Wrong Relationship,telltale signs that you are in one.

To try is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard of life is to risk nothing. The person who risksnothing does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, live, and love.

Leo Buscaglia

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Preamble

I felt inspired to extract the inspiring words and quotations in my books after working on my yet to be published book on quotes for singles. My prayer is that this quotes will inspire you to take the right decisions in relationship matters.

Shalom.

Introduction

Love is a powerful emotional feeling. Singles that are caught up in it are known to act in a way that is irrational.

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Sign: When the person that you are in relationship with is not born again.

It is easy to discountenance faith and beliefs when two people are in love.

Marrying an ungodly person or someone who is not as committed to the Christian faith as you, can be likened to buying a very expensive gadget without guarantees. You are not protected against any risk or malfunctioning that may and will most likely occur… Marriage is an expensive alliance.

Anonymous

Are you single and searching? Be singled out for Christ, search in Christ because anything searched outside of Christ will be filled with crisis.’

Dotun and Bunmi Okanlawon

Sign: When he/she is not living according to God’s instructions.

Marriage doesn’t change people, it only amplifies who they are. Femi Fasanya

To take a wife merely as an agreeable and rational companion will commonly be found to be a great mistake.

Philip Domar

If the person that you are dating is not faithful to God, you are involved with a potentially unfaithful partner.

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Sign: When the motive of going into the relationship is wrong.

When the motive for going into a relationship is wrong, you willdeliberately close your mind to the glaring flaws of your partner and it is a sign of trouble in the future of that relationship.

Femi Fasanya

Sign: When you are not comfortable with the company he/she keeps.

Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.English proverb

The company your partner keeps is a reflection of who he/she is.

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Birds of a feather, flock together.English proverb

Sign: When you will not consider other people’s opinion about the relationship.

You have heard the saying, ‘love is blind’, permit me to say that love also make lovers deaf.

Try to see reason with singles that are in love, and you will likely hit a brick wall. It will seem like throwing a ball on the wall, the ball bounces right back.

A Nigerian proverb said, ‘A dog that is doomed to be lost will ignore the whistle of its master.’ The same goes for human beings. A person that is doomed to destruction will not listen to godly counsel.

You cannot watch your own back.Femi Fasanya

Sign: When he/she is abusive.

Many folks have a mistaken idea that pressure makes a man's spirit. That is not true; it only reveals his/her spirit. Actually, what we are under pressure is what we are.

Tim and Beverly Lahaye

If the person you are dating has hit you in anger, call off the relationship immediately! Don’t sympathize. Don’t rationalize. Don’t play psychologist and look for ways to help. Say goodbye!

William Coleman

Sign: When he/she is not considerate in the use of words.

Words can build or destroy a person’s self-esteem.

I define words as processed thought vocalized.

Anyone who compares you with other people will eventually batteryour self-esteem.

Femi Fasanya

Sign: If you have not discovered your purpose for living.

There is no man on the surface of the earth that was not created to fulfill a definite purpose.

The reason that having a purpose becomes a determining factor inwho you get married to is because marriage does not bring fulfillment, only God and the fulfillment of His purpose in your life can bring that.

If you have not yet discovered what you have been created for, do not get involved in any intimate relationship with the opposite sex. If you are already in a relationship, chances that you are in a wrong one is over 90%.

Femi Fasanya

If you are a young lady, for instance, and you are asking me howto know a man I want to marry, I will say, look, ask the man, what is your vision in life? This is because where ever you are going orwhatever your vision is, is where you are taking me. I may not want to go there.

Isaac Digi

sign: When the relationship is based on emotional feeling at the neglect of other factors.

Permit me to say that great is the mystery of the emotion we call love.

Pre-marital sex creates a false sense of commitment between the two partners, because it has a binding effect on those that are involved in it.

It has been discovered that in over 50% of the divorced cases, the partners were sexually involved with one another before marriage.

If you are dating someone and you are involved sexually, you have laid a faulty foundation for your future with him/her. Stopthe sexual activity and do not be surprised if the relationship comes to an end. The reason is because when you began having sexual intercourse, the attention of your partner shiftedfrom you to your genitals.

Femi Fasanya

Sign: When the person you are dating is married.

I still believe any woman who wants to walk down the aisle with any man should take time to investigate thoroughly some facts about him.

Kemi Dayo-Ayetan

If your date is not faithful to the one he/she made a commitment to in front of God and man, he/she will definitely not act differently with you.

Check out the records, most time the married lover never leaves his/her spouse therefore leaving the other man/woman frustrated and with time wasted.

Femi Fasanya