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Page 1: The Burstows Super Puzzle Book...The Burstows Super Puzzle Book November 2019 to January 2020 CROSSWORDS, WORDSEARCH, CODE CRACKER, SUDOKU & TRIVIA URS FREE BF190056 - Puzzle Book

The Burstows Super Puzzle Book

November 2019 to January 2020

CROSSWORDS, WORDSEARCH,CODE CRACKER, SUDOKU & TRIVIA

YOURS FREE

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3 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

PLAYING SUDOKUTo solve a Sudoku puzzle, every number from 1 to 9 must appear in:• Each of the nine vertical columns• Each of the nine horizontal rows• Each of the nine 3 x 3 blocksRemember no number can occur more than once in any row, column or 3x3 block.PLAYING CROSSWORDSCrosswords are one of the greatest word association puzzles of all time. Our 15x15 crosswords are easy to do in one session or complete over time. Using the clues provided fillintheanswersmovinglefttorightandtoptobottom.Workwithafriendifyouwantas sometimes two heads are better than one when solving a crossword puzzle. The more puzzles you do, the more familiar you’ll be with standard puzzle clues and answers.PLAYING WORDSEARCHFind all the words listed hidden in the grid of letters. They can be found in straight lines up, down, forwards, backwards or even diagonally.PLAYING CODE CRACKEREach number represents a different letter of the alphabet. Work out which number stands for which letter to complete the crossword. We’ve given you two letters to start. All words are from a dictionary and no proper nouns are used. All letters of the alphabet arenotalwaysused.Whenyouhavecrackedthecodefillintheanswerintheboxesatthe bottom.PLAYING TRIVIATrivia is a great way to test your memory for general knowledge and history. Simply write your answers beside the questions and check to see how many you got right. Great to do with friends or on your own.COLOURING FOR ADULTSLike painting and craft, coloring offers a great source for focus and creativity. It has beenshown tohavestress-reducingbenefitsandhelpswithanxiety inpeopleofallages. It is a great fun social activity that produces a similar calming effect on the brain to meditation.

We hope you enjoy our free puzzle book. It’s a great opportunity to test your skill and knowledge and keep mentally active. It’s also a lot of fun.Burstows puzzle books are supplied free as part of our ongoing commitment to community service. The book is broken up into monthly sections and answers for each month will be published on our website.

WIN A COLES $100 GIFT CARDWhen you visit the puzzle answerspage on our website you can enterto go into our monthly draw to win

a Coles $100 gift card.PLUS, you’ll find bonus questions

there giving you another opportunity to win!

Full details on page 17

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4 | 5 |

NOVEMBER

All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at www.burstows.com.au

Wordsearch No: 56 Theme: A GIRLS NAMESCrossword No: 186

ACROSS 1. Retaliation 5. Sentence component 7. Metal join 8. Bread shops 9. Steering device12. Scent15. Wash19. Noisy confusion21. Regarding smugly

DOWN 1. Money for good deed 2. Remade 3. Unaffected by alcohol 4. Points out similarity 5. Trill 6. Prescribed amount10. Desert hill11. Gain12. Lamb’s mother

13. Equivalent14. Carpentry spike15. Obtained by begging16. Wear away17. Witnessing18.Lodgesfirmly19. Ring-shaped bun20. Mends with needle

22. Undercooked (steak)23. Eat24. Rubber overshoes

423. Who was Dionne Warwick’s most famous cousin?

424. In which European city was Swedish pop group ABBA formed in 1972?

425. Which later-to-be-famous solo singer and guitarist toured as a member of the Beach Boys in the mid 60s?

Fun With Trivia 423 - 425

AAADRIANNAZAU

DUMTADELIESBV

RPHAI

WDYLHENE

IFLORRGALIANS

EQANAAAEKYSIS

NHLENIYMIAROA

NAIENWLAAAYIN

ENSLAGLAMWLLA

JNHIBAUAZAXDA

BAAAEOZBAAEID

FLYELSNIALMID

PAGATHACAEFJC

GAERDNALEYHQL

AALIA

ADELA

ADELIE

ADRIANNA

ADRIENNE

AGATHA

AILEEN

AIMEE

AINSLEY

AKAYLA

ALAIYA

ALANNAH

ALISHA

ALLISON

AMARA

AMARIS

AMARITA

ANDREA

ANNABEL

ASHLEY

AZALIA

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6 | 7 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

NOVEMBERSudoku No: 67 Level 1

Fun With Trivia 426 - 429

426. Who had the hit song Little Old Wine Drinker Me?

427. How many strings does a violin usually have?

428. Which English rock band, formed in London in 1969, takes its name from a fictionalcharacterinDavidCopperfield?

429. In which American city was Elvis discovered dead in 1977?

Code Cracker No: 56

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

CLUES

Each number represents a different letter of the alphabet. Work out which number stands for which letter to complete the crossword. We’ve given you two letters to start. All words

are from a dictionary and no proper nouns are used. All letters of the alphabet are not always used. When you have cracked the code fill in the answer in the boxes below.

