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Spring forward to May 6th and WJC’s Annual Gala Honoring Two Stellar Couples: Abby & Gabriel Tolchinsky and Caren & Rich Gerszberg It’s the middle of winter, but mark your calendars for May 6th–the night of this year’s WJC Spring Gala. We are busy planning and will be paying tribute to Abby and Gabriel Tolchinsky and Caren and Rich Gerszberg. Not only is the Gala a huge fun party, but also, an important fundraiser for so many of the temple’s fantastic programs. In this issue, we present a bit of background on Abby and Gaby. In April, we will present Caren & Rich to you. The Tolchinskys joined WJC when they moved to Larchmont, over twenty years ago. Since then it has served as their spiritual home -- an anchor in their family life. Abby jumped in immediately. After dropping their young daughters at pre-school, she spent her free time attending Rabbi Segelman’s weekly Torah classes. She took great joy on Shabbat mornings bringing the children to participate in Tot Shabbat. Abby became involved in the Sisterhood, delivering a Sisterhood Shabbat d’var Torah, chairing Sisterhood Shabbat and volunteering with many other efforts, eventually serving as Co-President of the Sisterhood along with Caren Gerszberg. Additionally, as annual participants in the High Holiday Study Service, Abby served on the planning committee. While raised in Argentina and Israel in a secular Jewish home, Gaby’s deep knowledge and love of Torah, developed and flourished at WJC. He’s a constant presence at morning minyan, often leading the service. Over the years, he has delivered many moving and thought-provoking talks at the High Holiday Study Service. Along with Robin Nichinsky, Gaby spearheaded the Strategic Planning Committee, a major undertaking from 2012- 2013 Together, the twosome created a model for steering the synagogue forward in these challenging times. Gaby served as an Officer from 2010 to 2015, and as the Treasurer from 2013 to 2015. Abby is a founding partner of Family Mediation LLP providing legal and mediation services. She is an adjunct professor at the University of Pennsylvania Law School teaching Mediation Theory and Skills and a mediation columnist for the New York Law Journal. She graduated from Barnard College and NYU School of Law. WESTCHESTER JEWISH CENTER MARCH 2018 – VOLUME 77 NUMBER 7 – ADAR/NISSAN, 5778 THE REVIEW March 2018 Highlights 1 Shacharit – 6:30am Megillah Reading – 7:10am 4 Purim Carnival – 3pm 5 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm 6 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am JOY Java Club – 1pm Men’s Basketball – 8pm 7 Judaism in TV & Film: Seinfeld – 7:30pm 8 Pop-Up Rabbi @ Stan’z 9:30am 11 Purimshpiel – 7pm 12 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm 13 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am Men’s Basketball – 8pm 15 Guest Speaker Marc Shulman: Between Jerusalem and Tel Aviv – 7:30pm 16 New Member Shabbat Dinner – 6:00pm 19 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm 18 Judaism in TV & Film: Nora Ephron – 1:00pm 20 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am Men’s Basketball – 8pm 23 Rhythm & Ruach – 7:30pm 25 Renewal Service – 7pm 26 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm 27 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am Men’s Basketball – 8pm 30 Erev Pesach – No ECC Siyyum Bechorim – 6:45pm 31 First Day of Pesach Youth & Teens Programs 1 ECC Special Person’s Day 4 – 6 WJC Teens to AIPAC 4 NO RS Purim Carnival – 3pm 6 Hebrew High-Gimel Lounge Night – 6pm 11 Purimspiel – 7pm 13 Hebrew High-Aleph – 6pm 17 Youth Shabbat Learning Program – 10am Pastries & Parsha – 10:30am Camp WJC (Overnight) – 6:30 pm 18 WJC Teens Passover Package Delivery – 8:45am 20 Hebrew High-Bet – 6pm 23 4th Grade Shabbat Service & Dinner – 6pm 25 RS Model Seder – 10am WJC Teen SA/TO w. Bronx River Alliance – 3pm 26 – 29 No RS 27 Hebrew High Chametz Scavenger Hunt – 6pm 30 Erev Pesach – No ECC 31 First Day of Pesach 1 www.wjcenter.org March 2018 - The WJC Review For updates, events, photos and more, please visit us on Facebook and Instagram at @westchesterjewishcenter. continued on page 5 PURIMSHPIEL 2018 SUN., MARCH 11 7:00pm SEE PAGE 4 CONNECT WITH THE WJC COMMUNITY!

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Spring forward to May 6th and WJC’sAnnual Gala Honoring Two Stellar Couples:

Abby & Gabriel Tolchinsky and Caren & Rich Gerszberg

It’s the middle of winter, but mark your calendars for May 6th–the night of this year’s WJC Spring Gala. We are busy planning and will be paying tribute to Abby and Gabriel Tolchinsky and Caren and Rich Gerszberg. Not only is the Gala a huge fun party, but also, an important fundraiser for so many of the temple’s fantastic programs.

In this issue, we present a bit of background on Abby and Gaby. In April, we will present Caren & Rich to you.

The Tolchinskys joined WJC when they moved to Larchmont, over twenty years ago. Since then it has served as their spiritual home -- an anchor in their

family life. Abby jumped in immediately. After dropping their young daughters at pre-school, she spent her free time attending Rabbi Segelman’s weekly Torah classes. She took great joy on Shabbat mornings bringing the children to participate in Tot Shabbat. Abby became involved in the Sisterhood, delivering a Sisterhood Shabbat d’var Torah, chairing Sisterhood Shabbat and volunteering with many other efforts, eventually serving as Co-President of the Sisterhood along with Caren Gerszberg. Additionally, as annual participants in the High Holiday Study Service, Abby served on the planning committee.

While raised in Argentina and Israel in a secular Jewish home, Gaby’s deep knowledge and love of Torah, developed and flourished at WJC. He’s a constant presence at morning minyan, often leading the service. Over the years, he has delivered many moving and thought-provoking talks at the High Holiday Study Service. Along with Robin Nichinsky, Gaby spearheaded the Strategic Planning Committee, a major undertaking from 2012- 2013 Together, the twosome created a model for steering the synagogue forward in these challenging times. Gaby served as an Officer from 2010 to 2015, and as the Treasurer from 2013 to 2015.

Abby is a founding partner of Family Mediation LLP providing legal and mediation services. She is an adjunct professor at the University of Pennsylvania Law School teaching Mediation Theory and Skills and a mediation columnist for the New York Law Journal. She graduated from Barnard College and NYU School of Law.

