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Destiny has a very important role in life of human beings. It issuch great influence in the life that even your efforts in achievingthe particular target of the life may go waste. Every person hashis destiny pre decided and the life goes around it. Some timesyou only act as per its pre-decided ways.Karma has its role whichcan be influence it but it can only prepone the event or post-poneit but the fact is that it can not be changed. I have one event inmy life which is such a loud bang on my life that I can not forgetit even today.

We went for a vacation to Goa. While going for the railwaybooking straight to Mumbai, I opted for the train which goes toMumbai via Manmad, a place for going to Sai Baba Shrine. Inthe original plan we had not planned to go there. But the momentthe train reaches Manmad station, I got up and asked my familyto get down here and registered the break journey with railways.We visited the Shrine and then reached Mumbai. We alreadybooked the railway tickets from Mumbai to Goa. But on reachingthe Hotel, I was told by Hotel that your program for Goa would notallow you to have time in Goa because the train would be takinginordinate time in reaching Goa, so please reschedule yourprogram and suggest that we may go by sea instead of train andMumbai darshan should be curtail in order to get good time inGoa. Accordingly, we changed our program and reached Goa.On second day, my son lost in the market and we search for himfor 6 hours because he could not speak and could not tell anythingto anybody. We could not tell the agony which we bear duringthis period. We registered FIR also. One taxi driver came to usand take us all the places, but to no conclusion. I had purchasedsome fruits and clothes from the market, which I wanted to leaveat Hotel, so requested the drier to take me their. To our surprised,we found him sitting outside the hotel on the pavement. Tilltoday I could not have the reason to believe but the fact is fact.

Whether you believe it or not, because it is faith on Sai Baba,which we have, that bring him to Hotel. All the programs werechanged due to the destiny that he would be lost in the market,whereas our Darshan at Shrine brought him to us.

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DURGA SAPTASHATI

THE KING SAID: ‘Sir, I wish to ask you ne thing,without the control of my intellect, my mind is afflictedwith sorrow. Though I have lost the kingdom, like anignorant man-though I know it-I have an attachmentto all the paraphernalia of my kingdom and thismerchant has been disowned by his family, still he isinordinately affectionate towards them.

THE RISHI SAID: ‘Sir, every being has theknowledge of objects perceivable by the senses andobject of sense reaches it in various ways. Somebeings are blind by ight; some beings have equal sightboth by day and night. Human beings are certainlyendowed with the knowledge, but they are not theonly beings (to be so endowed), for cattle, birds,animals and other creatures also cognise.

The knowledge that men have, birds and beaststoo have; and what they have men also possess; andthe rest (like eating and sleeping) is common to bothof them. Look at these birds, whih though theypossess knowledge, and are themselves distressedby hunger are yet, engaged in feeding grains into beaksof their young ones. Men, O king, are full of desires.Human beings are, O tiger among men, attached totheir children because of greed, expecting rewards inreturn.

Do you not see this? Even so men are hurledinto the whirlpool of attachment, the pit of delusion,through the power of Mahamaya(The Great deusion),who makes the existence of the world possible. ThisMahamaya is the Yoganidra, of the Vishnu, the Lordof the world. It is by her world is deluded. Verily she,the Bhagwati forcibly drawing the minds of even thewise, entangles them into delusion. She creates thisentire universe, both moving and unmoving. It is shewho, when propitious, becomes a boon giver to humanbeings for their final liberation. She is the Supremeknowledge, the cause of final liberation, and eternal;she is he cause of the bondage of transmigration andthe sovereign over all lords.

THE KING SAID: ‘Venerable sir, who is that Deviwhom you call Mahamaya? The Rishi said: She iseternal, embodied as the universe. Nevertheless sheincarnates in manifold ways: hear from me. Whenshe manifests herself in order to accomplish thepurposes of devas, she is said to be born in the world,though she is eternal.

THE BRAHMA SAID: ‘O great Mother! You areSvaha (the energy of Devas). You are verily the Vasat(the emblem of sacrifice). You are the embodiment ofSvara (Vedic accent). You are Sudha (the nector). O

eternal and imperishable One, you are embodimentof the threefold mantra. You are Savitri and theSupreme Mother of devas. You are the goddess goodfortune, the ruler, modesty, intelligence characterizedby knowledge bashfulness, nourishment,contentment, tranquility, and forbearance. Armed withSword, spear, club, discus, conch, bow, arrows, slingand iron mace, you are terrible (and at the same time)you are pleasing, yea more pleasing than all thepleasing things and exceedingly beautiful. You areindeed the supreme Isvari, beyond the high and low.O Devi, Be witch these two unassailable asurasMadhu and Kaitabha with your super powers . LetVishnu, the Master of the world, be quickly awakenedfrom sleep and rouse up his nature to slay these twogreat asuras.’

THE RISHI SAID: There, the Devi of delusionextolled thus by Brahma, the creator, in order toawaken Vishnu for the destruction of Madhu andKatiabha, drew herself out from every part of Vishnu’sbody, and appeared before brahma. Janardana(Vishnu), Lord of universe, rose up from His couch onthe universe ocean, and saw those two evil (asuras)Madhu and Katiabha, of exceeding heroism andpower, with eyes red in anger, endeavouring to devourBrahma. Thereupon the all pervading Lord Vishnugot up and fought with the asuras for five thousandyears, using his own arms as weapons. And they,frezied with their exceeding power, and deluded byMahamaya, exclaimed to Vishnu, ‘Ask a boon for us.’

LORD VISHNU SAID: ‘If you are satisfied withme, you must both be slain by me now. What needis there of any other boon here? My choice is thismuch indeed.’

THE RISHI SAID: Those two (asuras), thusbewitch (by Mahamaya), gazing then at the entireworld turned into water, told lord Vishnu the lotus eyedOne, ‘Slay us at the spot where the earth is not floodedwith water.’ The Rishi said: Saying ‘be it so’, LordVishnu, the great wielder of conch, discus and mace,took them on His loins and there severed their headswith His discus. Thus she (Mahamaya) herselfappeared when praised by Brahma. Now listen againthe glory of this Devi that I will tell you. Here ends thefirst chapter called “The slaying of Madhu and Katiabha’of Devi Mahamaya Sri durga Saptashati inMarkandeya Purana, during the period of Savarni, theManu.

Courtesy : Times of India

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BUDGET GAIN FOR SENIOR CITIZENS

With no significant gains or the salaried class andthe higher income taxpayer reeling fro the additional taburden, the only section of the society that seems to berejoicing is senior citizens. The Finance Minister hasoffered a bouquet of benefits for the retired people whoconstitute nearly 9% of the total population. The taxbenefits are two-pronged, impacting their tax savingsand health protection.

In a welcome move, the tax exemption limit oninterest income from bank savings deposits and postoffice schemes has been raised to Rs. 50,000/- from theexisting Rs.10,000/-. It now also covers the interestincome from fixed deposits and recurring deposits. Thismeans that no tax will have to be deducted at source(TDS on such income under Section 194A.

Given that post office schemes and fixed depositscomprise a big chunk of senior citizens retrial corpus,this will result in a significant rise in their savings in theirincome falls in the taxable bracket. It also implies thatsenior citizens who do not have a taxable income will nothave to furnish Form 15H if they do not want tax deductedat source.

Deli based Chartered Accountant H C Sogani, 66,who has a high amount in fixed deposits, is visiblyexcited. Among his Budget wish list was a demand toraise the exemption limit on interest income and expandthe scope to fixed deposits and recurring deposits. “Mywish has been fulfilled by the Finance Minister, but I washoping the basic exemption limit too would be raised toRs.3.5 lakh.” he says.

He is also happy about the increase in theinvestment limit of the Pradhan Mantri Vaya VandanaYojana, which has been doubled to Rs.15 lakh from theexisting limit of Rs. 7.5 lakh. “I will now invest a minimumof Rs. 10 lakh in the scheme.” says Sogani.

The LIC scheme for senior citizen above 60 years ofage, was started in 2017 for one year has now extended

to March 2020. It offers an assured return of 8% for 10years and is an attractive option for senior citizens despiteit being taxed at the maturity. Given that the senior citizen’ssavings Scheme is the only other plan that, at 8.3%,offers a return of 8%, it a good option to invest in for theseniors who do not fall in the taxable bracket.

In another beneficial step, the government has raisedthe deduction limit on health insurance premium to Rs.50,000/- from the existing Rs. 30,000/- for senior citizenunder Section 80D. In addition, the deduction of medicalexpenditure for specific critical illness from Rs.60,000/-for senior citizens and Rs. 80,000/- for every citizen hasbeen raised to Rs. 1 lakh for all senior citizens, undersection 80 DDB.

“Medical inflation is at 13-15%. The enhanceddeduction of Rs.50,000/- and additional critical illnessexemption will incentivise senior citizens to get sufficientmedical insurance coverage to tackle the growingmedical expense burden.” Says Ashish Malhotra, MD &CEO, Max Bupa Health Insurance.

This is one benefit that may also accrue to thosebelow 60 years it they are paying health insurancepremium for their parents. Take Mumbai-based PurveshMehta, 38, who is paying a combined premium of Rs.50,000/-for his parents and his own family. “It is a goodinitiative and will definitely help me with my tax saving.”he says.

It will also be an incentive for people like Mehta tobuy bigger health plans for their parents since theextremely high premium for senior citizen have beendeterrent.

Adds Sanjeev Mantri, Executive Directive ICCILombard:”We expect a much higher increase of Rs. 1Lakh for senior citizen and Rs.75,000/-for those below60 years. Given that the government has inflated thenational health scheme for 10 crores families, it couldhave raised these limits too.

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KEEP CALM BE AVERAGE“How are you.”, “Average?” That usually elicits

another question. “Why, what’s wrong?Apparently, nothing if you ask a new sub-cult of

millennial who are choosing and trying hard to be justthat – average. Not good. Not Great. And certainly notExcellent.

How did it come to be? Why has Average becomethe go-to word for these youngsters? Wasn’t itExcellence, Great, Super?

In an interview to AFP, 23-year old Gulia explainswhy she’s chosen to be Average. He says, ”Life is quitetiring. I haven’t been able to stop caring about everything,but these days, I a generally calm and unperturbed. It isenough to just be content with life.” Jia, along with hispeers call themselves “Buddhist Youth” – a group happyjust letting things is. They aren’t in the rat race to beperfect, dream big and work endlessly to live the ‘bigdream’. They just want to be content by being a part ofcrow. Isn’t it the exact opposite of whatever has beentaught to us? Be different. Stand out. Pursueexcellence…

WHO IS A BUDDHIST YOUTH?The Buddhist Youth accepts the things they cannot

change. This quest for all things flawless, according tothem, has dehumanized us and robbed us of theBuddhist Youth believe in: eating the same food everyday, allowing one’s romantic partner to make thedecisions and being devoid of strong feelings aboutvirtually everything. They simply want to go with the flowability to accept human frailty: effectively pushing us tothe edge of insanity.

