the feminism of birth: one woman's story of birthing new life and discovering new strength
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New
Actitsism
relatives
are
so
in
love
with
you.
All
you
have
to
do
now
is
grow
and
explore,
the
world
is
at
your
finger
tips,
which
you
love
dearly
b
eat
THE
FEMINISM
OF
BIRTH:
ONE
WOMAN'S
STORY
OF
BIRTHING
NEW
LIFE
AND
DISCOVERING
NEW
STRENGTH
Jeff
Nall
N7:46eu,
Sunday,
November
16,2008,
AprilLee
Nallbirthed
our
daughter,
Mimi
Lucille
Nall-we
call
her
Lucy.
she
was
21
inches
andBpounds,Tounces.
Lucy
is
our
amazing
"special,"
as
April
likes
to
call
her'
but
she
is
not
a
miracle.
Nothing
miraculous
or
"medical"
brought
Lucy
into
the
world.
she
wasn't
rushed
to the hospital.
Her birth
dldn't
involve
forceps
or
lVs.
No
one
threatened
to
conduct
a
c-section
less
her
body
quickly
deliver
Lucy'
There
were
no
nurses
or
doctors
darting
between
a
dozen
"patients."
The
birth
attendants
did
not
need
a
file
to
know
Apr:il's
name.
There
was
no
beeping
technological
gadgetry;
no
multimillion
dollar
ma-
cninery;
no white-coated
obstetricians.
No one
forced
her
labor
pro""i.
according
to an
arbitrary
deadline.
No
one
broke
her
water
and
she
was
not
induced.
There
were
no drugs
coursing
through
her
blood
stream'
And
so
there
were
no
drugs
in
her
newly
born daughter's
bodY.
April
and
the
creative
power
instilled
in
her
by
nature
brought
Lucy
lnto
the
world.
April
birthed
Lucy
at
home'
ln
doing
so
she
beclme
part
of
the
1
to
2
percent
of
the
U.S'
population
who
choose
to
have
a
home
birth.
Home
birth
wasn't
even
in consideration
until
a
birth
class
doula named
Ruth
showed
us
Elena
Tonetti-Vladimirova's
2006
film
Birth
as
we
Know
/f.
The
film
presented
childbirth
as
we
both
had
never
seen
it. lnstead
of
an
agonizing
disease
which
men
wereluckynottogothrough,thefilmpresentedbirthasan
opportunity for women
to
experience
a
sacred
and
empowering
communion
with
nature,
showing
11
natural
births
taking
place
in various
environments.
Up
until
then
neither
of
us
knew
much
of anything
about
the
furtive
debate
raging
beneath
the
surface
in
American
society
about
how
best
to
birth.
we
began
reading
numerous
books
and
scholarly
articles.
The
more
we
read
and
questioned doctors,
the
more
we
began
to
question the
sensibil-
ity
of
conventional
birth.
we also
watched
another
incredible
film
that
put
everything
into
perspeciive:
Ihe
Business
of
Being
Born(2OoTbyAbbyEpsteinandRickiLake).lnadditionto
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"fl6
BeYond
Burning
BrG
demystifying
home
birth,
the
film
shows
that
medicalized
child-
birthis
,,innJvations"
have
often
been
responsible
for
harming
women
and
the
natural
or
normal
bitth
process'
Wediscoveredthec-sectionrateintheUnitedStateswas
31 percent
and
40 percent in
Palm Beach where
we were
living.
tn
igzo,
the
c_section
rate
was
just
5.5
percent. The
leading
causes
of
maternal
death
in
the
United
states
are
complications
from
cesarean
surgery
along
with
those
from
anesthesia.
we
also
learned
that
the
uniteo
States
had
a
deplorable
infant
mortality
rate,
one
of
the
lowest
among
industrialized
nations.
ln much
of
the
rest
of
the
world,
midwives
take
care
of
the
majority
of births.
Throughout
the
majority
of
the
pregnancy and
before
our
eventual
bieak
with
the
hospital,
April
went
to
a
traditional
obste-
trician.
But
things
changed
dramatically
when
we
began
to expe-
rience
first
hanb
what
we
were
learning
about,
particularly
the
hospital's
love
of
the
serious
and
often
unnecessary
cesarean
"""iion
surgery.