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MARCH 2018 – VOLUME 77NUMBER 7 – ADAR/NISSAN, 5778

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EREVIEWMarch 2018 Highlights

1 Shacharit – 6:30am Megillah Reading – 7:10am4 Purim Carnival – 3pm5 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm6 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am JOY Java Club – 1pm Men’s Basketball – 8pm7 Judaism in TV & Film: Seinfeld – 7:30pm8 Pop-Up Rabbi @ Stan’z 9:30am11 Purimshpiel – 7pm12 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm13 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am Men’s Basketball – 8pm15 Guest Speaker Marc Shulman: Between Jerusalem and Tel Aviv – 7:30pm16 New Member Shabbat Dinner – 6:00pm19 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm18 Judaism in TV & Film: Nora Ephron – 1:00pm20 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am Men’s Basketball – 8pm23 Rhythm & Ruach – 7:30pm25 Renewal Service – 7pm26 Israeli Dancing – 7:30pm27 Thank God It’s Torah – 9:45am Men’s Basketball – 8pm30 Erev Pesach – No ECC Siyyum Bechorim – 6:45pm31 First Day of Pesach

Youth & Teens Programs1 ECC Special Person’s Day4 – 6 WJC Teens to AIPAC4 NO RS Purim Carnival – 3pm6 Hebrew High-Gimel Lounge Night – 6pm11 Purimspiel – 7pm13 Hebrew High-Aleph – 6pm17 Youth Shabbat Learning Program – 10am Pastries & Parsha – 10:30am Camp WJC (Overnight) – 6:30 pm18 WJC Teens Passover Package Delivery – 8:45am20 Hebrew High-Bet – 6pm23 4th Grade Shabbat Service & Dinner – 6pm25 RS Model Seder – 10am WJC Teen SA/TO w. Bronx River Alliance – 3pm26 – 29 No RS27 Hebrew High Chametz Scavenger Hunt – 6pm30 Erev Pesach – No ECC31 First Day of Pesach

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PURIMSHPIEL 2018SUN., MARCH 11

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CONNECT WITH THE WJC COMMUNITY!

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THE REVIEW ofWESTCHESTER JEWISH CENTER

Published Monthly (except July & August)Westchester Jewish Center

Mamaroneck, NY 10543914-698-2960 • wjcenter.org

Editor: Pat TintoDesign & Production: Evan J. Schapiro

Rabbi JEFFREY T. SEGELMANAssistant Rabbi ADIR YOLKUTCantor ETHAN GOLDBERGRabbi Emeritus DR. IRVING KOSLOWE z’’lRitual Director Emeritus MAX FRIEDMAN z’’lExecutive Director DAVID GOLDSTEINEduc. Dir. & Cong. Program Coord ALEZA R. KULPEarly Childhood Director SABRINA LANDAU Editorial Services Director PAT TINTOLibrarian ARLENE RATZABITeen Engagement Director ADAM BENDERBuilding Superintendent JOSE LUIS FONSECA

OFFICERSPresident JEFFREY LAVINEExecutive Vice President SETH SCHAFLERFinancial Vice President LAURENCE THALERTreasurer HAROLD TREIBERAsst. Treasurer MICHAEL LAPIDESFinancial Secretary YALE ZOLANDAsst. Financial Secretary NANCY SHERMANAdministration ROBIN NAZARZADEHAdult Programming JEFFREY TAFFETChildren & Families SETH SCHAFLERCommunications & Member Relations EVAN J. SCHAPIRODevelopment IAN WINTERSSpiritual Life SUSAN MILLERSynagogue Arms MARK BERGERTikkun Olam EVE EDELMAN RUSSRecording Secretary AMY LEVINE-KENNEDYAsst. Recording Secretary ELLEN MARCUSChair of the Board GAIL MARCUS

TRUSTEES

Presidents, Brotherhood CRAIG RUBIN, STUART SELTZERPresidents, Sisterhood ILEEN GREENBERG, CAROL FASMANPresident, Cemetery Association RON ROSENBERGCo-Chairs Parents Association LAURA GRILL, MIA KANDEL

HONORARY TRUSTEES

RABBI JEFFREY SEGELMAN

We take our memory for granted. Despite all we hear about Alzheimer’s and the loss of memory associated with aging, we still always assume that when we wake up in the morning, we will remember who we are, where we came from, and what it is that we are supposed to do on the new day.

Interestingly, Judaism takes a different view. The underlying assumption of Judaism is that we will forget. At first glance, that may seem unusual, and even a bit depressing. And yet, when we stop to think about it, Judaism is right. It is not so much a statement about the weakness of people as it is about the process of life.

Consider this (and this has certainly happened to me): When one of my children did something that was just wonderful (and they were always doing wonderful things), I would say, “I’ll never forget this.” But today, when they ask me about moments from their childhood, truthfully, I do not remember as much as I thought I would. Surely it is not because I do not love them, and neither is it because the event or the experience was not important. It is just that as life unfolds, memory fades. The really dangerous thing is that there is no warning sign; we do not realize that the memory is gone until we are asked to recall it and we cannot – and then it is too late.

This may be why the word “zachor” – remember – is always a call to action in Jewish tradition. To remember the Sabbath is not simply a matter of mental recall. It is a mitzvah to take a cup of wine and, through Kiddush, announce that it is Shabbes. On a deeper level, the mitzvah of remembering that we were slaves in Egypt calls upon us to “remember” what we ourselves never actually experienced. Surely that cannot be an act of mental recall. Rather, it is a call to sit down at a seder and not only tell the story, but to tell it in the first person – as if we were actually there. And only then, once we “remember” that we were slaves, can we follow the Torah’s command to treat the most vulnerable in society with kindness

and compassion because we “remember” what it was like to be oppressed.

At the end of this month, we will remember our experience in Egypt; A few days later, we will observe Yom HaShoah – the call to remember the events of the Holocaust. Some of us are old enough to remember. Most, however, like me, are not. It is therefore, a call to action. We have to do something – see something, say something – read and discuss something. Only then do we “remember” and only then does that memory play a role in our identity. It is important for us to heed the challenge of our own Holocaust Learning Center to read ONE book about the Holocaust each year, and then to participate in the “remembrance” which takes place at the shul. (See page 12 for the Holocaust Reading Challenge.)

One last thought – and perhaps it is a thought that I am having now because I lost my own parents recently. Just as I know that I have forgotten moments of my children’s lives – moments that I thought at the time that I would never forget – I am sure this will happen to memories of my parents. It is not about my love and respect for them. It is just about how life unfolds.

Judaism presents us with a beautiful gift called “yahrzeit.” On the anniversary of the death, we are called upon to interrupt our regular routine and “remember” our loved one – not in thought, but in action. Of course, this means different things to different people, but the most traditional of these actions is to come to the shul to say Kaddish. The Kaddish allows us to remember them on a spiritual level – a soul level – as they are now soul-beings. Many people have told me that while they are saying Kaddish, memories of their parents flow through their minds – some which they may not have thought of in decades. It is as if the words of Kaddish unlocked storerooms of memories.

Yes, Judaism does presume that we will forget. But perhaps it is better to presume forgetfulness and call ourselves to active remembrance rather than assume we will remember, only to find ourselves in the darkness of lost memory.

