tnd “towards no drug abuse” session 1. communication: sending and receiving messages session 1
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Selective Listening: Hearing what we want to hear Session 1TRANSCRIPT
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““Towards No Drug Abuse”Towards No Drug Abuse”
Session 1
Communication:Communication:
Sending and receiving Sending and receiving messagesmessages
Session 1
Selective Listening:Selective Listening:
Hearing what we want to Hearing what we want to hearhear
Session 1
Open Mind:Open Mind:
Willing to listen, not judge, Willing to listen, not judge, and see other viewpointsand see other viewpoints
Session 1
Effective Communication:Effective Communication:
Speaking clearly and Speaking clearly and listening welllistening well
Session 1
Session 2Session 2
Stereotyping:Stereotyping:
To judge or label a group To judge or label a group of people based on of people based on
appearance or rumorappearance or rumor
Session 2
Self-fulfilling Prophecy:Self-fulfilling Prophecy:
Becoming what others Becoming what others expect by believing their expect by believing their
judgmentsjudgments
Session 2
Session 3Session 3
Myth:Myth:
Unproved belief or Unproved belief or invented storyinvented story
Session 3
MYTH 1:MYTH 1:
DRUG USE PROVIDES DRUG USE PROVIDES EMOTIONAL PROTECTION EMOTIONAL PROTECTION
FROM THE OUTSIDE FROM THE OUTSIDE WORLDWORLD
Session 3
MYTH 2:MYTH 2:
DRUGS HELPS PEOPLE TO DRUGS HELPS PEOPLE TO ESTABLISH FRIENDSHIPSESTABLISH FRIENDSHIPS
Session 3
MYTH 3:MYTH 3:
PEOPLE GET USED TO A PEOPLE GET USED TO A DRUGDRUG
Session 3
MYTH 4:MYTH 4:
DRUG USE SHOWS DRUG USE SHOWS INDEPENDENCEINDEPENDENCE
Session 3
Denial:Denial:
Ignoring consequences Ignoring consequences that are obvious to othersthat are obvious to others
Session 3
Four Kinds of DENIAL:Four Kinds of DENIAL:
Blame others, deny injury, Blame others, deny injury, deny effects on others, deny effects on others,
reinterpretation (change the reinterpretation (change the story)story)
Session 3
Reinterpretation:Reinterpretation:
Making negative Making negative consequences seem consequences seem
positivepositive
Session 3
Session 4Session 4
Chemical Dependency:Chemical Dependency:
Drug addicted or Drug addicted or alcoholicalcoholic
Session 4
TOLERANCETOLERANCEandand
WITHDRAWALWITHDRAWAL
Session 4
Tolerance:Tolerance:
Needing more and more to Needing more and more to get the same feeling or get the same feeling or
‘high’‘high’
Session 4
Withdrawal:Withdrawal:
Symptoms people feel Symptoms people feel when they can’t get the when they can’t get the drug they’re addicted todrug they’re addicted to
Session 4
T= TrialT= TrialR= RecreationR= RecreationA= AbuseA= AbuseP= Pinned down P= Pinned down (Addicted)(Addicted)
Session 4
Enable:Enable:
Helping the drug user to Helping the drug user to useuse
Session 4
Session 5Session 5
Session 5
GUESTS:GUESTS:• Current Alcoholic and Drug Addict (DAVID)Current Alcoholic and Drug Addict (DAVID)• David’s Girlfriend (CECILIA)David’s Girlfriend (CECILIA)• Parent of Teenager who was a Victim of a Drunk Parent of Teenager who was a Victim of a Drunk
Driving Accident (JESSICA/JIM)Driving Accident (JESSICA/JIM)• Recovering Drug Addict/Alcoholic Recovering Drug Addict/Alcoholic
(YVONNE/RICHARD)(YVONNE/RICHARD)• D.U.I (Driving Under the Influence) inmate D.U.I (Driving Under the Influence) inmate
convicted of manslaughter (EDDY/BONNIE)convicted of manslaughter (EDDY/BONNIE)• Best friend of someone who died of an accidental Best friend of someone who died of an accidental
overdose (FRANK/LUCY)overdose (FRANK/LUCY)
Session 6Session 6
Stress:Stress:
Mental or physical tension Mental or physical tension or pressureor pressure
Session 6
SchoolSchool
RelationshipsRelationships
WorkWork
Session 6
C- Consider alternativesC- Consider alternativesO- Others’ supportO- Others’ supportP- Problem solvingP- Problem solvingE- Esteem buildingE- Esteem building
Session 6
CConsider alternatives – Deal onsider alternatives – Deal with feelingswith feelingsOOthers’ support- Help each thers’ support- Help each otherotherPProblem solving- Planroblem solving- PlanEEsteem building- Accept steem building- Accept yourselfyourself
Session 6
• FINANCIAL STRESSFINANCIAL STRESS• RELATIONSHIP STRESSRELATIONSHIP STRESS• SCHOOL OR JOB STRESSSCHOOL OR JOB STRESS• PUTTING THINGS PUTTING THINGS OFF/PROCRASTINATINGOFF/PROCRASTINATING• EMOTIONAL STRESSEMOTIONAL STRESS• LEGAL PROBLEMSLEGAL PROBLEMS• STRESS FROM DIMINSHING STRESS FROM DIMINSHING HEALTHHEALTH
