the joy of comfort in a parent's voice

The Joy Of Comfort In A Parent's Voice, Some Thoughts

Preface / Introduction

It is nearing the time of year when we should be thinking about family and Thanksgiving. Only aweek or so from now familys will be gathered around dining room tables, large and small, for thetraditional meals with all the extras. It's a time when we should all stop and reflect upon family tiesand good rememberences. For most it is a joyous occasion, but for nearly as many it may not besuch a warm and fuzzy place. I have the good fortune of knowing a man who had the better 0f thetwo scenarios, and wrote a heartfelt and poingent article fit for the season.

Please take the time to read the following. What I mean is don't rush through it, savor the readinglike a great pice of home-made pumpkin pie.

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1. The joy and lifelong comfort in a parent's voice. Some thoughts.

The joy and lifelong comfort in a parent's voice. Somethoughts. by Dr. Jeffrey Lant.

Author's program note. It happened when I was deep in a brown study on some suitably reconditeconundrum of cosmic significance. There, walking along the uneven sidewalk that lines theCommon, there right in front of me I saw two lucky people who only had eyes for each other. Theirpresence was arresting; taking me immediately out of myself, focusing full attention on them, twopeople learning just how exciting and fulfilling togetherness can be.

You're skipping ahead of me now I daresay. You're expecting one young thing entwined withanother, in love perhaps, or making good progress thereto. But if you think this, you'd be wrong,quite utterly mistaken. For the two people I saw, and could not take my eyes off, were a youngfather and his young daughter. He looked to be on the sunny side of thirty; she was three or four.And a more enraptured couple I did not see that day... nor had I seen for long before. They only hadeyes for each other.

The young father was in the process of enchanting his daughter; he was very much in the middle ofnot merely telling her a story... but acting it out. His animals were not just words from his mouth.They lived! They moved! They entranced! He didn't merely talk of their movements... he moved asthey would in life, going where they meant to go.... and to show her deep and sincere appreciationfor his constant efforts and exertions... she laughed, completely, merrily, with a glee she had alreadymastered... and which she spent liberally, recompense for her adored father.

No wonder I couldn't take my eyes off this scene of radiance and sunshine. I could only wish themboth one thing to make what they had perfect... and that was the gift of clear memory.

Unbidden tears.

After a minute or two my way diverged from theirs; they went on without thought or recognition oracknowledgement that such a one as me even lived. And whether it was because of this thought orone like it, I felt tears. It's the kind of thing that happens to too many silly old buffers if they'vedined unwisely but too well or dwelt too long on things that might have been... and why theysquandered so many opportunities, because they were certain they'd come again, but didn't.

6 or 7 or so, the softest hands, the most caressing voice.

Then my own memory yanked me as it so often does these days. And I was not pining aboutmight-have-beens and loves I tossed away without thought, doubt or pangs. Instead I heard a voice Iknew as well as my own, a voice that represented all I valued and had every reason to be gratefulfor. Her voice. And this voice didn't just rise from memory. I heard it because she was there with meagain... and everything was there, just as it should be. And just as it all sounded sixty years ago andmore.

"My little love, do you feel a little better? I have something you'll like." And she always did. Abook. A tale carefully considered before being read to me; sometimes one she knew I loved;sometimes one she was certain I would come to love, because she already did. Thus in her ownsoothing hands she would bring me, between covers, pages sometimes not yet cut, the unimaginableriches of the world, sometimes when I was ill; sometimes to sooth the way to dreamless slumber.And no matter how much she gave me, there was always more summoned by her practised magic.But the real magic did not come between covers with uncut pages; nor even with tales ofmesmerizing effect. The supremest spell was the one wrought by her voice and a few deft

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movements which denoted care, craft, artistry and above all else, love.

"By the shores of Gitche Gumee."

Given a moment or two, a hint and a clue, I could probably name everything she read to me... notjust because of the lyric power of the authors' words but because of her voice. Its cadence. Itsresonance. Its sonority. Its shear beauty and allure. Each word counted and so she neglected noword. Each line counted and so she delivered each line. Each paragraph counted... and so not asingle paragraph was overlooked or forgotten. Thus, she rendered one of our favorites; "The Song ofHiawatha" by my near neighbor on Brattle Street, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, published touniversal acclaim in 1855. I can hear her now... see her... she lives on as I hear her reading thewords she loved:

"By the shores of Gitche Gumee, By the shining Big-Sea-Water, Stood the wigwam of Nokomis,Daughter of the Moon, Nokomis."

But her magic was by no means exhausted, hardly even begun. For now she told me to close myeyes, to see the shores of Gitche Gumee, the shining Big-Sea-Water, the wigwam, and most of allNokomis, Daughter of the Moon Nokomis. And as she bade, so I did until these were no longermere words, but grand vistas, places of consequence and truth. Such was the magic of her voice.

"But there is no joy in Mudville."

One of her favorites, which became one of mine, was "Casey at the Bat", "A Ballad of the RepublicSung in the Year 1888." It was written by Ernest Thayer and first published in "The San FranciscoExaminer" on June 3, 1888. No voice ever delivered it with greater gusto and the American idiomthan she, perhaps because she was a zealous supporter of her hapless Cubbies, the Chicago Cubs.Thus, as she spoke she made every captivating gesture:

"Oh, somewhere in this favored land the sun is shining bright; The band is playing somewhere, andsomewhere hearts are light, And somewhere men are laughing, and somewhere children shout; Butthere is no joy in Mudville -- mighty Casey has struck out."

"And the highwayman came riding."

Over the years, in sickness and in health, her voice unlocked one treasure chest after another...Thomas Gray, Tennyson, Frost, Sandburg, Gerard Manley Hopkins, Robert Browning, DylanThomas... but this was always one of her favorites, for her dramatic sense worked well with AlfredNoyes, the great poet of the empire on which the sun never set, ruled by the Great White Queen afterwhom my grandmother was named. He published it in 1906, and it made him a world figure.

"The wind was a torrent of darkness among the gusty trees, The moon was a ghostly galleon tossedupon cloudy seas, The road was a ribbon of moonlight over the purple moor, And the highwaymancame riding -- Riding -- riding -- The highwayman came riding up to the old inn-door."

And, as was now usual, she closed my eyes and opened my mind's eye to see the ghostly galleon, theribbon of moonlight, and the highwayman, "a bunch of lace at his chin", the highwayman who keptriding, riding, riding. With every word, with every image, she helped make me the man I am today.Your children deserve as much from you, and as you love them, do so; for this is one certain way toensure not just their constant improvement but that you and your voice descend to them and keepyou a forever living presence in their lives.

Envoi.

For the musical accompaniment to this article, I've selected the brilliant suite composed by NicholaiRimsky-Korsakov in 1888. It is called "Scheherazade". It's the story of a shrewd woman whose




ability to keep the Sultan amused by telling stories kept her alive. Based on "One Thousand and OneNights," my mother loved it from its opening bass motif to every evocative note that follows. Shewas always happy to acknowledge the talents of other wizards and soothsayers. You'll find it in anysearch engine. Go now and play it. Its richness enriches this article... and your life.




ResourceAbout the Author Harvard-educated Dr. Jeffrey Lant is CEO of Worldprofit, Inc., providing a widerange of online services for small and-home based businesses. Services include home businesstraining, affiliate marketing training, earn-at-home programs, traffic tools, advertising, webcasting,hosting, design, WordPress Blogs and more. Find out why Worldprofit is considered the # 1 onlineHome Business Training program by getting a free Associate Membership today.

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