Benjamin AllikerIlene BellovinMark BergerLouise CohenEve Edelman RussAmy FastenbergJanie FriemanBetsy GoldmanAlison GottsegenLaura GrillHoward HusockLawrence IasonJacqueline KaplanLisa KernRandi Klaber

Michael LapidesJeffrey LavineAmy Levine-KennedyAndrea LightmanEllen MarcusSusan MillerPam MizrachiJulie MusicusCheryl NatbonyRobin NazarzadehDina NelsonRobin NichinskyCraig RubinAlbert SassoonRobert Sassoon

Seth SchaflerEvan J. SchapiroNancy ShermanJacques SteinbergJodi SternMarc StronginJeffrey TaffetLaurence ThalerSherry ThalerHarold TreiberGiselle WeissmanRob WeisstuchIan WintersJennifer WintersYale Zoland

Victor Badner Alan Benet Dan Berkowitz Louis Brause Ruth Brause Beverly Cannold David Cannold z”l Jill Caslin Saby Castro Martin Freiman Stuart Gilbert Jules Gorlitz Cindy Heller

Randy Heller Mark Jacoby Greta Koppel z”l Howard Lazarus Albert Lefkowitz z”l Gail Marcus Martin Marcus Richard Melchner Zabathy Meltzer Abraham Mizrahi Lenny Queen Shirley Queen Josef Raboy z”l

Marilyn Reader Ronny Rosenberg Elaine Stein Roberts Robert Savin z”l Sol Schargel Stuart Schapiro Sarene Shanus Gerhard Spies z”l Norman Treiger z”l Edward Weinberg z”l Rhona Wexler Irving Yasgur z”l Gerald Zeidner

Memory and Meaning

We welcome everyone to celebrate Shabbat with revitalizingmusic and song. Mark your calendars and bring a friend. Join the WJC musicians for a moving Kabbalat Shabbat.

Friday, March 23 • 7:30pmDessert: 8:30pm

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CENTER OF PRAYER& CELEBRATION

Shabbat & Holiday ServicesCheck weekly emails as programsand times are subject to change

Thursday, March 1st Shacharit 6:30amMegillah Reading 7:10am

Friday, March 2nd Kabbalat Shabbat 5:30pm

Saturday, March 3rd Torah Class 8:45am Shabbat Services 9:30amMincha Ma’ariv 5:30pm

Friday, March 9th Kabbalat Shabbat 5:45pm

Saturday, March 10th Torah Class 8:45am Shabbat Services 9:30amMincha Bat Mitzvah of Naomi Azuolay 5:15pm

Friday, March 16th New Member Shabbat Dinner 6:00pm Kabbalat Shabbat 6:45pm

Saturday, March 17th Torah Class 8:45amShabbat Services 9:30amSimple & Soulful 10:15amPastries & Parsha 10:30amShevet Achim Gam Yachad 11:45amMincha Ma’ariv 6:45pm

Friday, March 23rd 4th Grade Shabbat Service & Dinner 6:00pmKabbalat Shabbat 6:30pmRhythm & Ruach 7:30pm

Saturday, March 24th Shabbat Services 9:30amMincha Ma’ariv 6:45pm

Sunday, March 25th Renewal Service 7:00pm

Friday, March 30th - Erev Pesach Siyyum Bechorim 6:45amKabbalat Shabbat/Ma’ariv 7:00pm

Saturday, March 31st - First Day of PesachShacharit 9:30amMincha Ma’ariv 7:00pm

Sunday, April 1st - Second Day of PesachShacharit 9:30amTorah for Tots & Youth Services 10:45amMincha Ma’ariv 7:00pm

Torah For Tots (ECC – K) and Youth Service (Grades 1 - 6) begin at 10:45am

Daily Minyan – Allen A. Stein Memorial ChapelMonday through Thursday mornings at 7:00am

& evenings at 7:30pmFridays at 7:00am and Sundown

Sundays and Legal Holidays at 8:30am & 7:30pm

Saturday, March 3: Ki Tissa – When you TakeThe Israelites are required to take a census through the donation of a half-shekel to be given for the upkeep of the Tabernacle. Architects are delegated and the task of building the Tabernacle begins. Moses ascends to the top of the mountain to receive the Torah, but unfortunately, the golden calf is constructed resulting in the shattering of the first set. Thankfully, Moses convinces God to forgive the people and we receive a second set of tablets.

Saturday, March 10: Vayakhel – Pekudei/Parshat Parah – Moses Communed/The RecordsA double portion covering more ground related to the Tabernacle construction with all its trimmings. For the first time in Jewish history, the people give in abundance for a capital campaign so Moses has to tell them to stop giving. The construction is finished in the second portion and God’s cloud immediately rests in the Tabernacle. The special shabbat reading is on the red heifer and its role in purifying the people in anticipation of Passover.

Bat Mitzvah of Naomi AzuolayI am 12 years old and I am in 7th Grade at Hommocks Middle School. I’m looking forward to celebrating my Bat Mitzvah on March 10, 2018. I just returned from Israel, where I celebrated with my Safta and many cousins, aunts, and uncles. I am studying Hebrew as well as French in school.

Saturday, March 17: Vayikra/Rosh Chodesh Nissan/Ha’Chodesh – And He Called/1st of Nissan/The MonthThe book of Leviticus begins with a detailed accounting of all the various sacrifices that take place in the sanctuary. The rules, regulations, and implementation are all listed accordingly. The special readings mark the beginning of the calendar for the Jewish people and in case we forgot, remind us that Passover is right around the corner!

Sunday, March 24: Tzav/Shabbat Hagadol – Command-The Great ShabbatGod instructs, in detail, Aaron and his sons regarding their service as the Priests. We learn about the eternal fire that is to constantly be tended as well as the inauguration service of the Priests. We mark the special sabbath that precedes Passover with a beautiful haftarah and in-depth sermon that gets people in the Passover spirit. We’re also traditionally supposed to read through part of the Maggid section of the seder during Shabbat.

Saturday, March 31: PassoverGoing back a few weeks in our cycle, we read again through the story of the Exodus as the Jews depart from Egypt following the last of the plagues, along with their early entry into the desert.

Experience the power of great music,communal singing and soulful praying.

Stay afterwards for dessert anda chance to visit with friends.

Sunday, March 25 • 7:00pm

AN EVENING OF RENEWAL

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CondolencesOur deepest sympathy is extended to Robert Reader & family on the loss of his mother, Mildred Reader…Diane Holsten & family on the loss of her mother, Miriam Ginsburg…Wendy Tallman & Family on the loss of her mother, Donna Sherman…Lillian & Burton Lazarus on the loss of their son, Bruce Lowell Lazarus.

CENTER OFCOMMUNITY

WJC Sisterhood NewsILEEN GREENBERG & CAROL FASMAN CO-PRESIDENTS

We are very excited that this year’s Spring Gala honorees are our members and past Sisterhood Presidents: Abby Tolchinsky and Caren Gerszberg. We hope to see many sisterhood members at the event on May 6th.

