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You are not your resume’! Ken Ewan KME Leadership Associates

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You are not your resume’!

Ken EwanKME Leadership Associates

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You are not your resume! ... how to become

intentional about your career.

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My “Story”

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More than my job

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Discussion

What would you

want to ask me?

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Why are you here?

Will this investment

in time be worth it?

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Will you become the person you dreamed that you could be?

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Future state

• What would a “day in the life” look like in 1 year, 3 years, 5 years?

• What would be important?

• What isn’t important?

• What has to change?

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Trajectory

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Advice to Sheryl Sandberg

“If you’re offered a seat on a rocket ship, you don’t ask what seat. You just get on.”

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Are you dissatisfied with the “Status quo”

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My intent today: Provoke your thinking

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How do you define Leadership?Exercise #1

Think about three leaders whom you have admired as leaders.

• List them here:

1)

2)

3)

• List qualities and characteristics here:

1)

2)

3)

Discuss qualities and characteristics at your table.

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Emotional Intelligence

8 – 9 % Technical Related Competencies

8 – 9% Intellectual Related Competencies

85 – 95 % Emotional Intelligence

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Success vs Fulfillment

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Increase self-awareness

Shift the observer

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5 Levels of Leadership

Where are you?

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Do you have the “self-

awareness” to assess where

you are to be able to transform

to where you want to be?

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Networking

Be intentional about getting your “time’s worth” from your experience at the Annual Meeting!

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Many communicate…few connect!

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Communication

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Connection

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Discussion

How will you use your time here?

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Growth

How does it differ from training?

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If you want more….

you have to become more!

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Nobody should be more interested in your

career development than you!

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Understand the “as is”…. Create the “could be”!

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Life is too short to be living someone else’s dream!

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Hang around with people that do what you want to do!

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Business Pyramid

How do these relationships

fit into my career?

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Business Pyramid

Dealing with things that go

wrong

Teaching/learning

Relationship

Principles & Values

Your way of being

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Career Development Planning

Own it… be intentional!

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Annual Development Planning

• What are the competencies required for the position you aspire?

• Are you aware of the competencies that you need to develop?

• Choose 2 – 3 to develop.• What actions do you need to undertake to

address the need (how will you enhance your effectiveness)?

• What does progress look like…how do you know?

• What is the timing for each action?• What support will you need?

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So what?

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Ben Zander- Music is the metaphor- Listen for the key points- Note what resonates with you

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An interesting perspective on Leadership

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjMgrLC50M8

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Ben’s Key Points

• Do not doubt the capacity of the people you are leading to realize whatever you are dreaming.

• A leader depends for their power on their ability to make other people powerful.

• Awaken possibility in other people.

• Who am I being that my people’s eyes aren’t shining.

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Discussion

What “sticks” with you?

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What are you willing to do next?

• To grow• To build who you are• To find your “why”• To realize your dream

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Books•The Art of Possibility – Ben Zander

•Lean In – Sheryl Sandberg

•Fierce Conversations – Susan Scott

•Leadership Agility – Bill Joiner & Stephen Josephs

•Leadership & Self-deception – The Arbinger Institute

•5 Levels of Leadership – John C. Maxwell

•10-10-10 – Suzy Welch

•Daring Greatly – Brene’ Brown

•I thought it was just me – Brene’ Brown

•Resonate – Nancy Duarte

TED Talks•Ben Zander

•Brene’ Brown - Vulnerability

•Nancy Duarte

•Simon Sinek – Golden Circle

99u•Simon Sinek – If you don’t understand people,

you don’t understand business

Magazine subscription•Success – Darren Hardy (Monthly CD)

Blogs/Newsletters/Coaching•Eblingroup.com/blog – The Next Level, Scott Eblin

•KME Leadership – [email protected], 240-454-2818

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Questions?

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Back-up slides

Career Development Planning Examples

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Career Development

• Networking • Relationships • Opportunity Creation

Business Development

• Organization • Team Leadership • Scope

Understanding/Development • Estimate development • Interaction with

Superintendents

Preconstruction

• Team Leadership • Feedback/Mentoring • Motivation • Support • People Management • Strategic growth of business through sales • P&L responsibility • ACCOUNTABILITY/RESPONSIBILITY

Operations S T R E N G T H Passion

Passion Passion

• People – creating relationships

• Converting opportunities to sales/projects

• Brand recognition for SI • Growth of the business • Importance to the

division/company

• “Thrill of the chase” • Winning • Negotiations • Team leadership • Accountability and

responsibility for decision-making

• BD/Sales/Precon combined • Excited to get to work • New opportunities/challenges • Grow the company • Measurable success -

accountability

Goals: 1. Leadership 2. Strategic decision-making that impacts SI at the division and company-level 3. Market saturation impact – brand promotion and growth through sales

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Future state visioning

• What would a “day in the life” look like for you in 1 year, 3 years, 5 years?

• What would be important?

• What isn’t important?

• What has to change?

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Give yourself an “A”

• Write a letter to yourself dated a year from today.

• Detail all the things that you did during the year to deserve an “A”.

Give yourself …

“a possibility to live into, not a standard to live up to!”

Benjamin Zander – Director, Boston Philharmonic

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Scott Eblin – Life GPS