January 3, 11:00 am – “An Infinite Expectation of the Dawn” Dennis DanielDennis will examine Thoreau's contention that most people live lives of quiet desperation, and will explore what Thoreau means when he says we must find ways of waking ourselves up. Dennis and his wife, Sydney Wilde, are co-ministers who served this congregation as consulting ministers in the year 2000. They then moved to northern Virginia, where they served our congregation in Reston for nine years. Semi-retired, they are once again consulting ministers to the UU Fellowship of Chico. Dennis is especially interested in spiritual deepening, which is the theme of this Sunday's service.

January 10, 11:00 am – “Question Box Sermon” Rev Meghan Cefalu This is a tradition in many congregations: a sermon drawn from your questions. If you have a curiosity, query, or musing that you would like Rev. Meghan to address, drop a note in her box in the office or email to revmeghan@gmail.com by January 6. Worship Associate: Randy McKean

January 17, 11:00 am – “Unarmed Truth and Unconditional Love” Rev Meghan Cefalu On the occasion of Martin Luther King Jr.’s birthday we recall his message of love, hope and encouragement for people facing the issues of injustice of his day. Through soulful music and MLK’s wise and wonderful words, may we be strengthened and emboldened to identify and correct the injustices of our times. Worship Associate: Gail Johnson Vaughan

January 24, 11:00 am – “The Gift” Randy McKean Lewis Hyde's book The Gift says that certain spheres of life, such as artistic practice, pure science, spiritual life, healing and teaching, do not fit well into our market economy, and imagines the commerce of art to be best described by gift exchange. UUCM member McKean will speak about this idea of renewal through giving, and he and guest musicians will use the idea for special performances throughout the service. Worship Associate: Lindsay Dunckel 

January 31, 11:00 am – “Peacemaking” Rev Meghan Cefalu January 30 marks the beginning of the 13th annual Season for Nonviolence, a period of time between the assassinations of Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr. We join others in the larger community in this grassroots effort to raise awareness of the principles and practices of nonviolence epitomized in the lives and work of these two leaders. Looking around the world today we may be tempted to ask if real peace is actually possible. If it is, how do we get there from here? Worship Associate: Jerry Jacoby

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Newsletter of theUnitarian Universalist

Community of the MountainsGrass Valley, Calif.

IN THIS ISSUEMeghan's Musings..............2

Thank You...........................2

Notes From the President...3

Compassion Training.......... 3

New Century Summit.......... 3

Season of Nonviolence.......4

Volunteer of the Month........4

John Jessup....................... 5

Sherry Everett.....................5

Maidu Recognition...............6

Global Compassion.............6

Green Sanctuary................ 7

Caring Notes.......................7

APPLE Center Opens.........7

Green Power Point..............7

Lights, Camera, Action!.......8

Reincarnation & Ethics....... 8

Membership Retreat............8

Spirituality Group.................8

UFETA Recipe....................9

Women's Group.................. 9

Music, Music, Music......... 10

Melodious Accord............. 10

Jim Lowe Trio....................11

January 2010 We are a GLBT-Welcoming Congregation

Please remember to bring non-perishable food contributions for the Interfaith Food Ministry on the first Sunday of the month.

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Rev. Meghan's Musingsby Rev. Meghan Cefalu

Greetings and Happy New Year!!

It is hard for me to believe we have already begun the second decade of the new millennium! But here we are at the beginning of another new year together. I’m so excited about the plans for this coming year at UUCM that I just want to share some of the highlights with you.

I am thrilled that we will have a large, diverse group of interesting and talented people attending our new member orientation on the 30th of this month. We’ll have the honor of ritually welcoming them into membership with us during the worship service on February 7.

At last spring’s Long Range Planning Playshop, this community identified Adult Education as a high priority. So I’m thrilled to announce that we have three Adult Religious Education classes coming up shortly. This month Jerry Jacoby will be leading a class on the ethical implications of reincarnation. He has a very interesting book for the class to work with.