© Lovatts PublicationsCODE CRACKER

ANSWER:

1 2 3R

4 5 6 7 8 9 10

11

12

13

14

15

16

17

18

19

20

21D

22

23

24

25

266 12 5 8 12 19

7

14

12

5

4

5

14

5

21

20

1

19

1 12 5 3 19 12 4 15 14 2 4

5 18 12 4 3 18 12 12

1 6 12 5 8 12 23 1

12 3 22 15 12 4 22 3 12 21

3 22 4 14 12 4 4

1 21 13 12 4 14 5 9 12 14 4

13 12 12 9 20 12 19

10 12 5 14 1 23 4 14 2 22

21 1 12 3 6 12 16

19 1 3 12 4 17 14 5 3 12 15

22 9 23 3 4 12 14

3 3 5 2 12 9 23 7 7 2

5 15 23 17 11 4 5 5

5 9 12 22 22 12 5 15

4 12 3 12 19 5 21 12 21 4

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9 |8 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

NOVEMBERCrossword No: 187

ACROSS 1. Show to be true 7. Missing person’s tracker 8. Lethal10. Washing (clothes)12. Prevented entry of14. Slide16. Annual period17. Got20. Nobleman23. Nominated

DOWN 1. Swollen, ... up 2. Calf meat 3. Actor, ... Penn 4. Wept 5. Screeching 6. Very cold 9. Animal dens11. Polishing substances13. Flow away15.Infidel

16. Pines (for)18. Lag behind19. Stable compartment21. Travel bag22. Mexican snack

24. Unnecessary25. Not as good

Wordsearch No: 57 Theme: ABLAZE

430. Whatsong,releasedtopromotethefilmTheMillionairess,featureditsstars Peter Sellers and Sophia Loren?

431. Who managed the Beatles’ prior to his early death in 1967?

432. Whose nickname was a derived from the term satchel-mouth?

Fun With Trivia 430 - 432

KTEOFHTRAEHCA

CSECBLGFNZSOI

AKPWANIEIGONO

TAFLILRCNXGFF

SMTKIGPIKLGLI

EUAHYTZEEEEAR

KBBEGAWNRXRGE

OTWFLIOOCIIRS

MGEBZOLTOBFAI

SPLEKUAAEDPTD

ILLUMINATEMIE

AFLAMELCGWAOH

TNOITSUBMOCNY

AFLAME

ALIGHT

BAKING

BLAZING

CAMPFIRE

COMBUSTION

CONFLAGRATION

ENERGY

FIREPLACE

FIRESIDE

FLICKER

HEARTH

ILLUMINATE

INGLENOOK

SMOKESTACK

SPLIT WOOD

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11 |10 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

NOVEMBERSudoku No: 68 Level 1

Fun With Trivia 433 - 436433. Whose single ‘Glad All Over’ knocked the Beatles’ ‘I Want to Hold Your Hand’

off the top of the UK charts in 1964?

434. Jimmy Page is an English musician who formed which rock band in 1968?

435. What’s the name of the motorbiker who dies in the Shangri-Las’ hit The Leader of the Pack?

436. Which American singer and entertainer was nicknamed Schnozzola, because of his large nose?

Code Cracker No: 57

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

CLUES

Each number represents a different letter of the alphabet. Work out which number stands for which letter to complete the crossword. We’ve given you two letters to start. All words

are from a dictionary and no proper nouns are used. All letters of the alphabet are not always used. When you have cracked the code fill in the answer in the boxes below.