Session 6
Quality of Life:Quality of Life:
Living as close to fulfilling Living as close to fulfilling one’s dreams and goals as one’s dreams and goals as
possiblepossible
Session 6
Session 8
Session 8Session 8
Self-control:Self-control:
Ability to control your Ability to control your behavior regardless of what behavior regardless of what you are thinking or feelingyou are thinking or feeling
Session 8
BEHAVIOR CHECKLIST BEHAVIOR CHECKLIST SCORESSCORES::
Less than 10= high self-Less than 10= high self-controlcontrolBetween 11 & 15= self-Between 11 & 15= self-control is lacking at timescontrol is lacking at timesBetween 16 & 20= self-Between 16 & 20= self-control needs workcontrol needs workBetween 21 & 30= self-Between 21 & 30= self-control needs A LOT of work control needs A LOT of work Session 8
Passive:Passive:
Not standing up for what Not standing up for what you wantyou want
Session 8
Aggressive:Aggressive:
Pushy and offensivePushy and offensive
Session 8
Assertive:Assertive:
Clear and confidentClear and confident
Session 8
1.1. OTHER- say something about OTHER- say something about the person with whom you are the person with whom you are speaking; compliment themspeaking; compliment them
2.2. SELF- say something about how SELF- say something about how you feel about the situation; use you feel about the situation; use an “I” statementan “I” statement
3.3. ACTION- say what you want ACTION- say what you want them to do in the situationthem to do in the situation
Session 8
STATEMENTS:STATEMENTS:
Session 9Session 9
PANELISTS:PANELISTS:• High school age teen ex-user High school age teen ex-user
(DANNY/DANIELLE)(DANNY/DANIELLE)
• Boyfriend/Girlfriend of current Boyfriend/Girlfriend of current marijuana user (JAMES/CHERYL)marijuana user (JAMES/CHERYL)
• Parent of teenager current marijuana Parent of teenager current marijuana user (AMANDA/JOHN)user (AMANDA/JOHN)
• Scientist (YOLANDA/STEVE)Scientist (YOLANDA/STEVE)
Session 9
Session 10Session 10
POSITIVE EXPERIENCE POSITIVE EXPERIENCE LOOPLOOP
Session 10
Positive ChoicesPositive Behavior
Positive Thinking
NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE LOOPLOOP
Session 10
Negative ChoicesNegative Behavior
Negative Thinking
Negative thoughtNegative thought: “I : “I stayed up too late and stayed up too late and now I’m very tired.”now I’m very tired.”Negative choiceNegative choice: “I chose : “I chose to sleep in.”to sleep in.”Negative behaviorNegative behavior: “I was : “I was late for school.”late for school.”
Session 10
Session 11Session 11
Radical:Radical:
Lots of change; likes to Lots of change; likes to shake things upshake things up
Session 11
Traditional:Traditional:
Likes things the way they Likes things the way they are; no change at allare; no change at all
Session 11
Moderate:Moderate:
In between; less extremeIn between; less extreme
Session 11
Session 11
TRADITIONATRADITIONALL
No changeNo change
MODERATEMODERATEBalanceBalance
RADICALRADICALMajor Major
changechange
Session 11
TRADITIONATRADITIONALL
All guns All guns legallegal
MODERATEMODERATERestrict Restrict gun usegun use
RADICALRADICALOutlaw Outlaw all gunsall guns
Session 11
TRADITIONATRADITIONALL
Cell phone Cell phone use use
anywhere, anywhere, any timeany time
MODERATEMODERATECell phone Cell phone use while use while driving, driving,
only with only with hands free hands free
devicedevice
RADICALRADICALNo cell No cell phone phone use by use by driversdrivers
Session 11
TRADITIONATRADITIONALL
No drugsNo drugs
MODERATEMODERATELimited use Limited use
by by responsible responsible
peoplepeople
RADICALRADICALAny drugAny drug
Session 11
TRADITIONATRADITIONALL
Smoking is Smoking is O.K. O.K.
everywhereeverywhere
MODERATEMODERATESmoking in Smoking in approved approved
areasareas
RADICALRADICALNo No
smoking smoking in publicin public
Session 12Session 12
• BRAINSTORMINGBRAINSTORMING
• WEIGHING THE PROS AND CONSWEIGHING THE PROS AND CONS
• SELECTING THE BEST OPTIONSELECTING THE BEST OPTION
• FOLLOWING THROUGHFOLLOWING THROUGH
Session 12
Brainstorming: Brainstorming:
Making a list of ideas Making a list of ideas without judging themwithout judging them
Session 12
Re-evaluate: Re-evaluate:
Re-think, change your Re-think, change your mind, chose againmind, chose again
Session 12
Commitment:Commitment:
Making an agreement and Making an agreement and following through with itfollowing through with it
Session 12