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The Type Of Person You Will Go For According To Your Myers-Brigg Personality TypeApril Lee

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Every Myers-Briggs personality type is often attracted to a certain quality or situation that although over-generalised and cliche, can actually be quite relatable.

ENFJWho you usually go for: The one who gives you half as much as you give them. The one who you reallyreally really like, but doesnt necessarily like you as much back. You believe in hard work when it comesto relationships, and youre determined to prove that youre faithful and trustworthy. This only works foras long as it takes for you to figure out that the reason the relationship seems to be at a plateau is because:your effort alone cannot keep the ship sailing.

Who you should go for: The one who tries. Someone who acknowledges that passion is important, butunderstands that effort is what truly keeps people together. Someone who initiates as often as you do, andis willing to share every part of their life with you.

ENFPWho you usually go for: The mysterious one. Or the risky one. Or the one already in a relationship.Basically, you go for the unavailable one that seems only the slightest bit interested in you, but you knowin the back of your mind that its never going to happen. But all the more enthralling, because you lovethe chase anyway and youre dead set on changing their mind. Whether or not youll still be into themonce you get them, is another mystery altogether.

Who you should go for: The laid-back one who goes with the flow, but refuses to fall victim to yourgame. The one who doesnt wait around until you decide what you want, but shows you what you wantinstead. Someone who escapes predictability, but still provides you with reassurance.

ENTJWho you usually go for: The over-achieving, put-together one. You get turned on by long-term goalsetting and planning ahead. And youre attracted to capability, intelligence and ambition. But most of all,youre attracted to assertiveness. After all, youre going to need someone who can keep up with yourself,no?

Who you should go for: The secretly witty one. The humble, yet still confident one whom you overlookand underestimate at first, until they challenge one of your theories with an equally impressive theory oftheir own. Or better yet, they actually prove you wrong, and leave you with all the holes in your argumentthat you believed was foolproof. Someone who knocks your ego down a notch, but in a way that onlymakes you admire them more.

ENTPWho you usually go for: The innocent one. The nice one whose limits have yet to be tested, and whoseugly side has yet to be revealed. You go for the patient ones, only to see how long you can tap-dance ontheir last nerve. You just like seeing good things burn, dont you? (Haha, kidding. Not really.)

Who you should go for: The one who cant be pushed. The one who is unaffected by your roguishcharm, and who shows you who they really are on their own terms. Someone who doesnt see in black orwhite, but in shades of grey. Someone who doesnt label people as good or bad, but rather, that we canalways be better.

ESFJWho you usually go for: The Don/Damsel in Distress type who makes you feel like the Knight inShining Armour. The one who depends on you and makes you feel needed. Youre a sucker for the lineWhat would I do without you? Whether its from the one who cries to you regularly over the phone, orthe one who literally relies on you as their main source of income. Either way, youre a crutch, and youhave no qualms being one.

Who you should go for: The independent one. The one who does perfectly fine without your littleshowers of affection, but still appreciates and accepts them anyway because they know its your way ofsaying I care about you. Someone who reminds you constantly of your worth to them, even when youfeel like youre not doing anything at all.

ESFPWho you usually go for: Anyone and everyone that catches your eye. You leave no crevice unexplored.Youre quick to pick up on immediate attraction and interest, and even quicker to act on it. But this also

means: youre quick to drop it once the initial attraction fades. Youre also not a stranger to juggling morethan one date at a time.

Who you should go for: The one who waits. The one who can patter out your hastiness andimpulsiveness, and stick around long enough for you to actually get to know them properly. Someone whowill make you see that stability doesnt necessarily have to mean boredom, and that you dont have tocompromise on your happiness to be able to commit.

ESTJWho you usually go for: The docile one. The one who doesnt mind having you make all their decisionsfor them. You prefer your arguments to be one-sided and not to be talked back to when youre clearlyright. You go for the submissive one, who you know wont ever say no.

Who you should go for: The one who says no. The one who supports and reassures you, but keeps yougrounded at the same time. Someone who takes their turn wearing the pants in the relationship, and letsyou know when youve crossed the line. Someone who is 100% sure of who they are, so they wont getlost while loving you.

