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WARM UPOWhat does conflict mean to you?OWhat does it feel like to be in a conflict?OWhat situations feel like conflict to you?OWhat are some examples of negative
results?OWhat are some examples of positive
results?
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GGRESSORS
ICTIMS
YSTANDERS
VOCABULARYO AGGRESSOR:
O A person that provokes a fightO VICTIM:
O A person who is physically or verbally attacked
O BYSTANDER:O A person who is present, but does not
take part in the fight
LOOKING AT CONFLICT IN OUR LIVES
VOCABULARYO VIOLENCE:
O A harmful or destructive forceO CONFLICT:
O A struggle, fight or battleO PREVENTION:
O The act of preventing or stopping something
TROUBLE IN THE HALL SCENE 1
Calvin, an eighth grader, and his friend Fatima are talking in the hall when Calvin sees another student, Jim talking to his girlfriend, Naomi. Jim is also an eighth grader and Calvin has seen him talking to Naomi before. Calvin is jealous and angry. He turns to Fatima.
O Calvin: Check it out.O Fatima: Where? What are you talking
about?O Calvin: Jim and Naomi.O Fatima: What about Jim and Naomi?
They’re just talking. People do that you know. I don’t see what the big deal is.
O Calvin: The big deal is that he’s messing with my girlfriend. I see him talking to her all the time.
O Fatima: I don’t know ,Cal, maybe they’re just talking about school or something.
O Calvin: It doesn’t matter what they’re talking about. Look how close he’s standing to her. Man, he’s practically breathing down her neck.
O Fatima: I guess they are standing pretty close. And she sure is laughing a lot.
O Calvin: Jim has got to see me standing here. He’s doing this just to get to me.
O Fatima: Well, maybe he doesn’t see you.O Calvin: Yeah, well I should go over there
and kick his butt anyway. That guy’s got no right moving in on my girlfriend.
QUESTIONSO What is the conflict?
O Calvin’s thoughts about the situation.O Who was the bystander?
O FatimaO Who was the aggressor?
O CalvinO Who was the victim?
O JimO Who would be the problem solver?
O Fatima
THINK ABOUT IT!Describe a fictional or nonfictional conflict
1. What was the conflict was about:2. I saw this conflict: (choose one)
O On the TVO At the moviesO In a bookO At schoolO Other (describe)
3. The conflict had: (choose one, and describe what happened)O Positive consequencesO Negative consequencesO Both
4 .Name the following:O Aggressor(s)O Victim(s)O Bystander(s)O Problem-solver(s)
5. The negative consequences could have been avoided if:
CONCLUSIONO We experience and express conflicts in many
ways.O Everyone has conflicts; people are not good or
bad because they experience them.O Conflict is a part of life, and sometimes it is a
necessary part of life.O The important issue is how you handle conflict.O If we resolve our conflicts by fighting, then
conflict becomes something negative.O If we handle it in a positive way, then conflict
can help us learn more about ourselves and others.
EXIT TICKETO List two ways to deal with conflicts in
a positive manner.
WARM UPO List some violence prevention efforts you
know about.O Was it difficult or easy to find out about
violence prevention work?O Does the media devote more time to telling
you about violence prevention or telling you about violence? (shooting, stabbings, etc.)
O Does the media devote more time telling us about the violent kids than telling us about those who are nonviolent?
WHEN CONFLICTS BECOME FIGHTS
TROUBLE IN THE HALL SCENE 2
BACKGROUND: Calvin and Fatima were talking in the hall, when Calvin saw his girlfriend, Naomi, talking to Jim. Calvin suspected that Jim was trying to put the moves on his girlfriend. He became angry and jealous.
THE SCENE: Calvin decides to confront Jim and Naomi.
O Calvin: That guy’s got no right moving in on my girlfriend. I’m going after him.
O Fatima: Yeah ,well, you better do something because he’s going to take your girlfriend away right in front of your face. Besides, all the other kids will think you’re a fool for letting Jim steal Naomi.
[Calvin walks over to Jim and Naomi. Fatima follows]O Calvin:{Calvin pokes Jim on the shoulder.] Yo,
man, what do you think you’re doing? You better me moving along.
O Jim: Hey Calvin, don’t mess with me. I’m just standing here minding my own business, talking to Naomi.
O Calvin: When you talk with Naomi, you’re in my business.
O Fatima: [Laughing] Ooh, you tell ’em, Calvin
O Naomi: Why don’t you stay out of this, Fatima?
O Calvin: I’ve seen you hanging around Naomi like some kind of dog. You’re always following her. You better not be moving in on my girlfriend.
O Jim: So what if I am? What are you going to do to stop me?
O Calvin: I don’t have to take this from you.O [Calvin pulls out a pocket knife and
stabs Jim in the stomach.]
WHAT HAPPENED?O What caused the fight?O What body language was expressed and
how?O How did the presence of weapons make
things worse?O If the players had known Calvin had a
knife, would they have acted differently?
O How did the environment contribute to violence?
NEW ENDING
Create a new ending to the story!Avoid conflict escalation and fighting!
VIOLENCE PREVENTION IS EVERYONE’S RESPONSIBILITY!
QUESTIONSO How do you know you are at risk for
violence?O What keeps you safe?O What makes you more likely to
experience violence?O How might alcohol or drug use
influence a conflict situation?
CONCLUSION
OWe can take certain steps to resolve our conflicts without fighting.
OWe know that fighting often leads to more violence.
THINK FIRST MODEL
STEP ONE: KEEP COOL
THINK FIRST MODEL
STEP TWO: SIZE UP THE SITUATION
THINK FIRST MODEL
STEP THREE: THINK IT THROUGH
THINK FIRST MODEL
STEP FOUR: DO THE RIGHT THING
ASSIGNMENT
CREATE A THINK FIRST MODEL POSTERInclude the following:
O Name, date, bellO TitleO List each stepO Draw a picture to illustrate each stepO Put a border around your posterO Be creative, neat, colorful
WARM UP
FINISH “THINK FIRST MODEL” POSTER
O Include the following:OTitle OBorderOList the 4 stepsOA picture to illustrate each stepOName, date, bell
STEP 1: KEEP COOLSTEP 2: SIZE UP THE SITUATIONSTEP 3: THINK IT THROUGHSTEP 4: DO THE RIGHT THING
THINK FIRST MODEL
STEP ONE: KEEP COOL
WHAT IS BELIEF?
An opinion or conviction Confidence Faith Trust
THINGS THAT AFFECT OUR ATTITUDES AND BELIEF !
FAMILY FRIENDS TV BOOKS ADVERTISMENTS NEWS COVERAGE MUSIC TEACHERS
ASSIGNMENTDirections: WITH A PARTNER: Look at your belief card and answer the questions below about the belief.1. Do you agree or disagree with the statement on the belief
card? Why?2. What does the saying mean?3. Who would believe this? (list all that apply)
O An aggressorO A victimO A bystanderO A problem-solver
4. Where do you think the belief comes from?5. Give a real-life example of when someone might say or believe this.6. Give an example of when someone did something that would make you question this belief.7. If someone believed this, then how would that person act?
CONCLUSIONMany things affect our attitudes and beliefs- our families, friends, television, books, advertising, news coverage, and music. And what we believe affects what we do. If we hold hostile beliefs, such as “people are basically mean, then we are more likely to act in a hostile way. Therefore, it is important for us to think about our beliefs and try to understand where they come from and why they don’t always hold true.