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TRUST UPHOLDS MARRIAGE A marriage stands or falls on the quality of its foundation. Successful marriages are built on trust. M o n d a y , N o v e m b e r 2 3 , 2 0 1 5 1

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TRUST UPHOLDS MARRIAGE

A marriage stands or falls on the quality of its foundation.

Successful marriages are built on trust.

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A strong relationship requires more than just love to prosper. There are many other things that you must add on to love to ensure a happy, fulfilling and strong relationship. One of these ingredients is trust.

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Trust is almost as equal with love when it comes to relationships. A relationship, though without love but has trust will surely stand the test of time. But though a relationship is abundant in love but lacks trust, is sure doom to fail.

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Trust is probably the most important ingredient in building an intimate relationship between husband and wife.

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An abusive relationship is one where there is no trust. The key to avoiding abuse and promoting trust is to consciously strive everyday to build a safe emotional atmosphere.

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Trust is a critical requirement for any relationship. We learn to trust someone because they say what they mean and mean what they say. They are trustworthy.

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Trust is the foundation that holds a marriage up. I tell you what is important to me and what I expect from you. If you agree to honor and respect what is important to me, I will trust you with my feelings and thoughts.

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KINDS OF TRUST IN MARRIAGE

1. Trust that you will be sexually faithful. 

Keep your commitment to remain sexually faithful. If you're unhappy in your marriage, get counseling. 

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2. Trust that you will not harm, reject or control one another. 

Trust thrives in an atmosphere of safety and security. Hurting one another, either physically or verbally, and then rejecting one another, creates fear which undermines trust.

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3. Trust that you love one another without ulterior motives. 

You and your spouse need to feel sure you're loved for yourself and not some ulterior motive.

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4. Trust that you will not abandon one another in the face of anger, conflict and disagreements. 

Anger, conflict and disagreements are inevitable. Make it safe for the careful expression of anger and for disagreements to happen without raising a fear of abandonment.

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5. Trust that you will keep each other and your marriage a top priority.

Spouses trust that they mean it when they promise to love, honor and cherish one another. Don't take each other for granted, neglect your relationship or consistently give too much time and energy to other things and people you break that trust. Keep your priorities clear.

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BE TRUSTWORTHY

Trust isn't given unconditionally. You have to be trustworthy to receive trust.

What does that mean for you as a couple? It means checking with your spouse on how you affect him or her.

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Trust is the belief that your spouse won't do anything to hurt you and will be honest with you. It assumes a level of care that forms a protective envelope around you.

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Reveal to your spouse as much information about yourself as you know-your thoughts, feelings, habits, likes, dislikes, personal history, daily activities, and plans for the future.

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Trust should begin with a commitment to be thoughtful and honest. Without that commitment, it's foolish to trust your spouse. Then, that commitment must be followed up with thoughtful and honest behavior.

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Trust can be built and rebuilt, and couples can enjoy the intimacy that comes from being secure in each other's love.

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Earn Trust By Doing the Right

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CREATING TRUST

Constantly work to improve your communication skills.

Take responsibility to express your needs and express them clearly and assertively.

Be positive in all that you do.Don't allow issues to go unresolved.Learn new ways of handling issues

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Trust is one thing that takes a long time to build and a very short time to destroy. Be careful how you treat each other.

In a good marriage, you must always be monitoring your behavior. This is the key to building a strong relationship and trust.

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Recognize that rebuilding trust takes time. It won't happen over night.

Rebuilding trust in your marriage can be difficult when your spouse has done something to break that trust.

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WHAT YOU NEED

TimePatienceHonestyCommitment to your marriageLoveForgiveness

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A marriage stands or falls on the quality of its foundation.

Successful marriages are built on trust.

Trust will uphold your marriage

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