THE PURSUIT OF AVERGE…Bhavik Vasa, Chief Growth Officer, Ebix-cash says

the ‘average’ idea resonates with him precisely becauseof this “pursuit of excellence” that has fatigued thisgeneration. “The start-up generation has over

glamonised speed and excellence. And this pursuit oftrying to do everything fast and well has taken a toll ontem. Look at the number of people in their 20s who arequitting the retrace. It’s not human to run endlessly afterexcellence.

Aged 25, investment banker Ritesh Chopra feelsexhausted. “I could not deal with anxiety anymore. Irealized it was better to just flow with the natural order ofthings and let things be.” He left his High profile job topursue organic farming.

Research shows that performing at high levels canalso make our peers resent us, which in turn affects ourown emotions – negativity breeds negativity. Corporateguru Azim Jamal says this generation sees the irony ofchasing materialistic or ‘soulless’ ideals because theyhave seen their parents – the previous generation –damage themselves in an endless whirlpool of envy andnegativity. “Youngsters are realising that this race ispointless, and doesn’t give joy that lasts for more than afew minutes before making us sad again.” He says.

There is no shame attached with the term Averageanymore. Author Ashok Chopra says, “Youngsters areself-aware these days. They recognise their strengths,ore importantly, they have be friended their faults.” Thiswas something that previous generations ignored orcompletely brushed under the carpet.

Chopra adds,” Today’s youth knows the value ofmoney but is also aware of its limitations. Nobody isinterested anymore in the pursuit of money. The 20s areknown to be age of learning. And the youth have crackedthe biggest lessons of all – running in the rat race doesn’ttake you places, pursuing your passion does. Slowingdown, does.”

Being average is the new smart – a place whereyou have to be rich in terms of life experiences,memories, and culture, the things that feed the soul.

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WHY JOINT FAMILIES ARE BACK IN URBAN INDIABig fat families are not just the stuff of movies. New

realities like the need for childcare, support for elderlyand rising housing expenses are making many cometogether again.

What does an Indian family look like? Mummy Daddy,kiddies in the city? Or a big branching family tree in thevillages, with several generations living under one roof,as TV serials and Barjatyas show it?

Turn out, neither assumption is right. Recentlyreleased government data reveals that even as familiesare increasingly fragmenting in rural areas, more peoplein cities are choosing to live in extended families.Between 2001 and 2011, joint families i urban India grew29%, whereas in rural areas they rose only 2%.

Then there are the hybrid models - sub-nuclear unitswhen one spise passes or when siblings live together,or supplemented nuclear, as when an unmarried relativeadds to a nuclear unit. Because of migration, supportneeds for the elderly and for children, and the need toshare resources , urban families are stretching, joiningand evolving.

Take the Bhatnagars in Bengaluru. When Siddarthmove to the city for his IT job, his family was scattered allover India —his brother Prateek was at college inChandigarh, his sister Archana in Jaipur, his mother intheir native Lucknow and his father posted to Vadodara.After he got married in 209, he brought his parents to thecity he’d made home. Soon, his brother moved theretoo, after he got a banking job. Archana and her sevenyear daughter have also joined the brood, and now thefamily of nine lives out of a five-bedroom flat inMahadevapura. “My wife Pooja, whom I dated for adecade, knew my family and understood that I would livewith my parents, brother and his family - all together.She has been brought up in a joint family. It was pointlessto stay in two different houses when my brother and sister-in-law are so warm.” says Prateek. “We, my father, brotherand sister, pool money and use it to run the house hold,”says Siddartha.

This tendency for families to cluster in cities shouldn’tsurprise us, says Rajni Palriwala, sociologist at the DelhiSchool of Economics. The rising cost of housing, thefact that more women work outside the home and childrenneed looking after, the vulnerability of the elderly, themutual support offered by a big family are all reasons tostay together in the city. “We felt guilty that our parentswere after away, and getting older and frailer while wemade our lives in Delhi,” says Gajendra Singh, who worksin Delhi as a driver, and whose wife and parents live withhim now. His wife’s brother also stays with themintermittently, while working temporary jobs. “We eattogether, live together, and it is source of comfort ratherthan a stress. My mother misses the hills and weatherof Uttrakhand, but she is happy with us,” he says.

Meanwhile, for the Sahais in Lucknow’s Indiranagar,life resembles the movie Hum Saath Saath Hain. RetiredAssistant Superintendent of Police Horendra Sahai, his

three sons, daughters-in laws and five grand childrenshare a home. “My father is cohesive force — hisexperience and wisdom has kept the flock togetherthrough highs and lows,” says elder son Anand. “Thereare disadvantages, like the greater need to adjust or theabsence of freedom (like just walking out to get dinneroutside, without stated reason),” admits his brotherRishi. But the family says the advantages —sharedresponsibilities, help at hand, healthy discussions anda sense of togetherness - far outweigh them.

Some families originally joint units, spilt because oftensions between individuals, only to come togetheragain later, like the Ghosh family in Kolkata’s Bagulati.three siblings and their families live across five flats,where the youngest is five and oldest is 72. “The bondingis so strong among the cousins that they can’t even thinkof living separately now.” says Debalina Hazra, thedaughter-in-law of one of the siblings.

“That doesn’t mean that the ideas of individualism,certain expectations of the conjugal relationship, orwomen working outside the home, haven’t seeped in,”says sociologist Janaki Abraham. People aren’tnecessarily living jointly because of love alone, but alsobecause it is convenient arrangement, or they arematerially invested in the larger unit, as seen in manybusiness families, she says. A large urban property maynot be easy to partition, she point out, compared to arural home with land around that can be easily divided.

“A lot of people gravitating to nuclear families thinkthat a big set-up will deprive them of privy. But then, theyalso carve for life of a gated community. The pull is thesame, except that here, it’s your own family,” says 53-years old Ima Kumar, who is part of the larger Josephclan in CIT colony, in Chhenni’s Mylapore neighbourhood.

Meanwhile, why are village households choosing thenuclear model? “One has to look at the whole economy.As agricultural land fragments, so does rural family thatonce lived off it, with some share in the income,” saysAbraham. Then there is migration in search of jobs. Butdespite the stereotype of the single male migrant worker,many workers also migrate in pairs, says Irudaya Rajan,demographer and associate Professor at the Centre forDevelopment Studies. The children are often left behindwith grandparents in the village, so that their schoolingis not interrupted. “One must remember that even if therural family has to separate, the ideology of the family isoften intact.” Palriwala points out. Migrant workers returnhome for rituals or at harvest time, there may be acommon budget as they send money home, so the moveaway may not mean a breaking away at all, she says.

In other words, family patterns in India do not followthe expected tracks — urbanisation and modernisationdo not break the joint family, nor is the joint the inevitableform every where. The great Indian family doesn’t makeitself available for single snapshot — it is a kaleidoscopeof many shifting stories.


ARE YOU LOSING FRIENDS AS YOU GROW?

A cryptic forward sent to me by a doctor friend todaymorning. A bit of shocker for a moment, no doubt. But asthe thought stayed with me through morning. I realisedthat one does keep losing friends along the way. Notdeliberately, nor even consciously. It just s happens thatyou are deeply engaged with someone, then look awayfor a while, and by the time you look back, you have bothmoved in different directions...

I must say this disturbs me no end. I am one ofthose emotional suckers who even keeps looking forfriends lost in childhood, let alone those I lose in mymature years. in the era of social media I found severalchildhood friends, though sadly very few of them remainrelevant or feel as close today as they once did.Sometimes I wish I had let some of them remain justmemories...

Sometimes, people who were most intimate inchildhood, find it tough to spend even half an hour witheach other as adults. You can never hope to recreate themagic of a past that you have outgrown.

You outgrow people. You outgrow situations. Peoplegrow and moved away from each other — that is thenatural way of things. Friendships outlive their relevanceafter a period of time. This is no reflection on the peopleinvolved. In fact, if the interaction remained the same,that would be a sad reflection on the fact that neither ofthem grew in the direction of their dreams. In order tomove on, it is important that you outgrow people andsituations.

However, I do not agree that we need to give up onpeople or break friendships in order to move on with ourlives. that would be most selfish. Yes, the way we relateto a particular person may change over the years. Youmay choose to give less of yourself to a friend, engage indifferent kinds of activity than earlier, or may also include

other friends into the equation. If things remainsuncomfortable despite all these efforts, that is when afriendship stars fading.

As we start understanding our own selves and ourtriggers better, some of the beliefs we held earlier startchanging. Many things we were passionate about donot matter as much anymore. How then can we stayhanging onto the same people in the same manner aswe always did? Equations are bound to change,structures of friendship shift, while set rituals suchmeetings and interactions all undergo a sea change.And it is only those who can move along with this changeand still stay relevant who remains with us.

How do your realise that the friendship is no longerrelevant?

· While earlier you used to talk over each othermost of the time, hardly pausing to listen, now you andyour friend find it tougher to find topic to discuss.

· You find excuses not to hang out together asoften as earlier.

· The thought of setting each other no longerdelights.

· You get back from a meeting with regret as timewasted.

· There are important things about each other’slives that you don’t know any more.

Now if have become that irrelevant to each other, itmakes sense for both of you to move on and spend timewith people who seem more relevant in your present.

It sadden, but should not make you feel guiltybecause you are moving in the directions that both of youshould and must grow in. How can you feel guilty aboutgrowing and moving towards your dream?

And who says you should break off all ties? Justreassess and reconnect in a manner that is comfortableto you both.

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HOW INDIANS GOT THE VOTE

Studies of India’s electoral democracy have tendedto see it as inheritance of the British Raj or a product ofan elite decision-making and institutional design. Inthis perspective, democracy and the Constitution wereendowed from above. The people had little or no role inmaking democracy or the constitution. New archivalmaterials reveal a different, and hitherto unknown, story.

The origin of Indian democracy, in particular theestablishment of its edifice through the implementationof universal adult franchise, was ingeniously Indianenterprise. It was no legacy of colonial rule, and waslargely driven by the Indians, often by people of modestmeans. The turning of all adult into voters was astaggering democratic-state-building operation ofinclusion and scale, which surpassed any previousexperience in democratic world history. This work wasundertaken by Indian bureaucrats between August, 1947,when the country became independent, and January,1950, when it adopted the Constitution.

The numerous interactions between people andadministrators about preparation of the first draft electoralrolls on the basis of adult franchise were significant forthe institutionalization of India’s democracy. Makingprocedural equality central to government formation in ahierarchical unequal society turned electoral democracyinto meaningful and credible story for citizens. Becausepeople from the margins found meaning and a place forthemselves in the new polity based on universal adultfranchise, they also understood the potential new powerof making group identity claims. The SCs and STs turnedinto voters and could now, under universal franchise,fully partake in the compulsions of electoral politics. Thesuccessful implementation of universal franchise by thetime the Constitution came into force enabled theinsertion of social identities into the design of politicalrepresentation. Here lay the seeds of the dynamic casteand identity politics, which have both deepened andchallenged electoral politics in India.

