Self Love

Your Journey to

A L G E R N O N W I L L I A M SA NEW WAY OF LIVING

Love isn’t material, it has no form as such. It is an energy, in fact it is theenergy. When people say ‘love is all there is’, they are actually telling thetruth, as everything is made from the energy source of LOVE. Weunderstand love as a feeling in a room, a situation, or love for a person, butit is so much more. Money cannot buy love. Sex does not guarantee it. Itreally has little to do with the physical world, but it canbe expressed nonetheless. We experience it as kindness, giving, mercy, compassion, peace, joy acceptance, nonjudgment, happiness intimacy and joining with another.

We cannot measure love in time, but we can measure it in ourtransformation. We can have very long relationships where the couplehas experienced very little growth, while the briefest of encounters can strike so deeply that it can change your world. Our hearts are timeless, they don’t care if you are having your 30th anniversary, but if there is nothing left in the connection it has little to give. What the heart cares about is the quality of the love that surrounds it. The attention, the character and the importance it is given. When it receives this kind of love it enlivens and opens up. When it finds true love it transforms, and your transformation begins.

What is Love

What do you mean by love?We all choose what love means to us. Some of us are very practical aboutit. They see love as a means to an end. Others will not stop looking untiltheir soul mate walks through the door. They are the dreamers looking forthe most profound love connection they can imagine. Whichever you are,there is always deep connection to be found.

Love is timeless

The energy of love is who and what we authentically are

Endless loveYou can make love connections in many different ways. Energeticharmony, sexual alchemy or intellectual alignment. However you havefound love, it will be hard to sustain it over a long period of time unless youfind something that goes deeper. A thread that moves beyond theunpredictable, ever changing component of compatibility. What is requiredis a genuine fascination with someone’s inner world. It's about how theysee the world around them and the differences between your two worlds.The way they organize their reality, how they articulate their feelings.Endless love is where you look so deeply into that person that you cancontemplate the bottomless depths of their being. To hear their soul cry outto you over and over and to never lose interest in what it is trying to say. Ifyou can accomplish this, then there will still be love when your bodiessicken, in the times when sexuality fades. When your projection ofperfection that you had placed on your partner has long been shattered,when you find this love, you will love for an eternity.

Unconditional love

We sometimes believe that our goal for true lasting love is unconditionallove, but that is a humanly hard ask. We all come from a place ofunconditional love and there are many names for it, Source, Divine, God,Heaven. But here on Earth we are human beings and we are perfectlyimperfect. Unconditional love literally means No Matter What. We all haveour limits. We all have our breaking point. We all came from pure love tothis planet to master love in all it's messy forms, to discover how to do themessy stuff. To love in personal relationships, to master love at first sight,heart breaks and crazy love. To make mistakes and to learn from them andthen to do it all again. That is the roller coaster ride of life. We are here toremember who we truly are as magnificent beings. To discover Heaven onEarth.

We have heard over and over again that the most important thing is to loveour Self. Well why? To be blunt if we do not love ourselves how can welove anyone else? The Self must come first; it is where all else comesfrom. Without love for Self, there can be no love at all. The feeling of Self-Love, worthiness, is seeing the world through the eyesof our higher Self. It is not just the love of Self; it is loving, in its purest form.Here, from this place, we cannot love our Self and hate someone else, itjust can’t happen. Once you are in the vibration of Love, anything elsesimply cannot exist. Make no mistake, this can seem a difficult and painful process. But seeingand accepting our inner world, is the only way to love the glorious beingthat dwells beneath all the mental layers.This may take a little time and itmay bring a swirl of emotions to the surface. That’s okay. Just let them be.Let it all see the light of day without judgment. No matter what lays in ourinner world, always remember to put your hand on your heart and tellyourself “I love you.” We’re all trying the best we can at any given moment.Cut yourself some slack, and let go of the “could have, should have…”When we say "I love you" to ourselves westart the process ofbecoming Love itself.

The Most Powerful Love of All

Self-Love

Tell yourself 'I love you' as often as is possible

This is the foundational step that empowersyou to truly create a life you totally love, a life

crafted on your own terms rather than theexpectations of others.