Then, in March, I will be co-facilitating a course called “Harvest the Power” that will help our members nurture and grow their innate leadership skills. I hope all of you, but especially those already in leadership positions, consider signing up for this class – I just know we’ll have a lot of fun together. Also in March, we will once again offer a Building Your Own Theology class. This is a course that helps people discover what it is that they believe about a wide range of theological issues. This class is always a hit. It offers a new way to get to know oneself as well as build relationships with a small group of fellow congregants.

District Assembly will be held on May 1 and 2 in the Bay Area. Those who choose to come along with me can look forward to interesting classes, fun workshops, wonderful worship experiences as well as meeting UUs from all around our district.

Then, in June, our annual General Assembly will be held in Minneapolis. Just ask those who went to GA last year and they’ll tell you being with thousands of other UUs from around the world was an incomp-arable experience. We may have some scholarship money available to help defray the costs for those who would like the opportunity to go.

As the year progresses, I’m looking forward to seeing what will develop within our music program. Annie Haymaker is continuing to hone her skills as our volunteer Music Director. The choir, now under the direction of Michael McAllister, is undergoing some shifts and new growth that is wonderful to witness. The drum circle, also under new leadership, will be continuing on but in a new form. I’m hoping to see our kids experience even more music in their programs, and the congregation singing not only on Sunday mornings, but whenever we gather!

Our physical space will be undergoing even more changes in the coming year. The Building and Grounds committee has some exciting projects in the works. Consider coming to one of the work parties this year, especially if you’ve never been before. It is fun to work side by side with other congregants, and at the end of the day you feel a little more a part of our shared community.

There are many, many joyous things happening in our religious community this year, and I am so grateful to be walking along with you.

May peace and happiness be yours in the New Year,

Rev. Meghan

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Thank YouI would like to thank all the UU Angels who helped to get me through my horrendous health mishap - the cooks of soups and stews, the bakers, the card senders, the callers with offers of help, and especially the Health Angel named Sharon Moore, who taught me the special technique that saved my sanity and gave me back control over my life. Without you all it would have been much more difficult. THANK YOU!!!!! - Anita Wald-Tuttle

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Notes From the President

by Kia Hatch

It’s the end of the calendar year 2009 and mid-way through our fiscal year at UUCM.   It continues to be busy, busy, busy! What a lively and thriving community we have.

We’ve seen changes and growth as we begin to step up to some of our needs for staff. We have a paid part-time Director of Religious Education and a paid bookkeeper. We have hired a new Choir Director. We’ve added a Music Director position, which we’d love to be able to fund sometime in the future. We found the perfect home for our stained glass window, “Jesus Praying in the Garden in Gethsemane.” How serendipitous to find an appreciative buyer AND to ship it all the way across the country and have it arrive intact. The buyers, a small church in the South, absolutely love it and see its beauty. 

We are building on the work that committees and task forces have done, continuing our commitment to open processes. Reverend Meghan’s column mentions the Long Range Planning Playshop we held in the spring. Your Board of Trustees used the recommendations from that playshop in their annual retreat in September for two areas of focus: growth and adult RE.    

We are adding a CUUPS group under the guidance of Reverend Meghan and work of Carrie Osborn. We held a festive tree-trimming party and potluck this December, and had so much fun that we are thinking it should be an annual event.  Our reputation for being an interesting place to visit is spreading. Over the New Year’s weekend, we will be hosting a Young Adult Conference for the Free Unitarian Universalist Network.

Photo: David Hatch

On the financial front, we are streamlining some of our financial reporting processes. We negotiated a favorable insurance policy with a company that specializes in insuring religious organizations (thanks to Anita Wald-Tuttle and Barbara Barr for all their work on this). It significantly improves our coverage with no increase in cost.  

Our financial reports through the end of November showed that we are pretty close to our target for the budget for income (pledges and other fund-raisers) and for expenses.  Truthfully, attention to our cash flow is one of the things that wakes me up in the middle of the night, so we scrutinize that data in every board meeting. Thanks to the committees for the great job they did in both forecasting their expenses and staying on target! Bless you! Thank you also to you dedicated members and friends who continue to honor your pledge commitments – you make it all possible. 

