciplined
Wants explanations
Asks WHY questions
Ambitious and self-confident
Impatient and decisive
Wants to exercise control
Asks WHAT questions
Calm and patient
Friendly and cooperative
Wants personal contact
Asks HOW questions
Emotional and lively
Optimistic and erratic
Wants excitement
Asks WHO questions
+How is the Behavioral Style Perceived?
Low level of sensitivity/ sensibilityLittle emotion/ task-oriented
High level of sensitivity/ sensibilityLots of emotion/ people-oriented
Highly assertive/plenty of energy/ proactive/extrovert
Not very assertive/ not much energy/ reactive/ introverted
Processor
AccurateConscientiousSeriousPersistentWell-organizedPrudentCautious
CriticalMoralisticInflexibleAwkwardIndecisiveComplicatedSlow
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Pleaser
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PatientRespectfulWillingPerseveringPleasantInvolvedRelaxed
HesitantMeekDependentAccommodatingInflexibleInsecureServile
Player
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TalkativeInspiringDiscerningEnthusiasticFull of energyConvincedFriendly
“Never shuts up”Over-dramaticSuperficialUndisciplinedTheatricalManipulativeErratic
Pusher+ -DecisiveIndependentPracticalDefiniteEfficientAssertive
Strong personalityLonerHardDemandingAuthoritarianArrogantInsensitive
+Group Task
Please form homogenous groups (Processor, Pusher, Player and Pleaser).
Your task - describe the special features of your behavioral style:
Describe the strengths of your behavioral style
What are the disadvantages?
What do you need to be successful? (What are your needs?)
Design your t-shirt