Our Sisterhood strives to build a warm spirit here at WJC with programs that bring us together to celebrate and to learn. From Bowling to Mah Jongg to Book Club, art tours and more, Sisterhood is for all of us…women of any age, working and non-working. We are building friendships and having fun while helping our Synagogue. We encourage you with your friends to join us in any or all of our activities. One of our very special programs every year is Sisterhood Shabbat. We come together for a celebration of spirit, prayer and friendship. We invite Sisterhood members and non-members to join us in leading the Shabbat services on Saturday morning, April 28th. If you would like to participate please contact Julie BenAvram at [email protected]

If you have not taken a look at our beautiful Tree of Life in the lobby we hope you will next time you are in the building. It is a beautiful way to commemorate/honor any celebration: Births, bar/bat mitzvahs, weddings, and anniversaries, etc. You can purchase a leaf for $118. Contact Susan Levy for more information: [email protected].

Mah Jongg & Canasta Evening - March 13 - 7:00–9:30pm. Wine and Snacks will be served. There will be no charge but donations at the door are appreciated. Advanced RSVP required to [email protected]. Please tell us which game you would prefer to play.

W J C S I S T E R H O O D

For Sisterhood information, contact:Carol Fasman [email protected] orIleen Greenberg [email protected]

STU SELTZER & CRAIG RUBIN CO-PRESIDENTS

March Madness in MamaroneckThursday, March 15Meet the guys at a local venue on March 15 and join the WJC Brotherhood for dinner and viewing of early round NCAA action. Details to follow. Have questions? Contact Stu or Craig at [email protected] or [email protected].

W J C B R O T H E R H O O D

It’s Not Your Father’sPurimshpielBY RANDY HELLER

Five Tel l-Tale Signs:

1. We use wireless microphones (although we don’t always turn them on).

2. We get to say words like “shmendrick” and “cojones.”

3. We give prominent roles to women (whether they have talent or not).

4. Admit it, your father wouldn’t know a Purimshpiel from an Oldsmobile.

5. We can hold it on Sunday evening, March 11, 2018 at 7-9pm. (even though that’s not Purim)

All the Hamentashen you can eat.And it’s all free

($0.00 adjusted for inflation).

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WOMEN LEADERSJEFFREY LAVINE WJC PRESIDENT

P R E S I D E N T ’ S C O R N E R

In Women’s History Month, we reflect on the achievements of women. I am proud of the leadership roles women have taken at WJC. Three of the last four presidents preceding me were women. As a community, we owe a great deal to Rhona Wexler, the first woman President and to the other woman Presidents who have served – Sarene Shanus, Marilyn Reader and Gail Marcus. I have a tremendous amount of respect for them as Presidents of this synagogue and as individuals. I considered them mentors as I became more involved at WJC and I still turn to them today for advice.

You may find it interesting to know that our Trustees’ composition is 53% women, 47% men. We have had two Rabbinic interns who are women, one of whom became our Assistant Rabbi. In the Teen Engagement Programming for our high schoolers, we participate in a program called Rosh Chodesh where our teen girls learn with each other and discuss issues unique to them. We try to create the right framework and culture so that our words and dialogue ensure that we speak and act with respect, not because it is a rule of law, but because we know it is right thing to do. Also, in honor of Women’s History Month, Holly Rosen Fink shared with us on page 10 her recent trip to Israel as part of the Jewish Women’s Renaissance Project.

Now, some updates. I wrote about Scholar-in-Residence last month as we were going to print. The weekend was special and spectacular. Rabbi Paley was engaging and had some interesting thoughts on the Bible. Thank you again to Myra Glajchen, Karen Everett and the Committee that made it possible. The weekend ended with a rescheduled Renewal Service – which was a beautiful way to cap off a wonderful experience. And back by popular demand, thanks to David Miller and Robin Nichinsky . . .Game Night. What a great way to bring members from all walks of life in our synagogue family together simply to have a good time and get to know one another better. We had Rhythm and Ruach with a service before Shabbat dinner geared to our children. And thank you to Sondra Levy and SoJAC for running a wonderful and meaningful Community Day.

Sisterhood remains active with great events such as Ladies Bowling Night and Brotherhood participated in the World Wide Wrap. The Wrap was followed by an interesting talk by Robert Herbst about his Olympic experience and involvement with supervising drug testing of athletes at the Brazil Olympics. As this edition goes to print, we are celebrating Purim. Thank you to Aleza and the Parents Association Chairs, Mia Mandel and Laura Grill, who make the Purim Carnival so much fun for our children. Don’t forget Purimshpiel on March 11. Randy Heller and company are sure to offer us a hilariously great time. Our World Jewry Committee is offering a series looking at Jewish characters in TV and film. The first installment is March 7th. Stop by.

Gaby is CEO of Bladex, a multi-national Latin American trade finance bank. He attended college at Tel Aviv University then went on to Columbia University where he earned Masters’ Degrees in Applied Mathematics and Statistics.

Today, their three grown children are active in their own Jewish communities. Daniela, a graduate of the University of Chicago, is Director of J Street U and lives in Tel Aviv. Sara, a senior at NYU, studies theater and often sings at various services and programs at WJC. Jonathan, a high school senior at Solomon Schechter, will attend Washington University in St. Louis in the fall and plans to study engineering and design.

Abby and Gaby are delighted to share this honor with the Gerszbergs, the first friends they made when joining WJC. Their combined six children have grown up here together, the boys enjoying play dates since they could crawl. Their bar and bat mitzvahs were celebrated on the WJC bimah and in Jerusalem. Abby and Gaby hope the community, friends and family will all come together to celebrate our remarkable synagogue. Special thanks to Meira Fleisch for Chairing, for all the hard work and many hours; and to Sherry Thaler for a beautiful Journal. And to a stellar committee, ready and willing to pull together all the details. It’s both humbling and thrilling.

Spring Gala…continued from page 1

Please join us as Sisterhood memberscome together to lead this

spiritual morning

Saturday Morning, April 28

All WJC members invited to participate

If interested, please contact:Carol Fasman [email protected] Fasman [email protected] Greenberg [email protected]

SAVE THE DATE

Spring Gala

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The Review in ReviewIt might have been cold outside, but WJC was filled with warmth and bustled with activity in January and February. We captured some of the highlights to share with you below.

JANUARY 27-29 - WJC’s Scholar-in-Residence WeekendJayne Kligman, SIR Co-chairs Karen Everett and Myra Glajchen, and WJC Trustee Jacques Steinberg welcome Rabbi Michael Paley (center) for a weekend of spirited learning.

January 28 - Facing Racism ConclaveRabbi Adir Yolkut and Reverend Dr. James E. Taylor of Mamaroneck’s First Baptist Church read Psalm 118 together at the Facing Racism Conclave .

January 20 - Sleep Under!WJC kids “sleeping under” watched a movie in their jammies, played games and lived it up in the activity center overnight.

February 4 - Religious School World Wide Wrap Gan children learned about talit, toured the sanctuary, and opened the ark with Rabbi Adir and their teacher, Morah Darcy.

February 3 - WJC Game NightWJC adults were kids again at the second annual game night.

February 6 - Dental Health Awareness MonthThe ECC welcomed Dr. Jess from NY Pediatric Dentistry in Rye. Dr. Jess taught the kids a song and gave each child a chance to brush the teeth of a dog puppet or a life size wisdom tooth.

