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department | editor’s note

The holidays are here! Now don’t worry, this is not a time to stress, but a time to enjoy the wonder and

excitement this season can bring. One way to enjoy this season is to experience a tradi-tion that has been truly missed, but is back and better than ever, The Cape Fear Festival of Trees! Find out how this festival found new life with the help of our community. (page 24)

As for the gifts you still need to buy…we have some fun ideas in our “Ho Ho Ho Gift Guide,” and an article by author Kathy Sena, “Celebrate with Heart,” that reminds us there are other ways to celebrate that won’t bust your budget!

Also, let’s not forget one of the best ways to bring your family together during the holidays, helping others. The meaning of philanthropy – the love of humanity - is a wonderful lesson for children to learn and during the holiday season it can mean so much more. This month we offer a few new volunteering ideas to get you headed in the right direction!

Of course once the holidays are over, many of us miss those family moments around the dinner table when the best stories are told and memories are made. Why should they end? Writer Kim Seidel encourages families to continue strength-ening family bonds during mealtime in “Come to the Table Family Dinners.”

On another note, I would like to say how excited I am to be on board at Wilming-ton Parent as the new Features Editor. This coming year is going to be an adventure and I look forward to every moment! Of course, comments and suggestions are al-ways encouraged! Feel free to send your thoughts to [email protected].

Now let’s begin enjoying the holidays with some of the many activities posted on our calendar and don’t forget to visit the interactive version on our website! This is going to be a fun-filled month and we wish everyone delightful memories and lots of reasons to smile this holiday season!

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Candyland ChristmasIt’s that time of year!

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Tickets are $20/child (members) and $25/child (non-members). Parents and grandparents are free. Call (910) 254-3534 for reservations or pur-chase tickets on-line at www.playwilmington.org.

Santa and Elf Ice Skating DaySanta and one of his trusty elves will be practicing their fancy ice skating moves on December 17 at Wilmington Ice House! Everyone is invited to join in the fun from 1pm – 5pm during the public skate session. Christmas music will keep the party jammin’ while Santa and his Elf pass out their favorite holiday treat – candy canes! Hot Cocoa and other treats will also be available for purchase. So bundle up the family for a fun day on the ice!

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Wilmington Holiday ParadeThe Wilmington Holiday Parade will be held on Sunday, December 4th beginning at 6:15pm. The parade will start at N. Front and Walnut Streets and travel south on Front to Orange and back north on Water St. Don’t miss this wonderful seasonal event!

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Visit the Wilmington Railroad Museum on Saturday December 3rd from 4:30 – 6:30pm for the Polar Express Family Show. There will be a special reading of the Polar Express story, a visit from Santa, a special “first gift,” hot chocolate and more!

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department | growing up online

By Carolyn Jabs

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In a recent study at Carnegie Mellon Univer-sity, researchers talked to young people about their most prized possessions. Many said that virtual assets—music, photos, Facebook gifts and items in online games—were more impor-tant to them than material possessions such as clothes.

To parents, the value of “stuff” made out of bits and bites may seem dubious. Teens, howev-er, treasure these virtual assets because they are portable, can be customized and help strength-en social networks. According to the research-ers, many young people prefer a digital photo that friends have tagged, linked and annotated

to a photo in an album or a frame. Young people also like the “placelessness” of virtual posses-sions which are usually stored online so they are accessible anywhere. And they appreciate the fact that virtual possessions are so easily modified in response to new stages of develop-ment or even everyday moods.

From a parent’s point of view, virtual possessions also have advantages. For one thing, they minimize clutter. A music collec-

tion that’s stored in a cloud takes up a lot less space than a CD collection—and it’s eas-ier to organize. Even with younger children, some parents have found that kids get more satisfaction from purchasing an inexpensive add-on to a favorite game rather than a cheap plastic toy that is soon broken or forgotten. In some households, virtual assets have become the standard reward for chores completed or goals accomplished.

Virtual assets fall into two categories. The first mirrors goods that are available in the offline world such as music, photographs and books. At this point, most parents are quite comfortable giving kids a phone with a built-in camera, an e-book reader or a gift card for downloading music. When you give one of these gifts, you also get the opportunity to talk about and, if necessary, oversee content so you can be sure it’s age appropriate and consistent with your family’s values.

A second kind of virtual asset is less fa-miliar to many parents. These include items that exist only in an online environment. Al-though virtual goods are very popular in Asia and have been enthusiastically embraced by hardcore gamers, they have only recently be-come mainstream in this country thanks to Facebook games such as Farmville, Cityville and Sims Social. Many young people start playing these games for free and then want to accelerate their progress or enhance their sta-tus by purchasing items ranging from virtual weapons to playthings for virtual pets.

Virtual goods also include other apps that amuse, educate, inform and educate. Al-though many of these tiny programs are free, it’s definitely a gift for parents to locate apps that connect with a child’s interests and then scrutinize them to be sure they are free of ad-ware or malware. Here are tips that will help you give your child virtual assets that aren’t contaminated by real problems.

• Download games and apps only from trustworthy websites. Download.com, a site run by C-Net, does rigorous screening to be sure the programs it offers don’t introduce vi-ruses into your system or surreptitiously col-lect information about what your child does online. NEVER download anything from a

window that pops asking if you want software you didn’t request.

• Designate one credit card for all online transactions. (Don’t use a debit card because it provides less protection if you have problems). Use the card only on sites that show a locked padlock on the status bar and, if you use Payp-al or another online payment service, link your account to the card. When the bill for the on-line credit card arrives, go over it item by item

to be sure every charge is legitimate.

• Avoid downloads that insist you install something else before the program will run. Most programs depend upon Java (made by Sun) and Flash (made by Adobe). If you need to update either of these programs, do it di-rectly from the websites of the parent com-pany.

• Sign off on every download. Kids are im-pulsive. Some have run up big bills for par-ents by purchasing virtual products that cost real money. It may be inconvenient for a child to get your permission before downloading an app or a piece of music, but that extra step gives you control not only of spending but also of content.

• If you think an older teen is ready for a little discretionary spending, consider Facebook Credits that allow your child to purchase gifts or game accessories within Facebook. At the holi-days, this may actually be a good way to use up unwanted gift cards. For information about how Plastic Jungle converts cards to credits, visit https://www.facebook.com/credits/.

It’s easy to see why, from a merchant’s point of view, digital products are practi-cally perfect. Design costs are minimal, and there are no costs for manufacturing, stor-ing or shipping. From a consumer’s point of view, this almost looks like a scam—unless you think of digital goods as entertainment, as enjoyable and potentially ephemeral as the movie your kids saw last weekend.

Thinking about digital goods as entertain-ment also helps parents establish and enforce the same rules that apply to other amuse-ments. The ideal virtual gift will, of course, please your child but it should also reinforce your ideas about healthy, wholesome devel-opment. Even though your kids may not al-ways appreciate it, that kind of thoughtful, involved parenting is always the best gift a child can get. v

Carolyn Jabs, M.A., has been writing about families and the Internet for over fifteen years. She is the mother of three computer-savvy kids. Other Growing Up Online columns appear on her website www.growing-up-online.com.

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department | reel life

Steven Spielberg brings the classic Tintin to the big screen, Garry Marshall helms another romantic comedy, and Matt Damon buys a zoo. Here’s a sneak peek at what’s new in theaters in December.

By Jane Louise Boursaw

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life The Adventures of Tintin

Not yet rated; likely PG. In theaters December 21. Ok for kids 7+. Reel Preview: 4 out of 5 Reels. http://www.tintin.

com/.

Based on the classic comic book series by Belgian artist Georges Remi,

this Steven Spielberg-directed film combines four tales, including The Crab with the Golden Claws, previously adapted for the screen in 1947. Jamie Bell plays Tintin, a young reporter who sets off with Captain Haddock (Andy Serkis, a.k.a. Gollum in Lord of the Rings) on a treasure hunt for a sunken ship commanded by Haddock’s ancestor. The film is a combination of CGI and stop motion animation, thanks to producer Peter Jackson and his company, Weta Digital. Also in the cast: Daniel Craig, Cary Elwes, Simon Pegg, and Toby Jones.

New Year’s EveNot yet rated; like PG-13. In theaters December 9. Ok for kids 14+. Reel Pre-view: 3.5 out of 5 Reels. http://new-yearsevemovie.warnerbros.com/.

This movie wasn’t rated at press time, and I hope it scores a PG-13 rating. I’m guessing it will, since it’s helmed by the same folks who did Valentine’s Day, also rated PG-13. Like that movie, this one is directed by Garry Marshall and features an ensemble cast, including Ashton Kutcher, Robert De Niro, Sofia Vergara, Katherine Heigl, Carla Gugino, Sarah Jessica Parker, Josh Duhamel, Jessica Biel, Zac Efron, Abigail Breslin, Hilary Swank, Michelle Pfeiffer, and Lea Michele, to name a few. The story follows several couples and singles in New York City, intertwined over the course of New Year’s Eve. Sometimes these ensemble films try to tell too many stories and bog the whole thing down, but hopefully, that won’t be the case here.

Sherlock Holmes: A Game of ShadowsNot yet rated; likely PG-13. In theaters December 16. Ok for kids 12+. Reel Preview: 3.5 out of 5 Reels. http://sher-lockholmes2.warnerbros.com/.

This sequel to 2009’s Sherlock Holmes finds the clever detective (Robert Downey, Jr.) and his sidekick Dr. John Watson (Jude Law) join-ing forces to outwit and bring down their fierc-est adversary, Professor Moriarty (Jared Harris, a.k.a. Lane Pryce in AMC’s Mad Men). Guy Ritchie once again directs, with Rachel McAd-ams returning as Irene Adler. Also in the cast is Noomi Rapace, who wowed with her star-ring role in The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo (the original Swedish film; not the American remake).

Mission: Impossible – Ghost ProtocolNot yet rated; likely PG-13. In theaters December 21. Ok for kids 14+. Reel Preview: 4 out of 5 Reels. http://www.missionimpossible.com/.

I love all the Mission: Impossible films and still think Tom Cruise is one of the best ac-tion stars of his time. No reason to think this won’t measure up. The story finds the IMF implicated in the bombing of the Kremlin, so Agent Ethan Hunt (Cruise) and his new team go rogue to clear their organization’s name. Pixar’s Brad Bird directs (I guess The Incredi-bles was his warm-up for this film), and other players include producer J.J. Abrams and stars Jeremy Renner, Simon Pegg, Paula Patton, Ving Rhames, Tom Wilkinson, Michael Nyqvist, and Josh Holloway. As a side note, Renner’s charac-ter was specifically created to replace Cruise’s Ethan Hunt, when Cruise decides to step away from the franchise. Oh, and it’s rumored that six minutes of The Dark Knight Rises will play prior to this movie.

