Udaan Review

The movie is a lot meaningful. The movie is more for those parents who are playing the character of Ronit Roy in real life. Udaan is a story which many of the parents do not realize but every child is affected negatively in his childhood and becomes a out burst in his adolescence. The main issue being is that the generation gap between our parents is like light years difference them the generation gap between their parents and them. Parents have to understand that and until and unless they except this fact, that they have to nuture their children with love, have to come at their level and see the world at their level also listen to them and feel from the child’s point of view, they won’t be able to give him the positive environment to the child. Their inbuilt problem is that they can appreciate the movies but when it comes to the implementation of the same in their real life then they are not aware about how to give it because in their minds they are so perfect. I have seen parents reading books to a 6 month old child who does not speak but the senses in him are so strong then finally he develops a habbit for reading the books. All our parents teach us that India has a rich culture and tradition and rich heritage which we are bound to follow. All we learn is that being religious and well cultured and having ethnic values in our personality makes us a perfect person. But how to imbibe such values and the concept of simple living and high thinking is totally upto parents. Instead they just keep on comparing us to them at our age and teach us not to argue and strictly and blindly follow them. Some parents have a 5yr old girl, 3 yr old boy and a 6 month old baby girl and on top of that they host a foreign teenager who also used to become so hyper at times. One day all her kids were on a high and the teenager was learning different thing helping the mother. Then the teenager asks her why she doesn’t get angry at them. At that time she explain that if she gets angry and spanks them then they will never become good listeners and understand life. Then the teenager asks her why did she host her because the children are so small that they can hardly understand the cultural difference then she explains that they live in a very small twon, tshe wants them to no the other people of this world then gel well with them. The father in that family has an upcoming law firm which he recently established so when he comes home. So to spend time with them, he goes off to the office quiet late. But this so clearly open mindedly welcomes the three kids in their lives. And that teenager shared so much with both the parents so much that she never shared with her own parents.

I mean yes we do rich culture and heritage but we must give it to the coming generations in a way that they are better individuals than us. For that parents have to come at the child’s level and try and see, listen, feel and analyze things from his point of view. Instead comparing their childhood to his and that actually has a negative impact upon him. Not

listening to him at his very tender age has worst impacts on his personality. Parents would not realize at that time and by the time they realize they blame the child himself for his negative personality. Instead if they be there when he needs them. I have seen parents who cancel their vacation just because her daughter wanted Mum’s help to wear a sari for a function. I have seen parents who have 3yearr old and 1 year old daughters and when he comes with his family to discuss work. He entertains our family and also keeps the girls engaged and happy.

Because if the children get such a positive, helpful, healthy and trustworthy environment to develop relationships then they will be successful in building easier relationships in their lives be it in school, college, office etc. And if a child gets a negative environment trust my life that child will feel insecure and he will never be able to trust people who may like to have a healthy relationship with anyone. His world is shaky and he is not even able to love the most special person because its logical that if parents cannot understand the child for past 28 yrs then how can he trust the love of his life for a lifetime. Because if he is not able to trust the family relationship which is his true self then how can he trust anyone else.

Instead when the couple decides to have a child they have to work a way out to parent that child so he becomes really comfortable iin whatsoever relationships that he has to been. Otherwise it may happen that he mite not give back in a positive way and have all chances to do something that the thinks is negative. And whenever he goes away from his homeland he is really comfortable but that feeling of insecurity starts seeping as soon as he touches his homeland and tries to be one of them. Parents when decide to send their child on a year long foreign exchange in his teenage then the parents do not change their outlook towards him. N he leaves the love of his life back and spends rest of his life doubting and yearning for someone who now gets married after a decade.