We tend to put love into categories; physical love, love of a spouse, love ofa friend, loving our children, the love we have for the world at large. Wetend to see them all as different. But are they? When we really begin to findtrue love, self-love, we begin to understand that love is everything, and thatall love is the same. What colours our perception of love is our mind, ouregos, our need to control and to understand, to put meaning to anysituation and mostly our fear. We are afraid to get too close as we may bemisunderstood. We are afraid to open our hearts as we may get hurt. Weare scared to stand out as we may be ridiculed. So, we stay small, we hideour feelings and we forget how to love. Look at a child. There is pure love for everything and everyone around. Nodiscrimination, no judgments and most importantly no fear.They lookaround and only see the good, they know it is all Love and so it is all safe,until we teach them otherwise. Maybe they should be teaching us, maybe it is time for us to remember, that it is all Love, that we can choose to see the world in that light, that we can choose to walk in Love and to be the light. Self-Love, then becomes our internal light.

You will learn to choose to make conscious choicesso that your own emotional well being and your ability to create

your chosen life path is not triggered by all the well-meaningpeople who unintentionally pull you off centre. You will learn howto take a stand for what is important to you and discover how to

hold fast to your true path.

Love yourself. It's a common refrain. But what does that actually mean?One way to interpret this is loving who we are, accepting ourselves just aswe are, warts and all; having compassion for our shortfalls, while rejoicingin our gifts. However, there is an even deeper way that we can love ourselves. We cantake that feeling of Love that we often connect with when we first fall headover heels in love with someone else and allow it to flow inwards. When we do this, we are not just loving our physical selves, with all ourvarious qualities, we are simply experiencing love for our Self. Cultivatingsuch feelings of Self-Love brings deep ease and relief, and it raises our vibration more than we could ever imagine. Beneath this physical, emotional, energetic, individual Self; is a placewhere we stand as One. Where all our selves come together, where webecome much more than the sum of all our parts.It is almost impossible to name this place, as any one label will separate itfrom all else. Some call it the true self, the unconditioned self, theuniversal self, no-self, essence, pure being, or true nature. It is that whichis always there, whatever our experience. It is the essence of what we call‘I’, something so familiar and personal, and yet on deeper inspection,totally impersonal. This self exists without any qualities or character. It is the pure I am-ness’ that awakens, when the thinking mind becomes still, and we rest in primordial awareness. It is pure Love. The taste of this essential Self is delicious. Mystics have written volumes of poetry about its blissful nature.Enlightened ones have urged us to discover it, and to soak in the calm andjoy it brings. Getting to know this true Self is so important and delightful; itis who we really are and is it the love we so desperately seek.

Loving your true self

You will be inspired to discover who you truly are and also who youare not so that you can stand tall — unapologetically walking

forward in your life with confidence, grace and ease.

As we sit in our self-isolated cocoons many of us are feeling a bit lost,anxious, disorientated, uncertain and without direction. Even a bit scared

with an un-easy overwhelming anticipation of an unknown future.

The very nature of the cocoon itself is transformation, which is change atthe highest level.

The question becomes: How do you want to emerge from this cocoon? Who do you want to be? How do you want to live, truly? These ideas areworth pondering… It is up to each of us to decide how we want to fulfill ourdestiny, and see ways to make the changes that are necessary for that to

happen.

Could this be the secret that has been hidden away from you and somany others?

The most powerful way you can live in the world is by truly lovingyourself and then living your life from that place of love.

To help anyone else you must first be the most conscious andempowered you possible. Your light is your true gift, so to give, you

must first shine. Through ‘The Seven Simple Shifts’ you learn toshine and as you start to truly love yourself, you can give the gift ofyour authentic self and that is the most precious gift you can give.

When your single most concern becomes

“how can I be the Best ‘Me’ ”

You will start to feel brighter, lighter and more enlightened.The path out of this old habitual pattern is to put self-first!

Which is NOT selfish. It doesn’t mean: “I don’t love youanymore” or “I don’t care,” it simply means “I love myself first,so I have extra love to give.” We can’t give from a place of lack.We give our best from a place of wholeness and abundance.” If

we keep giving from a place of depletion, eventually we willhave nothing left.

It's A New Way of Living

Self First is not Selfish it is Self-Love!

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