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We Bought a ZooNot yet rated; likely PG. In theaters De-cember 23. Ok for kids 9+. Reel Preview: 4 out of 5 Reels. http://www.weboughta-zoo.com/.

I can’t decide if the recent tragedy with the Ohio animal preserve will be good or bad karma for this movie. People might boycott it to send a message that it’s risky business keeping zoo animals (PETA has already called for the movie to carry a warning that special knowledge is IN-DEED necessary with exotic animals). On the other hand, this really does look like a cute mov-ie. Based on the memoir by Benjamin Mee, the story follows a single dad (Matt Damon), who after the death of his wife, moves his family to the Southern California countryside and starts to rebuild an old zoo. Maggie Elizabeth Jones, who plays his daughter, is so adorable she makes me want to dissolve into a swirl of pixie dust and float off into the ether to spread peace and joy everywhere. Scarlett Johansson, Thomas Haden Church, and Elle Fanning co-star.

War HorsePG-13 for intense sequences of war violence. In theaters December 25. Ok for kids 13+. Reel Preview: 4 out of 5 Reels. http://www.warhorsemovie.com/.

Talk about a special bond between a young boy and his horse. Jeremy Irvine plays Albert, who despite being too young to enlist, heads to France to save his horse, Joey, after the horse is sold to the cavalry during World War I. The nov-el has already produced a Tony Award-winning play, and with Steven Spielberg directing and producing, this film will likely be a hit. And who doesn’t love horse movies?

Jane Boursaw is a family entertainment writer specializing in movies, TV and celebrities. Visit her at Reel Life With Jane; follow her on Twitter; become a friend on Facebook; or email [email protected].

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Down Home: Jewish Life in North CarolinaDaily (through 12/04). Cape Fear Museum. Discover how Jews, through the process of struggle and negotiation, became integrated into Southern society and helped build a New South. Hear personal stories of hard work, dreams & challenges of Jewish immigrants. For more information, visit www.capefearmu-seum.com or contact 798-4350.

Salvation Army Angel TreeDaily (through 12/10). Independence Mall, JC Penney wing. An opportunity to support a wor-thy cause and make a child’s holiday special. Contact the Mall office at 392-1776 for details.

Visit with Santa ClauseDaily (through 12/17). Cotton Exchange. Bring the children to visit Santa at the Cotton Exchange. Take pictures and make a memory. Call 343-9896 for details.

Christmas by the SeaDaily (through 12/17). Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Fun on the boardwalk for families. Call 470-8666 for details.

Visit Santa in his Candy CourtDaily (through 12/24). Independence Mall, Belk wing. Monday – Saturday 10am – 9pm (with breaks from 1-2 & 5-6) and Sunday 12 – 6pm (break from 2-3). Fast Passes issued at www.shopin-dependencemall.com. For more information, call 392-1776.

Book Club3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Enjoy books and more! Please call 254-3534 to pre-register and visit www.playwilmington.org for weekly book titles.

Super Readers: Graphic Novel Book Club3:30 – 4:30pm. NHCPL Main Branch. Elementary age graphic novel fans meet to discuss books. For more information, contact 798-6303.

Enchanted Airlie5 - 9pm (through 12/21). Airlie Gardens. Stroll through the gardens enjoying the festive lights, holiday flowers, model train, and live enter-tainment. Two viewings per evening. Tickets must be pre-purchased. $5/Adults. $4/Children 4-12. $5/Parking Pass. Carload Ticket: $22/Car (includes parking pass). Visit www.airliegardens.org or call 798-7700 for details and ticket purchases.

Illuminate: Holiday Lighting of the ShipDusk - 11pm (Daily). Battleship NC. The Ship takes part in the Christmas season by “illuminating” from the bow, up to the masts and down to the stem. For more infor-mation, call 251-5797.

Ballet for Young Audiences: The Nutcracker7pm. Thalian Main Stage. Enjoy this classic in a condensed, narrated version for the whole family. Ballet for Young Audiences’ professional touring company introduces the magic of dance to youngsters across the US. Tickets: $20/prime, $16/choice, $12/gallery. Call 632-2285 for ticket purchases.

2 Friday

Holiday Concert SeriesDaily. Independence Mall, JC Penney End Court. Enjoy holiday performances by local schools, churches and community organiza-tions. Contact 392-1776 for details.

Turtles on the TwosAll Day. NC Aquarium at Fort Fisher. Promoting the “Year of the Turtle,” the Aquarium is offering special turtle programs on the 2nd day of each month in 2011. Call 458-8257 or

visit www.ncaquariums.com/fort-fish-er for more information.

American Legion Fish Fry11am – 7pm. American Legion Post 10, 702 Pine Grove Drive. $6/Plate. Eat in or take out. Call 458-4253 for details.

Extended Behind the Scenes Tour2 - 4pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. Visit the top of our largest exhibit, the Cape Fear Shoals and get a birds-eye view of this 235,000-gallon tank as sharks, stingrays, moray eels and fish. Participants must wear close-toed shoes. $20/Age 13+. $18/Ages 8-12. $12/Member. No chil-dren under age 8. Call 458-7468 for information and pre-registration.

Winter Flea at BAC3 – 9pm. Brooklyn Arts Center @ St. Andrews, 4th & Campbell Streets. Shop from vendors around the region: antique furniture, chic clothing, jewelry, glass, tableware, gourmet food, and more. Admission $5. Contact BAC at (919) 818-6406 or [email protected] for details.Holiday Laser Show4pm. Ingram Planetarium. Enjoy a holiday program with laser lights displaying holiday images on the Sky Theater dome. All ages welcome.


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Moravian Candle Tea6 – 9pm. Covenant Moravian Church. A Wilmington tradition for over 25 years highlights Moravian music and cookies, craft demonstrations and more. Call 799-9256 for details.

Ballet for Young Audiences: The Nutcracker7pm. Thalian Main Stage. See 12/01.

The Honey Dewdrops7 – 9pm. Playhouse 211 Theater, Southport. In the veins of folk and old country music, the Dewdrops mix harmonies with tight instrumentation to craft simple, fine-tuned songs. $15. For ticket purchases, call 200-7785.

Island of Lights Parade7:30pm. Carolina Beach. Parade will proceed from Atlanta Avenue down Lake Park to Federal Point Plaza. Floats, bands, and Santa will provide a night of entertainment. For more information, call 458-5507.

The Carolina Carolers7:30 – 8:30pm. First Christian Church, Oleander. This professional a cappella quartet takes guests on a journey though the music and poetry of Christmas past and present. Free. Donations accepted. Call 960-7464 for details.

Celebrate the Season7:30 – 9:30pm. Hatch Auditorium, Oak Island. The Brunswick Concert Band, The Brunswick Big Band, and the Brunswick Little Theatre Singers offer a free concert with Linda Ladrick as fea-tured soloist. Donations of non-perishable food welcomed for Brunswick Food Pantry. Call 278-9501 for more information.

The Santaland Diaries8pm. City Stage. One-man play about the author’s experiences working as an elf in Santaland at Macy’s Department Store in NYC. Call 264-2602 for age-appropriate information.

3 Saturday

Canine 5K and One Mile Turtle Crawl8am. Mayfaire Town Center. Compete with or without four-legged companions. $15 - $25. All ages welcome. Portion of proceeds benefit the Carolina Canines for Veterans and the Karen Beasley Sea Turtle Rescue and Rehabilitation Center. For rules, visit www.mccoll-associates.com/5K or call 350-1211.

Riverfront Farmer’s Market8am – 1pm. Riverfront Park. Visit Water Street where local farmers, producers, artists and more offer their goods. Call 538-6223 or visit www.wilmingtonfarmers.com for more information.

Pleasure Island Fresh Market8am – 1pm. Carolina Beach Marina. (Last opportu-nity this season.) Includes fresh, in-season fruits and vegetables from local farmers, baked goods and more. Contact 313-6005 for additional information.

Battleship Alive8am – 5pm. Battleship NC. Watch and interact with WWII living history interpreters as they bring the Ship to life by re-enacting daily duties and drills. Free with Battleship admission. Call 251-5797 or visit www.battleshipnc.com for more information.

ONE Coffee/Tea9am. Port City Java, 2099 Market St. Join Rachel Fox, volunteer Congressional District Leader for ONE (an advocacy organization giving voice for those living in extreme poverty), for a meet-up to learn what others are doing in the community to make poverty history. Contact [email protected] with questions.

Grand Re-Opening & Open House10am. Two Sisters Bookery, 318 Nutt St. Features 11am Pirate Storytime, 12 & 1pm book signings. Light hors d’oeuvres and beverages served. For more information, call 762-4444 or visit www.twosistersbookery.com.

Moravian Candle Tea10am – 3pm. Covenant Moravian Church. See 12/02.

Velveteen Rabbit11am & 1pm. NC Museum of Art. Come enjoy a children’s classic story about love and friendship. The performance includes The Tarradiddle Players. Ages 5+. $3/Members. $5/Non-Members. Purchase tickets at http://ncartmuseum.org or (919) 715-5923.

Santa on the Chimney11am – 2pm. Chimney Rock. Come see why USA Today named Chimney Rock one of the top 10 plac-es to catch up with Santa! Free with Park admis-sion. Contact (800) 277-9611 for more information.

Screen Gems Studios Tour12pm & 2pm. Screen Gems Studios. Learn how film-ing is done and view sets from previous productions. One hour walking tour. Arrive 15 minutes prior to tour time. $12/Adults. $10/Students & Military. $8/Seniors. $5/Ages 5-12. Reservations not required. Call 343-3433 or visit www.screengemstudios.com.Author Appearance & Book Signing12 – 2pm. Learning Express Toys, Military Cutoff. John Beausang, author of the What’s It Called series for NC college sports fans-to-be will be at the store for book signing. Come dressed in col-lege sports fan attire. Call 509-0153 for details.

Cape Fear Festival of Trees & Nutcracker Ballet1 & 5pm. Minnie Evans Art Center. Prepare for a fan-tastic festival along with the full-scale professional “Nutcracker.” Tickets $25. Visit http://www.capefearfes-tivaloftrees.org/nutcracker.html for flyer information.

Toy Science1 – 4pm. Cape Fear Museum. Explore toys that spin, balance, and roll to uncover the scientific prin-ciples involved in play. Create a toy to take home. Free with Museum admission. Ages 5-12. Call 798-4362 or visit www.capefearmuseum.com for details.

