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Waste InWedding
Mohammad Khairy Bin Md. Barderin
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What is wedding?A wedding is a
ceremony and associated rituals by which two people vow to spend their lives together in marriage, (Nina Callaway, 2003)
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Want to get
married..??
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But it is to expensive…
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So, what you
suppose to do..???
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Borrow money from bank,
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Borrow money from
parents, siblings, friends,
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Or surplus money from
PTPTN..??
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What matter how you get the money, it is all
because of the wedding expenses
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I don’t believe
wedding expensive. Prove it…
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So, lets we count it
randomly….
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Pre-weddingDowry
Wedding Jewellery
Invitation CardsEtc…
Jurunikah
Mahr
Total = 15,000
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CeremonyDecoration
Bunga TelurDesignerCanopyCateringEtc…..
Total = 15,000
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Other ExpensesPA systemDJPhotographerHoneymoonKompang Beaters
Total = 15,000
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Grand TOTAL
!!!RM
45,000.00
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It is hard to believe the extreme amounts of money spent and lengths gone for only one day celebration
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Factors Of Having
Expensive Wedding
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Do not budget
carefully
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Lack of wedding
knowledge
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Sense
of proud and
arrogant
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Effect of waste of a wedding
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Relationship problem
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Depression due to financial problem
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Divorce
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Remember this:Those who waste excessively are brothers to the devils…
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So, how we can
solve the problem of having waste in wedding
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Wedding by follow in Islamic
way, which is shows in Al-Quran and
Sunnah
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Rasulullah Shallallahu 'alaihi saw has said:
أيسره النكاح خير"The best wedding is the most convenient." (Narrated by Abu Dawood, no. 2117. Assessed authentic by al-Albanian)
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The most important is:
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By choose nikah in islamic way, you can save your money…
For What?Many things you
can spend the money, such as:
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We can donate it because there is
citizen in countries whose need for clean
water
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Or….
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Spend to buy a new house…
I bought it for you..
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Spend to buy a new car…I bought
it for you..
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Spend to buy thing that needs
for baby….
…..
Look, we have a baby..
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Or spend it for making
new business
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References:Abu Numair. (2012, June 1) Majlis Perkahwinan Yang Sunnah, Mudah, dan Barakah. Retrieved from: http://www.ilmusunnah.com/fiqh/majlis-perkahwinan-yang-sunnah-mudah-dan-barakah-2/Nina Callaway. (2003) The Definition of a Wedding, and the Essential Components. Retrieved from: http://weddings.about.com/bio/Nina-Callaway-9601.htm
Shaun Coltress. (2010, May 11) Are Wedding A Waste Of Money? Retrieved from: http://www.pbleepd.com/life-and-style/are-weddings-a-waste-of-money/
Azmi Abdul (2010, October 26) Melayu Suka Membazir Bila Nikah. Retrieved from: http://www.cikgu.net.my/index.php?option=com_myblog&Itemid=73&id=1073&show=Jangan-membazir-bila-nikah.html&user=0