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Experience The Joy Of Repairing Your Relationship Summary Breaking up with somebody that you love can be one of the most difficult things that you can ever do. Often only one partner wants the break up to happen and there are ways that the other person can get their ex partner back. There have been thousands of books written with regard to getting your ex back following the breakup of a relationship. Most of these often give very illogical advice of what you actually need to do in order to get him or her back in your life. It is really very hard to get the right advice from these books and if you are looking for some good tips then you should pick up an online publication called “the magic of making up” which can provide the right ideas to get your loved one back. Below you find some important tips that you will learn from going through this book. It will help to enjoy a much more healthy relationship with your ex the second time around. It is very natural that you may want to rush in with all guns blazing after the breakup but this is not the right way to deal with it. You should give enough space and time to your ex before beginning to show how much you love and care about them. You should not contact them too much but still you have to show that you are always thinking about them without making them feel that you are obsessed about the whole situation. Phone or text them and ask how they are doing and you can talk about something that you used to enjoy together. This is the very initial strategy that you should follow. It is really important that you do take the blame for any of your actions that could have spoiled your relationship with your ex, avoid taking well intended advice that others give to you about what you should do and shouldn’t do in order to make them return to you. Always remember one thing that you are the person who is going to be the one who has to live with the consequences of what you do in terms of your life and relationship. Obviously you should never be fully influenced by what others say or the advice given to you. Yes, maybe they are trying to share your pain but they don’t really know what could be best for you and for your ex. It is really important to realize one thing that you are going to take the right decision in order to save your relationship and here you are alone. So it is your decision and responsibility and you should do it in the proper way. At the end of the day, you have to accept the joy or the pain, whatever it be; you are alone to face it. You should try to avoid your ex initially, instead of talking to them over the phone or texting them constantly. Use this time for yourself and think what has actually caused the relationship to end and make a good plan to resolve this particular issue.

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If you have just broken up with your partner you will be anxious to get back with them. This document can help you.

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Page 1: The Joy Of Reconnecting

Experience The Joy Of Repairing Your Relationship

Summary

Breaking up with somebody that you love can be one of the most difficult things that you can

ever do. Often only one partner wants the break up to happen and there are ways that the other

person can get their ex partner back.

There have been thousands of books written with regard to getting your ex back following the

breakup of a relationship. Most of these often give very illogical advice of what you actually

need to do in order to get him or her back in your life. It is really very hard to get the right advice

from these books and if you are looking for some good tips then you should pick up an online

publication called “the magic of making up” which can provide the right ideas to get your loved

one back.

Below you find some important tips that you will learn from going through this book. It will help

to enjoy a much more healthy relationship with your ex the second time around.

It is very natural that you may want to rush in with all guns blazing after the breakup but this is

not the right way to deal with it. You should give enough space and time to your ex before

beginning to show how much you love and care about them. You should not contact them too

much but still you have to show that you are always thinking about them without making them

feel that you are obsessed about the whole situation. Phone or text them and ask how they are

doing and you can talk about something that you used to enjoy together. This is the very initial

strategy that you should follow.

It is really important that you do take the blame for any of your actions that could have spoiled

your relationship with your ex, avoid taking well intended advice that others give to you about

what you should do and shouldn’t do in order to make them return to you. Always remember one

thing that you are the person who is going to be the one who has to live with the consequences of

what you do in terms of your life and relationship.

Obviously you should never be fully influenced by what others say or the advice given to you.

Yes, maybe they are trying to share your pain but they don’t really know what could be best for

you and for your ex. It is really important to realize one thing that you are going to take the right

decision in order to save your relationship and here you are alone. So it is your decision and

responsibility and you should do it in the proper way. At the end of the day, you have to accept

the joy or the pain, whatever it be; you are alone to face it.

You should try to avoid your ex initially, instead of talking to them over the phone or texting

them constantly. Use this time for yourself and think what has actually caused the relationship to

end and make a good plan to resolve this particular issue.

Page 2: The Joy Of Reconnecting

Resource

If you are in the situation where your partner has broken up your relationship then it is really

worth reading the Magic Of Making Up and follow the advice there to get them back.