Peace,Kia

Compassion TrainingThe Rev. Cathleen Cox, a leading voice in the San Francisco Bay Area and Sacramento Valley on Compassionate Communication and conflict resolution, will present a one-day workshop, Creating a Culture of Peacemaking, from 8:30 am to 4:30 pm Saturday, Jan. 23, at Sierra Foothills Unitarian Universalists Church in Auburn. The cost is $35 for UUs, and $50 for non-UUs. No one will be turned away for lack of funds. RSVP to Meg Kegle, sfuuauburn@sbcglobal.net, or at 530-823-0953.

New Century Summit The New Century Summit, a gathering for congregational leadership teams, will be held Friday evening and Saturday, January 29 and 30, 2010 at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Berkeley in Kensington. A single registration is $70, teams of 3-5 people are $60 per person, and teams of 6 or more people are $50 per person. The registration fee covers all meals, and there is a 10% discount for those who register before January 4, 2010. Register on the PCD website, www.pcd-uua.org .

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Volunteer of the Month: Ann Cullinan

by Connie WrightAnn Cullinan's key experience at UUCM is short and simple. "A real feeling of belonging."After moving to Grass Valley 2½ years ago, Ann began to walk or drive past our building daily. She hadn't entered a conventional church for 40 years, was recently widowed, and decided to investigate. This led her to an orientation class, a class that became very close and encouraged her to begin volunteering. "I wouldn't have done anything if it weren't for them," she recalls. Soon afterward, Ann was invited to become part of the Caring Committee, which shares news of those who need help and contacts people as needed. She then took on the task of organizing Fair Trade coffee, part of the Green Sanctuary program, offering coffee, tea, and chocolate the first Sunday of the month. "I could use help with this," she says.Next, Carol Ann Jones asked Ann to co-chair the Social Action Committee, keeping the meetings on track as they review the committee's many facets, including Hospitality House, Interfaith Food Ministry, Habitat for Humanity, the United Nations Association, and the Peace Center. The committee also overseas Animal Rights, Marriage Equality, Water Justice, and KIVA, which enables poor people in foreign lands to start businesses. Through this group, Ann would like to see more action on a legislative level. “It can be very effective and it is who we are,” she says. “But we have to get more people out.” Recently, she attended meetings involving the financial and political problems of the local library. A highlight of Ann's UU experiences was her participation in November at the Leadership Summit sponsored by the California UU Service Committee. "It was a great 3-day experience," she relates. "I would encourage others to attend. You meet wonderful people from other UU churches and you learn a lot." How fortunate we are that Ann's walks by UUCM led her to "investigate." Why not show your appreciation for all her work with a round of thanks, and maybe give her a boost by taking on the volunteer spirit?

Season for NonviolenceA Season for Nonviolence, January 30 - April 4, is a national 64-day educational, media, and grassroots campaign dedicated to demonstrating that nonviolence is a powerful way to heal, transform, and empower our lives and our communities. Inspired by the 50th and 30th memorial anniversaries of Mahatma Gandhi and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., this international event honors their vision for an empowered, nonviolent world.

Faith communities and community groups in our community are planning a series of events, including an opening event on January 30, workshops on Nonviolent Communication, parenting, and peace talks, films and children’s programs. There will be a screening of the film “Gandhi” at the Del Oro, a display and events at the public library, and a closing event on March 27 honoring Cesar Chavez and many other heroes and heroines of nonviolence.

Adults and children will be encouraged to learn about one of these heroes of peace and nonviolence (a list of resources will be available), and to dress in costume or carry the picture or name of your peace hero in our final celebration. Look for the details to be announced or contact the Social Action Committee through Carol Ann Jones, 277-2894 or caj_dc@hotmail.com. For more information about A Season for Peace and Nonviolence: http://www.agnt.org/snv02.htm.

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Sherry Everettby Kern HildebrandSherry liked to sit in the frontrow at Sunday gatherings at UUCM. She didn’t want to miss the mood, the nuances,the details, the tone or the underlying messages of each sermon. Personally and professionally Sherry was a listener. She taught classes in non-violent communication, helping others to work beyond the chaff of their relationships and to effectively share and hear each other’s feelings, fears, joys and concerns. Just as effectively she listened skillfully and joyfully to the growth of grasses in mountain meadows, to the brush of air past bird wings, and to the rattle of leaves in the trees. Out twice weekly with her hiking friends, she loved to elevate her heart rate by winding along trails from the Yuba to the American to the Sierra. She loved to cool her body and mind by dipping her feet in mountain lakes, and gleefully sang in full voice both for her friends while hiking and for UUCM congregants as a member of the choir. Sherry was always good for a hug, a caring touch or an open ear.

