talking about taboos
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Talking about taboos
What is a taboo?
Why is it difficult talk about taboos?
Talking about death
How do you feel when the subject of death come into the conversation?
• Comfortable• Uncomfortable• Rare • Don’t talk about that • Usual
Imagine that a friend of you dies. How do you start the conversation?
• I’m afraid we won’t have Marcos anymore
• Marcos just died• You’d better sit down.I have some bad
news about Marcos. He died last night
What people uslly do at funeral?
• Cry openly • Cry quietly • Express strong emotion • Keep their emotion under control
How to offer kindness and compassion?
• I'm so sorry for your loss• Please know that I'm here for you• You're in my thoughts and prayers• Remember you can call me at any hour
How to offer kindness and compassion?
• She was such a wonderful person• I can't imagine what you're going
through• Would you like to talk about it? I'm listening• I will miss him/ her
• Now, prepare to send a condolence message