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Mix philosophical debate
with feminism debate and
you get Elisabeth
Badinter’s book on modern day
motherhood ‘The Conflict’.
I deliberately didn’t find out anything
about the author because I wanted the
words to speak for themselves and not
be tainted by bias.
The Conflict was first published in
France and has been translated for
English reading audiences but the
themes throughout the book are fairly
universal.
The back cover reads “So are mums
who rely on formula, childcare and
disposable nappies lazy or liberated?”
Is modern day motherhood seen as
martyrdom? Badinter explores the rapid
change motherhood has undertaken in
the last 40 years with the introduction
of contraception and the feminist
movement that gained momentum in
the late 60’s and early 70’s here in Australia.
Motherhood is now a choice. It is no longer a pre-determined path. And that is a fairly young school of
thought. How motherhood fits in with womanhood is still being nutted out.
However, for me it seems like a logical progression that if women choose to become mothers then they are
going to give it a red-hot go. That’s what women do with regards to everything. We give it a red-hot go.
But Badinter asks whether we have gone too far in our expectations of what it means to be a mother.
Breastfeeding until children are toddlers, co-sleeping, putting our children’s needs ahead of our own. Perhaps
she is right. Perhaps women, once they become mothers have forgotten their sense of self.
Perhaps with the breakdown of the “takes a village to raise a child” mentality our instinct has taken a beating
too. And that is the one thought that kept racing through my mind as I was reading this book. Where has our
instinct gone?
But I think we have started to recognize this already. Mother’s have been kinder to themselves and saying
“near enough is good enough”. Or maybe that’s just me. My eldest is 10 and I can see that if I do sometimes
drop the ball, she won’t be scarred for life. Perhaps that is just a rite of passage, a journey of discovery that
has to be taken by mothers and not a direction out of a book.
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I agree with some points that Badinter raises that motherhood tends to swing between extremes and
absolutism and that does not serve anybody well. But motherhood is fluid. Philosophies and strategies change
over the years; some as a kneejerk reaction to what was before, some are simply an improvement as more
information comes to light.
If any of you saw the British series “Bringing Up Baby” you will see that over the course of three decades three
different types of parenting style emerged.
I do recommend you read The Conflict. It doesn’t hold back.
Motherhood is not a stand-alone topic. It needs to be discussed within the context of society, fatherhood,
childless women, economics, education, values and the list goes on.
And that’s motherhood. Forever changing. Forever complex.
The Conflict is published by The Text Publishing Company.
Words by Maria Tedeschi
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[...] to round off all things mummy I review “The Conflict” by Elisabeth Badinter, France’s foremost
feminist [...]
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