© Lovatts PublicationsCODE CRACKER

ANSWER:

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

11

12

13

14

15

16P

17

18

19

20S

21

22

23

24

25

269 14 17 8 14 15

12

14

8

1

14

22

14

1

1

14

22

16 14 10 10 14 22 22 6 18 18 16 20

19 18 13 2 22 18

14 14 16 9 14 8 10 14 15 20

7 2 15 3 22 2 14 4

23 10 23 17 13 1 13 6 2 14

23 21 14 20 23 20 16 14

10 22 1 23 10 23 17 20 14 21

10 14 2

13 22 14 8 16 15 19 15 9 14

14 11 11 5 17 18 16 17

23 11 23 8 14 10 22 23 10 19

6 14 16 10 13 6 14 15

8 2 20 22 13 11 23 17 16 20

17 23 18 14 14 23

14 10 7 14 6 1 23 10 23 10 23

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13 |12 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

NOVEMBERCrossword No: 188

ACROSS 1. Forceful 4. Shirtsleeve edges 7. Cats 8. Stockpile 9. Accommodated12. Occasion15. Release17. Laundry stiffener18. Assisted21. Citrus crop

22. Cherub23. Tied (laces)

DOWN 1. Away from summit 2. Opposed 3. Sugar source 4. Money 5. Scavenges 6. Beach material10. Female opera singers11. Dull pains13. Hitched14. Tolerating

16. Lying dormant18. Spiritual glow19. Girl’s plaything20. Songbird

Crossword No: 189

ACROSS 1. Overdue (bill) 5. Tree part 7. Hostile opponent 8. Crustacean with nippers 9. Captures (criminal)10. Uniform11. Accessories13. Wig material14. Disorderly crowd18. Quit21. Heavily promote

DOWN 1. Obscure 2. Fossil resin 3. Concave impressions 4. Wander 5. Hangs unlawfully 6. Walking slowly12. Trouble15. Whenever16. Mixed17. Arch over eye

19.Snake-likefish20. Naturists22. Besieged23. Blacksmith’s block

22. Held responsible24. Illustrious25. Discover26. Delivery vehicles27. Wear away28. Act29. Long claws

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NOVEMBERAdult colouring-in No: 32

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17 |16 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

WIN a $100 Coles Voucher

It’s so simple! OnceyouhavefinishedyourNovemberpuzzles,simplylogontothewebsiteand once you’re on the puzzles page just click on November Answers & Solutions link. Just by viewing the answers and solutions, you’ll go into the draw to win a $100 Coles shopping voucher and get access to all the puzzle answers for that month.

You’ll also find 2 online bonus questions. Answer them correctly and you will receive an extra entry in the $100 Coles voucher draw. It’s all so easy. HINT: the answers to the bonus questions can be found on our website.The same applies to December and January puzzle answers. Just click on the link and all the answers will be there for you. Answers & Solutions will all be published on the 1st of each month and added to the website.

• November Answers & Solutions – published on 1st November 2019• December Answers & Solutions – published on 1st December 2019• January Answers & Solutions – published on 1st January 2020

Coles voucher winners will be drawn on the 7th day of month immediately followingentry.Winnerswillbenotifiedviaemailorphonebasedonnominatedpreference. Winners are drawn randomly by Burstows staff and all decisions are final.Nocorrespondencewillbeenteredinto.Winnersagreetovisitoneofourbranches to verify their identity and have their photo taken for publication.

Find all the answers and solutions to our puzzles at www.burstows.com.au and each month you can go in the draw to win a Coles Voucher valued at $100

Do you need an extra Puzzle Book for a friend or relative? They can be downloaded or printed from the Puzzle Page on our website www.burstows.com.au

NOVEMBERCrossword No: 190

ACROSS 1. Unstable (of chemical) 5. Object of worship 7. Towards interior of 8. Straw-roofed (cottage) 9. Commander12. Sheep pelts15. Revised19. Genetically copied21. Leaving empty22. Govern

23. Actor, ... Nolte24. Accentuates

DOWN 1. Futilely 2. Audibly 3. Place in crypt 4. Tooth covering 5. Earnings 6. Ski chalets10. Amongst11. Prepare (newspaper)12. Short-lived trend13. Wicked

14. Maize15. Irregular16. Go on offensive17. Covets18. Vipers19. Tobacco product20. Giant monsters

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19 |18 |

DECEMBER

The Government has announced changes to the Age Pension Assets Test that were applied on 1 January 2017.

An investment in a Sureplan Gold funeral bond may help if you are affected. Sureplan Gold is a secure and reliable funeral investment plan and a contribution up to $12 500 may be exempt from the Assets Test.