Sherry Everett lived in the Grass Valley/Nevada City area from 2000 until last summer, when she moved to Los Gatos to be nearer to her children. Last October, while frail and fragile, but smiling broadly and breathing deeply, Sherry went out on the trail once more with her hiking friends. During the same visit to the area, she charged her spiritual batteries at a UUCM Sunday service. At the end Sherry was surrounded by her family, and buoyed by loved ones from far and near.

There will be a Celebration of Life Ceremony for Sherry at UUCM, at 2 pm on Saturday, January 16. Looking ahead Sherry said, “I love beauty. I invite guests to attire themselves beautifully. Go all out. I'll be there to see [from somewhere above the first row] and would truly appreciate the result.” Sherry has also invited those attending this service to bring a piece of greenery from their gardens, not purchased, to be joined collectively in vases that will be provided at the altar. This collection of plant life, whether in full leaf or flower, budded and waiting for spring, or sleeping in dormancy, will provide a living bridge between us and our various connections to Sherry.

John JessupBy Custis Haynes

Here is a short obituary of John Jessup, but there is so much more that won't fit in Chalice space. Please watch for The Union's much more complete piece on this remarkable person.

John Jessup, who died on December 12th, seemed like someone out of a Graham Greene novel - unflappable, cosmopolitan, totally at home in whatever exotic place he landed.

Summers spent with his mother in Cuernavaca and school years at Phillips Exeter Academy laid the groundwork, and after taking his Harvard degree in English, John joined the diplomatic corps.

His first posting was in Venezuela but perhaps the high point was his time in Thessaloniki, center of culture and intrigue in the Balkans and Eastern Mediterranean. During that assignment he spent all his spare time roaming the countryside and adventuring in other Northern Greek cities.

After his retirement and move to California he served as president of Partners in English Learning, tutoring adults in English as a second language. His retirement hobbies were sailing, bee keeping, writing, reading -  particularly history - and far flung travel with his wife Pam. She survives him, as do his two daughters, two stepchildren and five grandchildren.

His UUCM memorial service will be December 28 at 2 pm.

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currently focused on restoring salmon to the Yuba River, while striving to keep their language and culture alive.

Susan Sanford and Eileen Hale are currently seeking information about the tribe’s history and culture, the federal regulation that grants or denies recognition to a tribe, benefits of federal recognition, and other questions. I hope to present some of this information at the January meeting.We encourage you to stop by the meeting for a few minutes and share your views, questions or concerns, or email Bill Nolan, celliam513@att.net . I am interested in learning your stand on this issue. If you would like to see a copy of the resolution I would be happy to forward one to you.

A meeting to discuss UUCM’s ratification of a document in support of federal recognition of our local Tsi-Akim Maidu Indian tribe will be held on January 24, 2010, at 12:30 after the Sunday service.

A copy of the resolution was published in October’s Mountain Chalice. Meetings were held in October and November to introduce and discuss the issue. All present at the meetings were in favor of UUCM’s ratification of the resolution. So far, almost half of UUCM members have been poled and all but one support ratification of the document. Over 50 members have not yet checked in on the issue, however.

Only one concern has been raised, but it is shared by several people. The question is: Would federal recognition mean that the tribe could build a casino? Frank Lawrence, who works as an attorney for another Indian tribe, verified that federal recognition would indeed make it possible for the tribe to engage in gaming if they so desired. However, another bit of information has come to light, which makes that issue moot. It has been discovered that another tribe is exploring the possibility of buying the old Weaver Chevrolet dealership property off of Idaho Maryland Rd. for the purpose of opening a casino. As it turns out, if any federally recognized Indian tribe buys land, that land is tribal property and they can do with it as they wish within the law. This means that any Indian tribe, whether they are from here or not, can theoretically buy land in Grass Valley or Nevada City and open a casino. Therefore, opposing federal recognition for the Tsi-Akim Maidu tribe based on opposition to an Indian gaming establishment in this area is pointless. In regards to this issue, I have been assured by Don Ryberg, tribal chair of the Tsi-Akim Maidu tribe, that the last thing on the tribe’s agenda is the of opening a casino.