ESTPWho you usually go for: The naive one. Or anyone that gives you the pleasure of responding to yourimpulsive cries for attention. Typically, you go for the one who looks at you like youre a superstar.Because they fall for all your attempts at showing off, and that makes you feel good for about fiveseconds.

Who you should go for: The smart one who calls you out on all your bullshit. Someone who bothers toask why you do the things you do and encourages you to think before you act. Someone who digs deeper,until they reach the ugly stuff that you hide behind all the shiny stuff. And still stays.

INFJWho you usually go for: No one, because everyone is going to hurt you. Even the ones youre onlymildly attached to, especially the ones you really really like. Once in a blue moon, youll meet someonewho seems to have the potential to never screw you over. And youll put them on a pedestal until,eventually, theyll let you down too.

Who you should go for: The best friend. The one who has proven their trustworthiness by being there foryou through everything. The one who will let you down unintentionally, every now and again, but staysby your side to stitch up the wounds. Someone who will finally make you believe in the whole everyoneis going to hurt you, you just have to find the ones worth suffering for bullshit that you were struggling toaccept before.

INFP

Who you usually go for: The Prince Charming/Cinderella type. The all-rounded, seemingly perfect one(that you actually barely know). But the minute details that you do know about them, youve managed tospin into an entire fairytale in your mind. This fairytale typically lives as long as you dont try to actuallypursue them.

Who you should go for: The one that challenges you and/or your views on the world. The one that willmeet you halfway, bettering themselves for you if you will learn to be more accepting of their flaws.Someone that will show you that real life is never ever like a fairytale, BUT it can still be amazing.

INTJWho you usually go for: The one who argues with you. Or does anything else that engages both yourintellect and emotion at the same time. You enjoy analysing every tiny detail about peoples behaviourand what makes them tick. So surprise, surprise, youre attracted to the one that you cant figure out. Theone whose behaviour you cant quite analyse.

Who you should go for: The one who seduces you. The one who is able to make you throw logic out thewindow, and just go with what youre feeling. Someone who shows you that things dont always have tomake sense for them to make you happy.

INTPWho you usually go for: You dont. They go for you. The persistent one who will follow you arounduntil you finally give in. And if youre being honest, your relationship is almost 100% them.

Who you should go for: The one that actually makes you want to do something. The one that makes youdecide that they are worth the effort and time and money. Someone that makes you get off your couch, orwalk across the room to check your phone. Someone that makes you feel something substantial.

ISFJWho you usually go for: The non-committer. You go for the one who is just wrapping their head aroundthe idea of bringing you over for Christmas dinner when youre already thinking of baby names. Why? Idont know. Maybe you just like feeling ten steps ahead emotionally in every relationship. Or maybe youcare so much that it makes up for how little they care in return.

Who you should go for: The one who balances you out. The one who doesnt make you feel like theyneed to catch up, but rather, that you should slow down. Someone who is not in a rush to fall in love, butwill be beside you not behind you every step of the way.

ISFPWho you usually go for: No one. You dont go for anyone. Not because youre extremely lazy and laid-back (which you are), but because you genuinely arent interested. And even if you are, youll let thesealien feelings simmer down until they eventually go away, so you can revert to your care-free self.

Who you should go for: The one who penetrates your little bubble. Someone who understands whereyour mind is at when its not with them, and wont get mad at you for being uninvolved or passive.

ISTJWho you usually go for: The It Girl/Guy type. Usually within your circle of friends, because youreafraid to be seen with anyone else that isnt considered socially acceptable. The one that majority of yourpeers agree is smoking hot, and their jealous approval makes you feel like youve achieved something.

Who you should go for: The one who sees past your reputation. The one who, by some miracle ormoment off-guard, youve revealed yourself to. Someone who knows youre actually a real softie, and area lot more clueless than youre leading on. Someone who doesnt believe in the status quo and in turn,liberates you from it too.

ISTPWho you usually go for: The one that looks just as nonchalant as you are. Youll establish from the startthat you dont want anything serious, or heavy. So someone that has the same intentions is ideal. Untilthey get too clingy and start demanding more of you, at which point, you will make a run for it. Becauseunlike them, you actually mean it when you say no strings attached.

Who you should go for: The honest one. The one who is upfront at every point about their intentions andfeelings for you, regardless of whether they will scare you away. Someone who gives you equal amountsof affection and personal space, and knows you well enough to know exactly when you need which.

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