Aquarist Apprentice2 – 4:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. Join staff on a behind-the-scenes tour and participate in daily care and maintenance tasks. Includes an ani-mal feeding. All participants wear closed-toe shoes. $25/Ages 13+. $23/Ages 10-12. $17/Members. (Price includes Aquarium admission.) Ages 10+ welcome. Call 458-7468 for required pre-registra-tion. Visit www.ncaquariums.com for details.

Old Wilmington by Candlelight Tour4 – 8pm. Latimer House & Downtown Wilmington. Usher in the holiday season with this festive walking tour. See private & public sites in the historic district of Wilmington. Tickets $30. For details, call 762-0492.

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Polar Express Holiday Show4:30 & 6:30pm. Wilmington Railroad Museum. Enjoy a family favorite: reading of the classic story, visit from Santa, special “first gift,” treats and hot chocolate. $5/person. Call 763-2634 for required reservations and all dates. Visit www.wrrm.org for details.

Christmas by the Sea5 – 9pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. Entertaining activities include fire pit with story-telling, hot chocolate, live Nativity, caroling, live performances, puppet shows, ornament making and more! Visit www.boardwalkmakeover.org for details.

Christmas Flotilla6pm. Carolina Beach. Fishing boats and pleasure crafts are electrically decorated with lights for a spectacular display on the Intracoastal Waterway. Contact 458-0211 for details.

A Christmas Carol7pm. Durham Performing Arts Center. Theatre in the Park’s original musical comedy adaption of this classic. Tickets start at $27. Contact (919) 680-2787 or www.dpacnc.com for information.

Ophiuchus’ Birthday Celebration7 – 8:30pm. Ingram Planetarium. Contact the Planetarium for details at 575-0033.

Wilmington Symphony Concert8 – 10pm. UNCW Kenan Auditorium. The Symphony accompanies the Girls’ Choir of Wilmington performing songs of Hanukkah and Christmas, and Marva Robinson and the Williston Alumni Choir as they exhilarate the audience with A Gospel Christmas. Contact 962-3500 for ticket information.

4 Sunday

Airlie Gardens Free Day9am - 5pm. Airlie Gardens. Visit the parks and Arboretum for a full day of family fun for free on the first Sunday of each month. Contact 798-7700 or visit www.airliegardens.org for more information.

19th Annual Toys for Tots Ride10am. Carolina Coast Harley Davidson. Stop by, donate a new, unwrapped toy and be ready to leave at noon for an escorted ride through town. Call 791-9997 for details.

Aniwave Festival10am. Wilmington Convention Center. Call 251-5101 for event information.

Plantation Christmas12 – 5pm. Poplar Grove Plantation. Step back in time and share Christmas wishes with Santa & Mrs. Claus and listen to them read Christmas stories. Arts and Craft Show in the Cultural Arts Center (aka “barn”). For details call 686-9518 or visit www.poplargrove.com.

Cape Fear Festival of Trees & Nutcracker Ballet1pm. Minnie Evans Art Center. See 12/02.

Candyland Christmas1pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Come visit Santa, make picture frames, enjoy caroling and making gingerbread houses, create homemade ornaments and more! Call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org for more information.


Behind the Scenes Tour1 – 2:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. Come explore the spaces for animal holding, husbandry, life support systems, and backstage accesses to exhibits that are hidden behind the aquarium walls. Guided tour. $15/Ages 13+. $13/Ages 8-12. $7/Members. Children under age 8 not permitted. For required pre-registration, call 458-7468.

Museum Carts1 – 3pm. Cape Fear Museum. Handle artifacts, conduct experiments, and play fun games at facili-tated carts stationed throughout the Museum. All ages welcomed. Free with Museum admission. For details, call 798-4350 or visit www.capefearmuseum.com.

Cape Fear Museum Free Day1 – 5pm. Cape Fear Museum. New Hanover County residents are admitted free to the Museum the first Sunday of every month. Call 798-4350 or visit www.capefearmuseum.com for information.

A Christmas Carol2pm. Durham Performing Arts Center. See 12/03.

Hattitude Holiday Tea, Hat Fashion Show & Spoken Word2 – 4pm. Cameron Art Museum. An opportunity to get dressed up for the holidays, wear a favorite hat, and enjoy an evening filled with activity. $30/CAM Members. $35/Non-Members. $25/Seniors & Youths. Visit cameronartmuseum.com/lectures.php or contact 395-5999 for reservations.

1st Anniversary Celebration2 – 5pm. Old Books on Front Street, 249 N. Front. Celebrate the bookstore’s 1st year at the new location and 30th year in business! Music by the Cosmic Groove Lizards and birthday cake from Sugar. Call 762-6657 or visit www.OldBooksOnFrontSt.com for details.

Old Wilmington by Candlelight Tour2 – 6pm. Latimer House & Downtown Wilmington. See 12/03.

Wilmington Symphony Concert4 – 6pm. UNCW Kenan Auditorium. See 12/03.

City of Wilmington Holiday Parade6:15pm. Downtown Wilmington. Join schools, bands, businesses and community groups to cele-brate the holiday season. Visit www.wilmington-recreation.com for parade route map.

Philadelphia Brass Holiday Concert6:30pm. St. James Parish Episcopal Church. Chamber Music Wilmington delights many musical tastes. Tickets available at Kenan Box Office. Call 962-3500 or visit www.chambermusicwilmington.org for details.

5 Monday

Winter Sleepers10 – 11am. Halyburton Park. Learn all about animals looking for shelter, hibernation, and how some ani-mals spend the winter Ages 2-5. $3/participant. Pre-registration required. Contact 341-0075 or visit www.halyburtonpark.com for more information.

Trash to Treasures10 – 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Recycled Wreath.” Take clean recycled materials and turn them into wonderful works of art. Free with Museum admission. For details, call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org.


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Brilliant Sky Toys & Books10:30am Mondays. Mayfaire Town Center. Visit www.brilliantskytoys.com or call 509-3353 for details.

Muddy Buddies3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Join the Muddy Buddy science fun. Free with Museum admission. Contact 234-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org for registra-tion information.

Holiday Matinee – Hansel & Gretel4 – 6pm. UNCW Kenan Auditorium. The Wilmington Symphony’s perfor-mance of a holiday favorite spotlight-ing the UNCW Opera Outreach Project. Call 962-3500 for ticket information.

Family Fun Nights5:30 – 7pm Mondays. Chick-fil-A Mayfaire. Call 256-0854 or visit http://www.cfarestaurant.com/may-faire for weekly events.

6 Tuesday

Pearl Harbor Day RemembranceBattleship NC. The Azalea Coast Amateur Radio Club hosts a world-wide ham radio operator event on board the Battleship commemorating the 12/7/41 attack on Pearl Harbor.

Contact Allan Pellnat at [email protected] or 431-3875 for details and times.

Leland’s Little Learners9 – 10am Tuesdays. Town of Leland. Enjoy storytime, arts & crafts and time outside on the playground. Free. Ages 3-5 (parents/guardians remain with children). Contact 332-4823 to pre-register.

Storytime10am Tuesdays. Barnes & Noble. Enjoy weekly storytime in the Children’s sec-tion. Call 509-1880 for details.

Winter Sleepers10 – 11am. Halyburton Park. See 12/05.

Fort Fisher Holiday Open House10am – 5pm. Fort Fisher. Enjoy live seasonal music of the Civil War peri-od and more. Free admission. Call 458-5538 or visit www.friendsoffort-fisher.com for more information.

Canines for Literacy3:15 – 4:30pm. NHCPL Northeast Branch. Practice reading skills with a certified therapy team from Carolina Canines of Wilmington. Must be an independent reader. Call 798-6373 for an appointment or more information.

Kids Cooking Club: Going Global3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Going Norwegian – Risgrot.” Explore foods from all over the world without leaving Wilmington. Discover new flavors and find out fun facts about a new country each week. Free with Museum admission. Call 254-3534 to pre-register.

7 Wednesday

Pearl Harbor Day RemembranceBattleship NC. See 12/06.

Poplar Grove F armer’s Market8am – 1pm. Poplar Grove Plantation. This market offers fresh fruits and vegetables, plants, herbs, flowers, eggs, honey, meats and more. Also features handmade, homemade and handcraft-ed items. Call 686-9518 or visit www.poplargrove.com for more information.

Baby Holiday Musik10am. Learning Express Toys, Military Cutoff. Enjoy music, rhythm and movement with Kindermusik educa-tor, Karen Stirnitzke. Ages newborn to 1 . Free. Reservations recom-mended. Contact 509-0153 to reserve a spot.

Preschool Science10 - 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “ Applesauce Cinnamon Dough.” Visit the Museum for Preschool Science fun! Call 254-3534 or www.playwilmington.org for regis-tration details.

Volunteer Open House10am – 12pm. Cape Fear Museum. Discover how to become part of this dedicated team. Opportunities avail-able in various areas. Call 798-4366 with questions about the program.

Mother Goose Math & Science Family Program10:30 – 11:30am. NHCPL Main Branch. Enjoy read aloud time and fun designing snowmen, snowflakes, winter animals and more! Ages 2-8 plus parent or guardian. Call 798-6365 with questions.

Extended Behind the Scenes Tour2 - 4pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 12/02.

Fetch! Club Challenge3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org to pre-register.

Snake and Turtle Feeding4 – 4:30pm. Halyburton Park. Enjoy a brief presentation about the live ani-mals on display in the Events Center

and watch them feed. $1/participant. Call 341-0075 or visit www.halybur-tonpark.com for more information.

Teens @ 4:154:15 – 5pm Wednesdays. NHCPL Northeast Branch. Different pro-gram each week. Contact 798-6303 for details.

Music Honors Recital7:30 – 9pm. UNCW Beckwith Recital Hall. Showcases the Department of Music voice and instrumental stu-dents. Free. No ticket required. Call 962-3500 with questions.

8 Thursday

Gingerbread Cottages & Local Authors2 & 2:45pm. NHCPL Main Branch. Local authors join families for the annual Gingerbread Cottage making program. Register at 798-6303 to join the fun.

Book Club3:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. See 12/01.

Book Signing & Exhibit7 – 8pm. Bellamy Mansion. Join Jo Leimenstoll, author of Thomas Day, Master Craftsman and Free Man of Color to discuss her fascinating topic and sign copies of the book. Call 251-3700 for more information.

Wilmington Choral Society: “Christmas @ CAM V”7:30 – 8:30pm. Cameron Art Museum. Ring in the season with the concert that continues to delight audiences in its 5th year. $5/CAM Members & Students. $10/Non-Members. Purchase tickets on-line at www.cameronartmuseum.com or at 395-5999.

The Sound of Music8pm. Thalian Hall Main Stage. Thalian Association presents the world’s most beloved musical. $25/Senior, Student, Group Discount. Call 632-2285 or visit etix.com for ticket information and purchases.