Through the preparation of electorate rolls, theabstract language, forms and principles of the democraticConstitution obtained a practical basis. The DraftConstitution provided for one Election Commissions forelection to the Central Legislature and separate ElectionCommissions for each of the states. The final provision,which was informed by the experience of the preparationof electoral rolls, stipulated election machinery that wasvested in a single autonomous Election Commission atthe Centre.

The principle of universal franchise was adopted atthe beginning of the Constitutional debates in April, 1947.It was significant departure from election under colonialrule, which were based on a very limited franchise and

divided electorate. There was a large gap to bridge inturning this constitutional aspiration into reality atIndependence, in the midst of the Partition that led tomass killing and displacement of an estimated 18 millionpeople, while 552 princely states hat yet to be integratedinto India. The vast majority of the future and largestelectorate in history at the time of over 173 million peoplewas poor and illiterate. Realising that the task would becolossal, a few bureaucrats at the Secretariat of theConstitution Assembly initiated the preparation of theelectoral rolls from November, 1947.

The Secretariat designed the instructions for thepreparation of rolls in consultation with administrationfrom the provinces and princely states. In effect, theirtask was to operationalise the notion of proceduralequality for the purpose of electoral voting. They had toimagine a joint list of all adults in the land – women andmen all castes and classes – each carrying the sameweight as equal voters. This task was, in essence,revolutionary. The commitment to procedural equalitythat was cultivated in the process of the preparation ofthe electoral rolls was strikingly demonstrated when thecollector of Bombay, for example, took in November 1948proactive steps to ensure the voting rights of vagrants,servants and footpath dwellers.

Unsurprisingly, once the actual registration of votersbegan distinct forms of disenfranchisement, breachesin the instructions and difficulties surfaced on the ground.In Assam, for example, the reforms commissioner didnot initially regard refugees and immigrants asprospective citizen-voters and he instructed districtofficers not to register “the floating and ‘non-resident’populations”.

In the face of exclusionary practices in the preparationof rolls, a wide range of burgeoning citizens’organizations began struggling for their voting rights.They wrote numerous letters of complaints to thesecretariat, indicating that the provisions and directionsthat they issued in the pursuit of universal franchise werebeing undermined on the ground in the preparation ofthe rolls. Citizens’ organizations also began to demandlinking voters’ registration with acquisition of citizenship.To do so they made their claims on the Draft Constitution’scitizenship and other provisions, using the Consitution’slanguage and aspirations, while it was a still in themaking. Thus, a complaint against the reformsCommissioner of Assam suggested that his attitude“definitely engenders civic and political status of a verylarge number of residents in Assam, who are very largenumber of residents in Assam who are very eager tohave their status of citizen of Indian Dominion confirmedduring the course of enrolments as voters, ipso facto,invests

The country’s first election was an ingeniously indigenous an inventive exercise, with unique challenges.The way bureaucracy rose to the task holds lessons for today.


BOYSSrivastava boy, Feb’89, 5’8’’, Project Manager atNoida, seeks suitable match. Contact & mail to: ShPramod Kumar Srivastava, DM Office, Barabanki,9565652149, [email protected] boy (Dr), Feb’91, 5’5’’, BDS, own DentalClinic at Agra, seeks suitable match. Contact & mailto: Sh Shiv Shankar Saxena, Agra , 9639946979,[email protected] boy, Oct’85, 5’4’’, B.Sc, BusinessDevelopment Executive in DHFL at Lucknow, Rs 2 to4.0 LPA, seeks suitable match. Contact & mail to:Smt Vineeta Srivastava, Barabanki, 9235873907,9453441568, [email protected] boy , May’81,5’10’’, MBA, SS&C, SrExecutive , Gurugaon, Rs 6.75 LPA + Bonus, seekssuitable match. Contact & mail to: Smt. RekhaSaxena, Ghaziabad, 09810338930, 09871888700,[email protected] boy, Nov’89, 5’7’’, B.Tech, SoftwareEngineer, Rs 4.01 LPA, vegetarian, seeks suitablematch. Contact & mail to: Sh Suresh ShandraSrivastava, Jalaun, 09415592582,[email protected] boy, July’85, 5’9’’, Graduate, PG Diplomain Advertising, working as Creative Designer inPublishing Sector, Rs 4.0 LPA, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Sh Rakesh Bhatnagar, New Delhi,9958608413, [email protected] mangalik boy, Feb’87, 5’11, MBA,PGDM, Assistant Vice- President , My Money MantraCo. New Delhi, Rs 12.0 LPA, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Sh Sunil Srivastava, Unnao,7607178868, [email protected] boy Akash , Feb’89, 5’8’’, MBA, ProjectManager, Noida, Rs 6.5 LPA, seeks suitable match.

MATRIMONIAL

Contact & mail to: Sh Pramod Kumar Srivastava,Lucknow, Ph 9565652149,[email protected] boy, Aug’92, 165 cm, B.Tech, workingwith Indian Army NFS Project, Rs 3 to 5.0 LPA, seekssuitable match. Contact & mail to: Sh Uday NarainBhatnagar, Mathura, 9450853766,[email protected] boy, Nov’89, 5’4’’, B.Com, MBA, SalesManager in NBFC, Rs 3.0 LPA, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Smt Kamini Srivastava, Lucknow,7704903784, 9839221112,[email protected] boy, Feb’85,5’9’’, MCA (First Class), SrDevelopment Specialist in Sun Life Financial Services,New Delhi, Rs 19.6 LPA, father retired Class-1 Officer,seeks suitable match. Contact & mail to: Sh NareshKumar Saxena, Noida, 9868511516, 9717660851,[email protected] boy, Jan’88, 5’11’’, B.Com, Team Leader inIBM posted at Varanasi, Rs 30 K. Pm, seeks suitablematch. Contact & mail to: Sh Mukund Kumar Saxena,Sultanpur, 9836234935, [email protected] boy, Dec’89, 6’, B.Com, working in a Co.at Noida, Contact & mail to: Sh Bishan Bhatnagar,Delhi- 9716724611, 9818593296Nigam boy, Dec’82, 5’6’’, B. Tech, MBA, working asBusiness Development Manager in a MNC at Mumbai,Rs 14.0 LPA, seeks suitable match. Contact & mailto: Sh Mahendra Nigam , Kanpur, 7652048453, + 919795601112, [email protected] boy, May’82, 5’11’’, M.Tech, Triple M.Sc,working in a YOG Health Product Co at Haridwar, Rs4.2 LPA, seeks suitable match. Contact & mail to:Sh Dr S,S.L. Srivastava, Kanpur, 09838358693,09839379678, [email protected]

LIST OF ELIGIBLE BOYS AND GIRLSWe are publishing hereunder information relating to marriageable boys and girls of our fraternity. The data has been

arranged in two lists. First List is about particulars of boys and second list is about particulars of girls. Our efforts are toinclude all particulars even receiving at the proof reading stage.

Particulars published in the lists are intimated by parents/guardians of wards or their relations/friends. We do notaccept any responsibility for their correctness. Our members are therefore requested to satisfy themselves about publisheddetails. These particulars are not necessarily advertisement in the “Kayastha Parivar”. While contacting to parents, pleaserefer “from particulars published in KP, we learnt you have a marriageable boy/girl”.

Lastly, though due care has been taken by us, we seek indulgence of readers for printing mistakes that may have creptin inadvertently.

Kindly note :· All girls are expected to be well versed in house-hold affairs. Such entries, therefore have been avoided.· Real mother alive, housewife is common to all the entries. Variations have been indicated.· All the twelve sects are eligible for all the eligible brides and grooms. Exceptions have been noted as preference.


Kayasth boy, 31, 5' 10", smart, B.Tech-IIT-k, MBA-IIM-B, AVP with MNC at Mumbai, drawing Rs. 50 LPApackage, Delhi based affluent family, seeksprofessionally quaified match. All upper castes arewelcome. Contact and mail to :[email protected], 09696523307.Saxena boy, 30, 5' 6", NUJS-Advocate, State LawOfficer, Allahabad High Court, father former High CourJudge, Chairman Tribunal, seeks educated, goodlooking cultured girl. Contact and mail to :[email protected], 09999219957.Kayasth boy, 28, 5' 5", very fair, handsome, B.Tech,MBA-NMIMS, working MNC, Gurrgaon, drawing Rs.12 LPA, Delhi Based kayasth family, seeksprofessionally qualified suitable match, preferablyworking Delhi/NCR. Contact and mail to :[email protected], 09818679191.Srivastava mangalik boy, 12.11.855' 10", 5' 10", BE,MBA, TV Professional at Mumbai, getting Rs. 8 LPA,seeks working girl, job transferable to Mumbai.Contact and mail to: 07982675946,[email protected] non-mangalik boy, 1988, 5' 8", B.Tech, AssttMgr-L & T, Mumbai, getting Rs. 9 LPA, Kanpur basedfamily, seeks working girl. Contact and mail to :[email protected], 09453570310.Bhatnagar anshik mangalik boy, 23.1.88, 5' 8",working IBM, Gurgaon, seeks fair, beautiful, tallprofessionally qualified girl. Contact and mail to :09899887605.Bhatnagar non-mangalik boy, Oct-79, 5' 7",handsome, slim, B.Tech, M.Tech, Asstt Professor, MIT,MBD, getting Rs. 8 LPA, seeks upper caste mangalik/non-mangalik suitable match. Contact and mail to :[email protected], 06395391982.Srivastava boy, 30, 5' 4", handsome, slim, MBA,Sr.Pro.Mgr in SSI(MNC), getting Rs. 7.5 LPA, fatherDy.Chief Controller in N.Rly, seeks only working girl.Contact and mail to : 09936650887, 09794841642.Kayasth boy, April-87, 165 cm, B.Tech, M.Tech-NIT-Jaipur, Dy.Manager, Adani Power, Ahmd, getting Rs.11+ LPA, seeks suitable match. Contact and mail to: [email protected], 09415174861.Bhatnagar boy, Feb-87, 5' 7", BE, Asstt. in New IndiaAssurance Co Ltd, family belongs to Lucknow, fatherAGM in Nationalised Bank, one-sister, seeks suitablematch preferably working girl. Contact and mail to :[email protected], 07763819905.Kayasth boy, 29, 5' 8", B.Tech-IT, Engr in Coal India-PSU, seeks sitable match, working/non-working.Contact and mail to : [email protected],08604927724, 08687310002.

