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Children and Young People forming Relationships after ABI:
Relationship Status :
“Up for Anything”
Rita Greaves
Clinical Support Manager
JSP Ltd
Introduction
• Stage of development
• Types of Relationships
• Case Studies
• How we can assist
Issues relating to the young person
• Development stage
• Adjustment to change
• Expectations
• Pressures
Relationships
• Parents
• Siblings
• Extended family
• Friends in School and at Home
• Acquaintances
• Intimate relationships
How are the family coping: Parents
• Anxiety • Guilt• Fear• Tiredness• Loss of social contact • Job loss • Career on hold• Part time work• Financial difficulties • Depression or other Mental Health problems• Change in parenting skills
How are the family coping: Siblings
• May feel neglected
• Jealous of attention the young person is getting
• Angry with the individual young person
• Increased fighting
• Competition
• Seeking approval , wanting praise
• May feel Loss - Lost their parents
Case Study A
• Young girl aged 14years old • TBI at age 7 years old in Road Traffic Accident• Attended mainstream secondary school• Very immature • Minimal physical difficulties • Very significant cognitive difficulties • She was having difficulty maintaining any friendship
with any of her peers
She wants a boyfriend
Help and support provided
• Discussion about friendships • Education about relationships • Fun questionnaires• Hypothetical situations• Internet safety • Peer relationships• Brain injury education to school staff • Appropriate and suitable relationships • Sex education • Brain injury education to the boyfriend • Ongoing support to maintain her relationships
Case Study Two
• Young man 17yrs old • TBI at age 3 yrs old• He attends a 16 plus unit and attends college one
day per week• He does have some physical difficulties• Significant cognitive difficulties• Some difficulties controlling his anger • Has a twin sibling who is in a relationship
He wants a girlfriend
Help and support provided
• Anger management• Relationship with his Twin • Education about types of relationships • Social situations to meet peer group • Sex education sessions• Speech Therapy • Education with Support staff• Physiotherapy • Emotional / sexual developmental stage • Re assured ok to say “No”
How can we help ?
• Education and Explanation
• Do not assume
• Let the individual be involved in decision making
• Good management
• Firm boundaries
• Consistency
• Ongoing support to maintain relationships
We need to be there for the individual and the FAMILY when they need us.
Prevention
Ideally we should be preventing any crisis. If a crisis does occur then management of this is important.