9 Friday

George & the Duck Art ShowDaily (through 12/15). NHCPL Myrtle Grove Branch. View artwork submissions from the “Summer 2011” illustration contest. Call 798-6391 with questions.

The Grinch Who Stole Christmas6pm. Performance Club Theater. Don’t miss the Grinch, Max, Cindy-Lou and all the Whos! Purchase tick-ets at Learning Express Toys (Military Cutoff) or online at www.PerformanceClubKids.com. Call 338-3378 for more information.


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Kure Beach Christmas Fantasy Show6:30pm. Kure Beach Fire Department. Celebrate with singing, dancing and characters galore. Free. Pre-show features South of K bluegrass music. Call 279-0459 for details.

Victorian Concert with Susan Savia6:30 – 8:30pm. Bellamy Mansion. Enjoy holiday cheer and great music. Susan Savia will sing season-al classics and period pieces. Holiday treats and mulled cider complete the event. Tickets $20. Call 251-3700 x104 or e-mail [email protected] to make reservations.

Storytime7pm Fridays. Barnes & Noble. Enjoy weekly sto-rytime in the Children’s section. Call 509-1880 for details.

Christmas at First Baptist7:30 – 8:30pm. First Baptist Church, 411 Market St. The Chancel Choir and Orchestra present its 18th Annual Christmas Concert. Includes sacred and secular favorites. Free. Call 763-2471 for information.

UNCW Wind Symphony7:30 – 9pm. UNCW Kenan Auditorium. UNCW’s premiere symphonic band creates the highest level of musical communication possible through the performance of the wind band repertoire. $5/General Public. Free/Students with valid UNCW ID. Call 962-3500 for tickets.

10 Saturday

Tour of HomesAll Day. Carolina Beach. Take a self-guided tour through some of Pleasure Island’s most beautiful homes that are decorated for the holidays. Tickets available at Pleasure Island businesses. Contact James Allen at 458-5006 for more information.

Pancake Breakfast for WARM7:30 – 11am. Trinity United Methodist Church Family Life Center. Proceeds benefit Wilmington Area Rebuilding Ministry. $5. Call 399-7563 for more information.

Pine Valley Delivery Dash 5K/10K/1-mi Walk8am. Pine Valley @ George Anderson entrance to Halyburton Park. Raising funds for local food bank(s). View information about the event at www.active.com/event_detail.cfm?event_id=19877792 or email Jim at [email protected].

Riverfront Farmer’s Market8am – 1pm. Riverfront Park. See 12/03.

UNCW Marine Explorers9am – 12pm. UNCW Center for Marine Science. Christmas Island. Discover what makes places like Christmas Island so unique! Witness one of the wonders of the natural world as Red Crabs migrate from forest canopy homes to the edge of the sea. Ages 6–11. $15/child includes snack. Call 962-3195 or visit http://www.uncw.edu/dpscs/marinequest/explorers to register.

Santa Claus Cruise9:30am. Henrietta III Riverboat. Cruise aboard the Henrietta III to the North Pole to pick up Santa Claus. Enjoy holiday cheer on the Cape Fear. Admission is 6 cans or items of non-perish-

able food for the Salvation Army. Call 343-1611 for reservations.

Mungi Bands10am – 12pm. Learning Express Toys, Hanover Center. Local Toy Inventor appearance to introduce Mungi Bands, magnetically connectable and collect-able silicone bracelets. First 20 kids (ages 5+) receive a free pack of bands. Enter a design con-test! Call 251-6636 for more information.

Holiday Smiles Toy Drop-Off Location10am – 6pm. Independence Mall. Enjoy the live broadcast from Center Court for the final day of toy collection. Drop off a new, unwrapped toy today to be entered for a chance to win a $500 mall gift card.

Screen Gems Studios Tour12pm & 2pm. Screen Gems Studios. See 12/03.

Holiday Kids @ CAM12 – 3pm. Cameron Art Museum. Enjoy a day of holiday merriment. Santa visits to listen to wish lists and deliver treats. Guest musicians perform holiday tunes while families tour exhibitions, and create art gifts and decorations to take home. For more information, visit www.cameronartmuseum.com or call 395-5999.

The Grinch Who Stole Christmas1pm & 3pm. Performance Club Theater. See 12/09.

Literacy Live from the Cobweb: A Holiday Celebration1 – 3pm. UNCW Watson School of Education. Celebrate the holiday season by learning about the legend of tinsel and the spiders. Practice literacy skills by acting out stories, doing experiments, play-ing games, singing, crafting, and more! Ages 4-7 (must be accompanied by an adult). Free. Registration required at http://library.uncw.edu/cmc/literacy_live. Contact Kathryn at 962-7291 or [email protected] for more information.

Mungi Bands1 – 3pm. Learning Express Toys, Military Cutoff. Local Toy Inventor appearance to introduce Mungi Bands, magnetically connectable and collectable sili-cone bracelets. First 20 kids (ages 5+) receive a free pack of bands. Enter a design contest! Call 509-0153 for more information.

Toy Science1 – 4pm. Cape Fear Museum. See 12/03.

18th-Century Christmas1 – 6pm. Brunswick Town. Explore how the colo-nists celebrated Christmas. Costumed interpreters will provide guided tours of St. Philips Church and the historic Brunswick Town ruins. Refreshments served. Candlelight service. Free. Donations accepted. Call 371-6613 for details.

Christmas Festival of Homes at Landfall2 – 5pm. Landfall (non-Landfall residents shuttle from the Forum). Enjoy Welcome Home Angel’s 3rd annual event to help improve the lives of children afflicted by injury or illness. All pro-ceeds benefit Welcome Home Angel, Inc. and projects for local families. $25/Person. $20/Discount Groups of 10+. For ticket purchases, visit NoFo Market, Realty World Cape Fear, Landfall Realty, La Bella Forma, Shaeffer BMW or call 392-2700.

Christmas by the Sea5 – 9pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. See 12/03.

Burgaw Christmas Parade6:30 – 9pm. Downtown Burgaw. Enjoy a parade featuring colorful floats, bands, Santa and more in historic Burgaw. Call 259-9817 for details.

11 Sunday

The Grinch Who Stole Christmas1pm & 3pm. Performance Club Theater. See 12/09.

Behind the Scenes Tour1 – 2:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 12/04.

Christmas Festival of Homes at Landfall2 – 5pm. Landfall. See 12/10.

Wilmington Choral Society: “Christmas @ CAM V”3 – 4pm. Cameron Art Museum. See 12/08.

12 Monday

Animal Armor10 – 11am. Halyburton Park. Scales, shells, stingers, smells, teeth & claws are helpful for creatures to defend themselves against weather or other ani-mals. Investigate the “armor” that animals use. Ages 2-5. $3/participant. Call 341-0075 or visit www.halyburtonpark.com to pre-register.

Trash to Treasures10 – 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Paper Chains.” See 12/05.


Muddy Buddies3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. See 12/05.

Family Reading Night5:30 – 6:30pm. NHCPL Main Branch. Come to “Silly Hair Storytime” with an outrageous hairstyle. Cuttin’ Up Hair Salon will be on-site to dye hair crazy colors. Hear hairy stories, too. For Preschool-age children. Contact 798-6303 for more information.

13 Tuesday

Animal Armor10 – 11am. Halyburton Park. See 12/12.

Kids Cooking Club: Going Global3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Going Finnish – Curd Cake.” See 12/06.

American Girl Club7pm. Barnes & Noble, Mayfaire. Bring an American Girl doll and join the fun with crafts and activities. Call 509-1880 for more information.

Holiday Pops Concert8pm. UNCW Kenan Auditorium. Join the NC Symphony for a festive celebration. Hear music you love just in time for the most wonderful time of the year. Call 962-3500 or visit www.ncsymphony.org for ticket information.

14 Wednesday

Airlie Bird Hike8 – 9:30am. Airlie Gardens. 2nd Wednesday of each month. Free to members or free with Garden admission. $5/Adults & $3/Children (ages 6-12 years). Bring your own binoculars. Bird guides pro-vided. Visit www.airliegardens.org or call 798-7700 for more information.

Poplar Grove Farmer’s Market8am – 1pm. Poplar Grove Plantation. (Last oppor-tunity of the season.) See 12/07.

Baby Holiday Musik10am. Learning Express Toys, Hanover Center.

Enjoy music, rhythm and movement with Kindermusik educator, Karen Stirnitzke. Ages new-born to 1 . Free. Reservations recommended. Contact 251-6636 to reserve a spot.

Preschool Science10 - 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Make Snow.” See 12/07.


Fetch! Club Challenge3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. See 12/07.

15 Thursday

Homeschool Day9:15am – 12pm. Chimney Rock. The pages of text-books come alive in Chimney Rock’s outdoor classroom. $12/Student. $11.50/Parents. $7/Annual Passholders. Contact (800) 277-9611 to register.


Parent, Relative, Foster Parent Support Meeting5:30pm. 765 S. Kerr Ave, corner of Kerr & Fountain. Attend a support group for families who have children with special needs. Talk about issues that are faced daily: schools, doc-tors, and more. Contact Stacy at 264-5548 for additional information.

The Office Holiday Party6pm. Brooklyn Arts Center @ St. Andrews. Porch Theatre Company presents and all new, interactive, dinner theater comedy. Promises the finest low-country cuisine and laughs galore. $50/Advance. $60/Day of Show. Purchase tickets on-line at brook-lynartsnc.com, 888-512-SHOW, or the BAC Box Office. Contact 538-2939 for details.

Holiday Lights Trolley Tour 6 & 7:30pm (through 12/23). Downtown

Wilmington. Take a festive 45-minute tour through some of Wilmington’s best decorated neighbor-hoods on an authentically reproduced trolley. Music and narration included. $11/Adults. $5/Children. $25/Family (2 adults & up to 3 kids). For more information, call 763-4483 or visit www.wilmingtontrolley.com.

Magic Tree House Club7pm. Barnes & Noble. Everyone’s welcome at the Magic Tree House meeting. Talk about Jack and Annie’s adventures, make a craft and enjoy activity time. Call 509-1880 for more information.

16 Friday

Sea Squirts Breakfast with the Fishes8 - 9am. NC Aquarium at Fort Fisher. Kids ages 1-3 meet animal friends up close, hear a fishy story and have playtime in the Freshwater Wonders Room. Call 458-7468 for cost and pre-registration.


Elmo Claus4 – 5pm. Learning Express Toys, Military Cutoff. Don’t miss this event to bring the kids…and the camera! Call 509-0153 for details.

Laser Show5 & 6pm. Ingram Planetarium. “Laseropolis & Laser Pop.” Contact the Planetarium for details at 575-0033.