Srivastava(Dr)non-mangalik boy, 31, 5' 7", BHMS,MD, Self-employed-own clinic, seeks equally qualifiedsuitable match preferably Medico from Homo/Teacher.Contact and mail to : 08601698860, 08299865914.Nigam boy, 37, 5' 9", smart, MA, working in Pvt Co,getting Rs. 15K per month, Kanpur resident, ownhouse, seeks suitable match, dowry less marriage,all kayasths eligible. Contact and mail to :07355972593, 09335322983.Kayasth boy, 31, 5' 6", BA, government employment,seeks beautiful, cultured government working girl.Contact and mail to : [email protected],09452906530, 08840575766.Srivastava boy, 1983, 5' 7", smart, gora, Govt.Teacher, seeks beautiful. gori, homely girl. Contactand mail to : 09264975932, 09454941999.Kayasth boy, 29, 5' 4", B.Tech, Jr.Engr in ReserveBank of India, Bihar/Jharkhand native, seeksmatchablegirl. Contact and mail to : 09031123642,029955089927.Saxena boy, 30, 5' 4", B.Com, working inNationalised Bank at Lucknow, seeks non-mangalik,beautiful, cultured, well versed in hoiuse affairs girl.Contact and mail to : 07505649012, 09792798891.Srivastava boy, 13.09.83, 5' 8", smart, Govt Teacher,seeks beautiful, educated girl preferably govt employeeand from Bulandkhan/Kanpur Region. Contact andmail to : 08736027689,09450295157, 9453524328.Srivastava boy, 13.09.83, 5' 8", smart, Govt Teacher,seeks beautiful, educated girl preferably govtemployeeand from Bulandkhan/Kanpur region.Contact and mail to : 08736027689, 09450295157,09453524328.Srivastava boy, 32, 5' 6", fair, B.Tech, JTO, BSNL,getting Rs. 7.5 LPA, seeks beautiful, gori, B.Tech,MCA or working in Nationalised Bank. Contact andmail to : 09452063575, 09140269566.Kayasth boy, 1983, 5' 8", M.Tech, Ph.D/IIT-Mumbai,University Professor, Mumbai, seeks equally qualifiedgori, 5' 4" girl preferably Bank PO, Govt job. Contactand mail to : 09044983977,[email protected] boy, Nov-87, 5' 10", fair, handsome,Asstt.Manager, Axis Bank, seeks beautiful, culturedgirl. Contact and mail to: [email protected],09935996862, 08960663447Srivastava anshik mangalik boy, 1990, 5' 7",working in UPPCL-Kesco, seeks suitable, beautiful,professionally qualified/working girl. Contact and mailto: [email protected], 08861986469,09616407274


Kayasth boy, 36, 5' 6", gora, M.Sc, B.Ed, UPTET,CTET, working in Govt, as Acctt, seeks suitable,gori,beautiful,well versed in house holds girl. Contactand mail to: 09565310865Kayasth boy, 34, 5' 10", widower, B.Tech, MBA, Engrin Railways, seeks working/non-working, divorcee,unmarried girl all eligible. Contact and mail to:09198544283, 09935463382Srivastava boy, 29, 5' 5", MBA, Dy.Mgr in KotakMahindra Bank, seeks gori beautiful working girl.Contact and mail to: 09956475084, 09792188111Kayasth boy, 29, 5' 10", B.Tech, MBA, working asClass-I Officer in PSU-SAIL, seeks working/non-working girl, all kayastha considered. Contact andmail to: 07839200170, 09682499011Kayasth boy, 28,(3.6.90), 5' 9", Acctt in Govt, seekswell versed in house hold girl preferably in govtemployment. Contact and mail to: 09839307260Kayasth boy, 29, 5' 8", M.Tech, IES-Officer workingin Railways, seeks suitable girl working/non-workingall eligible. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 09628948648, 08687510003Kayasth boy, 26, 5' 9", fair, haandsome, MBA,working in Bank at high position, seeks simple, sober,beautiful, cultured, educated, homely girl. Contactand mail to: 09411288199Srivastava boy, 07.06.84, 5' 2", working in IrrigationDeptt, seeks beautiful, educated, well versed in households girl. Contact and mail to: 09044940430Srivastava boy, 1985, 5' 8", B.Tech, Asstt.Engr inLIC, seeks beautiful, cultured, well versed in households girl preferably from Lucknow Region. Contactand mail to: [email protected], 07348063902Nigam boy, 37, 5' 9", smart, MA, working in Pvt Co.,getting Rs. 15K per month, own house, Kanpur basedfamily, seeks dowry less marriage, all kayasthconsider. Contact and mail to: 07355972593,09335322983Srivastava boy, 30, 5' 8", smart, BDS, seeks suitable,beautiful, well versed in house holds girl, earlymarriage. Contact and mail to: 09935212006,09621906540Srivastava boy (Dr), 28, 5' 6", MS-Obs-Gyn, selfemployed-running Nursing Home, seeks MS/MD orpursuing MS/MD girl. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 07987252746Nigam boy, 1985, 5' 11", fair, smart, B.Tech, MS-IT,IT-Consultant-London, seeks edcated, slim, beautiful,fair girl from reputed family. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 09425111505,09399883543Srivastava boy, 1989, 6' 2", BE, Biomedical Engr in

reputed Hospital, NCR, seeks professionally qualifiedworking girl. Contact and mail to: [email protected],09718750606Srivastava boy, 34, 5' 4", B.Tec+ MBA(IIT), workingin MNC,NCR, drawing Rs. 20 LPA, seeksprofessionally qualified girl. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 07011250473, 09958210845,0941566184Saxena boy, 30, 5' 10", Govt job, govt flat allotted,own HIG flat, seeks qualofied working girl, caste nobar. Contact and mail to: [email protected] boy(Dr), 31, 5' 10", Self employed-PractisingDoctor, seeks MS/MD (Clinical). Contact and mailto: [email protected], 09837038513Srivastava boy, 09.01.85, 167 cm, MBA-Finance,working NIIT, Pune, seeks tall, beautiful same castepreferably working girl. Contact and mail to:09452757966, 09695667444Asthana boy, 2.4.88, 5' 8", fair, B.Tech-IT, softewareEngr in Co deals with US, drawing Rs. 8 LPA, fatherretired PNB Manager, mother teacher, seeks suitablematch. Contact and mail to:09634758939Nigam non-angalik boy, 29, 5' 9", handsome,Software Engr at preent at New York on H1B, drawingRs. 35 LPA, seeks suitable match. Contact and mailto: [email protected], 09415016300Srivastava boy, 28, 5' 4", B.Tech, Mgr in PNB, seeksbeautiful girl from reputed family. Contact and mailto: [email protected], 08384050711,09016182515Srivastava mangalik boy, 29, 5' 9", working ForeignBank, Mumbai, drawing Rs. 20 LPA, parents workingin Govt on Sr positions, seeks similar based girl.Contact and mail to: [email protected]

GIRLASrivastava girl, Nov’79, 5’5’’, fair, MA, NIIT, NTT, 4sisters (3 married), 3 brothers , father retired SDO,living separately, seeks suitable match. Contact &mail to: Sh Pradeep Srivastava (brother), Varanasi,9415694843, 9450012522,[email protected] girl, June’92,5’, fair, MA,CTT, HTML, JAVA,C++, one sister, one brother, father Accountant, seekssuitable match. Contact & mail to: Sh Sunil KumarJohari, Sahibabad ,Ghaziabad, 9999062440,8285497130, [email protected] girl, Feb’87, 5’1’’, fair, MA , 3 sisters (allmarried), 2 brothers, father Advocate, seeks suitablematch. Contact & mail to: Sh Brij Bhushan Srivastava,Jalaun, 9454727800,9721156551Bisaria girl, Jan’86, 5’4’’, fair, M.Com, one sister,


seeks suitable match. Contact & mail to: Sh NarendraBisaria, Bareilly, 9528935542Saxena girl, June’84, 5’5’’, fair, B. Sc, MA, MBA, 4sisters (all married), 2 brothers, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Sh Prashant Saxena (Brother)Bijnor, 8923344607, 7351081230,[email protected] girl (Dr), Feb’92, 5’3’’, whitish, BHMS, onebrother, seeks suitable match. Contact & mail to: ShHari Shanker Saxena, Advocate, Mahoba,9450271291 [email protected] girl (Dr), Aug’86, 5’2’’, fair, MBBS, 6 sisters,one sister Doctor-married, 2 brothers (Engineer), seekssuitable match. Contact & mail to: Sh Baij Nath Nigam,Lucknow, 9415786142, [email protected] girl, Nov’87, 5’4’’, fair, Post Graduate, CCC,B. Ed, 6 sisters (one sister Doctor married), 2 brothers(Engineer), father retired, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Sh Baij Nath Nigam, Lucknow,9415786142, [email protected] girl, Sept’89, 5’2’’, fair, B.Com, MBA, onesister-married, 2 brothers, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Sh Mukesh Kumar Nigam (brother),Allahabad, Ph 7522020461, 9452248556,[email protected] Srivastava girl, Oct’85, 5’, MBA, B. Tech, workingas Mission Executive (Non–Government) inAAJEEVIKA, 2 sisters ( both married), seeks suitablematch. Contact & mail to: Sh Prem Prakash Srivastava(Advocate), Lucknow, 09415004382, 09454191422Khare girl, Oct’85, 5’2’’, fair, B.Com, MBA, PGDCA,2 brothers, seeks suitable match. Contact & mail to:Sh Vyom Prakash Khare , Lucknow, 9450453473,[email protected] mangalik girl, June’93, 4’11’’, fair,B.Com, MBA, Asstt Manager in Bandhan Bank, onesister, mother in service, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Smt Anjali Srivastava, Gorakhpur,9793023696, omsairam.viic @gmail.comSrivastava anshik mangalik girl, Sept’89, 5’1’’, fair,M. Sc, B. Ed, 2 brothers, father in job, seeks suitablematch. Contact & mail to: Sh Santosh KumarSrivastava, Lucknow, 9415152641,[email protected] girl, Nov’88, 5’4’’, Advocate at Lucknow,3 brothers, father in service, seeks suitable match.Contact & mail to: Sh Sarvesh Kulshrestha, Firozabad,8445214625, 9027069742, [email protected] girl, June’88,5’.0, fair, Pursuing B. Ed,PGDCA, BA, Prabhakar in Music, Computer Teacherin a Rae Bareli school, One brother, seeks suitablematch. Contact & mail to: Smt. Neeta Saxena, Rae

bareli, 9918351184, 9565541478Kayasth mangalik girl, 6/89, 5', fair, caring, CA, Sr.Mgr in Govt Bank, desires suitable and caring boy inNCR preferably in Govt/PSU. Contact and mail to:07011136614Saxena non-mangalik girl, July-79, 5' 2", fair, MNC,working in MNC Bank,Noida, seeks suitable match,caste no bar. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 09560647474, 120-4105577Srivastava girl, August-80, 5' 3", fair, beautiful, M.Sc,Ph.D, Class-I Officer, Govt of India, seeks suitablematch, uper caste no bar. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 07233852192Kayasth girl, 1977 born, 5' 3", Asstt.Professor in DelhiUniversity, seeks suitable match, early marriage.Contact and mail to: [email protected],09650662525Bhatnagar non-mangalik girl, Oct-90, 5' 4",beautiful, BE, MBA, working with Canadian Bank, PRholder, seeks suitable match preferably Toronto basedprofessionally qualified kayasth/upper caste boy.Contact and mail to: [email protected],09999311264-smsSrivastava girl, 26, 5' 1", smart, Medical Officer inGovt, alliance invited from highly educated, high statuskayasth family. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 09413372107Srivastava girl, 1989, 5' 9", very beautiful, Graduate-English-Hons (DU), MBA, Manager, MNC working,Mumbai, drawing Rs. 15LPA, seeks suitable match.Contact and mail to:[email protected], 08080586600,07506941405Ambastha non-mangalik girl, 27, 5' 5",Asstt.Professor in Delhi University, seeks preferablyNCR Zone boy. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 09811798499Nigam anshik mangalik girl, 29, 5' 3", beautiful,M.Com, MBA, working in Pune, Bhopal based family,seeks suitable match. Contact and mail to:09425015777, 07999068883Srivastava girl, 33, 5' 7", M.A, M. Phil, Lecturer inLucknow, seeks suitable match prefeably fromLucknow. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 07309171117,09005404946Srivastava girl (Dr), 34, 5' 1", BPT, MPT-Neuro,working in Pvt Hospital & Clinic at GKP-UP, seekssuitable match. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 08009584123,09891380485