I was recently informed that the Indian Educational Fund is no longer available to any person who is not a member of a recognized tribe. That is one example of benefits that are currently unavailable to the Tsi-Akim Maidu, whose lack of federal recognition stems from the fact that 99% of their people were wiped out during the Gold Rush. The tribe is

Recognition for Local Maidu Tribeby Bill Nolan

Global Compassionate Candle

by Donald M. FosterNations forever have been describing wars they initiate or respond to as “just wars,” most recently in Oslo. Many in our UU community consider the phrase the ultimate oxymoron. Others of us who have experienced venality and evil face-to-face remain uncertain. William James, (psychologist, physician, philosopher) wrote “The Moral Equivalent of War” in 1906, stating that nations are “hard-wired” to wage wars for land, resources, slaves, and domination; that men need valor, heroes, excitement, sacrifice, and rationalization for their innate savagery. He stated that war will occur until we have a “moral equivalent to war,” which we don’t because peace to most appears bland and boring.

May our UU fellowship collectively demonstrate that the historical perpetuity of war’s victims, foreign and domestic, can be reversed and that peace indeed is exhilarating and rewards a higher order of valor. May 2010 bring you hope, peace and exhilaration from your efforts.

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Green Sanctuaryby the Green Sanctuary Committee

In this installment of Green Sanctuary Accomplishments the topic pertains to our goals in the category of Religious Education.

1. Increase the number of RE classes that incorporate environmental themes. Have occasional special guests to speak about, or give demonstrations on, such topics whenever possible.2. Field trips for teens and younger children, and even for adults.Tours of green buildings such as BriarPatch Community MarketTours of organic and environmentally friendly farms and ranchesWilderness trips (hiking, backpacking, snow activities)Restoration projects3. Younger children will make eco-posters prior to Earth Day. They will be submitted to The Union newspaper along with a write-up to publicize UUCM’s environmental work.

CaringNotes by Robin Hart Winter has come to the Sierra foothills, and with it nature's drab seasonal garment is instantly transformed by a blanket of snow into a wonderland of white and ice crystals. We have reached the winter solstice, and the calendar has once again marched to the closing of one year and the beginning of another. This is the time for reflection and resolutions in our community, and time to dedicate to caring more for one another.

Please light a candle of concern for those in our UUCM community who need special prayers and wishes at this time:

Leal Portis could use your continuing support and healing energy in her fight against her illness.

Sharon Moore is still undergoing treatment for a serious illness and needs prayers and energy sent her way as well.

Anita Wald-Tuttle could also use help and support around UUCM and healing energy as she recovers from her illness.

Please light a candle of remembrance for Sherry Everett and John Jessup who were lost to this community this December. Let's keep the families of Sherry Everett and John Jessup in your thoughts as they get through this difficult time. A reminder that there will be a Celebration of Life Service for John Jessup on Monday, December 28 at 2 pm and a Celebration of Life Service for Sherry Everett on Saturday, January 16 at 2 pm.

Also light a candle of concern and keep a special place in your hearts for Leo Winters, Jim Lane, James Staggs and for all those others in our UUCM community who are not named but who need prayer and healing energy at this time.

If you need to bring something to the attention of the Caring Committee, please contact one of our members: Rev. Meghan, May Lawrence, Robin Hart, Corrie Silva, Leal Portis, Gwen Eymann, Ann Cullinan, or Ernie Jackson, or email us at caring.committee@uugrassvalley.org

APPLE Center OpensThis fall saw the grand opening of The APPLE Center for Sustainable Living at 412 Commercial Street in Nevada City. Monthly exhibits and movie nights at the center will be taking the place of the 2009 Sustainability Series events at UUCM. Thank you all for your generous participation and support over the years.

For more information: web site: www.apple-nc.org; email info@apple-nc.org . Log on to the APPLE website for upcoming events. Make sure you get on the email list to receive announcements every two weeks.  