70th Anniversary: Hannah Block USO5:30pm. Hannah Block/Community Arts Center, 120 S. 2nd St. Features NHC public school children remembering the home front through history interpretations, music, and art presentations. Call 793-6393 for more information.

Christmas Caroling with Santa & His Special “Reindeer”6 – 10pm (through 12/24). Downtown Wilmington. Come and sing Christmas carols with Santa and his “reindeer” as you tour the town. Warm lap blan-kets provided. $12/Adult. $5/child under age 12. Free candy canes for children. For details, visit www.horsedrawntours.com.

17 Saturday

Riverfront Farmer’s Market8am – 1pm. Riverfront Park. (Last opportunity this season.) See 12/03.

Jingle Bell Run9am. Wrightsville Beach Museum. Join the fun at this 3rd annual 5K event. Dress in holiday apparel and experience the run that benefits a special Museum. Call 256-2569 or visit www.active.com for registration information.

Elmo Claus10 – 11am. Learning Express Toys, Hanover Center. Don’t miss this event to bring the kids…and the camera! Call 251-6636 for details.

Colonial Christmas10am – 4pm. Burgwin-Wright House Museum, 224 Market. The home will be decorated in the 1700’s Christmas tradition while visitors are entertained by colonial dancers, weaving and spinning, displays, and tours. Tickets $10. Call 762-0570 or visit www.burgwinwrighthouse.com for more information.


Screen Gems Studios Tour12pm & 2pm. Screen Gems Studios. See 12/03.


Holiday in the Woods1:30 – 3pm. Halyburton Park. Embark on a journey into the world of life inhabiting a long leaf pine forest. Discover how animals and plants prepare for the holidays and the win-ter. Build a wintry, holiday nature craft. $5/participant. Ages 6-10. Call 341-0075 or visit www.halyburton-park.com for details.

Aquarist Apprentice2 – 4:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 12/03.

Dance Element Holiday Spectacular2 – 7pm. The Dance Element of Wilmington. Features a show/sale of fine art from area artists as well as live music and a dance performance. Free. Visit www.thedanceelement.com for more information.

Laser Show5 & 6pm. Ingram Planetarium. See 12/16.

Christmas by the Sea5 – 9pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk. See 12/03.

18 Sunday

Colonial Christmas10am – 4pm. Burgwin-Wright House Museum, 224 Market. See 12/17.

Behind the Scenes Tour1 – 2:30pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 12/04.

Cape Fear Skies: Celestial Coordinates1:30, 2:30 & 3:30pm. Cape Fear Museum. 3…2…1…Blastoff! Discover how to use the coordinate system to locate objects in the night sky. Free with paid Museum admission. Appropriate for all ages. Parent partic-ipation required. Call 798-4357 or visit www.capefearmuseum.com for more information.

19 Monday

Trash to Treasures10 – 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Gift Wrap Collage.” See 12/05.



Tallis Chamber Orchestra Baroque Christmas Concert7:30 – 8:30pm. St. Paul’s Episcopal Church. Features soprano soloist singing the Handel Gloria and tradi-tional carols. Free. Donations accept-ed for Good Shepherd Center. Call 620-7207 for more information.

20 Tuesday

Kids Cooking Club: Going Global3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Going German – Gluhwein.” See 12/06.

21 Wednesday

Preschool Science10 - 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Make Marbleized Paper.” See 12/07.



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23 Friday


24 Saturday – Christmas Eve

25 Sunday – Christmas Day

26 Monday

Trash to Treasures10 – 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Soapy Snowmen.” See 12/05.


27 Tuesday

Kids Cooking Club: Going Global3:30 - 4:30pm. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Going Portuguese – Rabanadas.” See 12/06.

28 Wednesday

Preschool Science10 - 11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. “Make New Year’s Shakers.” See 12/07.



29 Thursday

Behind the Scenes Tour11:30am – 1pm. NC Aquarium Fort Fisher. See 12/04.


30 Friday


31 Saturday – New Year’s Eve

New Year’s Noon Countdown11am. Children’s Museum of Wilmington. Join the fun and count down the New Year at noon! Noise makers and confetti included. Free with paid admission. For details call 254-3534 or visit www.playwilmington.org.


New Year Celebration9pm. Carolina Beach Boardwalk Gazebo. Don’t miss the giant light-ed beach ball as it’s dropped at midnight and followed by fire-works. Free family event featuring a DJ and dancing. Refreshments available for purchase. Visit www.islandoflights.org/newyears.html for details.

New Year’s Eve Cruise9pm. Henrietta III Riverboat. Cruise into the New Year aboard the Henrietta III. Includes heavy hors d’oeuvre buffet, entertain-ment, party favors and champagne toast. $85. Call 343-1611 or visit www.cfrboats.com for required pre-paid reservations.

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With the holidays approaching, I’ve found myself chatting with friends about how we often regret spending too much, running around like lunatics with our to-do lists and stressing out dur-

ing a season that should be spent enjoying family and friends. So this year, I’m planning to make my family’s holidays more meaningful — and less crazed and costly. Want to join me?

• Plan ahead. Make a list of every last person on your gift list and

create a budget. Now. Don’t wait until the 11th hour to shop — when you’re more likely to feel desperate and spend too much on that fancy doo-dad the kids saw on TV on Dec. 23. You know the one. It’s just like the thing-a-ma-jig they were tired of by Dec. 27 last year.

• Give gifts that help others. The possibilities here are endless, but here’s one fun example: My family and I started giving gifts from Heifer International (www.heifer.org) a few years ago, and that has been a great experience. In your loved one’s honor, you can give the gift of a share of a sheep, a flock of baby chicks or a goat that will provide income and food for a needy family. Kids love to help pick out the gift. You can donate as little or as much as you like by buying shares of an animal or a flock, too, so this gift idea works even for young kids who want to contribute some of their own money. The organization provides beautiful gift cards to give to your recipients.

• Give experiences, not things. Does your sister really need anoth-

er scarf or bracelet? Instead, buy movie tickets for a fun girls’ night out and spring for the popcorn. Want to include the nieces and nephews and not break the bank? Make a gift of a movie night at your house and go all out with movie-style candy, popcorn, soda — maybe even hot dogs. When you buy the goodies yourself and serve them at home you can treat every-one for dimes on the dollar compared with those insane movie-theater prices. (Plus, you can plan this event for January, after the craziness of the holidays is over.) Even more fun… Make everyone a star and show old family movies as the “previews” before the show.

• Say no to new decorations. You already have boxes full of decora-

tions, right? (And if you’re like me, you whine about a lack of storage space.) Is it all that important to buy the new “must-have” decorations this year? Another option: Make decorations with the kids. I still remem-ber the fun I had sitting with my Mom and making elves out of pipe clean-ers, Styrofoam balls and red felt when I was a kid.

• Create photo gifts. They’re something only you can give.

Grandparents love calendars and photo books featuring the grandkids. My brother’s family and mine always exchange a CD featuring high-res family photos from that year. We email photos to each other during the year, of course. But we usually send low-res versions via email. To have all the best photos on a CD is a wonderful (and inexpensive) gift.

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Another winner: We visited my parents for spring break one year and for Christmas that year, we gave them a photo book that included the photos from our visit.

• Be a savvy online shopper. Check out PriceGrabber and other

price-comparison sites to find the lowest price for a particular item. And search Google for online coupons. If you want to buy something at a cer-tain store, just Google the store name and “coupon.” I’ve found coupons for everything from free shipping to 20 percent off my entire order.

• Consolidate your online purchases. You’ll save time and mini-

mize shipping costs and you’ll help the environment. When shipping gifts yourself, re-use boxes and packing peanuts. Also, watch those shipping deadlines and order early to avoid higher costs for faster shipping as the holidays approach. (Note: December 16, 2011 is the 4th Annual Free Shipping Day, with over 2000 merchants participating. Go to www.free-shippingday.com for details.)

• Buy local. You’ll support your community and you’ll often find one-

of-a kind gifts — at great prices — at craft fairs and school auctions. Plus this kind of shopping can be relaxing and fun! (And there’s usually a bake sale nearby…)

• Choose useful gifts. They don’t have to be expensive. A car-care

kit for a new driver. A gardening-magazine subscription for a new home-owner. A selection of spices or a fun cookbook for a budding young chef.

• Get creative with giftwrap. Try to re-use materials rather than buying new wrap. Use gift bags and fabric ribbons and bows that can be reused year after year. For gifts wrapped in paper, have fun with Sunday comics or brown paper bags colored or stamped by the kids. My favorite: Have little ones make handprints with non-toxic paint on inexpensive butcher paper or brown paper bags and use as wrap. The grandparents may love the wrap more than the gift! Leftover scrapbooking paper and stickers are great for wrapping small gifts, too. Use extra scraps of wrap-ping paper as gift tags.

• Focus on what counts. Whether it’s attending a religious service,

enjoying the school holiday play, making thumbprint cookies with your preschooler or playing Monopoly with the whole family, be sure to stop and really focus on the true blessings of the season. This year, my son is going to be playing piano in church, along with other young musicians, on Christmas Eve. For me, there’s no present that could appear under the tree that will be more wonderful than that. v

Kathy Sena is a freelance journalist and essayist. The best gift she ever

received was Matthew Benjamin Sena, born Dec. 22, 1995 and came home from the hospital on Christmas Day.

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The Wilmington Ballet Company entertains the Cape Fear region every year dur-ing the holidays with their magical production of The Nutcracker Ballet. This year they are renewing another fabulous community tradition, The Cape Fear

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The woman overseeing this magical two-day celebration is Ms. Elizabeth Hester, director of The Wilmington School of Ballet. However, for Hester this is not just an exciting holiday experience; she sees this as her destiny. Growing up, Hester looked forward to The Festival of Trees every year. When she heard the festival was no longer going to be a part of our Holiday season, she felt passionately driven to ensure the tradition continued. “The festival has always been an important part of our community and such a big fundraiser for the Lower Cape Fear Hospice & LifeCareCenter. Hospice has played an important role in my family’s life; I just knew I had to do something to bring the festival back,” said Ms. Hester. Having seen both sides of dealing with the loss of a loved one, she was determined to succeed.

When Hester was a young child her father, James Lawrence Wolfe, passed away from cancer. Hospice was not around during that difficult time to help her family through the loss. Hester had different experi-

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ences later in life when her grandmother and her father who raised her from 5 years old, George Harriss II, became ill. Both times Hospice was there to support her through the ordeal. Ms. Hester says, “My story of being without Hospice as a child and founding a community wide event for Hospice on the same year of my father’s demise is one of destiny. I believe it needs to be told so that the support for the work of the magnificent people who run Lower Cape Fear Hospice & LifeCareCenter will be enriched by educating the community on the impact it has on families.” Hester says this year’s festival is dedicated to her father with the proceeds ben-efiting Ashley High School, Wilmington Ballet Company and a significant portion will be donated to Lower Cape Fear Hospice & LifeCareCenter, all of which are local non-profit organizations that have played an integral role in reviving the Festival.

