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Page 1: TND “Towards No Drug Abuse” Session 1. Communication: Sending and receiving messages Session 1

TNDTND

““Towards No Drug Abuse”Towards No Drug Abuse”

Session 1

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Communication:Communication:

Sending and receiving Sending and receiving messagesmessages

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Selective Listening:Selective Listening:

Hearing what we want to Hearing what we want to hearhear

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Open Mind:Open Mind:

Willing to listen, not judge, Willing to listen, not judge, and see other viewpointsand see other viewpoints

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Effective Communication:Effective Communication:

Speaking clearly and Speaking clearly and listening welllistening well

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Session 2Session 2

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Stereotyping:Stereotyping:

To judge or label a group To judge or label a group of people based on of people based on

appearance or rumorappearance or rumor

Session 2

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Self-fulfilling Prophecy:Self-fulfilling Prophecy:

Becoming what others Becoming what others expect by believing their expect by believing their

judgmentsjudgments

Session 2

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Session 3Session 3

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Myth:Myth:

Unproved belief or Unproved belief or invented storyinvented story

Session 3

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MYTH 1:MYTH 1:

DRUG USE PROVIDES DRUG USE PROVIDES EMOTIONAL PROTECTION EMOTIONAL PROTECTION

FROM THE OUTSIDE FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLDWORLD

Session 3

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MYTH 2:MYTH 2:

DRUGS HELPS PEOPLE TO DRUGS HELPS PEOPLE TO ESTABLISH FRIENDSHIPSESTABLISH FRIENDSHIPS

Session 3

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MYTH 3:MYTH 3:

PEOPLE GET USED TO A PEOPLE GET USED TO A DRUGDRUG

Session 3

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MYTH 4:MYTH 4:

DRUG USE SHOWS DRUG USE SHOWS INDEPENDENCEINDEPENDENCE

Session 3

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Denial:Denial:

Ignoring consequences Ignoring consequences that are obvious to othersthat are obvious to others

Session 3

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Four Kinds of DENIAL:Four Kinds of DENIAL:

Blame others, deny injury, Blame others, deny injury, deny effects on others, deny effects on others,

reinterpretation (change the reinterpretation (change the story)story)

Session 3

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Reinterpretation:Reinterpretation:

Making negative Making negative consequences seem consequences seem

positivepositive

Session 3

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Session 4Session 4

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Chemical Dependency:Chemical Dependency:

Drug addicted or Drug addicted or alcoholicalcoholic

Session 4

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TOLERANCETOLERANCEandand

WITHDRAWALWITHDRAWAL

Session 4

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Tolerance:Tolerance:

Needing more and more to Needing more and more to get the same feeling or get the same feeling or

‘high’‘high’

Session 4

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Withdrawal:Withdrawal:

Symptoms people feel Symptoms people feel when they can’t get the when they can’t get the drug they’re addicted todrug they’re addicted to

Session 4

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T= TrialT= TrialR= RecreationR= RecreationA= AbuseA= AbuseP= Pinned down P= Pinned down (Addicted)(Addicted)

Session 4

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Enable:Enable:

Helping the drug user to Helping the drug user to useuse

Session 4

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Session 5Session 5

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Session 5

GUESTS:GUESTS:• Current Alcoholic and Drug Addict (DAVID)Current Alcoholic and Drug Addict (DAVID)• David’s Girlfriend (CECILIA)David’s Girlfriend (CECILIA)• Parent of Teenager who was a Victim of a Drunk Parent of Teenager who was a Victim of a Drunk

Driving Accident (JESSICA/JIM)Driving Accident (JESSICA/JIM)• Recovering Drug Addict/Alcoholic Recovering Drug Addict/Alcoholic

(YVONNE/RICHARD)(YVONNE/RICHARD)• D.U.I (Driving Under the Influence) inmate D.U.I (Driving Under the Influence) inmate

convicted of manslaughter (EDDY/BONNIE)convicted of manslaughter (EDDY/BONNIE)• Best friend of someone who died of an accidental Best friend of someone who died of an accidental

overdose (FRANK/LUCY)overdose (FRANK/LUCY)

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Session 6Session 6

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Stress:Stress:

Mental or physical tension Mental or physical tension or pressureor pressure

Session 6

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SchoolSchool

RelationshipsRelationships

WorkWork

Session 6

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C- Consider alternativesC- Consider alternativesO- Others’ supportO- Others’ supportP- Problem solvingP- Problem solvingE- Esteem buildingE- Esteem building

Session 6

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CConsider alternatives – Deal onsider alternatives – Deal with feelingswith feelingsOOthers’ support- Help each thers’ support- Help each otherotherPProblem solving- Planroblem solving- PlanEEsteem building- Accept steem building- Accept yourselfyourself

Session 6

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• FINANCIAL STRESSFINANCIAL STRESS• RELATIONSHIP STRESSRELATIONSHIP STRESS• SCHOOL OR JOB STRESSSCHOOL OR JOB STRESS• PUTTING THINGS PUTTING THINGS OFF/PROCRASTINATINGOFF/PROCRASTINATING• EMOTIONAL STRESSEMOTIONAL STRESS• LEGAL PROBLEMSLEGAL PROBLEMS• STRESS FROM DIMINSHING STRESS FROM DIMINSHING HEALTHHEALTH