April
sought
to
ensure
her
favorite doctor
could
deliver
Lucy,
iince
three
had
been
assigned
to
her'
When
she
asked
how
srre
could
make
sure
he
was
the
delivering
doctor
he
told
her,
you
could
always
schedule
a
c-section
or
an
induction
on
a
dayi,m
in.
On
Aprils
last
visit
to the
hosp1althe
ultrasound
tech
noied
the
estimated
size
of
the
baby.
The
doctor's
probably
goingtoscheduleyouforac-section,shecommented.Fiercely,
Apriisfrot
back:
"No
she's
not"'And
when
April's
blood
pressure
was minutely elevated
her
doctor
joined
in,
warning
that
if
such
numbers
peisisted
she
might
need
to
consider
a c-section.
Suf-
fice
to say,
that
was
the
last
day
April
went
to the
hospital
and
the
last
time
she
heard
the
"c" word'
Our
birth
class
instructor,
Ruth,
suggested
we
contact
a
mid-
wife
named
Lori.
over
the
course
of
1B
years
of
midwifery,
Lori
learned
to
listen
to
women's
bodies'
She
developed
a
keen
ear
for
the
sacred,
rational
knowledge
stored
in
women,
aiding
them
inbirthingmorethanl,l00babies.onlyoncehadachildnot
made
it
ihrough
the
birth.
compare
that
ratio
to
the
United
States's
infant
mortality
rate
which
is above
6
per
1,000'
Aboutaweekshyofherduedate,Loristoppedinforherfirst
official
checkup
of
April.
what
I witnessed
in
the
next
several
hours
changed
everything
I thought
I knew
about
pregnancy'
birth,
and
th1
beautiiul
power
of
woman.
By
the
small
trace
of
otoooy
show
and
the
way
April's
cervix
felt,
Lori
determined
that
Lucy
was
on
her
way
in
the
next
24
hours.
April
and
I
exchanged
cyni"uf
,
excited
glances.
April
was
looking
for
good
news
but
nei-
trer
of
us
thought
she'd
be
having
a
baby
that
day.
Lori's
predic-
tion
went
from
probable
to definite
as
April
described
her
Braxton
Hickscontractionsandthelocationofthetighteningshewas
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Mhing
New
Actioism
experiencing'
"She's
definitely
coming
today"'said
Lori'
"l'm
going to
bring
in
"ot"
oi.y
stuff
and
stay
at
my
sister's
house'"
Her
sister's
house
was
nearer
to
our
home
than
Lori's'
Lori later returned around 5
ervr'
April
was
1'5
cm
dilated'
About
90
minutes
later,
April's
water
broke
as
I loaded
our
two
children
into
my
motner's'car'
I
walked
into
our
bedroom
to
find
loii-"t"pping
bick
netore
a
soaked
floor'
April
was
5
cm.
dilated'
Laughter
over
the
splash
her
broken
water
made
turned
to
seri-
ous
breathing.
The
contractions
grew stronger'
April
climbeO
into
a
warm
shJwer
where
she
labored
privately
forseveralminutes.ttwashereshefacedherfirstgreatstruggle.
April
let
out
deep,
primal
intonations
as
I
had
never
heard
her
make.
She
was
.p""f.ing
to
her
body'
stored
with
thousands
of
y""r.
of
nature's
evoluti6nary
knowledge'
trying
to
findi.er.way
in.ugh
the
agonizing
but
creative
wilderness of
birth'
"She's
so
in-tune
to
her
body,;
Lori
commented
as
we
stood
outside
the
bathroom
door'
When
April
called
me
in
I
sat
beside
the
tub
where
we
held
hands.
She
experienced
tremendous
pain' She
pulled
meinto
out'ilny
showei.
Fully
clothed,
I sat
gn
1l:Og"
at
the
back
of
the
tub
where
t
netpeO
support
her
weight'
When
she
turned
around
to sit
down
in
the
tuU
sne
asked
me
to
sit
behind
her'
April
gL;n"O
and
cried
ou1.
t coulOn't
empathize
with
her'
I
could
only
encourage
and
love
her.
I revered
her'
Despite
the
way
in.which
medicalized
Oirtn
nal
Oistorted reality' birth
and
the
creation
of
life
was
the
realm
of
woman'
Between
"ontr""tion",
April
managed
to
move
from
the
bath-
tub
to
the
bedroom.
lt
was
"it
"h"
couid
do
to
make
it
to
the
foot
of
the
bed.