The festivities begin on Saturday, December 3 at 9 am with a 5K race at Ashley High School. The remainder of the festival will be held at the Minnie Evans Art Center beginning Saturday at 10 am with a public showing of gorgeously dec-orated trees, each with a unique theme.

One such tree, Hester says, will be the center-piece for the entire festival. This 12-foot memo-rial tree, sponsored by George and Sylvia Rountree III, is dedicated to Hester’s father who passed away last summer. Surrounding the tree will be an exhibit by N.C. Ducks Unlimited, of which Mr. Harriss was an inductee in their Hall of Fame. To top it off, a model train from the

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Many other attractions are scheduled for all ages at the Festival:

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Tickets to The Cape Fear Festival of Trees, except the discounted public showing, will include entrance to the Wilmington Ballet Company’s locally produced, professional, full-scale perfor-mance of the holiday classic, The Nutcracker Ballet. Hester says, “Our first ever resident profes-sional dancer is performing along with a cast of 60 local dancers and three quest professionals.” The community has truly come together during this holiday season to produce an event that all ages will enjoy. “The Cape Fear Festival of Trees and Nutcracker is the grandest achievement and over 3000 are expected to attend,” says Ms. Hester. This Festival will entertain and benefit so many in our area and will hopefully become a new tradition for generations to come! v

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• Drop off a gift card at the Salvation Army office, 820 N. 2nd St, or they can provide you with names and ideas for shopping.

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Call Cape Fear Volunteer Center (910) 392-8180, email [email protected] or visit www. capefearvolunteercenter.org for more information.

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Nourish NC is also looking for people to sponsor a child for the Christmas break. Sponsors are needed to help cover the cost of boxes of food prepared for “backpack kids” who need food over the Christmas break. If you can help, please email [email protected] or visit www.nourishnc.org.

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Fever Boogie

By Dr. David Hill

There is little more alarming than the mo-ment you touch your child and realize she’s running a fever. In fact, fever ac-

counts for 30% of visits to pediatricians and up to half of afterhours calls. Fever is usually a normal response to a minor infection. But for newborns, fever can be a sign of lifethreaten-ing illness. So let’s learn a little more about this hot topic.

What is a normal temperature?We all learned in elementary school that

normal body temperature is 98.6° Fahrenheit (37° Celsius). That number comes from a sci-entist (Wunderlich) who stuck a thermometer in 25,000 adults’ armpits in 1868. More recent studies in adults show there’s a range of normal oral temperatures, from 35.6° C (96° F) to 38.2° C (100.8° F). Only 8% of the subjects actually had a temperature of 98.6°! Furthermore, a per-son’s temperature changes over the course of the day by as much as 1° C (1.8° F), lowest around 6:00 AM and highest at 6:00 PM.

So then what’s a fever?Doctors define the following temperatures

as fevers: • Rectal temperature greater than 38° C

(100.4° F) • Tympanic (ear) temperature greater than

38° C (100.4° F) • Oral temperature greater than 37.8° C (100° F) • Axillary (armpit) temperature greater than 37.2° C (99° F)

What’s the best way to take a temperature?Rectal temperature remains the gold stan-

dard for infants and children too young to hold a thermometer under their tongues. For older children and adults an oral thermometer is fine. Newer digital thermometers work well, and ac-cording to Consumer Reports, the best ones are often also the least expensive. Tympanic (ear) thermometers are tricky to use and may not always be accurate; the same goes for pacifier thermometers. Temperatures taken under the arm (axillary) are notoriously inaccurate, de-tecting only 50% to 70% of fevers. Forehead strips are even less accurate. What about mom’s hand? Parents who feel their child has a fever are right about 22% of the time.

What’s up with the chills and sweats?A part of the brain called the hypothalamus

serves as our body’s thermostat. If the hypothala-

mus senses we’re too cold it drives voluntary re-sponses (putting on more clothes, going inside, running in place) and involuntary responses (shivering, contracting the blood vessels in the skin and extremities). If the hypothalamus senses we’re too hot, it triggers voluntary behaviors like jumping in a pool, and involuntary measures like dilating blood vessels in the skin and sweating. A child developing a fever will feel cold, look pale, shiver, and bundle for warmth. When his temperature exceeds the set point, he’ll sweat, his skin will flush, and he’ll try to cool off.

What sorts of things cause fever?Infections by viruses, bacteria, parasites,

or fungi cause the immune system to release chemicals (cytokines) that tell the hypothala-mus to turn up the temperature. Some bacteria, viruses, and fungi make their own cytokines, contributing to fever. Not all fevers are due to infections. Trauma, cancers, and autoimmune diseases like juvenile rheumatoid arthritis also cause fever. There are also rare hereditary con-ditions like Familial Mediterranean Fever that may cause periodic unexplained fevers.

Isn’t fever dangerous?Surveys show that many parents, and even

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cause injury. The one exception involves pa-tients with severe heart or lung disease who may not tolerate the increased demands fever places on oxygen intake. This doesn’t mean there’s no such thing as hyperthermia (heat in-jury). Heat injury comes from external sources, such as exposure to extreme heat or certain drugs. Children left in hot cars or forced to exercise in the heat can die from overheating.

What about febrile seizures?Fever causes seizures in 2-4% of children

aged six months to six years. While these sei-zures are often quite frightening to parents, they don’t cause any lasting injury or prob-lems. You would think that treating a child’s fever might prevent febrile seizures, but stud-ies to date have shown no fewer seizures in children given Tylenol or Ibuprofen.

When should I be worried about a fever?Any baby under three months of age with a

fever needs to see a doctor immediately. Babies this young can become severely ill with little warning, and fever is sometimes the only clue. Low temperatures (<97° F) are equally wor-risome in these babies. Infants aged 3 to 12 months are allowed a few days of fever with a cold, but they should see a doctor if the tem-perature is over 105°F or if the fever occurs without other symptoms (they may have a kid-ney infection). We allow children over a year of age an unexplained fever up to three days before we get concerned. They often have a viral infection (fifth disease, roseola) that ends with the fever going away around the time a rash appears. Any child with more than three days of fever should see a doctor, as should one whose fever goes away, then returns.

How should I treat fever?There is some debate over whether to treat

fever at all. Fever boosts immune defenses and may help defeat infections. But fever is uncom-fortable to children, and studies are unclear on whether treated children get well any slower. No child should take aspirin for a fever (even “Baby Aspirin”); it causes Reye syndrome. In the past, doctors recommended alternating ac-etaminophen (Tylenol) and ibuprofen (Motrin, Advil), but more recent studies suggest little improvement in fever reduction and some in-creased risk of overdose. Neither medicine has proven superior to the other, so pick which-ever you like and know that you can use the other one if needed. Both medicines can be lethal in overdose, so you should be careful not to give too much. Remember that many combination cold medicines include one of these ingredients. Sponging with tepid water may help bring a fever down, but if the goal is making a child more comfortable it may prove counterproductive. v

Dr. David Hill is a board-certified pediatri-cian with Cape Fear Pediatrics (www.capefear-pediatrics.com). He has three children.

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Ocean Inspired Art ContestThe NC Aquarium at Fort Fisher is now accepting original ocean-inspired artwork from full-

time students (kindergarten to university level).

This contest is provided to encourage young artists to use their creativity and talent to express the importance of our oceans. Each participant must have his artwork reflect one of the seven established “essential principles of ocean literacy” and provide a narrative explaining each piece (as directed in the guidelines).

Submissions will be defined by grade levels and judged on:

• Visual impact

• Communication of the ocean literacy principle

• Artistic merit

Ask your child’s teacher to help your child participate. Teachers may submit their top three en-tries to the Aquarium by December 20, 2011. Regional winners will be selected and displayed in the Aquarium and will advance to the national competition.

Please visit www.coastalamerica.gov for contest guidelines or call (910) 458-8257 x234 with questions.

Author Appearance at Learning ExpressLocal author, John Beausang, will appear at the Learning Express store at Progress Point (1437

Military Cutoff Road) on Saturday, December 9 from 12-2pm for book signings.

John Beausang is the author of a new series of books for the children of NC collegiate sports fans. His available books are What’s it Called? Carolina Tar Heels Basketball, What’s it Called? Carolina Tar Heels Football, and What’s it Called? Duke Blue Devils Basketball and Learning Express has them all!

Mr. Beausang has spent nearly 20 years as a freelance writer and copywriter in the marketing and advertising industry. He and his family live in Wilmington and welcome your visit to the book signing.

Auditions for To Kill a MockingbirdAre you interested in auditioning for a role in the classic To Kill a Mockingbird? These auditions

are for you, the parent!

Come out to the Community Arts Center (located on the corner of 2nd & Orange Streets) on Monday, December 12 from 7-9:30pm. No prepared material is required, but you will be asked to read from the script.

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Local RacesPine Valley Delivery Dash 5K/10KBenefiting Local Food BankDecember 10 @ 8am (new date)Pine Valley, Wilmington

3rd Annual Jingle Bell Run 5KDecember 17 @ 9amWrightsville Beach Museum of History

Visit www.wilmingtonroadrunners.org to find race information and registration.

Old Fashioned Fun!Do you have room to spread out just a little bit in your home? With just a little open space, you’ll

have plenty of room to play these indoor games to keep your family on the move this winter. In fact, if one of the rules in your home is “no running in the house,” you may wish to put that rule aside (at least for the winter months) and create an area where the family is free to run, jump, play and have some old fashioned fun!

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All of the above activities will get your bodies moving. Just imagine the fun your family can have this winter? (The only item that might pose a little coaxing is “clean the house” but…no worries…even that can be done as a race to get everyone involved!)

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Dance! Dance! Dance!There’s no limit to the fun you can have when you move the coffee table out of the way and crank up the music. Join your kids in moving, twirling, jumping, bumping, and boogying around the living room.

Dancing activates core muscles and helps tone the body! Fast-paced dancing gets the metabolism moving as well. It’s win-win for everyone!

Let the music lift your family’s spirits as you wiggle your way to staying a fit-family this winter.

Baby, It’s Cold Outside!

Brrrrrr!! Who wants to brave the outdoors for exercise? It can be difficult during the winter months to focus on keeping our bodies active. It’s often more desirable to curl up with a good book or a few video games by a toasty fire than to plan activities that keep us warm by keeping us moving!

Here are a few winter ideas for enjoying family time and fitness inside your own home.