All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at www.burstows.com.au

Crossword No: 191

ACROSS 1. Massage 7. Escapes 8. Fantasy10. Sixtieth, ..., eightieth12. Protest posters14. Roman gown16. Area round teeth17. Chemical building block20. Wicked23. Placed

24. Brightness25. Glided on snow

DOWN 1. Abduct 2. Regrettably 3. Double-reed instrument 4. Severe (illness) 5. Lack of propriety 6. Breathing disorder 9. Tin or lead11. Citrus preserve13. Musical twosome15. Bills of fare

16. Rule (country)18. Eluded (capture)19. Tokyo is there21. Narrow part of bottle22. Unwell

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21 |20 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

DECEMBERCrossword No: 192

ACROSS 1. Pulling sharply 4. Stretch (for) 7. Hungarian spice 8. Tennis score 9. Risk12. Rescued disaster victims15. Gaining knowledge17. Radio interference18. Roves

DOWN 1. Young in appearance 2. Australian marsupials 3. Clench (teeth) 4. Street 5. Adopts (identity) 6. Fine-tune (skills)10. Cotton fabric11. Sudden pains13. Rainbow’s band of hues

14. Sun shield16. Japanese martial art18. Hindquarters19. Sleigh20. Sore crust

21. Tetanus ailment22. Stacked23. Monotony

Wordsearch No: 58 Theme: ACCOUNTING TERMS

Fun With Trivia 437 - 439

BENEFICIARYPS

ERUTIDNEPXERN

GROSSINCOMEOO

SUBKOMHMKDRFI

YEHABEALLEEIT

CLIBNTXOOACTA

WRDTUKHLVLEAI

BQERIKRBWCIBC

QBIDCROUNGVIE

MTXOIUUAPAALR

YGTEGTNCWTBIP

WSWHWIBREXLTP

QETEFKQTUSEYA

APPRECIATION

BANKRUPT

BENEFICIARY

BOUGHT

CREDIT

EXPENDITURE

FINANCE

GROSS INCOME

MATURITY

PROFITABILITY

RECEIVABLE

SECURITIES

STOCKHOLDERS

437. DollyPartonhada1981hitwithwhichsongfromthefilmofthesamename?

438. Who wrote and had a hit with the instrumental Classical Gas?

439. Who wrote Patsy Cline’s hit Crazy?

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22 | 23 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

DECEMBERSudoku No: 69 Level 2

Fun With Trivia 440 - 443440. What city hosted the Beatles as the resident band at the Kaiserkeller and Top

Ten Club?

441. Who won (barefoot) the British Eurovision Song Contest in 1967 with Puppet on String?

442. Who wrote and sang the novelty hit Hello Muddah, Hello Fadduh, about Camp Granada?

443. The Isley Brothers’ hit was called Behind a … what?

Code Cracker No: 58

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

CLUES

Each number represents a different letter of the alphabet. Work out which number stands for which letter to complete the crossword. We’ve given you two letters to start. All words

are from a dictionary and no proper nouns are used. All letters of the alphabet are not always used. When you have cracked the code fill in the answer in the boxes below.

© Lovatts PublicationsCODE CRACKER

ANSWER:

1 2W

3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

11

12

13

14

15

16

17M

18

19

20

21

22

23

24

25

261 19 6 6 3 20

2

18

20

3

6

13

18

17

1

18

9

3

17 19 20 19 20 16 3 6 19 7 3 6

9 19 7 20 10 3

3 18 11 7 18 18 4 4 10 2

3 18 6 17 19 7 4 18

3 4 21 5 5 2 18 7 5

3 19 9 12 7 10 5

12 6 6 4 3 21 18 20 7 3 6

11 3 6 19 17 3 15 3

18 2 20 3 6 3 20 18 17 3 4

8 3 18 20 7 9 3

3 4 7 18 6 3 3 17 5

3 9 12 4 3 9 5 16

10 14 4 3 18 18 9 10 17 18

18 21 21 10 10 20

18 4 4 10 21 11 1 18 4 15 5

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24 | 25 |All the solutions and answers for each month’s puzzles can be found on our website at

www.burstows.com.au

DECEMBERCrossword No: 193

ACROSS 1. Amusingly coarse 5. Castle water ditch 7. Senseless (comment) 8. Hawaiian dance 9. Grumble10. Dining bench11. Cows’ milk sacs13. Not one14. More effortless18. Phantoms

21. Collar button22. Wellbeing24. Female reproductive organ25. Forbid26. Injury27. Ascended28. Operates29. Records

DOWN 1. Reaccommodate 2. Conscious 3. Slimming plans 4. Poking abruptly 5. Token of remembrance 6. Opposed to12. Regret15. National songs16. Within building17. Fall ill again

19. Garden tool20. Plots22. African scavenger23. Pallid

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One does not – and cannot – exist without the other. They are the yin and yang of our lives. From the moment we are born, we say hello to love in our lives by seeking it out, by acknowledging it when it unfolds, by welcoming it and by nurturing it so that it will continue.