Session 6

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Quality of Life:Quality of Life:

Living as close to fulfilling Living as close to fulfilling one’s dreams and goals as one’s dreams and goals as

possiblepossible

Session 6

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Session 8

Session 8Session 8

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Self-control:Self-control:

Ability to control your Ability to control your behavior regardless of what behavior regardless of what you are thinking or feelingyou are thinking or feeling

Session 8

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BEHAVIOR CHECKLIST BEHAVIOR CHECKLIST SCORESSCORES::

Less than 10= high self-Less than 10= high self-controlcontrolBetween 11 & 15= self-Between 11 & 15= self-control is lacking at timescontrol is lacking at timesBetween 16 & 20= self-Between 16 & 20= self-control needs workcontrol needs workBetween 21 & 30= self-Between 21 & 30= self-control needs A LOT of work control needs A LOT of work Session 8

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Passive:Passive:

Not standing up for what Not standing up for what you wantyou want

Session 8

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Aggressive:Aggressive:

Pushy and offensivePushy and offensive

Session 8

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Assertive:Assertive:

Clear and confidentClear and confident

Session 8

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1.1. OTHER- say something about OTHER- say something about the person with whom you are the person with whom you are speaking; compliment themspeaking; compliment them

2.2. SELF- say something about how SELF- say something about how you feel about the situation; use you feel about the situation; use an “I” statementan “I” statement

3.3. ACTION- say what you want ACTION- say what you want them to do in the situationthem to do in the situation

Session 8

STATEMENTS:STATEMENTS:

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Session 9Session 9

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PANELISTS:PANELISTS:• High school age teen ex-user High school age teen ex-user

(DANNY/DANIELLE)(DANNY/DANIELLE)

• Boyfriend/Girlfriend of current Boyfriend/Girlfriend of current marijuana user (JAMES/CHERYL)marijuana user (JAMES/CHERYL)

• Parent of teenager current marijuana Parent of teenager current marijuana user (AMANDA/JOHN)user (AMANDA/JOHN)

• Scientist (YOLANDA/STEVE)Scientist (YOLANDA/STEVE)

Session 9

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Session 10Session 10

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POSITIVE EXPERIENCE POSITIVE EXPERIENCE LOOPLOOP

Session 10

Positive ChoicesPositive Behavior

Positive Thinking

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NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE LOOPLOOP

Session 10

Negative ChoicesNegative Behavior

Negative Thinking

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Negative thoughtNegative thought: “I : “I stayed up too late and stayed up too late and now I’m very tired.”now I’m very tired.”Negative choiceNegative choice: “I chose : “I chose to sleep in.”to sleep in.”Negative behaviorNegative behavior: “I was : “I was late for school.”late for school.”

Session 10

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Session 11Session 11

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Radical:Radical:

Lots of change; likes to Lots of change; likes to shake things upshake things up

Session 11

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Traditional:Traditional:

Likes things the way they Likes things the way they are; no change at allare; no change at all

Session 11

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Moderate:Moderate:

In between; less extremeIn between; less extreme

Session 11

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Session 11

TRADITIONATRADITIONALL

No changeNo change

MODERATEMODERATEBalanceBalance

RADICALRADICALMajor Major

changechange

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Session 11

TRADITIONATRADITIONALL

All guns All guns legallegal

MODERATEMODERATERestrict Restrict gun usegun use

RADICALRADICALOutlaw Outlaw all gunsall guns

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Session 11

TRADITIONATRADITIONALL

Cell phone Cell phone use use

anywhere, anywhere, any timeany time

MODERATEMODERATECell phone Cell phone use while use while driving, driving,

only with only with hands free hands free

devicedevice

RADICALRADICALNo cell No cell phone phone use by use by driversdrivers

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Session 11

TRADITIONATRADITIONALL

No drugsNo drugs

MODERATEMODERATELimited use Limited use

by by responsible responsible

peoplepeople

RADICALRADICALAny drugAny drug

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Session 11

TRADITIONATRADITIONALL

Smoking is Smoking is O.K. O.K.

everywhereeverywhere

MODERATEMODERATESmoking in Smoking in approved approved

areasareas

RADICALRADICALNo No

smoking smoking in publicin public

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Session 12Session 12

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• BRAINSTORMINGBRAINSTORMING

• WEIGHING THE PROS AND CONSWEIGHING THE PROS AND CONS

• SELECTING THE BEST OPTIONSELECTING THE BEST OPTION

• FOLLOWING THROUGHFOLLOWING THROUGH

Session 12

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Brainstorming: Brainstorming:

Making a list of ideas Making a list of ideas without judging themwithout judging them

Session 12

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Re-evaluate: Re-evaluate:

Re-think, change your Re-think, change your mind, chose againmind, chose again

Session 12

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Commitment:Commitment:

Making an agreement and Making an agreement and following through with itfollowing through with it

Session 12