Active Video GamesIf we’re going to spend much of our time in-

doors during the winter, we might as well choose active video games to keep us moving. Although games that can be played on the Nintendo Wii or the Xbox Kinect can’t replace real outdoor activi-ties, they can give us a great workout and promote spending time together.

There are dancing games, skateboarding challenges, yoga classes and more! Pick different activities to provide fun for the whole family. You’re sure to get much more than exercise out of these workouts!

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New hanover County:Traditional Schools: December 21-30 – Vacation Days/ Christmas Holiday

Year Round Schools:December 16 – Student Half DayDecember 19-20 – Teacher Work DaysDecember 21-30 – Vacation Days/ Christmas Holiday

Isaac Bear Early College:December 19 – Staff Development DayDecember 20 – Teacher Work DayDecember 21-30 – Vacation Days/ Christmas Holiday

Wilmington Early College:December 20 – Staff Development DayDecember 21-30 – Vacation Days/ Christmas Holiday

Pre-K Calendar:December 21-30 – Vacation Days/ Christmas Holiday

Brunswick:Traditional Schools: December 20 – Early Release

December 21-30 – Annual Leave/ Christmas Holiday

Charter Day School:December 16 – Student Half DayDecember 19-30 – Christmas Break

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Pender:Traditional Schools: December 21 – Early ReleaseDecember 22-30 – Vacation Days/ Christmas Holiday

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School’s Out!

Speak Up!Project Tomorrow facilitates a national on-line project called Speak Up. The project provides an

opportunity for individuals to share their viewpoints about educational issues. The findings are compiled, summarized and shared with state and national policy makers.

Wouldn’t you like to speak up? Simply visit http://www.nhcs.net/speakup.htm for step-by-step instructions on how to complete the survey.

The survey is open until December 23, 2011.

To learn more about the Speak Up program, visit www.tomorrow.org/speakup.

2012-13 School CalendarsThe New Hanover County Board has approved the school calendars for the 2012-13 school year.

Due to state restrictions, traditional students must start school on or after August 25, 2012, and the school year has to be completed on or before June 10, 2013. The calendars are mandated to have 185 days of instruction. All calendars include state holidays, vacation days, and 10 teacher workdays.

To view the calendars, visit www.nhcs.net/calendars.htm.

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The national John F. Kennedy Profile in Cour-age Essay Contest is open and accepting sub-missions from US high school students through January 7, 2012. The first place prize totals $10,000. Encourage your children to participate in this incredible opportunity!

Visit www.jfklibrary.org to find registration and submission information along with guide-lines and tips for writing a strong essay.

New Email Subscriber ServiceNHC Schools has added a new email sub-

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To become a subscriber of NHCS E-News Update, simply log onto www.nhcs.net and click on the E-News Sign-Up tab, located in the left hand column. Follow the steps to be included in the email roster to receive district-related news.

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have but will forget about by February.

Five Tips to Tame ‘The Gimmes’ This Holiday Season

We watch a lot of PBS Kids and Sprout in my house, and when I say “a lot” I mean “those are basi-

cally the only networks the kids are allowed to watch.” This is a decision we’ve made based largely on the fact that PBS Kids and Sprout programming are mostly commercial-free. Except, that is, for last December, when suddenly commercials for Pillow Pets started popping up before “Bob the Builder.” And then my children —ages 1 and 3 at the time — saw them in every store we entered, and recognized them from TV, and had to have them please Mommy please Mommy PLEASE WE WANT PILLOW PETS!

Have you been there?

This is the worst time of year for “The Gimmes,” largely because there are heap-ing piles of extra stimuli working against us. Toy catalogs arrive daily. Sunday newspapers are stuffed with flyers advertising everything under the sun. We shop more, indulge more, generally talk more about giving and getting

gifts, and we use presents as leverage. “If you’re good, maybe Santa will bring X, Y or Z.”

But the month of peace and goodwill doesn’t also have to be the month of plead-ing and “gimmes.” Here are a few tips I’ve gleaned from the experts, and from other par-ents who’ve been down this road before (also known as “the real experts.”)

1. Establish family traditions around gift giving, not receiving. Make sure the tradi-tions involve something kids can help with and get excited about year after year, whether it’s baking plates of cookies to deliver to the neighbors, or dropping by the local animal shelter with treats for the puppies and kitties. The key here is to keep the focus on the plea-sure of giving rather than receiving.

2. Stick to the “One In, One Out” rule. When a new toy comes into the house, an old one has to go. Make this rule clear, and remind your child of it as her letter to Santa begins to resemble the entire American Girl catalog in list form. “Have you thought about which of your things you’d like to give to a needy child?” will either get her spinning her generosity wheels, or backpedaling on some of her Kris Kringle requests.

3. Reduce greed by reducing gifts. Se-verely limit yourself (and overly generous relatives) to just a few special presents. Keep expectations low — or at least realistic — to help them learn the difference between the happiness of receiving a gift they love, and the simple thrill of “getting.” Most “gimme” tantrums and episodes are over the getting, not the actual gift.

4. Limit the “gimme” inducers. Pare down TV time, so kids are less exposed to com-mercials filled with toys they think they must have but will forget about by February. And whenever possible, don’t bring them shop-ping with you. The more they see, the more they want.

5. Model gratitude. Teach your child the proper way to accept a gift. When you get a fruitcake from the neighbor, don’t toss it aside as soon as the door closes behind her; slice it up and serve it for breakfast. Make a big deal that every kind gesture and every small gift means a lot; doing so will help them under-stand that a present’s price is not the same as its value. v

Robyn Passante is a freelance journalist and mother of two who’s shocked that her boys still love the Pillow Pets they received last year for Christmas.


4th AnnualEducation Fair

Thursday, January 12, 2012, 4:30-7:30pmThe Burney Center, UNCW Campus

Held on the centrally located campus of UNCW, Wilmington Parent’s Education Fair provides parents all the educational options they need to make decisions about their child’s education from preschool to high school. Parents and children can visit with representatives from private school systems, parochial, boarding, and special education.

Parents - Mark your calendar for these important upcoming events

Childcare Fair

Wilmington Parent’s Childcare Fair provides parents all the options they need to make decisions about childcare. Parents and children can visit with representatives from childcare centers, preschools, drop-in care, and special needs. For your convenience, the Childcare Fair will be held in an adjacent room in conjunction with the Education Fair.

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Greening Your HolidayEco-friendly tips for seasonal decorating

Winter holidays are full of rich tradi-tions. One tradition that the entire family can enjoy is decorating for

the season. Keep in mind that numerous earth-friendly options exist to help you “green” your holiday decor. By making just a few small changes this year, you can decorate in ways that preserve the planet—and save money for years to come.

Tree Options:• Live trees that can be replanted are the best

option for those that love the fresh smell of Fraser firs. If planting a tree is not an option for you and you’d still like to have a live tree, please make sure to recycle the tree after the holiday season is

over. Contact the office of New Hanover County Environmental Management at 910-798-4400 to get details on drop-off locations.

• Artificial trees made from recycled materi-als are the most eco-friendly option for those that enjoy the convenience of a tree that doesn’t need to be watered and doesn’t drop its needles. If you already have an artificial tree, use it as many years as you can. Once you dispose of it, the artificial tree will simply take up space in the landfill.

• The most environmentally friendly option is to not have a tree at all. To instill respect for the planet and nature in your family, start a new tradition in which no live tree is sacrificed and

no artificial tree made of plastic is purchased. What a great way to honor a holiday that is rooted in the celebration of life!

Decorations:Consider making festive decorations to adorn

your home. Beautiful garland can be made of spruce and evergreen branches from your yard. Not only is this natural decoration beautiful with the addition of ribbon, but it also smells wonderful. Edible garland is also eco-friendly and is a great family project. You can string the old standard popcorn, but also get creative and try dried fruit, chewy candies, marshmallows, etc. This is sure to be a kid-pleaser!

Be creative with your recyclables, too! There are many cool ornaments and decorations that can be crafted from your trash. One familiar project is to create luminaries out of empty veg-etable or soup cans with the help of a hammer and nail. Once a design is punched out, simply place a candle inside and you have a charming light source.

Lights:

Go easy on decorative lighting! Christmas lights consume a lot of electricity which is a strain on our resources (including financial). If you are in the market for lights that will save money and electricity, be sure to choose LED lights.

As you can see, simple decorating changes can make a big difference for the planet and your pocketbook! v

Brandy Metzger is a gifted education special-ist teaching in New Hanover County.

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Silverfin: The Graphic Novel (Young Blood series #1),by Charles Higson, illustrated by Kev Walker (Hyperion). Higson has penned a whole book series on James Bond as a teenager. Silverfin is the first of five books in the Young Bond Series by Higson. New this year is the Graphic Novel version of Silverfin. Thrilling, believable and sure to create new James Bond fanatics. (Ages 10 and up)

Gift: A James Bond DVD Collection

What Puppies Do Best, by Laura Numeroff, illustrated by Lynn Munsinger

(Chronicle). Numeroff, famous for “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie,” has another set of classics on her hands. Teaming up again with Munsinger, this series

has typically involved two stories in one. “What Grandmas Do Best” flips over and becomes “What Grandpas Do Best.” The same format is found for

Mommies and Daddies, Brothers and Sisters, and Uncles and Aunts! “What Puppies Do Best” continues the warm feelings of family relationships. (Ages 2 and up)

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Gift Ideas for 2011

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Special Events Main Library New Horizons/Ms. Annetta’s 5th Grade: Thursday 12/1 from 1:30 – 2pm#1 Super Readers - Graphic Novel Book Club: Thursday 12/1 from 3:30 – 4:30pmMother Goose Math & Science Program (Ages 2-8): Wednesday 12/7 from 10:30 – 11:30amGingerbread Cottages: Thursday 12/8 from 2 - 4pmFamily Reading Night: Monday 12/12 from 5:30 – 6:30pm

northeast Library Canines for Literacy: Tuesday 12/6 from 3:15 – 4:30pm

Myrtle Grove Library George the Duck Art Show: 12/9, 12/10, 12/12, 12/13, 12/14, 12/15 all day

Pender County Public Librarieswww.youseemore.com/PENDERPL/ Burgaw Central Library – 103 S. Cowan Street – 259-1234Hampstead Branch Library – 75 Library Drive – 270-4603

BurgawTeen Lounge: Wednesday 12/7, 12/14, 12/21, 12/28 from 2 – 4pmMorning Storytime: Thursday 12/1, 12/8, 12/15, 12/22, 12/29 from 11 – 11:30amEvening Storytime: Thursday 12/1, 12/8, 12/15, 12/22, 12/29 from 6 – 6:30pmFetch: Thursday 12/1, 12/8, 12/15, 12/22, 12/29 from 4 – 5pm

HampsteadToddler Storytime: Wednesday 12/7, 12/14, 12/21, 12/28 at 10:15amPreschool Storytime: Wednesday 12/7, 12/14, 12/21, 12/28 at 11am

Brunswick County Public Librarieshttp://library.brunsco.net/ Barbee Library – 8200 East Oak Island Drive – 278-4283

Harper Library – 109 West Moore Street – 457-6237Hickmans Crossroads – 1040 Calabash Road – 575-0173Leland Library – 487 Village Road – 371-9442Rourk Library – 5068 Main St. – 754-6578

Contact branch for December schedule.