It is essential for those who care for grieving people to understand that we must also say hello to loss and grief in our lives. To be sure, we do not seek it out, but when it unfolds, we must acknowledge it. I would even say that we must welcome our grief. We must say hello to it. The funeral, in fact, is an essential step in saying hello.

Yes, we must simultaneously “work at” and “surrender to” the grief journey. This in itself is a paradox. As grievers come to know this paradox, they can, very slowly, discover the soothing of their souls.

Saying Hello to the Physical Reality of DeathIn centuries past, our actions and rituals made it clear that we understood the necessity of saying hello to the reality of death. We have always – even from the time of Neanderthals, anthropologists suggest – honoured the body of the person who died right up until the moment it was laid in its final resting place.

The body of the person who died was the focal part of the entire funeral process – from the procession into the church to the procession out

of the church to the procession to the cemetery through to the burial. The body never for a moment left the family’s sight – or heart.

In recent decades, as you know, the trend has been toward body-absent funeral ceremonies. Today, bodies are often cremated immediately, often without loved ones having spent time with them or even having looked at them beforehand.

While historically we understood the essential, universal need to honour and affirm the life of the person who died with the body present throughout the entire funeral process, now the guest of honour is often missing in action.

People in funeral service understand that when you watch someone die, care for a dead body and/ or visit the body of a loved one in an open casket, you are saying hello to the reality of that person’s death. In fact, I believe the more time families spend bearing witness to and even feeling the fact of a death with their own two hands, the more deeply they are able to acknowledge the reality of the death. That is why it is so critical to build in as many sacred opportunities as possible for families (when culturally appropriate) to spend time with the body before cremation or burial, even if there will not be a public gathering.

Saying GoodbyeGrief never truly ends because love never ends. People do not “get over” grief because they do not “get over” the love that caused the grief. After someone we love dies, we step through

Colour

The paradox of Mourning

A paradox is a seemingly self-contradictory statement or situation that is in fact often true. The paradox of mourning we will consider together in this article might, at first glance, seem self-contradictory, but as I will reveal, it is actually a forgotten Truth with a capital T. It’s a Truth we must rediscover because it is essential to understanding how mourners begin to heal in the aftermath of significant loss.

by Dr. Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D.

Part 1 of 3 Creating Hello Opportunities

Paradox 1: Families must say hello before they can say goodbye.

About the AuthorDr. Alan Wolfelt is a respected author, educator, and consultant to hospices, hospitals, schools, universities, funeral homes and other community agencies. His life’s work of companioning those who grieve has lead him to advocate for the value of meaningful funeral experiences. For more information, visit www.centerforloss.com.

a doorway into a new reality, but we never fully close and lock the door behind us.

People often think of the funeral as a time of saying goodbye to the person who died, but that’s largely inaccurate. You see, the funeral takes place so soon after the death that grief and mourning have just started. At that point, grieving families are just saying hello to their grief. At the time of disposition, on the other hand, they are also saying goodbye to the precious body of the person who died, and as I mentioned above, it is so important, when culturally appropriate, to foster and encourage spending time with the body in the days or hours before disposition.

Eventually, though, people who find ways to say hello to their loss, grief and mourning, over time and with the support of others, will more and more come to find that they have ultimately said a kind of final goodbye to the person who died. No, they do not forget, get over, resolve or recover from the death – there is never true “closure,” but they become reconciled to it. Reconciliation literally means “to make life good again.” In reconciliation, they come to integrate the new reality of moving forward in life without the physical presence of the person who died. With reconciliation comes a renewed sense of energy and confidence and a capacity to become re-involved in the activities of living. There is also an acknowledgment that pain and grief are difficult yet necessary parts of life.

Along the road to reconciliation, if they are openly, honestly and actively mourning, they will be saying lots of hellos. Oh hello, this death. Oh hello, this thought. Oh hello, this feeling. Oh hello, this change. Oh hello, this me. Oh hello, this doubt. Oh hello, this new belief. But they will

“People often think of the funeral as a time of saying goodbye, but that's largely inaccurate. Grieving families are just then saying hello to their grief.”

also be saying many goodbyes. Goodbye, this voice, this kiss, this body. Goodbye, this routine. Goodbye, this me. Goodbye, this belief. Goodbye, this ever-present pain. Their hellos and goodbyes will overlap one another, with more hellos needed at the start of the journey and more goodbyes in the later days.