WJC member Cliff Wolf speaks with Joan Grangeois Thomas of the Read/Talk/Act Book Club.

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S O C I A L J U S T I C E A C T I O N

Westchester Jewish Center175 Rockland Avenue, Mamaroneck, NY 10543

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Want to go with a group? Meet at the WJC parking lot at 8:45am. Want to go on your own? Feel free; just let them know you are from WJC.

Questions? Contact Ruth Obernbreit Glass at [email protected]

B'nai B'rith Building (CO-OP City)2050 Bartow Ave, Bronx, NY 10475

To get there from the Hutchinson River Parkway South:Proceed to Bartow Ave. exit 4N, and stay on the exit road until Bartow Avenue. Make a right turn at Bartow Ave., and go to the six story red brick building with a blue awning (approximately 1/8 of a mile).

Share the joy of the holidays by bringing along friends and family to deliver Passover packages to

lonely, home-bound or needy Jewish elderly

Westchester Jewish Center175 Rockland Avenue, Mamaroneck, NY 10543

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Drop your items in the marked bins by the main ooce and gift shop. Contact Sharon Silver at [email protected] or 914-698-9662.

ANOTHER WAY TO HELP: GIVE TZEDAKAH Write a check payable to “Project Ezra” and drop it oo at WJC’s main ooce.

All checks will be delivered to Project Ezra in time for Passover.

VOLUNTEER TO PACK AND DELIVER FOOD ON MARCH 18

MOST NEEDED FOODS:2 cans of tuna, salmon or sardines dried fruits or nuts2 cans of fruit jar of jam or jelly2 cans of vegetables small jar of honeysmall bottle of vegetable oil box of tea bags/jars of instant cooeesmall bottle of grape juice matzo farfel

Help our elders on the Lower East Sidecelebrate the holiday with dignity and joy.

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Let all who are hungry come and eat...We read these words at the start of our Seders to remind us that we were once slaves and now we are free, able to retell the story and abide by the mitzvot of Passover. The words connect us to our past, to each other, and to action.

By helping to provide needed Passover foods for about 400 Project Ezra recipients, we—you and I—are helping elders on New York’s Lower East Side and the Bronx celebrate and observe Passover as Jews everywhere do.

Read Talk Act! Zami: A New Spelling of My Name,

by Audre LordeSHARON SILVER SoJAC & RTA BOOK GROUP

Come together on Monday, March 12th, from 7-9pm in the Youth Lounge for what promises to be a fascinating discussion of the autobiographical ZAMI: A New Spelling of My Name, by Audre Lorde, sponsored by SOJAC and the Read-Talk-Act Book Group.

Ms. Lorde (1934-1992), was an African- American writer, poet, essayist, lesbian, feminist, civil rights and social justice activist who grew up in and was educated in New York. Her book will no doubt spark a vibrant conversation. Join us!

Questions? More information needed? Contact: Sharon Silver at [email protected]

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Pop Culture SeriesOur first ever Jewish Pop Culture Series: “Exploring Judaism Through TV & Film” kicks off this month! On March 7th, from 7:45-9:15pm, we will hear from Seinfeldia author Jennifer Armstrong on Seinfeld and that show’s significant impact on Jewish (and non-Jewish) culture. Then on March 18th from 1-2:30pm, we will welcome Erin Carlson, author of I’ll Have What She’s Having, on how Nora Ephron re-invented the rom-com.

The Top Five Reasons To Try Israeli Dancing at WJCMARC KARELL

“Dance is the hidden language of the soul of the body.” - Martha Graham

Learn the language of the soul and body with Israeli dancing at WJC on Mondays. Reap the health and spiritual benefits as you:

1. Raise Your Jewish Spirituality. Israeli dance is unique, featuring prayers and words from the Torah, set to music and interpreted through choreography. The movement that accompanies the music brings an extra level of spirituality. Just as music has raised our spirituality at WJC, movement does the same.

2. Yes, You Can Do It. While the word “dance” may evoke images of ballet, modern, etc., and the complex steps involved, with Israeli dance, there are no plies, no bachata. Israeli dance steps are variations of walking. If you can walk, you can Israeli dance; no doubt about it! You can do it!

3. Israeli Dance Will Improve Your Health. Studies have shown that Israeli dancing improves one’s physical and mental health.Its aerobic, offering two hours of movement and cardio, with much less stress on the joints. In addition, medical studies show that this type of dance exercise delays the onset of dementia. Dance L’Chaim - to life!

4. Israeli Dance At WJC Will Make You Learned. Shmulik Gov-Ari, our Israeli instructor, is the son of a rabbi. As he teaches new dances, he often goes over the origin of the song, and what the choreographer was trying to convey. Besides the spirituality and health benefits, each evening you walk away a little smarter about our prayers, the Torah and Israeli history. Like a d’var Torah with fun!

5. Meet A Great Group of People. People who get off the couch to attend Israeli dance are friendly. Come as you are, casual and comfortable. Don’t be concerned with how you will “look” as you learn the dance steps. We are not judgmental (we’ve all been there)..

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Facing Racism Together, Bearing Witness, and Building Hope, WJC Asks:Now What Do We Do?RUTH OBERNBREIT GLASS & SHARON SILVER SoJAC

On a Sunday afternoon at the end of January, Rabbi Yolkut and WJC member Cliff Wolf (representing the American Jewish Committee of Westchester/Fairfield) spoke in front of nearly 400 people at The Mount Hope A.M.E. Zion Church in White Plains. Along with Muslims, Mormons, Methodists, Catholics, clergy, and local leaders, they were a part of an outpouring of hundreds, all dedicated to facing racism together, bearing witness, and building hope.

Moving, spirited and inspiring, the afternoon’s program was as diverse as its participants. Rabbi Yolkut and Reverend Dr. James E. Taylor of the First Baptist Church in Mamaroneck read Psalm 118 together, “Out of my dreams, I cried unto the Lord.”

Are we, as a Jewish community truly aware of the everyday racism in our midst and its costs? And if so, what is our responsibility in addressing racism and intolerance?

Rabbi Jefferey Sirkman from Larchmont Temple, quoted from Martin Luther King Jr: “Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will. The narrow-mindedness of the hate-filled is unfortunate, but all-too-expected. The inability of a white, moderate majority to perceive the privilege of a whiteness engrained, and the pain of a societal prejudice that persists, is unacceptable…” Rabbi Sirkman concluded in his own words “Our world today at best seems like a dream deferred; when one of us is in those chains of bondage, all of us are enslaved.”

In addition to the sermons, prayers and rousing choral music, a call was issued for unity and continued involvement. After the program, participants shared a delicious potluck dinner (including kosher food) and were encouraged to meet new people, stop by social action tables and discuss ways in which the program affected them personally.

“Tonight we are here to be heard as a community of communities,” said Cliff Wolf, in referring to AJC’s history rooted in civil rights activism, “It is in our DNA,” he said, “We will never be silent.”