Head
on
tfre
OeO,
knees
on
the
ground'
April.labored
intensely.
Lori
suggested
that
she
lay
on
her
side
on
the
bed'
We
n"fp"O
"ner.
stanO
anO
push forward'.April's
legs
trembled
with
linaustion.
I
hetd
her
ieft
teg
behind
the
knee,
still
holding
her
hand
with
my
otner.
Lori
said",
"You're
almost
there'"
April
cried
out.
She
felt
burning.
Positioned
with
a
view
I
watched
as
Lori
worked
olive oil into"April's
skin'
"Can you see
her"'
Lori
asked
me.
Lucy's
neaO
Oega;
to
crown'
A
full
head
of
jet-black
hajr'
Lori
gr"nO".i
April's
rrani
to
touch'
"She's
coming"'
Lori
smiled.'
April
cried
out
for
Lori
to
get
her
out.
"she's
coming
out,
but
you're
the
one
doing
it,
not
mel"
This
was
April's
bitth'
no
one
else's'
Lori
massaged
April's
perineum,
preparing
the
passage'.April
writhed
and
squealed
with
pain'
"Push
it
down
to
your bottom'
don't
let
it out
tnrough
your'mouth,"
Lori
advised'
Half
aware
of
anything
being
said,ipril
collected
the
pain and
pushed
it into
a
low
growl. Loriwatched
in absolute
confidence
in
April's
birth'
npriis
face turned
to
me,
no
anger
and
no
cry
for
help'
She
was
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Beyond
Burning
Btzr
silently asking
if Lori
and I believed in her.
Her expression
seemed
to
say,
seriously,
am
I
going
to
have
this
baby? With
absolute
confidence
I beamed
back, "She's
really
coming
honey,
you're
doing
it."
April
pushed,
giving
a
deep
lasting moan. Lucy's
closed
eyes
appeared
over
the
horizon
of
her
mother's
birth
canal. April
cried
out. Lori expertly
oiled
and massaged the
edges
of the
passage-
way. No urgency,
just
confidence
and
anticipation,
Lori replied:
"Keep
going,
she's
almost here." April looked
to
me
once
more,
searching my
eyes
for honest
confirmation.
I replied with
a
careful,
earnest smile. Aprilgroaned. The
head
emerged.
I
moved
closer.
Lori
placed
her
hands around Lucy's
head,
tugging
with
April's determined
push.
Soft, milky
shoulders. April
pushed,
Lori
pulled.
Small drops of water touched
my face.
A
deep,
earthy
groan.
Lucy's
soft,
watery
body
poured
forth
with her legs
and
arms
compressed around her torso. Then
Lucy's
body unfolded
before
my
eyes
like
a flower bud
bursting into
bloom.
Lori
quickly
checked Lucy and
placed
her
on
her mother's
stomach.
April
looked
upon
her with
shocked
satisfaction. Her
pain
was
so
great
and the struggle
so
intense,
her
mind had
left
her
skeptical.
But April's
body knew; it
was stronger
than
she
could
have
imagined;
she was capable
of more than
she was
taught
to
believe. No
book, no
film
could convey the truth
evident
in Lucy's
cries
beneath her mother's
chin.
Exhaustion.
Pinches
of
pain.
Joy. This was the way new, innocent
life
should be brought
into
the
world.
Soon after,
April
delivered the
placenta,
and Lori
brought
April's
bleeding
to
a
stop.
When
the first feeding
was
done, I
joined
April
and
Lucy in
bed.
The
three
of
us
laid
there together
in the
serenity one could only
find
at home. I
began to realize
that
I
had
just
witnessed April bring new
life into
this
world.
Early on
April
had doubted
herself.
She
struggled to
overcome
the
years
of
conditioning women in
our society
experience,
taught
that they are
powerless
and
that their
ability to birth
new life is
akin
to
a sickness needing treatment. Before
she
birthed Lucy, April
hadn't
realized her
own creative power. But now Lucy
lay
on
her
naked
breast,
proof
of the
potency,
and the
agency of
her
body;
proof
that
she
could
do anything because
she birthed a new life.
The
word
"spiritual,"
though
loosely
bantered about,
was
created
to describe what I
witnessed
that night.
I
witnessed
April
and nature
in
sacred communion;
and
a
midwife
who trusted
women and the natural
process,
working with
it rather than
sed