Kayasth anshik mangalik girl, 27, 5' 2", beautiful,Section Officer,-Central Govt, father Sr.Class-I Officer,requires highly placed boy. Contact and mail to:09451846496, 08851883861Srivastava anshik mangalik girl, Aug-89, 5' 5",convent educated, CA, father practisng CA, at Ludiana& belongs to UP, seeks suitable match. Contact andmail to: [email protected], 09814023203Srivastava girl, 20.12.89, 5' 3", wheatish, B.Tech,Asstt.Mgr in Nationalised Bank, seeks boy from Bank,Govt service or emgineer, preferably from WesternRegion. Contact and mail to: 09235663942Srivastava girl, Oct-89, 5' 1', slim, beautiful ulturedfrom reputed family, Pharma, employed, seeks uitablesettled boy. Contact and mail to: 07355431822Saxena anshik mangalik girl, 1987, 5' 1", wheatish,M.Tech, Lecturer in Govt Polytechnic, seeks match

serving in State Govt/PSU/Bank prefernce to postingat Kanpur/Lucknow. Contact and mail to:07355438100, 7318252601Kayasth girl, 25, 5' 5", B.Tech -NIIT, Software Engr,MNC, seeks suitable match, all kayasth consider.Contact and mail to: 09935844091, 09129446864Kayasth girl, 26, 5' 4", B.Sc, BA, PO in SBI Bank,seeks suitable match, all kayasth consider. Contactand mail to: 09935844091, 09129446864Saxena girl, July-89, 5 3", gori, convent educated,B.Com, Company Secretary, Allahabad based family,seeks highly educated employed boy. Contact andmail to: [email protected], 07905318492Saxena girl, 26, 5' 7", fair, brautiful, slim, B.Tech,M.Tech, working Delhi, father Govt Officer,NCR based,seeks suitable match. Contact and mail to:[email protected], 09267970856

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euq’; le> x;k fd jk{kl Mjkrk gSA eSa M:¡xk rks og vkSj T;knk Mjk;sxkA eSa M:axk rks og tqYe djsxk tqYedjus okyk gkoh gks tkrk gSA blfy, ejus ls D;ksa M:a\ ;g “kjhj rks diM+kk gSA t:jr gqbZ rks igu fy;k] t:jru jgh rks iVd fn;kA dksbZ ekjsxk rks esjs diM+s dks ekjsxkA dksbZ ijokg ugha gSA ;g “kjhj ,d fnu ejus okyk gh gSejus dk Mj NksM+s cxSj euq’; dksbZ iq:’kkFkZ ugha dj ldrkA mlds fcuk bUlkfu;r fVd ugh ldrh A csMj] fuMj]fuHkX; cukuk pkfg,A fuMjrk lc xq.kksa esa Js’B gSA

uksV& *ejuk gS vfuok;Z fdlh fnu] Qy D;k jksdj tkus lsA*fdlh dfo fd ;s iafD;k vkt Hkh fdruh izklafxd gSA D;k ge ejus dk Mj fudkydj vius thou dk dqN

le; Hkxoku Jh fp=xqIr ds yxHkx lk<+s pkj lkS o’kZ iqjkus vkfn efUnj ds th.kkZ}kj ds fufer ughaa yxk ldrs\;fn ge Mjrs jgs rks le;] bfrgkl vkSj gekjh Hkkoh laifŸk gesa ekQ ugha djsxhA

rks vkb,] ge Hk; dk R;kx dj vius&vius?kjksa ls fudysa] Jh fp=xqIr lkewfgd :i ls blds fufer ru] euvkSj /ku ls tqV iM+s A gekjh fuMjrk vlkekftd rRoksa] vfrØe.kdkfj;ksa vkSj rFkkdfFkr vijkf/k;ksa dks ?kqVusVsdus vkSj eSnku NksMus dks foo”k dj nsxhA

blds fcuk ge vius iqj[kksa ¼Hkxoku Jh fp=xqIr½ ds bl Le`fr& fpUg dks u’V gksus ls ugha cpk ldrsAcl] vko”;drk bl ckrsa dh gS fd ge Hk;eqDr gks vksj blds fy, tqV iM+saA

fuHkZ;rk vko”;dfuHkZ;rk vko”;dfuHkZ;rk vko”;dfuHkZ;rk vko”;dfuHkZ;rk vko”;d

&fouksck Hkkos


ge vkx ls [ksyrs D;ksa ugha\ge vkx ls [ksyrs D;ksa ugha\ge vkx ls [ksyrs D;ksa ugha\ge vkx ls [ksyrs D;ksa ugha\ge vkx ls [ksyrs D;ksa ugha\ik.Ms; jfodkar flUgk mQZ fi.Vw JhokLroik.Ms; jfodkar flUgk mQZ fi.Vw JhokLroik.Ms; jfodkar flUgk mQZ fi.Vw JhokLroik.Ms; jfodkar flUgk mQZ fi.Vw JhokLroik.Ms; jfodkar flUgk mQZ fi.Vw JhokLro

D;ksa geus viuk lkgjk vkSj fuHkZ;rk [kks nh gS\ D;ksa

ugha geus viuh “kfä vkSj psruk dks nwljh tkfr;ksa dh

rjg igpkuuk “kq: dj fn;k\ D;ksa geus viuh {kerk ij

QQ¡wn mxk j[kh gS\ vkt fp=xqIr oa”ktksa ds ckjs esa mudh

{kerk vkSj vkRefuHkZjrk dh ckrsa dsoy eqgkojksa vkSj

yksddFkkvksa esa fleV dj jg xbZ gSaA xk¡oksa vkSj dLcksa esa]

Ldwyks a lfpoky;ksa] fo”fo|ky;ksa ;k U;k;ky;ksa ds

nj[rksa&nhokjksa esa fp=xqIr oa”ktksa dh mYys[kuh; lQyrkvksa

vkSj vykSfdd d;ksZa dh “kS;Z&xFkk,¡ vkt Hkh lqu&i<+dj

xoZ gksrk gSA bldk ,d dkj.k gSA fp=xqIr oa'kt dHkh

fdlh ij fuHkZj ugha jgs A os tUetkr dYiuk”khy vkSj

ltZd jgsA v/;;u muds fy, Kku dk L=ksr FkkA dk;Z

muds fy;s :fp FkhA viuh dYikuk ls mUgksaus vius Kku

dks viuh :fp ds vuqlkj <kydj u;s&u;s in cuk;sA

Lo;a viuh thfodk fuf”pr dh vkSj thfodk dks e;kZnk

nhA mudh cqf) lnSo ldkjkRed Fkh vkSj mUgksus vius

foosd dks ldkjkRed fd;kA ;gh dkj.k gS fd vkt Hkh

nwljh tkfr;k¡ O;lu Hkksxh gksdj fu/kZu curh gSaA fQj

nfjnzrk ls mudh dbZ ihf<+;k¡ vfHk”kr gks tkrh gSaA nfjnzrk

muds pfj= ls Hkh iru ds ekxZ ij /kdsy dj lnSo ds fy;s

vfHk”kIr dj nsrh gsA ij fp=xqIr oa”kt xjhc ;k fu/kZu

t:j gq,] ij nfjnz ugha gq,A mUgksaus xjhch esa Hkh viuh

dkYifudrk vkSj okSf)d psruk ugha [ksbZA tjk&lk vuqdwy

volj vkSj os izfr’Bk ds mPp f”k[kj ij LFkkfir gq,A

mudk vkRefo”okl dHkh fMxk ughaA /ku dks mUgksaus eku

fy;k fd mls dqŸkk rd ugha lw¡?krk A og vkRefo”okl gh

Fkk fd os vkx ls lnSo [ksyrs jgs vkSj ns”k&ns”kkUrj esa

QSyrs pys x;sA muesa vkil es a,drk FkhA muds Hkhrj

mitkfr;ksa tSlh bZ’;kZ ugha FkhA mUgksaus viuh fn”kk vkSj

nf’V] nksuksa dks U;k; ls fodflr fd;k] dHkh i{kkikr ls

ughaA

ij vkt\ vkt fp=xqIr oa”ktksa dks nwljh tkfr;ksa dk

Nwr yx x;k gSA os dsoy ukSdfj;ksa ds fy;s i<+ jgs gSa] Kku

ds fy;s ughaA mUgksaus viuh cqf) ij Hkjkslk j[kuk NksM+

fn;k gSA ;g dgkor Hkh gS fd tgk¡ cqf) ij Hkjkslk j[kuk

NksM+ fn;k gSA ;g dgkor Hkh gS fd tgk¡ cqf) dh deh

gksrh gS] ogk¡ pkykdh iSnk gks tkrh gSA ,slk gh muesa Hkh

gksrk tk jgk gSA os v/;;u ds fy;s la?k’kZ u djds] chp

esa gh f”k{kk LFkkfxr dj jgs gSaA os ek= NksVh&NksVh

ukSdfj;ksa dks ikdj r`Ir gks jgs gSaA mUgksaus fp=xqIr oa”ktksa

ds oSKkfud jgu&lgu ls ukrk rksM+ fy;k gSA ,slh ckr

ugha gS fd lkjk nks’k mudk gh gSA nks’k fp=xqIr oa”ktks ds

lekt dk Hkh gSA bl lekt essa Kku ds ctk; /ku dh

izfr;ksfxrk c<+rh tk jgh gSA ngst dk nkuo mudh

ekrkvksa vkSj cguksa dks fuxy jgk gSA lekt dh mfpr

ns[kHkky ds vHkko esa mudh f”k{kk gh ugha] mudk laLdkj

Hkh lqjf{kr ugha gSA mUgksaus thfodk ;k O;olk; dh fn”kk

esa vU; tkfr;ksa dh rjg viuh fn”k,¡ ugha cnyha gSaA

laLdr fo”ofo|ky; vkt Hkh lefiZr gSA vkt D;ksa ugha

lekt dh ;qok ih<+h vkxs c<+ ik jgh gS\ D;ksafd mlds

Hkhrj vkRefo”okl vkSj vkRefuHkZjrk d L=ksr lw[k x;k

gSA mldh dkYifudrk vkSj ltZukRedrk dks lqfo/kk vkSj

Hkksx dk liZ M¡l x;k gSA og Hkh miHkksäkoknh laLdfr esa

Q¡ldj] le; ds dksM+s viuh ihB ij >sy jgh gSA O;olk;