Brilliant Sky Toys & Bookswww.brilliantskytoys.com Mayfaire Town Center – 509-3353

StorytimeMondays at 10:30am

Barnes & Noblehttp://store-locator.barnesandnoble.com/store/2156 Mayfaire Town Center – 509-1880 toddler storytimeTuesdays at 10amFridays at 7pm

Special EventsAmerican Girl Club: Tuesday 12/13 at 7pmMagic Tree House Club: Thursday 12/15 at 7pm

Local StorytimesAll NHC Libraries closed on December 24-27 for the Christmas Holiday.

All NHC Libraries closed on December 31 for the New Year’s Day Holiday.All Pender County Libraries closed December 23-27 for the Christmas Holiday.

A Butterfly is Patient,by Dianna Hutts Aston, illustrated by

Sylvia Long (Chronicle). The same duo that created “An Egg is Quiet”

has created another marvel with the same detailed attention to science

and beauty. Eager readers will learn exotic names such as “Moonlight

Jewel, Painted Jezebel and Ruddy Daggerwing.” There are few books

on butterflies that have such beauti-ful, lifelike illustrations. (Ages 5 – 10)

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Sketchy Behavior,by Erynn Mangun (Zondervan). Christian publisher

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forensic sketches, and creates the perfect image of a man wanted in four counties. He is immediately appre-

hended, which catapults Kate into celebrity status. All is well, until he escapes. As her safety is threatened, Kate finds comfort at church and the Gospel of Luke. A likea-ble squeaky-clean thriller for tweens. (Ages 11 and up)

Gift: Colored Pencils and a Sketch Pad

Julie Hubble is a mother and a freelance writer.

The Third Gift,by Linda Sue Park, illustrated by Bagram Ibatoulline (Clarion). For those who love holiday books, this one is uniquely introspective and has a faraway feel. “My father collects tears.” So the story begins of a young boy whose father is teaching him to harvest dried sap from trees in a foreign land. The gorgeous illustrations show how ordinary people can be involved in something extraordinary and sacred.

Gift: A small gift set of Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh

Pair these book ideas with a matching gift for the holidays!

Perfect Square,by Michael Hall (HarperCollins Children’s Books). Hall

incredibly takes a simple thing, a perfect square with “four matching corners and four equal sides,” and makes

it into an expressive story. What a grand accompli-shment! Each day, the bright and happy square is pun-ched and torn, crumpled and cut into a colorful array of

form and function. This could lead to hours of fun for both adults and children! (All Ages)

Gift: Reams of Colored Paper. Or a Tangram Puzzle (try the one by Square Root). A kid frien-dly online version can be found at http://pbskids.org/cyberchase/games/area/tangram.html.

F In Exams: The Very Best in Totally Wrong Answers,by Richard Benson (Chronicle). This book will be the item everyone passes around all day long, or that will be read out loud at the family meal. Benson has found the most creative responses when the answer is nowhere to be found. Question: “What is the highest frequency noise that a human can register?” Answer: “Maria Carey.” A little sugar and lightness will soften the real gift, a Test Prep Book! (Ages 14 and up)

Gift: ACT Prep Study Book

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If you knew there was a way—every day—to help prevent your chil-dren from experiencing a variety of difficulties, would you do it? Numerous studies reveal that regular family dinners are the magic

bullet for nearly every problem a family can face. So as you prepare for multiple family gatherings this holiday season, think about how you can make family meals a priority in the New Year, too.

“Family dinner is not bad-tasting medicine,” says Grace R. Freedman, founder and executive director of Eat Dinner.org. “It’s a public health intervention that involves family connectedness, laughter, and the potential of healthy, delicious food.”

Freedman, who holds master’s and doctorate degrees in socio-medical sciences and has extensive research experience in public health and policy, focuses on family dinners as her life’s work because it offers an answer to many of life’s problems. “It is actually one of the only solu-tions that has ever been shown to have a consistent and positive effect on multiple health and social issues, such as obesity, underage alcohol and drug abuse, social disconnectedness, low school performance, and unhealthy relationships to food,” she says.

Benefits of Family Dinners

Various studies show that families who eat dinner together do, in fact, eat better. They tend to eat more fruits and vegetables, and all family members are less likely to be obese.

“The direction of causality is unclear, but I think once you make the commitment to eating better as a family, you naturally start cooking

Come to the TableFamily dinners—not just for the holidays

more and making better health choices,” Freedman says. “There seems to be something about the ritual and routine of family dinner that sup-ports healthier choices.”

There has not been a lot of research done on “why” family dinner works, but it has been shown again and again that it does work.

“Family dinner can improve communication among parents and kids,” says Freedman, mother of three children ages five, 12 and 16. “Family dinner is a way to reinforce values in an ‘organic’ way. It’s not a one-time lecture on the risks of drugs and alcohol, but just an every-day reinforcement of what matters to the family, learned through dis-cussions on current events, telling family stories, or advice given over the family meal.”

In the most recent research findings in September 2010, The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University (CASA) states that teens who have infrequent family dinners (fewer than three per week) are more than twice as likely to say that they expect to try drugs in the future, compared to teens who have frequent family dinners (five to seven times per week).

CASA found that one reason teens who have regular family dinners are less likely to do drugs is because these kids are more likely to feel that they would greatly disappoint their parents. “These kids know they have to face their parents regularly at dinner time and might feel more ashamed or think the risk of getting caught and punished is great-er,” Freedman says. “Family dinners show kids that their parents are committed to family and the kids want to hold up their end of the bargain by not doing drugs and doing well in school.”

By Kim Seidel


Why the Empty Dinner Tables?

Along with chaotic calendars, many families give up on family dinner because it doesn’t match an idealized vision of what they think it should be. That’s because the food is not TV-ready gourmet, siblings squabble at the table, or it’s harried to get the meal done.

“All of these things are a normal part of family dinner: It is messy, expect that,” Freedman says. “Not every family dinner will be perfect, and if you are just starting them, it may be hard to get into the routine. It does get easier. With regular family time, you and your family will grow into a meal time habit that is rewarding and fun – at least most of the time.”

In her family dinner survey, the most important thing that helped families was making a commitment to family dinner, Freedman says. “Once you set it as a priority and set up the structure to make it happen, it becomes easier,” she says. “If you don’t really commit to family din-ner, it’s easy to let it slide in the face of busy schedules, and then it does really seem impossible.”

Along with making family dinner a commitment, Freedman suggests meal planning that includes shopping and prepping ahead. Then, there’s less thought required at the end of the day when walking in the door from afterschool activities or work.

Making Dinners Possible

Schedule your family’s dinners, just like you schedule your workday and children’s activities. “Write it in the family planner as a meeting that all must attend,” Freedman says. “Talk to your partner and your family about how to make it work and other commitments that can be changed or shifted to accommodate more family dinners.”

Ideally, start with family dinners three nights a week, with the goal of increasing to five or more a week, Freedman says. Add weekend meals, such as big relaxed weekend breakfasts.

Flexibility counts too. If Mindy Kearney knows her family can’t eat dinner together that evening, they enjoy a family breakfast to connect at least once during the day. “It will be interesting to see how that contin-ues as the kids get older,” says Kearney, mom of three children, ages four, six and eight. “I would like it to be a priority, but that may mean we aren’t eating until 8 pm.”

Busy family schedules are a reality. Sometimes that may mean one or more of your family members absolutely can’t attend the dinner. Experts advise to still sit down with the one or more children who are home, rather than completely forgo that meal together.

“I often learn things about my children’s days that I don’t feel I would have heard about, if I didn’t hear about it around the dinner table,” says Christine Steendahl, mother of four school-aged children. “If we didn’t take this time, we might go a couple of days without even finding out what’s going on in our kids’ lives. Being purposeful about dinner time makes us purposeful about connecting with our children.”

Steendahl understands, however, the extra stress that family meals can bring. “My No. 1 suggestion is to make it a priority. When you make something a priority in your life, you find a way to make it work,” she says. “I encourage families to use their slow cooker on busy days and to plan in advance for the week so all ingredients and recipes are ready to go.”

With her passion for family meals, she runs a menu planning service, dinewithoutwhine.com and menuplanningcentral.com, to help families take the hassle out of meals. “Even a few minutes of giving your child attention makes them feel valued,” Steendahl says. “If consistent family meal time is practiced, this is one constant in a child’s life that brings them security and helps them feel loved. A secure child is less likely to make unwise life decisions.” v

Kim Seidel is a wife, mother of two daughters and a freelance writer.

10 Tips for Successful Family Dinners1. Start young or start now.2. Keep it simple.3. Enlist family help.4. Relax. It’s supposed to be fun.5. Make it fancy. Or make it easy.6. Don’t be afraid to “cheat.”7. The better you eat, the better you feel.8. It’s OK to eat late.9. Make only one meal.10. It’s not a battleground.

(Source: Grace R. Freedman, founder, Eat Dinner.org)

Saving Dinner, by Leanne Ely

Also known as the Dinner Diva, certified nutritionist Leanne Ely is committed to bringing families back to the dinner table. “Saving Dinner” is divided by seasons, with 8 weeks of dinner menus for fall, winter, spring and fall. She uses simple and nutritious family-friend-ly recipes and provides a detailed shopping list for each week, plus time saving tips, and side dish sug-

gestions. You can even download a shopping list at savingdinner.com. If you prefer the Dinner Diva’s menus in your inbox, consider signing up for menu-mailers, also at www.savingdinner.com.

The Food Nanny Rescues Dinner, by Liz Edmunds

The Food Nanny assigns a theme to each night of the week and divides her book into these themes. For exam-ple, Monday night is “Comfort Food” with recipes like chicken pot pie and savory meatloaf. Tuesday features Italian, Wednesday is Fish/Meatless, Thursday is Mexican, Friday is DIY Pizza, Saturday is Grill Night and Sunday is all about Family Traditions. Each chapter (day of week) is packed with recipes your family will love. Additional chapters offer tips on everyday salads, breads and desserts. Throughout this book, the Food Nanny shares many heartwarming dinnertime stories about raising seven children with her husband, Steve.


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