Green Power Point

A Fresh StartTake this day to set some goals for a greener year. Resolve to think twice before every purchase you make. Could you borrow it instead? Go without? If it's a "must have," consider how and of what it's made, where it came from, and how far it had to travel to get to you before you open your wallet. ’Nuff said!

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Spirituality Group By Jerry Jacoby

The Spirituality Group will meet Sunday, January 3, at 12:30 in the Channing Room.

Last meeting in December, we focused on the second segment of the DVD With One Voice:  The Mystical Perspective. We heard eleven mystics attempt to describe their experience of mystical reality.

This next meeting we will focus on the third segment, Religious Intolerance. The two key concepts are, first, that "hatred and intolerance have no basis in true spirituality." Conflict and warfare come about when people lack spirituality. Second, when people "live in accord with spiritual truth [then] all life is treated as sacred." Living in accord with spiritual truth sometimes means letting go of dogmatic belief systems.

Membership RetreatAre you considering becoming a member of UUCM? Come to an informational gathering on Sunday, January 24, 12:30-2:00 pm. It will be a nice time to get to know others who are also thinking about joining the community and learn what membershipat UUCM would mean for you.

Then on Saturday, January 30, from 9 am to 2 pm, we will hold the Winter Membership Retreat. If you are ready to make it official and join UUCM, join us for this off-site retreat at the Hatch Ranch (aka Kia & David's house). A continental breakfast and lunch will be provided. This will be an enjoyable day of learning and sharing our spiritual journeys with one another while gaining a more in-depth understanding of the significance of membership.

New members will be formally welcomed into the community during the worship service on Sunday, February 7.

To register for either or both events, or for more information, please contact Reverend Meghan at 274-1661 or Corrie Silva at 272-3273.

Reincarnation & EthicsThere is a huge and growing body of evidence testifying that reincarnation is a fact of our existence. What are the ethical implications? Dr. Michael Newton wrote three books telling us what he learned in more than four decades of practice. Journey of Souls, Fifth Edition, will be our text, because it provides clinical conversations between Newton and his subjects while they were in a deep hypnotic state. Some of these conversations are lengthy, and there is much character development. Careful study of these conversations reveals key words that lead to ethical living in our present lives. "The key to growth is understanding we are given the ability to make mid-course corrections in our life and having the courage to make necessary changes when what we are doing is not working for us." (p. 51)

The course will be facilitated by Jerry Jacoby and will be held at 12:45 pm for seven Sundays in January and February, beginning January 10. Please expect to spend about two hours during the week studying the text and answering questions.

Lights, Camera, Action!

Want to make a unique contribution to UUCM?  NCTV broadcasts our Sunday services twice each week and it is one of the ways we reach out to the larger community. Our videographer, Dave Hatch, is retiring from his video job after 2 years of volunteer service. We are looking for that special person or those special persons to step in and be our next videographer.  We want to maintain our video presence on NCTV and continue to archive our Sunday services – come join the Communications Committee team and become our videographer. Dave will train and you’ll have the support of our dedicated “sound guy,” John Burnside. 

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UFETA Recipeby Carol Hyndman

Nutty Party Crunch is the latest in a series of vegetarian/vegan recipes:

2c popped corn2c mini pretzels1 ½ c wheat chex like cereal1 c puffed wheat cereal½ c slivered almonds¼ c maple syrup2 t sesame oils1 ½ t chili powder½ t garlic powder¼ t salt2T sesame seeds¼ c dried currants or raisins¼ dried cranberries

Pre-heat oven to 350 F. Oil or spray the baking pan. Mix all but the fruit in a large bowl. Spread in a single layer on prepared pan. Bake until toasted for about 35 minutes, stirring often. Transfer to serving bowl and stir in currants/raisins and cranberries.About 12 servings.

If you would like to submit a favorite vegetarian or vegan recipe or have any comments about the recipes, please e-mail sheilaj@theunion.net or give it personally to Carol Hyndman. For more information on UETA/UAM, please call Carol Hyndman at 477-1003.

The UUCM chapter of UFETA/UAM would also like to start collecting pet tips for the newsletter and bulletin board. You are welcome to submit any to the e-mail address/phone listed above!