ds u;s {ks= vkSj dk;Z dh ubZ fn”kkvksa dks viukdj vkxs

c<+us esa os vius dks ghu eku jgs gSaA os m|ksx ds {ks= esa

fjLd ysuk rks nwj] mldh ckr Hkh djuk ilUn ugha djrs

gSaA ioZrkjksg.k] [ksy&dwn] lqj{kk vkSj “kkjhfjd Je ls mUgsa

uQjr gSa vf/kdka”k rks ek¡&cki dh dekbZ ij vius ifjokj

lfgr fuHkZj gSaA usrkvksa vkSj jktuhfrd xqVksa rFkk ns”kh

dkys vQljksa ds ihNs&ihNs vf/kdka”k ;qod ukSdjh ikus ds

fy;s nqe fgykrs fQj jgs gSaA ?kwl vkSj flQ+kfj”k ds tqxkM+

esa os LokfHkeku dks fxjoh j[k ns jgs gSaaA bPNk gksrh gS fd

mUgsa >d>ksj nw¡A

muds vfLrRo dks vkgr dj nw¡ ftlls os mBsa vkSj

vius iwoZtksa dh rjg vkx ls [ksyrs gq, vkxs c<+sA


eflthfo;ksa ds nsorkeflthfo;ksa ds nsorkeflthfo;ksa ds nsorkeflthfo;ksa ds nsorkeflthfo;ksa ds nsork

lalkj dh izR;sd tkfr oa”k “kkL= dh nf’V gSA vius

oa”k dks efgek eafMr djus ds fy, viuk ewy fdlh

ikSjkf.kd iq:’k] nsork vFkok u{k= esa <wa<wrh jgh gSA tSls

jkepUnz ds iqj[kksa dh Ja[kyk esa lw;Z dks vkfn&iq:’k ekuk

x;k gSA vkt Hkh bZjku vkSj tkiku ds jktoa”k vius dks

lw;Zoa”kh dgrs gSaA

Hkkjrh; ikSjkf.kd dFkkvksa esa ,sls vla[; pfj= gSaA

ftudh thouxkFkk dks ljLkjh rkSj ij ns[kus ls ckr iYys

ugha iMrh gSA bu dFkkvksa esa vusd jaxksa dk feJ.k gSA

dYiuk dh Å¡ph mM+ku gS] rks vk/;kRe dk xksiu jgL;

HkhA dgha O;ax gS] dgha fouksn gS] rks dgha naM& fo/kku gSA

vkSj Hkh cgqr dqN gSSA

bl i’BHkwfe esa ge ;ejkt ds pfj= dks ysdj ns[krs

gSaA ;ejkt dks /keZjke Hkh dgk tkrk gSA budk jax gjk

dgk x;k gSA ;s yky oL= /kkj.k djrs gSaA budk HkSalk gSA

buds eqa”kh iki&iq.; dk fglkc j[krs gSa ftUgsa fp=xqIr

dgrs gSaA fp=xqIr dh cgh dk uke *vxzla/kkuh* gS ftlesa

izR;sd thou dk vyx&vyx iki&iq.; dk fglkc jgrk

gSA ;ejkt dh uxjh dks ;eiqjh] jktegy dks dkyh=h

vkSj flagklu dks fopkj&Hkw dgrs gSaA egkpaM vkSj dkyj{kd

buds “kjhj j{kd ;enwr buds vuqpj rFkk oS/;r budk

}kjiky gSA nks izpk.M dqRrs ftUgsa pkj vk¡[ksa rFkk pkSM+s

uFkqus gSa] buds ;gka igqapus okys iFk ds laj{kd dgs x, gSaA

Lefr;ksa ds vuqlkj pkSng ;g gSa&;e] /keZjkt eR;q]

vUrd] oSoLor] dky] loZHkwr{k;] vkSVqEcj] n/u] uhy]

ijes’Bh] odksnj] fp=] vkSj fp=xqIrA muesa ls izR;sd ds

uke rhu&rhu vatfy ty riZ.k esa fn;k tkrk gSA

fp=xqIr ds laca/k esa in~eiqj.k] x:M+ iqjk.k] Hkfo’;

iqjk.k] LdUn iqjk.k vkfn iqjk.kksa esa vusd dFkk,a gSaA ,d

dFkk ds vuqlkj ;s dsrq u{k= ds vf/kifr vkSj vf/knsork

gSaaA

jk; izHkkdj izlkn

LdUn iqjk.k ds vuqlj fp= uked ,d jktk Fks tks

fglkc&fdrkc essa cMs+ fuiq.k FksA ;ejkt us bUgsa ugkrs

le; idM+ eaxok;k Fkk ysfdu Hkfo’; iqjk.k ds vuqlkj

czák ds “kjhj ls fp=xqIr mRiUu gq, FksA “kjhj vFkkZr~

dk;k ls mRiUu gksus ds dkj.k bUgsa dk;LFk dgk x;kA

buds gkFk esa dye&nkor Fkk] blfy, czák us bUgsa iki&iq.;

dk ys[kk j[kus dks dgkA x:M+ iqjk.k ds vuqlkj ¼fp=dYi½

;eiqjk ds ikl fp=xqIriqj gS tgka dk;LFk yksx cjkcj

buds v/khu jgdj dke fd;k djrs gSaA

loZ lk/kkj.k esa ;g /kkj.kk gS fd dkfrZd “kqDyi{k

f}rh;k vFkkZr~ ;ef}rh;k ds fnu flQZ yksx fp=xqIr dh

rFkk dye&nkokr dh iwtk djrs gSaaA ;g lgh gS fd

eflthoh tkfr gksus ds dkj.k dk;LFkksa us lfn;ksa ls vius

dks bl ikSjkf.kd nsor dk oa”kt ekuk gS tSlk fd eRL;

iqjk.k eas Hkh of.kZr gSA ysfdu oLrqfLFkfr ;g gS fd

dk;LFk&dqy ls fHkUu dqyksa esa tUes vussd eflthoh yksx

mlh J)k HkfDr ds lkFk fp=xqIr egkjkt dh iwtk djrs

gSaA blfy, dk;LFkksa dks pkfg, fd os fp=xqIr egkjkt

vius ,dkf/kdkj dk nkok NksM+ nsaaA

uoa”k “kkL= dh nf’V ls Hkkjr esa vFkok lalkj ds vU;

Hkkxksa eas Hkh] dqN fxuh&pquh ou tkfr;ksa dks NksM+dj ,slh

dksbZ tkfr ugha gS ftlesa fo”kq) jDr dk lapkj gksA is”ks rFkk

O;olk; esa tkfr;ksa dks nhokjksa esa dSn dj fn;k x;k dk;LFk

tkfr Hkh bldk viokn ugha gSA ,d tekuk Fkk tc dk;LFk

“kCn dk vFkZ ljdkjh deZpkjh gqvk djrk Fkk laLdr ds

izfl) ukVd **ePNdkVde** esa bldk n’Vkar feyrk gSA

ljdkjh deZpkfj;ksa dk oxZ dkydze ls vius dks ,d

vfofPNUu oa”k dk oa”kt ?kksf’kr dj cSBkA bl oa”k dks

efgek eafMr djus ds fy, ,d iqjk.k&iw:’k dh vko”;drk

FkhA ml vko”;drk dh iwfrZ fp=xqIr egkjkt ls gqbZA

ysfdu fp=xqIr egkjkt rks lHkh efltho;ksa ds nsork gSaA


** mikluk*] thou dh vfuok;Z vko”;drk**** mikluk*] thou dh vfuok;Z vko”;drk**** mikluk*] thou dh vfuok;Z vko”;drk**** mikluk*] thou dh vfuok;Z vko”;drk**** mikluk*] thou dh vfuok;Z vko”;drk**

izk;% izR;sd euq’; izfrfnu dqN le; miluk izkFkZuk ds fy,lqjf{kr j[krk gh gSA Hkys og Hkxoku vFkok vius b’V ds lehicSBdj ;k pyrs fQjrs Luku djrs le; dh xbZ gksA bZ”oj dkLej.k gksuk gh gSA cgq/kk yksx izkFkZuk ;k ti dh fØ;k dks le;]LFkku] vFkok la[;k dh ifjf/k esa ugha cka/k ikrsA tc tgka gqvk]ftl le; gqvk] Lej.k ek= dj fy;kA Hkko ls ;k vU; euLdHkko lsA ek= deZdkaM dks gh mikluk dk lE;d Lo:i le>fy;k tkrk gSA ;Fkk “kadj th dks dqN yksx ty&Qwy viZ.k djnsuk&iwtk x`g esa vxjcŸkh tyk nsuk] ;k nhid fn[k nsuk blhizdkj dh iwtk vpZuk izkFkZuk n”kZu dj yksx vius drZO; dhbfrJh eku~ ysrs gSaA lUrks’k dj ysrs gSA

mi dk vFkZ gS **lehi** vkSj vklkuk dk vFkZ **cSBuk**Aijes”oj ds lehi cSBukA vfXu ds lkehI; ls xehZ rFk ty

ds lehI; ls “khryrk nksuksa xq.kksa ls euq’; izHkkfor gksrk gsAblhizdkj Hkxoku ds lehi cSBus ls nSoh xq.kksa dh vfHko`f) gksuhpkfg,] vU;Fkk mikluk dSlh\

LFkwy oLrq,¡ gj le; vk¡[kksa d vkxs mifLFkr jgrh gS vkSjmudk vuqHko bfUnz;ksa ls ckj&ckj gksrk jgrk gSA ij tks lw{e gSvn`”; gS mldk foLej.k gks tkuk LokHkkfod gSA bZ”oj ,dvN’; lRrk gS tks u rks bfUnz;ks ads vuqHko ls vkrh gS vkSj uvk¡[kksa ls nh[krh gSA ,slh n”kk esa vkerkSj ls mls Hkwys jgrs gSa\ ;ksadgus dh ge lHkh bZ”oj dks tkurs vkSj ekurs gS] mlds lEca/k esa cgqr dqN i<+rs&lqurs Hkh gSaA fdUrq og ekU;rk /kqa/kyh lh Nk;kek= cudj efLrd ds fdlh dksus esa iM+h jgrh gSa dqfopkjksa dksjksdus vkSj dqdeksa ij vadq”k j[kus ds fy, bZ”oj dh ,d Li’VLe`fr gekjs ân; esa vafdr jguh pkfg,A

euq’; thou dk pj lk/; gS] vkRe&”kkfUr] ftldk vk/kj gSos Js’Brk;sa tks ijekRek ds LokHkkfod xq.k gSa vkSj mUgsa miklukds vk/kkj ij gh ik;k tk ldrk gSA fdUrq lPph mikluk og gStks dsoy mikluk ds fy, fu’dke gksdj dh tk;sA

fu’dke :i ls mikluk izkjEHk dj ijekRek ls vkRek dklEcU/k LFkkfir dfj;s vkSj Js’Brkvksa dh miyfC/k dj lq[k “kkfUrds v{k; vkuUn ls Hkjs thou vkSj vkuUn dh ij[k dhft,A

