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Test Time. Take out pen and paper Number your paper from 1 to 24 Select one relationship to analyze Past or Present Be honest---these will NOT be collected!. Love It!!. 1) My lover and I have the perfect physical chemistry between us - PowerPoint PPT PresentationTRANSCRIPT
Test Time
Take out pen and paper Number your paper from 1
to 24 Select one relationship to
analyze– Past or Present
Be honest---these will NOT be collected!
Love It!!
1) My lover and I have the perfect physical chemistry between us
2) I feel that my lover and I were truly meant for each other (fate)
3) My lover and I really understand each other (soul mates)
4) My lover fits my ideal standards of physical beauty (my idea of a “10”)
5) I try to keep my lover a little uncertain about my commitment to him/her
6) I believe that what my lover doesn’t know about me won’t hurt him/her (I keep secrets)
Love??
7) It is important that our relationship is fun and exciting
8) When my lover gets too dependent on me, I want him/her to back off
9) To be genuine, love must develop over time (not an over-night thing)
10) I expect to always be friends with my lover
11) Our love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious, mystical emotion
12) Our love is the most satisfying because it developed from, and is based on, a deep caring relationship
My new favorite
13) In choosing my lover, I believed it was best to love someone with a similar background
14) A main consideration in choosing my lover was whether my family would approve
15) An important factor in choosing a partner is whether or not he/she would be a good parent
16) One consideration in choosing my lover was what career he/she selected
17) When things aren’t right with my lover and me, my stomach gets upset
18) Sometimes I get so excited about being in love with my lover that I can’t sleep
I Don’t Get It?
19) When my lover doesn’t pay attention to me, I feel sick all over (emotionally, physically, etc.)
20) I cannot relax if I suspect that my lover is with someone else
21) I try to always help my lover through difficult times
22) I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer
23) When my lover gets angry with me, I still love him/her fully and unconditionally
24) I would endure all things for the sake of my lover
Gotta Love the 80s
Calculating the Results: Statements
» 1-4 are Eros
» 5-8 are Ludus
» 9-12 are Storge
» 13-16 are Pragma
» 17-20 are Manic
» 21-24 are Agapic
Highlight your high and low brackets– 3 to 4 “Trues or Falses” are Markers
Not All Love Is Healthy Love
Now What? 1) What do these findings tell you
about yourself?– Illuminate Mistakes?
– Illuminate Successes?
– Do you wish you could make different decisions about love?
2) Do it again with another “love” in mind– See how they differ
3) Have your boy/girlfriend take the test with you
I’m Embarrassed