too much information how what you say will effect your relations
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TOO MUCH INFORMATIONHOW WHAT YOU SAY WILL EFFECT YOUR RELATIONS
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TOO MUCH INFORMATION
= WHEN SOME ONE DISCLOSES TOO MUCH GIVEN THE RELATIONSHIP
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The amount of personal information we can handle, depends on the relationship we have with the one sharing it.
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• Rule of thumb: the closer, the more info• Interesting for both parties• Follow the social norms that exist between the
parties
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THE FACE THEORY
• WE HAVE A REASON WITH MOST THINGS WE SAY.
• … BUT WE ALWAYS TAKE EACH OTHERS ‘FACE’ INTO ACCOUNT
Aspects of face: respect, equality, personal space
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• CHANGING THE BORDERS OF WHAT WE CAN SAY TO EACH OTHER, CHANGES THE RELATION.
• … AND THE OTHER WAY ROUND
- intimacy- impression management
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What about the social media?!
• We experience ‘information friction’Breaking: in research no correlation was found between providing personal info online and a lack of concern for
privacy
• ‘stranger-on-the-train-effect’ (urban legend?)• ImpressionManagementTo the Max!!