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Relationship guideTRANSCRIPT
Usually, the first stage of a bad
brake up is denial. Under certain cir-
cumstances it isn’t the first time you
guys have broken up, so naturally you
think it’s going to be like any other
time. You know, you fuss, you, fight and
then you makeup? But then you realize
that maybe this time is different. Before
you know it a couple days have gone
bye, then weeks and then entire month.
After you’ve undergone that stage the
second stage is usually anger. It is only
natural to feel this way after breaking up
with someone you care deeply about.
Your most likely mad at the fact that the
one you use to spend every moment
with is now officially single and willing
to be with anyone of their choice. Not
only are you undergoing anger but your
probably experiencing emotional pain.
The third stage is most likely depres-
sion. Sometimes you lose lack of inter-
est in the world and your surrounding.
You mines as well admit it, when that
person leaves, you feel as if you whole
world of functioning has abruptly turned
it back against you also. Trying to func-
tion day to day may snot seem realistic
after a bad break up but trust me you
can make it. See, you have to realize
that even though this situation your go-
ing through isn’t the best you have to do
something constructive to occupy your
mind even when it seem impossible.
The next stage is negotiation. Yes, I
said it, sometimes you have to be the
bigger person and you never know if
something is going to work out unless
you try, right? I know, I know, this
sounds like a cliché , but it may also
work if done properly.
The final stage of a big break up is ac-
ceptance. Whether you like it or not you
have to accept the situations for what it
is. If you guys makeup then great, I
hope that it works out for the two of
you. But if somehow you don’t see eye
to eye and still decide to go separate
ways that that is alright to. Trust me the
life will go on, I promise. Just remem-
ber “Que Sere Sera” whatever will be,
will be.
Getting over
your ex is a
hard thing to
do.
You know you deserve it…
Relationships can be physically and emotionally damaging but in the middle of all the chaos don’t forget about the one thing that is most important, you. Every now and then a gal should pamper her-self, right? Its hard to let go of a breakup but don’t let yourself go in the process of getting over a rela-tionship. Here are a few things you can do to help you get back to you.
Call up some girlfriends and have a sleep over. Order your favorite movies, get snacks and have a good time .
Change is always a good thing, why not go get a makeover? In with the new and out with the old. Be a brand new you.
Forget about that guy and leave your troubles behind for awhile. Take a road trip with some friends, enjoy yourself.
What better way to re-lieve stress than a nice massage. Go to the spa with some friends to wind down and relax.
You still have feelings for your ex, so your not suffering any-
more if you get back together.
It ’ s more comfortable continuing a relationship than taking it
from the beginning
For the time when you were good, the relationship deserves a
second chance.
You already know him with the good and the bad. You cant
know what you`ll find in the future. It can be worse.
If he disappointed you once, it ’ s a big chance that he will
do it again.
You broke up for a reason. Think about it and see if you can get
over it. If you can ’ t and if it remains a reason to fight, the break
up will fallow anyways.
You renounce at the chance to meet a new person who can be
better than your ex.
Getting your ex back won ’ t allow you to enjoy the
It’s a prove fact guys want what they can’t have. So, get dolled up and show him what he’s missing out on.
Once he realizes your moving though life happily without him he’ll want you back even more.
Before you know it he’ll be texting and calling you non-stop to see “how your doing.”
The next step is up to you. You have to decide whether you should proceed back into a relationship with you ex of seek other options. That’s your decision.
Calls every now and then to see how your doing
Calls every other hour to see who your with
Moved on and re-moved old reminds of you
Still has up old Face-book pictures of the two of you
See you out every now and then
Coincidentally al-ways sees you out in public