gekjk izR;sd Hkko] fopkj] fØ;k vkSj oLrq mikluk dk Lo:icu tk;s&bl mPp fLFkfr dks ikus rd gekjk ikou drZO; gS fdge izfrfnu vkSj xgjs eu ls ijekRek dh FkksM+h&FkksM+h mikluk rksdjrs gh pysaA ;s FkksM+h&FkksM+h mikluk Hkh tc gekjs thou esavfuok;Z vko”;drk cudj gesa vious vHkko esa lrkus yxsxh rcblh mikluk esa ,d vkuUn] ,d fogoyrk vkSj ,d dkrjrk dklekos”k gksus yxsxka bl Hkko lEiUu laf{kIr mikluk dk izHkkorc gekjs fnu ds yEcs le; rd cuk jgsxkA vkSj ge mruh nsjijekRek dk lkehI; vuqHkko djrs jgsxsaA blh izdkj ;s laf+{kIrmikluk T;ksa&T;ksa ifjiDo rFkk vkRelkr gksxh R;ksa&R;ksa mldkizHkko foyfEcr ,oa LFkk;h gksrk tk;sxk vkSj ;fn mikluk esa viusân; dh xgjkbZ vkSj bZekunkjh vf/kdkf/kd c<+kbZ tkrh jgs rkstjk Hkh vlaHkkO; ugha fd blh laf{kIr mikluk }kjk ge tYnh ghml d{kk esa tk igq¡psxsa] tgk¡ igq¡pdj Lo;a vius ds lkFk lkjklalkj ijekReke; vkSj ijekRek lalkje; nh[kus yxrk gSA viuhfØ;k&izfØ;k] Hkko] fopkj vkSj “ok¡l&iz”ok¡l rd ijekRek :i

d".k xksiky ekFkqj

vuqHko gksus yxrk gSAog D;k izkFkZuk tks d’V dh fuo`fr vkSj LokFkZ dh flf) dk

mns”; ysdj dh tk;A izkFkZuk rks og gS tks rUe;rk vkSj vkuUndh vUr% lEink dks vf/kdkf/kd c<+krs pyus ds dh tkrh gSA d’Vfuo`fr vkSj LokFkZ flf) u gksus ij izkFkZuk ds cnys cht mRiUugksrh gS] blls yxrk gS mldk vk/kkj gh xyr FkkA lPph izkFkZukrks gekjh viw.kZrk dk ?kj Øe”k% Hkjrh gh tkrh gSA dy dh vis{kkvkt viuk ik= Hkjk ns[kdj vkuUn ds mikld dks lUrks’k ghgksxkA lr~ fpr~ vkuUn Hkjh lŸkk ds fudV igq¡pus dh ps’Bk esa&mikluk esa fujk”kk vkSj cht dSls gkFk yx ldrh gSA vkuUn dhfn”kk esa c<+k;k x;k gj dne rks lq[kn gh gksuk pkfg,A vk/kkjdks fod`r dj ysus ij tks HkVdko vkrk gS cht mlh dk izfrQygSA izkFkZuk gesa m¡pk mBkrh gS vkSj muls feykrh gS tks Å¡ps mBsgq, gSaaA mikL;d ,slk gksuk pkfg, ftlds lehi igq¡pus okyk jksukHkwydj eqLdkuk lh[ks vkSj viuh g¡lh ls lehiorhZ okrkoj.k dksg¡lk nsA

vr`fIr vkSj O;Fkk rks gekjs b’V ugha gS] fQj mUgha ds vkokgufoltZu dk vuq’Bku D;ksa fd;k tk;\ ije rRo dh vksj c<+rs gq,gekjs izR;sd dne lR; ds] f”ko ds] lqUnj ds vf/kdkf/kd fudVigq¡prs tk;sxsaA rUe;rk vkSj vkuUn vius vki esa ojnku gSAvr`fIr dk fpUru bu nksuksa vuqnkuksa dh lgr izkfIr esa vojks/k ghmRiUUk djrk gSa ;fn izkFkZuk gh djuh gS rks D;ksa u vkuUndks&mYykl dks viuk,¡A

izFkZuk ;kpuk ugha gks ldrh] mlesa leZi.k Hkjk jgrk gSA yksxksaus ikus dk ykHk ns[kk gS ij nsus dk vkuUn ugha le>kA izHkq dksviuk vkik lkSaidj ges aloksZifj nku dk tks xkSjo izkIr gksrk gsmldh rqyuk mlh ykHk ;k lUrks’k ds lkFk ugha gks ldrhA

viuh vkdka{kk gVus yxs izHkq dh bPNk ml LFkku dks xzg.kdjus yxs rks le>uk pkfg, fd mlh vuqikr ls izkFkZuk lQy gksjgh gSA izHkq ds n”kZu blh :i esa gksrs gSa fd os vUr%dj.k dhdq:irk lesV ysrs gSa vkSj ml LFkku ij viuk lkSUn;Z l¡tks nsrsgSaA bls vkSj Hkh vf/kd Li’V le>uk gks rks d’B fuo`fr vkSj LokFkZflf) tSls euksjFkksa ds LFkku ij mu mRd`’B vkn”kksZ dh LFkkiukgksrh gS tks rUe;rk vkSj vku&n ds :i esa vuojr :i ls viuklkSjHk fc[ksjrs jgrs gSaA izHkq dks leiZ.k djus dk vFkZ gS vag dk]mldh dkeuk dk lekiuA

ijerRo ds lkehI; ds fy, lcls fudVorhZ LFkku viukvUr%dj.k gh gSA ogha vURk%dj.k dh iqdkj ls fudyus okys eU=ksadh “kfDr gh dke djrh gSA vko”;d ugha fd os “kkL=ksa }kjkfl[kk;s vkSj xq:vksa }kjk crk;s x;s gksaA

vkRek tc ijekRek ds fudV igq¡prh gS rks Hkk’kk dh ifjf/k VwVtkrh gS vkSj feyu dh vuqHkwfr vius vki gh izdV gksus yxrhgSA

vius vUrdj.k ls c<+ dj lk{kkRdkj dk vkSj dksbZ mi;qDrLFkku ughaA lgh izkFkZuk og gS tks dkeukvksa dks Hkkouk esa cnynsA ikus dh vis{kk nsus dh vkrqjrk tc epyus yxs rks le>ukpkfg, mikL; dk vuqxzg ewfrZeku gks pykA Hkko fog~oy dkeukjfgr **mikluk** gh thou dh vfuok;Z vko”;drk gSA


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vHkh gky gh esa *efgyk vkj{k.k fcy pyk x;k [kVkbZ esaAeSaus ,d [kVkbZ&fo”ks’kK ls iwNk fd izHkq vkf[kjdkj ,slk gknlkefgykvksa ds fcy ds lkFk D;ksa gqvk\ os FkksM+h nsj lksprs jgsHkhrj&gh&Hkhrj viuk flj uksaprs jgsA fQj mUgkasus viuh pksap[kksyh vkSj mlesa ls fudyh ;g cksyh& efgyk vkj{k.k fcy dksrks [kVkbZ esa tkuk gh FkkA ;fn og u x;k gksrk rks u tksu vktds fdrus iq:’k&usrk [kVkbZ es apys tkrs vxys pquko esaA

bl fcy dks rcrd [kVkbZ esa j[kuk gS] tcrd jktuhfres aefgyk,¡ iq:’kksa ds nk¡r [kVs djus yk;d ugha gks tkrhA cfYddqN efgaykvksa dk rks ;gk¡ rd dguk gS fd bl fcy dks rcrd[kVkbZ es aj[kuk gS tcrd fd vxys oxZ dh efgykvks ads nk¡r[kVs djus yk;d fiNys oxZ dh efgy,¡ ugha gks tkrhA

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m/kj d”kehj leL;k vkt ipkl o’kksZa ls [kVkbZ esa gSAHkkjr&ikd vius iWkdsV esa jksM+s dh rjg ijek.kq ce ysdj /kwejgs gSa] tSls ,Ve ce u gks vkyw&ce gks muds iklA D;ksa ughbl leL;k dks vxyh dbZ “krkfCn;ksa rd [kVkbZ esa jgus nsrsnksuksa ns”kksa ds yksx] vkSj lq[k&pSu ls jgrs A

vc v;ks/;k&leL;k dks gh ysaA fdruk vPNk Fkk tc rddh vnkyr dh [kVkbZ esa iM+s jgs Fks vYykg fe;k¡ vkSj e;kZnkiq:’kksŸke jkeA T;kasgh mUgsa [kVkbZ ls fudkyus ds iz;kl gq,ckosyk ep x;kA

esjk rks jk; gS fd ns”k dh lkjh Toyar leL;kvksa dksvuUrdky rd [kVkbZ esa Mky nh tk;sA ;fn blds fy, ns”kds lafo/kku dks Hkh cnyuk iM+s rks dksbZ ?kcM+kus dh ckr ughaAge lafo/kku dks Hkh dqN fnu [kVkbZ esaa Mky nsaxsA oSls Hkh gefo/kku lHkk vkSj laln dks le;≤k ij [kVkbZ esa Mkyrs ghjgs gSaA eq>s iwjk fo”okl gS fd vius bl egku ns”k dks dkbZ rq=cpk ldrk gS rks og gS [kVkbZ&ra=A

vkse Jh fp=xqIr egkjkt t; gks Jh fp=xqIr Lokehlcdks nsrs U;k; rqEgha izHkq rqe vUrj;kehAA

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¼1½ es"k jkf'k ¼ pw] ps] pks] yk] yw]yh] ys] yks] v ½ %& es"k jkf'k dsyksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg dqN gn rd

vPNk gksxk tc çxfr&mUufr gksxh] ;k=k,¡ gksaxh]èkkfeZd vuq"Bku Òh gksaxs vkSj ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxk ,oadqN gn rd ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒ gksxk rFkk dqN gnrd uke] ;’k] in&çfr"Bk o lQyrk Òh feysxh vkSj/kukxeu gksxk ,oa 'kkSd&ekSt dk le; gksxk rFkkthou&lkFkh dk lkFk feysxk] ysfdu lkFk&gh&lkFklarku o lêk&ykSVjh ds {ks= esa gkfu&{kfr o fujk'kkds nkSj ls xqtjuk iM+sxk vkSj dsfj;j o py&vpylEifÙk ds ekeys esa Òh my>uksa dk lkeuk djuk iM+ldrk gS ( gk¡] viuk edku&¶ySV vkfn ij vR;f/kdO;; dk ladsr feyrk gSA

¼2½ o“k jkf'k ¼ Ã] m] ,] vks] ok] oh] oq] os] oks ½ %&o“k jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk ugha gksxktc gkfu&{kfr o fujk'kk ds nkSj ls xqtjuk gksxk vkSjdk;Z{ks= esa cgqr dqN u"V gksus dk ladsr feyrk gS ,oathou&lkFkh ds fy, vPNk ladsr ugha feyrk gS rFkkçxfr&mUufr ckf/kr gksxh] /kkfeZd vuq"Bku esa Òhckèkk&fo?u dk lkeuk djuk iM+sxk vkSj ÒkX; Òh lkFkugha nsxk] ysfdu mi;qZä ds ckotwn] dsfj;j o py&vpylEifÙk ls ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒ dk ladsr feyrk gS vkSjdqN gn rd larku o lêk&ykSVjh ds fy, vPNkladsr feyrk gS ,oa dqN gn rd /kukxeu gksxk rFkkO;olkf;d lQyrk feysxhA

