widow makers
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Eight Months Ago
"Ammi, we are going to have a baby" Ahmed announced with joy to the quizzical looks of hismother as she opened the front door of home to let Ahmed and his wife Kanwal in. Now it was
Ahmed's face that turned quizzical as his mother's faced turned ashen. She turned around walked
briskly inside to grandmother's room. Ahmed and Kanwal exchanged looks and followed her.
It was large room with a large bed against the back wall. There was a large cane chair with
cushions beside the bed. There was a cane sofa against a side wall for seating visitors whichnowadays there were few. Ahmed's great great grandmother or Barhi Ammi was sitting on the
bed with her legs covered by a blanket and back against a pillow which was resting on the bed
head. She was in good health despite her age a few year shy of 100. On the two chairs, his greatgrandmother and grandmother or Dadi Ammi was sitting wearing thick glasses and a newspaper
in her hand and was probably reading news aloud to Barhi Ammi a moment ago. Both of them
were looking towards his mother who was standing silently beside the bed with what appeared to
Ahmed as watery eyes.
"Assalam-o-alaikum" Ahmed and Kanwal said to the occupants of the room in over lapping
voices which received a warm reply from Dadi Ammi as well as Barhi Ammi. "Masha Allah,you guys look very happy" said dadi. The smile grew larger on Ahmed's face and he relayed the
good news. Barhi Ammi on the bed said "masha allah, mubarak ho" and all the prayers that go
along with it and beckoning both of them to come towards her. Kanwal was blushing and Ahmedloved her much more in that instant. But that was not always the case.
Anyway, at the moment he was more confused by the behaviour of the remaining two occupantsof the room. Upon hearing the announcement, he say Dadi suddenly looked towards his Ammi
and there was an instant of sadness in her eyes. Couple of moments later she turned towards
them and forced a genuine smile on her face that masked the sadness there was moment ago andstood up to hug the husband and wife. A few moments later, even his Ammi came wiping thetears that she later called tears of joy from her face.
Four Years Ago
"Barhi Ammi. My son is a heir of respected family and blood that runs in his veins is royalblood. He is not going to marry the daughter of some new arrivals in the neighborhood whose
bloodline might as well be of the gypsies" said Ammi. Barhi Ammi replied, "Shaista! whats the
use of blood line when no one is willing to give to you their daughter." This infuriated his mother
even further, "so this means that we would marry our son off to any road walking girl who offersherself to him". "Shaista, I have seen more world than your and am twice as old as you. This
royal bloodline means nothing when the family is cursed and known as widowmakers. Who
would give their daughter to your son when everyone thinks that her husband will die withoutseeing the face of his first born making the wife a widow and son an orphan at child birth".
"Barhi Ammi, I didn't expect you with your five time prayers and tasbeehs and religiosity to use
this crap about curses and widowmaking to marry off my son to some tramp". "Shaista, it doesnot matter what I believe. Nobody is going to give their daughter to you without making some
inquiries. No matter how much they hate their daughters, no one wants to see her widowed".
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Two Years Ago
"Barhi Ammi, I have tried hard to find a suitable girl to marry my son but no one is comingforward". "Beta, listen to me. I know that you think our neighbours are descendants of gypsies
but believe me, I know their family for more than 60 years. I know Kanwal will be a blessing for
this family."
Five Years Ago
"Ahmed, its a tradition in our family that when the son reaches twenty five years of age, he is
initiated into the family business." Dadi Ammi said while giving him the tour of their textilemill. At 63 years of age his grandmother was a hard task master as he saw workers, managers,
even shareholders sit up straight whenever she came near them. "Your great grandfather started
with this business and with time his wife, and then I and now your mother has expanded into
other industries building an industrial behemoth." "What is the use of initiating me into thisbusiness if I am going to die in a few years like my father and his father before him". "Don't say
that. No one knows when will one die. Their time had come and Lord Almighty had taken themaway. He giveth and He taketh."
One Year Ago
"I don't want to get married. I don't want to leave behind a young widow and an orphan".
"Ahmed, do you really believe that?" "No! you know very well that I am not into superstition
and curses". "Then don't you want to extend your bloodline". "What bloodline? You aremarrying me off to a gypsy girl. What a bloodline that would make". "Enough!" said Barhi
Ammi. Everyone was startled. Barhi Ammi was very soft spoken though rumor had it that when
she took over managing the business after her son died she was known as the Karakht Bibi for
her business ruthlessness as well as her shouting not Shafqat Bibi which was her real name. "Idon't want to hear this crap about royal bloodline. A man makes his bloodline himself with his
character and his actions. Gypsy or no gypsy, you are going to marry Kanwal and that is final".
Today"Why are you attaching all these instruments and monitors to me? My wife is the one who is
giving birth. Look after her". "Beta, don't trouble these good doctors. You know that for lastthree generations, every father has died the same time as the birth of their first born without even
having as little as glimpse of his son". "Ammi, I am healthy and fine. But if my time has come,
these doctors wont be able to help me". "Beta Shh!!! We are already troubled. Your Ammis
have been on the prayer mat for so many hours praying for your and your wife's and kid's wellbeing".
Couple of hours passed. His mother comes rushing in. Stops at the door. Looks at the doctors andtechnicians in the room. They smile that everything is alright. Sees Ahmed breathing looking at
her with quizzical looks. Then run towards him crying. Kissing him on his forehead and saying,
"Congratulations. You have a healthy son". "Why didn't you bring him with you? Is he alright?""He is fine. I just had to check on you first".
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Then Shaista called home and conveyed the news to the Ammis. It is said that upon hearing this
news, Barhi Ammi thanked God and asked for forgiveness and then put her head to the mat and
passed away in this position.
A little more than 60 years ago
"How can you be sure he is my grandson? You are gypsies with I dont know what or whose
blood running through your brains. You dont have no honor, no morals. For all I know, you
might be selling your daughter wherever you make camo. You helped me and my impressionableson hide among your caravan and helped us cross into Pakistan, for that we are thankful. You
want money for helping us out, I can give you money". "Shafqat bibi, your son and my daughter
married each other during the journey". "My son is young and immature. He must have been ledastray by your daughter. How strong is marriage anyway? I will ask my son and he will utter a
word three times and this marriage will be over". "Shafqat bibi, at least allow me to let your son
have a look at his son. He looks just like his father". "You will do no such thing, gypsy woman.
We are of royal blood line. My son will marry a royal blooded woman. Your daughter and her
son was a mistake. His sons will have royal blood running through them not just some unknowngypsy blood". "Shafqat bibi. Where were your royal blooded people when you needed saving? It
is we who helped you and you think of us low life creatures. It is you who are the low lifecreatures?" "Shut Up!!! Servant, throw her out of the house." "Shafqat Bibi, I warn you of
repercussions of having cursed by us." "We are not superstitious. Cast your curses. They will
have no impact on us". "Since your son refused to even look at his son. I curse you that no one in
your descendants will ever be able to look at his son as long as he is royal blooded."