Still, remember that saying goodbye is not the same as “closure.” As I said, you never fully close the door on the love and grief you feel for someone who has died. But you can achieve a sense of peace. The days of intense and constant turmoil can be replaced by serene acceptance as well as days of love, hope and joy.

An effective funeral experience will enable as many hello opportunities for families as possible. The more they are educated about and engaged in the entire process and the more they avail themselves of all of the possible elements of ritual, the more they will be saying hello to their normal and necessary grief. In turn, this will help set them on the path to continuing to embrace and openly mourn their many thoughts and feelings in the coming weeks and months.

I challenge you to think of the funeral as an opportunity for families to say hello as much as or more than an opportunity to say goodbye. Embracing this essential paradox has the power to transform grieving families and support their important journey of healing grief.

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Adult colouring-in No: 33

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DECEMBERCrossword No: 194

ACROSS 1. Connective tissue 5. Tired sigh 7. Brass instrument 8. Pennant mast 9. Parentless child12. Peruses15. Common analgesic19. Together, in ...21. Bent down22. Gone away

23. Transmit24. Banned sports drugs

DOWN1.Cosmeticfluid 2. Flooded by waves 3. Pixie-like 4. Leaf beverage pourer 5. Barked shrilly 6. Sister’s daughters10. Furtive glance11. Half-open12. Solar body13. Atop

14. Charged atoms15. Chinese calculating frame16. Distributed17. Linear units18. Joins19. Excessive20. Snow shelter

Wordsearch No: 59 Theme: ACTION FILMS

444. Micky Dolenz, Michael Nesmith, and Davy Jones, who is missing from The Monkees?

445. American DJ Robert Weston Smith was better known by what stage name?

446. Lulusangthethemesongtowhich1967filmaboutaninner-cityschool,starring Sidney Poitier?

Fun With Trivia 444 - 446

SHAOLINTEMPLE

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OETAEMTFLCREE

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GOIPAOKIPROII

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COMMANDO

DESPERADO

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KNIGHTRIDERS

MARTIAL LAW

MERCURY RISING

PATRIOT GAMES

PREDATOR

ROBOCOP

SHAOLIN TEMPLE

SURROGATES

THE JACKAL

TRUE LIES

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DECEMBERSudoku No: 70 Level 2

Fun With Trivia 447 - 450447. What Eddie Cochran song, covered by the Who, told of frustrations with his

boss and his congressman?

448. Which singer’s Eurovision Song Contest entry was Knock Knock (Who’s There?)?

449. Who wrote the instrumental A Swingin’ Safari and led the orchestra which played the original hit version?

450. The Copacabana nightclub was in which city?

Crossword No: 195

ACROSS 1. Rapid 7. Likely 8. Trample10. Jingling percussion instrument12. Relieve of anxieties14. Piebald16. Young lions17. Hand-clapping20. Pirates23. Italian dish

24. Personal reminiscence25. Rap

DOWN 1. Artist’s model 2. Brave deed 3. Infant’s bed 4. Concerning 5. Unaware 6. Decapitate9.Commonflower11. Cooked outdoors13. Dangerous sea current15. Suck noisily

16. Venomous hooded snakes18. Set off19. Comes to earth21. Feeds on22. Hewn (logs)

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DECEMBERCrossword No: 196

ACROSS 1. Male spouse 4. Allude 7. Mainly 8. Room 9. Flung12. Improper15. Seizing17. Executes (law)18. Looks longingly21. Tires

22. Child’s toy, ... bear23. Endless

DOWN 1. Emerging from egg 2. For, on ... of 3. Resist 4. Sunbeams 5. Had buoyancy 6. Lariat10. Finger or toe11. Wise saying13. Unsuspecting14. Blinded by light

16. Profession18. Central idea19. Move to & fro20. Celebrity status

Code Cracker No: 59

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

CLUES

Each number represents a different letter of the alphabet. Work out which number stands for which letter to complete the crossword. We’ve given you two letters to start. All words

are from a dictionary and no proper nouns are used. All letters of the alphabet are not always used. When you have cracked the code fill in the answer in the boxes below.