So, we ask, what’s next? For us as Jews? As neighbors to other houses of worship? If you are interested in exploring the answers with us, do contact Sharon Silver at [email protected].

Get on Board! Join the WJC Teen Community!ADAM BENDER TEEN ENGAGEMENT DIRECTOR

I want to use March to thank the WJC Community for making my first six months so memorable and exciting. In just a short time we’ve reinvigorated Hebrew High, we’ve hosted a Westchester-wide Hanukkah party, we’ve gone to Houston to help with relief from Hurricane Harvey, and just last week we hit Broadway for the award winning show, Come From Away! It has been a pleasure thus far seeing all that our teens are passionate about, and I look forward to helping them bring that passion to the next level.

Look out for our 2018-19 WJC Teen Board application. We’re looking for passionate and motivated teens who want to help make an impact on our own WJC Teen Community. Positions available with focuses on leadership, programming, communications, Judaism, Israel, etc. Information/Questions, [email protected].

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The Power of Traveling to Israel in a SisterhoodHOLLY ROSEN FINK

In December I was chosen as a part of a 30-women group of media professionals to explore Israel with JWRP (Jewish Women’s Renaissance Project). I travelled alongside writers/bloggers, authors, podcasters, media entrepreneurs, journalists, an actress from the TV show Casual, a social activist, a gynecologist/author, a doctor who is also a parenting expert, two Latina lifestyle personalities, a Kosher chef who is making it big on Instagram, a cookbook writer from Toronto, and a production executive from Jim Henson Productions.

Putting the trip into words is challenging, but to do so during International Women’s History Month is particularly fitting. The trip was co-hosted by Israel’s Ministry of Tourism, who really stepped in to show us a more intimate side of Israel, far removed from what Americans generally see on TV. We visited the Kotel, Masada, the city of Tzfat, and other popular tourist sites, but we also had classes woven throughout the week on subjects like gossip, marriage, the body vs. the soul, an analysis of personality types through a Jewish lens, and more.

We Tweeted, Facebook’ed, Instagram’d and shot videos along the way, but the trip was about so much more than just sharing the moment. We were thirty women thrown together at pivotal points in our lives. Many of us are middle-aged – some with children, some without. The most “soulful” opportunities, however, happened casually as we talked to each other on the bus. Whether we shared our struggles with each other or not during the course of the trip, there was a bond created that will most likely take us to another time and place where we will learn more about each other.

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Ambassador’s CircleShari & Joel Beckman • Myra Glajchen & David Cohen • Louise & Bobby Cohen

Karen & David Everett • Meira & Tom Fleisch • Janie & Adam FriemanLaurie & Stephen Girsky • Tara Slone-Goldstein and Wayne Goldstein

Cindy & Ben Golub • Jayne & Isaac Kligman • Jennifer & Jeffrey Lavine Marla & Rabbi Jeffrey Segelman • Sharon Weinstock & Jacques Steinberg

Sherry & Larry Thaler • Sarene Shanus & Harold Treiber

BenefactorsEllen & Stanley Adler • Carol & Steven Fasman • Katie McLoughlin & Roy Katz

Tracey & Evan Levy • Suzi & Martin Oppenheimer • Shira & David WeinsteinJennifer & Ian Winters • Wendy & Yale Zoland

PatronsBeverly Cannold • Myra Levine-Harris • Cindy & Randy Heller

Adam Herz & Danielle Zalaznick Herz • Cara & Larry Iason • Jackie & Sol IsraelDebbie & Mark Jacoby • Charlotte Malasky & Paul Mayo • Gail & Marty Marcus

Susan & David Miller • Sue & Abe Mizrahi • Bonnie Silverman & David NanusMarilyn & Bob Reader • Marla & Robert Sassoon • Linda & Neil Schwartzreich

Heather Taffet Gold & Jeffrey Taffet • Nancy & Larry ThaulJo Ann & Swain Weiner • Arlene & Neil Wexler

SponsorsFrieda Kraft & Victor Badner • Ileen & Russell Greenberg

Linda Alpert & Marc Karell • Pam & Howard Mizrachi • Shirley & Lenny QueenJodi & Al Sassoon • Danielle & Stuart Seltzer • Lisa & Ritchie Zeitoun

DonorsIlene & Marshall Bellovin • Joe Griminger & Amy Doberman

Dvora Rabino & Herb Leventer • Jill & Donald MillerRobin Nichinsky and Seth Schafler • Iris & Lee Scopp

Sharon & Jeffrey Silver • Rhona & Arthur Wexler

FriendsFran & Jay Fischer • Batya Gorin & Howard Feldman

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Rabbi Michael Paley Draws RecordCrowds at Scholar-In-ResidenceMYRA GLAJCHEN & KAREN EVERETT ADULT EDUCATION

COMMITTEE CO-CHAIRS

What a wonderful weekend! Our WJC community was treated to three days of inspirational teaching by Rabbi Michael Paley, well-known after two decades as Scholar-In-Residence for UJA-Federation of New York. We are grateful to Rabbi Paley, who is en route to Hungary to help strengthen the Jewish community of Eastern Europe, for agreeing to spend one of his last Shabbat weekends in the United States with us. The warmth of community was palpable and attendance was at an all-time high. Everyone could relate to Rabbi Paley’s weekend theme: “Enduring Jewish Values and Their Applicability to Everyday Life.”

We began with a lovely Friday evening service and community dinner followed by an engaging conversation about “Jews as Wanderers and Ambassadors: From Biblical Times to Today’s Revival in Eastern Europe.” The following Shabbat morning we were challenged with a sermon on “Jews as Nonbelievers: One God or Less,” an exploration of the Exodus story as a metaphor for Jews accepting responsibility for repairing the world as God’s chosen people. Following a delicious Kiddush Lunch, we joined in the lively discussion about “Jews as Intellectuals and Lifelong Learners: Commitment to the Life of the Mind.” Our Ambassadors dined with Rabbi Paley at the home of Tara Slone-Goldstein and Wayne Goldstein, then joined the rest of the community for dessert and discussion on “Jews as Leaders: Past, Present and Future.” Sunday brunch topped off the weekend with our own Jacques Steinberg interviewing Rabbi Paley about his thoughts on “Jews as Donors: Material Wealth, Anti-Semitism and Tzedakah.”

To those who attended, we hope you enjoyed the weekend as much as we did. And to those who did not, we look forward to seeing you at next year’s Scholar-In-Residence weekend. Stay tuned for a program survey in the coming weeks.

SAVE THE DATE: Monday evening, May 14th, with author and scholar Richard L. Rubin in conversation about his latest book Jews In America: Living George Washington’s Promise. We hope to see you then!

We offer special thanks to Tara Slone-Goldstein and Wayne Goldstein for hosting the Ambassador’s Circle dinner; to Sisterhood for co-sponsoring Saturday Kiddush lunch; to Brotherhood for co-sponsoring Sunday brunch; to our wonderful dream team, the Adult Ed Committee – Carol Fasman, Jayne Kligman, Jacques Steinberg, Jeff Taffet and Arlene Wexler – for excellent teamwork; to David Goldstein, Rosie Aronin and Evan Schapiro for sustained administrative support, and to Jose Luis Fonseca and his staff, for their hard work and support.