AnnouncementsParking: On Sunday, please treat the parking along Walsh like handicapped parking for those with limited mobility.Online Services: To make changes to your listing in our directory, to be added or deleted from our email list, or to receive the electronic version of the Chalice in color, contact Wally Holtan at bstiknb@sbcglobal.net.

Women's GroupThe Julia Child Christmas Feast in December was a tremendous success. The large group of women who participated had a wonderful time preparing the delicious meal. And they had an even better time eating it. The entire evening overflowed with holiday spirit and good conversation.

The next Women’s Group gathering will be held at UUCM on Thursday, January 21 at 5:30 pm.

One thing that came up during December’s cook-fest was the fact that UUCM’s kitchen is currently arranged in a way that inhibits efficient workflow. So it was suggested that the January’s Women’s Group would reorganize UUCM’s kitchen for maximum efficiency. Donna Foddrell, who is a professional organizer, has volunteered to lead the effort. As is the case with all Women’s Group gatherings, the goal is to have fun. And there will be an added benefit for UUCM, since the enhanced kitchen arrangement will make future use more simple and streamlined.

All women are invited to participate in the January Women’s Group gathering. Chinese food will be served along with large helpings of enjoyable conversation and camaraderie.

Everyone who attends is asked to contribute $5 towards the meal. Please RSVP to Clarita Nolan at 530-575-2229 or photosbyclarita@att.net .

Help Wanted:Webmaster

UUCM is looking for someone to administer the website. We are in the process of a redesign of the website, so it is a chance to get in on the ground floor and contribute design and organizational ideas, and to learn some web skills. Training provided. If you are interested, please contact Kia Hatch or Ron Wright.

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Music, Music, Music Choir News In January we are gearing up for the annual Martin Luther King, Jr. service on January 17. Rehearsals are on Mondays, January 4, 11, and 18 from 7-8:30 pm. Come and sing this great gospel music with us! You don’t need to read music or have sung in a choir before. For more information, call Leah at 863-9482.

Drum Fun The UUCM Drum Circle will move in a slightly different direction beginning Wednesday, January 13, 2010 from 7:00 to 8:30 pm in the UUCM Chapel. The focus will be hand drumming in the African tradition. We will begin with some hand drumming basics, then we will learn and play some simple African rhythms. This gathering will be fun for all ages and no experience is necessary. Bring your hand drums, rattles, shakers and other percussion instruments. Some drums will be available for use. If you have questions contact David Ferrier at davidferrier06@comcast.net or 530-559-5902. Laughter guaranteed.

Benefit by Jim Lowe TrioJim Lowe's trio will perform a benefit concert for UUCM on Friday, January 15 at 7:00 pm (see p. 11). His sidemen are Pat McCarthy, principal bassist with Oakland's symphony, and Butch Minor, a very subtle, laconic percussionist – just the exact opposite of Gene Krupa. The three were knockouts for their previous performance here. Tickets will be on sale in January: $18 in advance, and $20 at the door.

Who’s Got The Beat? How ‘Bout Keyboards?“Sanctuary,” the UUCM band, needs a drummer! Do you have a drum set and want to play? Do you play keyboards? (No equipment necessary) We practice once a month, and do a variety of styles including folk, blues, rock, soft rock, gospel, reggae, and jazz. Your level of experience is not important. Only a desire to play is required. Contact Bill Nolan at celliam513@att.net, 575-1268, or Matt Wilson-Daley at 273-6613.

Melodious Accordby Annie Haymaker

Next to singing, I love reading. In the most recent issue of UU World, I noticed a review of several novels featuring ministers. Since I've been pondering about the meaning of ministry for my credentialing class in Music Ministry, I went right out and got them, figuring on combining homework with a good read. All are available in the Nevada County Library or the UUCM library.

Each one has its own take on ministry. For example, in Michelle Huneven’s Jamesland, UU minister Helen, standing in the grocery checkout line with a hyperactive child, sees a couple exchanging glances, and decides that the opposite of compassion is not cruelty, but smugness.

In Emilie Richards’ Blessed Is the Busybody, Aggie, wife of UU minister Ed, finds that she’s expected to “become the unpaid assistant minister,” which in spite of feminism she secretly enjoys because “It’s just that kind of church and town.”