© Lovatts PublicationsCODE CRACKER

ANSWER:

1 2K

3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10

11

12

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16L

17

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1 8 6 1 10 3 12

13 13 1 13 9 15 6 14 14 1

16 6 4 20 1 12 15 20

9 12 16 16 10 6 12 3 4 1

19 11 6 5 6 18 14

16 16 16 15 16 1 10 5

16 19 16 20 5 15 16 10

3 6 12 4 9 15 3 12 7 2

5 10 16 6 3 12

10 2 10 5 14 6 1 7 9 3 15

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JANUARY Crossword No: 197

ACROSS 1. Vicious 5. Increased in size 7. Prepared 8. Turn over 9. Paper quantity10. Shopping mall11. Draw forth13. Udder tip14. Bicycle for two18. Blush21. Yoked beasts

22. South American parrots24. Absurd25. Burrowing mammal26. No longer here27. Return (of symptoms)28. Invites29. Type of wasp

DOWN 1. Quietest 2. Meat jelly 3. Burst4.Spanishbullfighter 5. Rotated 6. Originate12. Chill15. Nervously tense16. Ballerinas

17. King or queen19. Chapter in history20. Most inquisitive22. Incense resin23. Large roll of tobacco

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JANUARY

451. Which animal is represented by the Oboe in Peter and the Wolf?

452. Who reunited in 1981 for ‘The Concert in Central Park’, which attracted more than 500,000 music fans?

453. Which soul band’s hits included ‘Emma’, ‘So You Win Again’ and ‘Brother Louie’?

ABSOLUTELYALL RIGHTCOOLDEFINITELYDITTOEXACTLYGLADLYGO AHEADI AGREEINDEEDINDUBITABLYJUST SONATURALLYOKAYUNDOUBTEDLYWITHOUT FAILYEAHYOU BET

Wordsearch No: 60 Theme: AFFIRMATIVE

Fun With Trivia 451 - 453

YLETINIFEDGUI

YCOOLBICALWNL

EEERGAILAIDDY

AOYGYGLDYEYOL

HYSYMRLLELEUB

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Sudoku No: 71 Level 3

Fun With Trivia 454 - 457454. In which American state was Madonna born?

455. Who had the 1965 instrumental hit Spanish Flea?

456. Who is noted for his guitar solo on Stairway to Heaven?

457. Which Rolling Stones guitarist died in a swimming pool in 1969?

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JANUARYCode Cracker No: 60

A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z

CLUES

Each number represents a different letter of the alphabet. Work out which number stands for which letter to complete the crossword. We’ve given you two letters to start. All words

are from a dictionary and no proper nouns are used. All letters of the alphabet are not always used. When you have cracked the code fill in the answer in the boxes below.

© Lovatts PublicationsCODE CRACKER

ANSWER:

1 2 3 4C

5 6 7 8 9 10

11

12

13

14

15

16

17Y

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22

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4

4 20 1 20 3 8 12 8

12 8 12 1 4 18

8 14 7 8 14 14 14

20 15 16 17 21

14 13 3 10

11 14 21 15 7

10 8 21 13

8 3 10 15 2

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4 3 15 8 3 20 14 15

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Crossword No: 198

ACROSS 1. Introductory statement 5. Eccentric 7. Remove wrapping from 8. Used logic 9. Overwhelm by sound12. Rocking cribs15. Fishing vessel19. Wetlands21. Pulled a face22. Loud laugh

23.Blackenbyfire24. Unexpectedly

DOWN 1. UK currency units 2. Icily detached 3. Media tycoon, press ... 4. Pencil-mark remover 5. Used close-up lens 6. Sings alpine-style10. Region11. Sinister12. Train carriage13. Over again

14. Weaving apparatus15. Terribly sad16. Hotter17. Votes for18. Off course19. Teamed (with)20. Consent

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JANUARY Crossword No: 199

ACROSS 1. Spoke indistinctly 4. Visits, ... on 7. Clear gemstone 8. Glorify 9. Lyrics12. Regretted15. Instances17. Allow18. Book of maps21. Net-dragging vessel22. Adversary

23. FrenziedDOWN 1. Impel 2. Of weddings 3. Dire fate 4. Give up (territory) 5. Faithfulness 6. Opening for coin10. Cunningly11. Cause laughter13. Of the home14. Transport of goods16. Cave chamber