An event of this magnitude takes careful planning and a great deal of congregational support. We are indebted to the following people for their pivotal contributions, which helped to make this program possible:

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CENTER OF CARINGFOR THE WORLD

Why “Never Again” is a Pledge We Should Never ForgetDAN BERKOWITZ CHAIR, HOLOCAUST LEARNING CENTER

Sunday, April 8, 201810:30 am Prayer Service with Rabbi Segelman

Followed by Special Program with Dr. Mark Russand Guest Speaker Noah Lederman, author:

A World Erased: A Grandson’s Searchfor his Family’s Holocaust Secrets

Many of us have read recently that Poland’s Parliament is considering laws that would criminalize any attribution of Holocaust events to Poland.

According to an article in the Israel Times, a key paragraph of the bill states:

“Whoever accuses, publicly and against the facts, the Polish nation, or the Polish state, of being responsible or complicit in the Nazi crimes committed by the Third German Reich… or other crimes against peace and humanity, or war crimes, or otherwise grossly diminishes the actual perpetrators thereof, shall be subject to a fine or a penalty of imprisonment of up to three years.”

To reinforce the importance of how we must learn from the past in spite of attempts like those in the Polish Parliament, who would rather obliterate the country’s history, the HLC is commemorating Shoa with a special guest speaker who has written about the atrocities his Polish grandparents experienced during World War II.

Award-winning writer, Noah Lederman will talk about his memoir: A World Erased. A Grandson’s Search for his Family’s Holocaust Secrets.

A World Erased transports readers from Noah’s grandparents’ kitchen table in Brooklyn to World War II Poland. In the 1950s, Noah’s grandparents raised their children on Holocaust stories. Because tales of rebellion and death-camps gave his father and aunt constant nightmares, Grandma would only recount the PG-version during Noah’s adolescence. When Poppy died, it seemed the Holocaust stories died with him. Grandma could do little more than mourn in the years that followed.

After college, Noah, a travel writer, roamed the world for 15 months with just one rule: avoid Poland. A few missteps in Europe, however, landed him in his grandparents’ country. When Noah returned home, he cautiously told Grandma about his time in Warsaw, fearing that the past would bring up memories too painful for her to relive. Instead, his stories rejuvenated her, ending five years of mourning her husband. Together, they explored the memories—of Auschwitz and a half dozen other camps, the Warsaw Ghetto Uprising, and the DP camps—that his grandmother had buried for decades.

Join us on April 8th and experience why it is increasingly important that we Jews continue learning about and teaching Holocaust history. Why “never again” is a pledge we should never forget.

The Holocaust Reading ChallengeMARC KARELL HOLOCAUST LEARNING CENTERARLENE RATZABI HENDEL LIBRARY LIBRARIAN

As part of WJC’s commemoration of Kristallnacht, Rabbi Segelman presented the following challenge to all members of WJC:

• Go to the WJC Library and spend some time at our exceptional Holocaust Learning Center

• Check out from the Center one interesting book about the Holocaust, preferably with a new approach or view of the Holocaust

• Read it by the time we commemorate Yom HaShoah on Sunday, April 8, 2018.

The Holocaust (the Shoah) is not just for those directly impacted (descendants of survivors or those with relatives who perished), but it is the ultimate lesson about life for all Jews, in fact, for all people. In the past couple of decades, there has been a surge of new literature and studies on the Holocaust. The Holocaust Learning Center has brought to WJC in person some of those involved in these transformative studies and the Center has many such interesting books and videos. Make Yom HaShoah and the Holocaust more meaningful to you by taking up Rabbi Segelman’s challenge!

For myself, I took out Denying the Holocaust: The Growing Assault on Truth and Memory by Deborah Lipstadt, a leading Holocaust scholar. This book is certainly relevant to what is happening in the world today with claims of “fake news” and “alternative facts.” Whether your interest is political, arts, philosophical, psychological, or something else, the Holocaust Learning Center has books, art, and videos that will be interesting for you.

Suggestions for Challenge Books from our WJC Librarian, Arlene Ratzabi, can be found outside the main sanctuary. There are three lists of books: adult fiction, adult non-fiction and youth. Next month we will present the recent winners of the National Jewish Book Award and the Sydney Taylor Book Award (from the Association of Jewish Libraries). Copies of many of these books can be found in our library. In the meantime, if you need help selecting a book for the challenge or need any other material, feel free to email [email protected] for help.

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Assistant Rabbi’s FundIn honor of…

Henry Leibow’s Bar MitzvahFrom Pam & Steve Leibow

In memory of…Manny Sher

From Fran & Leslie ShifrinBetty Meyer

From Jo Ann WeinerCharles Meyer

From Jo Ann Weiner

Cantor’s FundIn honor of…

Henry Leibow’s Bar MitzvahFrom Pam & Steve Leibow

Comfy Spaces FundIn memory of…Beverly Bielsky

From Bonnie Silverman & David NanusIrene Rubin Levy

From Bonnie Silverman & David NanusRandi Klaber

Dorothy MalettFrom Bonnie Silverman & David Nanus

Ruth GolubFrom Randi Klaber

Aaron MeadowFrom Randi KlaberMiriam Ginsburg

From Sarene Shanus & Harold TreiberDonna Sherman

From Sarene Shanus & Harold TreiberCharlotte Sussman

From Gail & Marty Marcus

A R C H I V E

From The Review of March 1980JILL CASLIN ARCHIVIST

The regular basketball seaon has come to an end. All our teams excelled on the court, showing good sportsmanship and fine team spirit. The Grade 5-6 team finished their season with an 11-3 record. Many thanks to the coaches, Dr. David Shafritz and David Katz, for leading the team to victory.

The Grade 7-8 team fought hard, ending their season with more spirit than points. Special thanks to Mr. Harvey Zeltzer for coaching. The Grade 9-10 team ended their season with a 7-1 record. These stars of the court wish to thank their coach, Mr. Norman Rosenblum, but all teams and the Center owe a special thank you to Mr. Bill Caslin who attended every game, keeping score, driving, subbing on many occasions for our coaches. It is Bill’s overall concern for the kids and the Center which we all so sincerely appreciate.

We wish all our teams that are entering the playoffs the best of luck for the games ahead.

Social Justice Action FundIn memory of…

Marjorye GoldsteinFrom Jill Miller

Ilonne Arouh Teen Scholarship Memorial Fund

In memory of…Jon R. Lowell

From Jeffrey Arouh

Judaica Gallery FundIn memory of…

Judah & Regina AbrevayaFrom Susan & Ralph Sansolo

Nursery School FundIn memory of…

Miriam GinsburgFrom Amy Kriss

Ritchie, Lisa & Margot Zeitoun

Understanding My TearsSUSAN LEWEN

People who know me well or casually or even not well at all know one of my strongest personality quirks…I’m a crier. Big fat tears, red nose crier. I come by it honestly. I grew up in rural Pennsylvania. The only relatives in town were my mom’s parents. Of the 14 grandchildren, all would agree that I was most attached to my grandfather…and he to me. And my grandfather was a crier. And a laugher. And a positive, grateful person. I strive to mimic many of his traits. I’m definitely a crier like grandpa was.