¼3½ feFkqu jkf'k ¼ dk] dh] dq] ?k] ³] N] ds] dks] gk½ %& feFkqu jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk gksxktc çxfr&mUufr gksxh] ;k=k,¡ gksaxh] /kkfeZd vuq"BkuÒh gksaxs vkSj ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxk ,oa dsfj;j o py&vpylEifÙk ds fy, vPNk ladsr feyrk gS vkSj larku olêk&ykSVjh ls ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒ dk ladsr feyrkgS ,oa O;olkf;d lQyrk Òh feysxh] ysfduthou&lkFkh ds fy, vPNk ladsr ugha feyrk gS vkSjthou&lkFkh dh vksj ls >xM+k&>a>V] fojks/k&'k=qrk]chekjh&pksV vkfn dk ladsr feyrk gSA

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¼4½ ddZ jkf'k ¼ gh] gw] gs] gks] Mk] Mh] Mw] Ms] Mks ½%& ddZ jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg dqN gn rdlkgfld dk;Z djus dk gksxk vkSj nksLrksa ds fy, gksxk]ysfdu cgqr dqN u"V gksus dk ladsr feyrk gS vkSjlarku o thou&lkFkh ds ekeys esa >xM+k&>a>V]fojksèk&'k=qrk] chekjh&pksV vkfn dk ladsr feyrk gS,oa lêk&ykSVjh ds ekeys es a Òh >xM+k&>a>V]fojksèk&'k=qrk vkfn dk ladsr feyrk gS rFkk dk;Z{ks=esa Òh cgqr dqN u"V gksus dk ladsr feyrk gS] ysfdumi;qZä ds ckotwn] /kukxeu gksxk vkSj ykÒ o foÙkhlykÒ gksxk ,oa dqN gn rd dsfj;j o py&vpylEifÙk ds fy, vPNk ladsr feyrk gS rFkk >xM+k&>a>V]fojks/k&'k=qrk vkfn ds ckotwn] çxfr&mUufr gksxh];k=k,¡ gksaxh vkSj ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxkA

¼5½ flag jkf'k ¼ ek] eh] ew] es] ek] Vk] Vh] Vw] Vs ½%& flag jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk ughagksxk tc cgqr dqN u"V gksus dk ladsr feyrk gS vkSj/ku dh gkfu gksxh ,oa 'kkSd&ekSt çÒkfor gksxk rFkklarku o lêk&ykSVjh ds ekeys esa >xM+k&>a>V]fojksèk&'k=qrk vkfn dk ladsr feyrk gS vkSj dsfj;j opy&vpy lEifÙk ds ekeys esa Òh >xM+k&>a>V]fojksèk&'k=qrk vkfn dk ladsr feyrk gS] ysfdu mi;qZäds ckotwn] thou&lkFkh ds fy, vPNk ladsr feyrk gStc çxfr&mUufr gksxh] ;k=k,¡ gksaxh] /kkfeZd vuq"BkuÒh gksaxs vkSj ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxk ,oa thou&lkFkh dsfy, ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒ dk ladsr feyrk gSA

¼6½ dU;k jkf'k ¼ Vks] ik] ih] iw] “k] .k] B] is] iks ½%& dU;k jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk ughagksxk tc lc dqN my>rk pyk tk;sxk vkSj dsfj;jo py&vpy lEifÙk ds ekeys esa Òh >xM+k&>a>V]fojks/k&'k=qrk vkfn dk ladsr feyrk gS ,oa cgqr dqNu"V gksus dk Òh ladsr feyrk gS rFkk çxfr&mUufrckf/kr gksxh] /kkfeZd vuq"Bku esa Òh ck/kk&fo?u dklkeuk djuk iM+sxk vkSj ÒkX; Òh ckf/kr jgsxk vkSj èkudh gkfu gksxh rFkk 'kkSd&ekSt çÒkfor gksxk vkSjlarku o lêk&ykSVjh ds ekeys esa Òh cgqr dqN u"V


gksus dk ladsr feyrk gS ,oa thou&lkFkh ds ekeys esaÒh gkfu&{kfr o fujk'kk ds nkSj ls xqtjuk gksxk rFkkthou&lkFkh ij vR;f/kd o O;FkZ O;; dk ladsrfeyrk gS vkSj ’kkfUr dh gj ryk’k O;FkZ lkfcr gksxkA

¼7½ rqyk jkf'k ¼ jk] jh] #] js] jks] rk] rh] rw] rs ½ %&rqyk jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg thou&lkFkh lstqM+us dk gksxk vkSj çse&I;kj dk gksxk ,oa ân; dhÒkouk,¡ vadqfjr gksaxh rFkk O;olk; ls /kukxeu gksxkvkSj dsfj;j o py&vpy lEifÙk ls /kukxeu gksxk,oa larku o lêk&ykSVjh ds fy, vPNk ladsr feyrkgS rFkk çxfr&mUufr gksxh] ;k=k,¡ gksaxh] /kkfeZd vuq"BkuÒh gksaxs vkSj ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxk vkSj] ysfdu mi;qZä dsckotwn] dk;Z{ks= esa gkfu&{kfr o fujk'kk ds nkSj lsxqtjuk gksxk vkSj vR;f/kd o O;FkZ O;; dk Òh ladsrfeyrk gSA

¼8½ of'pd jkf'k ¼ rks] uk] uh] uw] us] uks] ;k] ;h] ;w½ %&of'pd jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk gksxktc /kukxeu gksxk vkSj 'kkSd&ekSt dk le; gksxk ,oalkgfld dk;Z gksaxs] nksLrksa dk lkFk feysxk rFkklQyrk Òh feysxh vkSj dsfj;j o py &vpy lEifÙkls Òh /ku dk ykÒ gksxk ,oa ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒ Òhgksxk rFkk larku o lêk&ykSVjh ds fy, Òh vPNkladsr feyrk gS vkSj çse&I;kj dk le; gksxk ,oa ân;dh Òkouk,¡ vadqfjr gksaxh] firk ls ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒgksxk] çxfr&mUufr gksxh] ;k=k,¡ gksaxh] /kkfeZd vuq"BkuÒh gksaxs rFkk ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxk vkSj uke] ;’k]in&çfr"Bk o lQyrk Òh feysxh] ysfdu thou&lkFkhds fy, vPNk ladsr ugha feyrk gSA

¼9½ /kuq jkf'k ¼ ;s] ;ks] Òk] Òh] Òw] /k] Q] m] Òs ½ %&/kuq jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk ugha gksxktc gkfu&{kfr o fujk'kk ds nkSj ls xqtjuk gksxk vkSjdk;Z{ks= esa cgqr dqN u"V gksus dk ladsr feyrk gS ,oacnukeh&vi;’k Òh fey ldrk gS rFkk larku olêk&ykSVjh ds ekeys esa >xM+k&>a>V] fojks/k&'k=qrkvkfn dk ladsr feyrk gS] ysfdu mi;qZä ds ckotwn]dqN gn rd lkgfld dk;Z gksaxs] nksLrksa dk lkFkfeysxk vkSj dqN gn rd çse&I;kj dk le; gksxk ,oaân; dh Òkouk,¡ vadqfjr gksaxh rFkk dqN gn rdèkukxeu gksxk vkSj 'kkSd&ekSt dk le; gksxk ,oa dqN

gn rd çxfr&mUufr gksxh] /kkfeZd vuq"Bku Òh gksaxsrFkk ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxk vkSj thou&lkFkh ds fy,vPNk ladsr feyrk gSA

¼10½ edj jkf'k ¼ Òks] tk] th] [kh] [kw] [ks] [kks] xk]xh ½ %& edj jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNkugha gksxk tc gkfu&{kfr o fujk'kk ds nkSj ls xqtjukgksxk vkSj vkSj /ku dh gkfu gksxh] 'kkSd&ekSt çÒkforgksxk ,oa ikfjokfjd thou Òh çÒkfor gksxk rFkkdsfj;j o py&vpy lEifÙk ds ekeys esa Òh gkfu&{kfro fujk'kk ds nkSj ls xqtjuk gksxk vkSj gkfu o foÙkh;gkfu dk Òh ladsr feyrk gS ,oa lêk&ykSVjh ds ekeysesa fdlh Òh çdkj dk [krjk eksy u ysa] ysfdu mi;qZäds ckotwn dqN gn rd çxfr&mUufr gksxh] /kkfeZdvuq"Bku Òh gksaxs vkSj ÒkX; cpkus dk dke djsxkA

¼11½ dqEÒ jkf'k ¼ xw] xs] xks] lk] lh] lw] ls] lks] nk½ %& dqEÒ jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk gksxktc ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒ gksxk vkSj uke] ;’k] in&çfr"Bko lQyrk feysxh ,oa O;olkf;d lQyrk Òh feysxhrFkk larku ls tqM+us dk le; gksxk] çse&I;kj dk le;gksxk vkSj ân; dh Òkouk,¡ vadqfjr gksaxh ,oa lêk&ykSVjhds fy, Òh vPNk ladsr feyrk gS rFkk çxfr&mUufrgksxh] ;k=k,¡ gksaxh] /kkfeZd vuq"Bku Òh gksaxs rFkk ÒkX;Òh lkFk nsxk] ysfdu mi;qZä ds ckotwn] /ku dh gkfugksxh vkSj 'kkSd&ekSt çÒkfor gksxk ,oa thou&lkFkh dsfy, >xM+k&>a>V] fojks/k&'k=qrk] chekjh&pksV vkfndk ladsr feyrk gSA

¼12½ ehu jkf'k ¼ nh] nw] Fk] >] ´] ns] nks] pk] ph½ %& ehu jkf'k ds yksxksa ds fy,] ;g ekg vPNk gksxktc çxfr&mUufr gksxh] ;k=k,¡ gksaxh] /kkfeZd vuq"BkuÒh gksaxs ,oa ÒkX; Òh lkFk nsxk rFkk ykÒ o foÙkh; ykÒÒh gksxk vkSj /kukxeu gksxk ,oa 'kkSd&ekSt dk le;gksxk rFkk O;olkf;d lQyrk Òh feysxh vkSj larku olêk&ykSVjh ds fy, Òh vPNk ladsr feyrk gS] ysfdumi;qZä ds ckotwn] thou&lkFkh ds ekeys esa gkfu&{kfro fujk'kk ds nkSj ls xqtjuk gksxk ,oa dsfj;j opy&vpy lEifÙk ds ekeys esa Òh gkfu&{kfr ofujk'kk ds nkSj ls xqtjuk gksxk rFkk Lo;a ds fy,>xM+k&>a>V] fojks/k&'k=qrk] chekjh&pksV vkfn dkladsr feyrk gSA


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