the basics of self-care - smh-assist · 2016-10-23 · the basics of self-care eat aim to get seven...
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PERSONALRESILIENCY
JournalAboutGratitudeEverynightwritedownthreegoodthingsaboutyourday.Theydon’thavetobemajor.Theymightbeassimpleasagoodmeal,talkingtoafriend,orgettingthroughsomethingdifficult.WriteaLetterThinkaboutsomeonewhohashadamajorimpactonyourlife,someonewhoyouwouldliketothank,orsomeonewhoyouappreciatehavinginyourlife.Writealetterwithspecificdetailsaboutwhatitisyouappreciateaboutthem,andsendit.VisitSomeoneWhomYouAppreciateTaketheideaofagratitudeletterastepfurtherandactuallyvisittheindividualwhomyouwouldliketothank.Youcanchoosetodeliverandreadagratitudeletter,orsimplyvisitandtellthemwhyitisthatyouappreciatethem.Say,“ThankYou”Keepyoureyesopenthroughoutthedayforreasonstosay“thanks”.Trytonoticeandrecognizetheactionsthatpeopledo,suchasacoworkerwhoworkshardorafriendwhoseemswillingtolisten.TakeaGratitudeWalkGoforawalkandmakeaspecialefforttoappreciateyoursurroundings.Youmightnoticethesmellofflowers,aprettybuilding,orasoothingbreeze.Spendafewminutesfocusingoneachofyoursenses(sight,hearing,taste,smell,andtouch)tofindnewthingsyoumaynothavenoticed.
BUILDINGHAPPINESS
Externalfactorsoftenonlyhavepartialinfluenceonourlevelofhappiness.Promotions,newrelationships,andluckylotterywinsgiveonlyatemporaryboosttohappinessbeforewereturntoourbaseline.Sustainedhappinesstakeswork.Listedhereareafewexerciseideasthat,whenpracticedfrequently,canbuildhabitsofhappiness.Chooseafewexercisesthatfitwellwithyourlifeandmakeapointtopracticethemeveryday.
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THEBASICSOFSELF-CARE
EAT
Aimtogetseventoninehoursofsleepeachnight.Researchhasshownthatgettingfivehoursorlessofsleepanightcancreatehealthproblems.Gettingenoughsleepalsohelpsyoutobetterdealwiththestressesofeverydaylife.
SLEEP
Alotofwaterandconsiderdecreasingordiscontinuingyourcaffeineintakeasthelattercreatesastressreactioninyourbodyandcancauseyoutofeelnervousorcontributetosleepingdifficulties.
DRINK
Thepositiveeffectsofbeingphysicallyactiveareastounding.Itincreasesyourenergy,enhancesyourimmunesystem,reducesinsomnia,stimulatesbraingrowth,andevenactsasananti-depressant.Youcanachievethesebenefitsbyaslittleasa30-minutewalk.Endorphinproductionfollowingphysicalactivityisnature’sgifttoyouforstressmanagement!
CONNECT Strongsocialconnectionsareoneofthemostpowerfulinfluencesonourmood.Thosewhoarededicatedtospendingtimewithfriends,andfamilyshowthehighestlevelsofhappiness.Ifyoucan’tseeyourlovedoneseveryday,youcanstillsendanemailormakeaphonecall.
MOVE
REPEAT
Bemindfulofyourthoughtsandfeelings,bothpositiveandnegative,aspartofyourself-care.Findingahealthyoutlet(seesomesuggestionsbelow)toprocessyouremotionsandself-talkcanleadtooptimalself-carepractices.
PAUSE Makesuretotaketimeforyourselfduringtheday,tolistentomusic,takeafewdeepbreaths,meditate,writeinagratitudejournal,doafewstretches,takeabriskwalkordosomeotheractivitythathelpsyoufeelrestored.
WHYBOTHER?Takingcareofoneselfisacrucialandnecessaryingredientforthosewhocareforothers.Thisisespeciallytrueofthoseworkinginhelpingprofessions(mentalhealthprofessionals,teachers,nurses…)andofthosewhoareparentsorengaginginelderlycare.Self-careisjustlikethe
oxygenmaskonaplane.Weneedtoplaceitonourselvesbeforewecanpossiblyhopetohelpothers.
ACKNOWLEDGE
Researchhasshownthattryinganewskill/habit/routinefor21daysinarowwillincreasethelikelihoodofmaintainingthisnewpractice.Itisrecommendedhavinganaccountabilitypartnerduringthosefirstfewweeks;it’sahelpfulstrategytoenhanceyoursuccessrateofmaintainingyournewpractice.
REFLECT Taketimetoreflectonwhatisimportanttoyoubothpersonallyandprofessionally.Yourvaluesandsenseof purposehelpyoufocusonwhatismeaningfulforyou.Takingtimetoreflectcanassistyoutointentionallyandsystemicallymakedecisionsinyourlife.