18. Actress, ... Hathaway19. Remain20. Fifty per cent

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JANUARYCrossword No: 200

ACROSS 1. Desert illusion 5. Wound with dagger 7. Adjudicator8.Confiscate 9. Male fowl10. Seat11. Shocked13. Give off14. Decrees18. Lessening

21. Tinted22. Colloquial sayings24. Protect25. Foundation26. Travel cost27. Shelf28. Belonging to that girl29. Ambulance warnings

DOWN 1. Natural gas 2. Sports ground 3. Oust 4. Move forward5.Confidentialmatters 6. Sale by bids12. Perched15. Eddie Murphy comedy, Daddy ... (3,3)16. Truncheons17. Threads

19. As well20. Sealants22. Lazes23. Deduce

Sudoku No: 72 Level 3

Fun With Trivia 458 - 460

458. Who founded the Tamla Motown record label?

459. Which Italian classical tenor became blind at the age of 12 following a football accident?

460. Who was nicknamed ‘The Big O’?

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JANUARYCrossword No: 201

ACROSS 1. Brews 5. Tibetan priest7.Volcanicflow 8. Leaping over 9. Swiss cottage12. Played the lead15. Suspended19. Spurn21. Giving therapy to22. Face covering

23. Shoe cord24. Architectural overhaul

DOWN 1. Unbleached cotton 2. Move on hands & knees 3. Envy 4. Eject (liquid) 5. Pig’s young 6. Sharply bent10. Yemeni port11. Wicked12. Sorrowful13. Competent

14.Fragrantflower15. Of teeth16. Lubricate17. Weirder18. Taken by thief19. Went on rampage20. Dances to rock & roll

Crossword No: 202

ACROSS 1. Dog parasites 7. Monuments seen from the Nile 8. Ox stomach10.Improvetheflowof12. Pragmatists14. Huge16. Drama17. Fiddled with thumbs20. Comic portrait23. Remove errors from24. Impertinent25. Composition

DOWN 1. Male parent 2. Swiss mountains 3. Variety 4. Incapacitates 5. Likewise 6. Upward climb 9. Moral standard11. Section of writing13. Pull by rope15. Love deeply16. Outdoor meal18. Lethal

19.Corrosivefluids21. Army vehicle22. Ostrich-like birds

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Puzzles Can Help Your Brain

Scientificstudieshaveproventhatworkingwithpuzzlesandotherlogic games helps improve reasoning, memory and logic. They promote a form of synergy between the left and right brain, termed by psychologists as a “full brain approach”. This can result in better memory, deeper learning and better recall. Puzzles appeal to our creative and logical minds, offering a full brain work out, especially for retirees who don’t have a daily work commitment.

Burstows recognises this and hope that by offering this Puzzle Book with up to three-month’s worth of fun brain exercises, we can actually help you improve your brain vibrancy as you get older. One of the biggest fears for us all as we get older is losing our mental sharpness, possibly developing dementia, Alzheimer’s or other mental illnesses – but by giving our brain a moderate workout on a frequent basis we can help hold off the onset of some of these issues.

Puzzles and games also instigate social interaction and communication. Doing puzzles together is a pleasurable experience for all participants helping to maintain social and communicative skills. Science has also shownthatwhenapuzzleisfinallycompletedthereisafeelingofsatisfaction and dopamine is released in the brain, as a kind of reward system for our efforts.

Please enjoy your FREE Burstows Puzzle Book. Remember all the answers and solutions can be found on our website www.burstows.com.au. They are published at the beginning of each month along with a couple of bonus questions that will give you an extra entry in the monthly draw for the $100 Coles voucher.

Note: All data collected on the Burstows Puzzle Book answers web page remains private and will not be shared with any other party.

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Trevor and Donald Burstow for you, your family and friends to join others in

&A SERVICE OF

Tuesday 3rd December 2019, 4.00pm or Thursday 5th December 2019, 7.00pm

TS Burstow Chapel, 1020 Ruthven St, Toowoomba

Please contact us if you require transport assistance, along with RSVP for catering purposes to 1800 803 196 by Friday 29th November 2019.

If you are unable to attend either of our Toowoomba services, we will also be holding local services in Dalby, Gatton and Warwick. Please call us for more details.

an invitation from

As we approach this Christmas season, treasured memories are recalled of previous family gatherings and times of joy and love. For your family and for many others, however, Christmas will also bring sadness, because of the absence of a loved one with whom you expected to share this tradition.

On behalf of the Burstow family and staff we warmly extend to you and your family our prayers and strong desire for your wellbeing, especially during the Christmas period and in the time ahead.