In Julia Spencer-Fleming’s In the Bleak Midwinter, Episcopal priest Clare and her cop friend list what they have in common: “confession, sin, helping folks no one else wants to help, funny uniforms, working odd hours, lousy pay, laughing at things no one else could laugh at.”

Not mentioned in the review because it's nonfiction, Kate Braestrup’s Here If You Need Me, by a UU game warden chaplain, has many examples of what ministry can be. When a young woman tells her she’s glad there is a chaplain to keep families and friends from freaking out in search situations, Kate replies, "I'm not really here to keep you from freaking out. I'm here to be with you while you freak out."

These books all have the effect of making ministers and ministry more human – something that we all do, rather than something set aside to be performed by people hired to be godlike. This is especially important in the UU faith, which believes in “the inherent worth and dignity” of all.

Ministers are specifically trained in clarity, humility, and respectful ways to help each other. What these stories show us is that we all have gifts that we can use to minister to ourselves, and to help others in their search for their own internal ministers.

January 2010Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday

3111 Sunday Service12:45 R&E class

Note: Calendar is subject to change. Verify on website:uugrassvalley.org

16:30 pm Youth Group

212 pm Young Adult Conference

311 Sunday Service12:30 Spirituality Group12:30 CUUPS

47 pm Choir Practice

51 Building Comm7 Threshold Choir7 pm Music Comm

68:30 am Men's G-T

76 pm DBSA-NC

86:30 pm Youth Group

99 am Building and Grounds

1011 Sunday Service12:30 Quarterly Chairs meeting 12:45 R&E class

117 pm Choir Practice

129 am David's CG4 pm MembershipCommittee

138:30 am Men's G-T5:30 pm Global TF6 pm Caring Com7 pm Soc Action 7 pm Drum Circle

1410 am Writer's Group7 pm UUCM Board Meeting

155:30 Hospitality House Dinner6:30 Youth Group7 Jim Lowe Trio

162 pm Sherry Everett Memorial

Newsletter Deadline

1711 Sunday Service12:45 R&E class

187 pm Choir Practice

197 Threshold Choir

208:30 am Men's G-T

215:30 pm Women's Study Circle6 pm DBSA-NC

226:30 pm Youth Group

239 am Building and Grounds

2411 Sunday Service12:30 RE Comm12:30 New memb12:45 R&E class

257 pm Sanctuary Band

269 am David's CG6 pm PFLAG7 pm Worship

278:30 am Men's G-T

2810 am Writer's Group6 Green Sanctuary

295:30 Hospitality House Dinner6:30 Youth Group

309 am Winter Membership5 pm Full Moon

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Piano:Jim

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Mountain Chalice newsletter editors Clarita Nolan, Annie Haymaker This issue edited by AnnieWebmaster: webmaster@uugrassvalley.org

Committee ContactsReligious Education: Meg LuceMembership: Corrie Silva Social Action: Ann Cullinan & Carol Ann JonesGreen Sanctuary Task Force: Bill NolanWorship: Matt Wilson-DaleyFinance: Beth Freedman Communications: Music: Leah LossnerStewardship: Keith JohnsonBuilding: Ministry: Dorothy Hitchcock

Other Contacts:Chalice Circles: Writer's Group: Sammie GribWomen's Group: Clarita NolanSpirituality Group: Janet & David Lee

Room Scheduling: Anita Wald-Tuttle

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The purpose of our Community is to foster liberal religious living through worship , study, service and fellowship . We seek the enjoyment of religion founded upon devotion to individual freedom of belief. Relying upon reason as our guide, and upon freedom as our method, we seek to grow in understanding of ourselves and of our world, to p romote and serve the universal human family .

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Membership in UUCM is open to all who see this community as their religious home and the p rincip les for which it stands as their own. To join UUCM , one signs the membership book and supports the community through a financial contribution and regular participation.

Visitors are invited to attend an introduction and orientation to the UU denomination and this congregation, a four-part series offered three times a year. For more information about the orientation or membership , p lease talk with Rev. M eghan Cefalu or with someone from the M embership Committee.