In all my years coming to the Renewal service, I always find myself crying at some point. I think many of you do too.

This is the 10th year of Renewal and also my 10th year as a cancer survivor. I was diagnosed around the time of the creation of this service. Debbie Ron...of blessed memory…who helped create this service…was a casual acquaintance. When Deb heard I’d been diagnosed with breast cancer, as she had been years before, she reached out to me. As it became clear that I was headed for a tough chemo treatment, Debbie was supportive. At the same time, Debbie’s cancer had returned. As I eventually got better, Debbie got sicker.

So, for a long time, I couldn’t come to the Renewal Service at all. When I finally started coming, I wept. I wept for what my family had been through, I wept with gratitude as I began to recover, I wept with sadness and guilt as Debbie did not. I understood those tears.

But years have passed, and blessings of good health accrue…and I do cry less. But why, after 10 years, do I still cry? Why do so many of us cry?

One obvious answer is the overwhelming beauty of the talent we witness with Randy, Ellen, Seth, Nadav and Cantor every month. But I think it’s more. And I think I’ve finally figured out my grandfather’s tears. And my tears. The tears are droplets of my soul and a language of prayer.

Rabbi Elazar said after the destruction of the Temple that the gates of prayer were locked. But he also went on to say that the gates of tears were not. “Anyone who cries before G-d may rest assured that his prayers will be answered.”

And so, my tears…our tears…reach God as prayers reach God. So…I’m grateful. I’m grateful for my health…for my family, my friends, this community, this service. And I’m grateful for my tears.

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Memorial FundIn memory of…Nathan Cohen

From Cynthia CohenBella Mintz & Myron Mintz

From Wendy & Herbert BrooksClara Feinberg

From Cindy & Randy HellerIleen & Russell Greenberg

Ruth GolubFrom Melissa Gitelman & Steven Silverman

Ileen & Russell GreenbergElise Luskin

From The Korotkin FamilyLester Rosenbaum

From Betty WeissmanIleen & Russell Greenberg

Barbara GrossmanFrom Gerald Grossman

Herman SchmertzFrom Gerald Grossman

Sonia KornsweetFrom Ellen Adler

Abraham KornsweetFrom Ellen Adler

Elizabeth KondorFrom Gabriela Gorodischer

Rabbi’s Discretionary FundIn honor of…

the birth of Miryam Tzipora SegelmanFrom Betty WeissmanShari & Arnie Baum

With hearfelt appreciation, in memory of Manny Sher

From Trudy Sher, Lisa Krieger & Linda Schwartzreich & Family

In memory of…Joan Levin

From Amy KrissElise Luskin

From Arnie & Shari Baum

Library FundIn honor of…

Ellen & Stanley Adler’s 60th Wedding AnniversaryFrom Shirley Bender

the birth of Maya Noa BarbashFrom Betty Weissman

In memory of…Luiz Sa

From Ruth & Stephen HendelBeverly Krasner

From Ruth & Stephen HendelAaron Meadow

From Ruth & Stephen HendelRuth Golub

From Ruth & Stephen HendelIrene Rubin Levy

From Ruth & Stephen HendelDorothy Malett

From Ruth & Stephen HendelElise Luskin

From Ruth & Stephen HendelLester Rosenbaum

From Judy & Howard ZweigMilton Zweig

From Howard ZweigRose Zweig

From Howard Zweig

Kiddush Fund In memory of…Pearl Mizrachi

From Pam & Howard MizrachiMiriam Ginsburg

From Janie & Adam Frieman

Adelyn & Myron SegelmanFrom Norma Ross and Harvey Ross

Ruth & Stephen HendelLester Rosenbaum

From Fran & Leslie ShifrinJanice & Jerry Malett

Elisa & Kenneth GreenbergAlbert Kaufman

From Hendrea & Barry SchwartzMildred Reader

From Janice & Jerry MalettEllen & Don Walker

Cathy DobkinsBarbara Grossman

From Gerald GrossmanHerman Schmertz

From Gerald GrossmanBarbara & Jack Freides

From Drew FreidesJerome & Shirley Schore

From Francine FischerMiriam Ginsburg

From Cathy DobkinsJackie & Sol Israel

Gabriel & Abby TolchinskySue & Abe MizrachiEllen & Don Walker

Alan AronFrom Sue & Abe Mizrachi

Edward MarcusFrom Gail & Marty Marcus

Harriet SchwartzFrom Barry Schwartz

Prayer book DonationsPlease make your check out to WJC Sisterhood in the amount of $36. Contact: Cheryl Natbony, 914-723-2709, [email protected]

Edward WeinbergFrom Barbara Schloss & Joel Weinberg

Ford GoldmanFrom Claudia Kandel

Ruth Rosenberg LevineFrom Myra Harris

Ruth LeafFrom Howard Leaf

Jack FreidesFrom Randall T. Freides

Barbara FreidesFrom Randall T. Freides

Boris YavitzFrom Judy Yavitz

Helen JurishFrom Mark Jurish

Thelma SelbyFrom Bruce SelbyMarilyn Freiman

From Martin FreimanLeslie PorosoffAbraham Stein

From Victor SteinMiriam Ginsburg

From Cindy & Randy HellerHarry Bruskin

From Dr. Robert BruskinElia & Malka Varon

From Susan & Ralph SansoloManny Sher

From Ileen & Russell GreenbergEilhu Schoenfeld

From Ileen & Russell GreenbergDonna Sherman

From Fern & Myron TannenbaumDorothy Lehrer

From Peter LehrerJoel Ickov

From Helen ColmanTilly Kaplan

From Andre KaplanBarney Kaplan

From Andre KaplanSamuel Hersch

From Jacqueline Kaplan

ON PLANNING AHEAD

Make a sad event a bit easier to bear... Consider making arrangements now,

before there is an urgent need. The WJC Cemetery Association oversees our

beautiful and convenient cemetery. For information, please contact one of us:

Ron Rosenberg: 967-4908Jill Caslin: 698-6614Sol Israel: 576-7670Miles Federman: 698-0861Walter Reichman: 834-5029Debbie Zelenetz: 837-3989

Adult Education FundIn memory of…Mildred Reader

From Gail & Marty Marcus

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BETWEEN JERUSALEM AND TEL AVIV

A SPECIAL GUEST LECTURE BYMARC SCHULMAN

Author, Historian, Developer, Educator and noted Israeli Columnist and Commentator

Thursday, March 15, 2018 at 7:45 pm

A look at the tension in modern Israel between Tel Aviv (the city of the

21st Century that worries about the future), and Jerusalem (the city of history that worries about the past)

Free to All – Invite Your Friends!

We will serve light refreshments

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Help bring the Westchester Hebrew Softball League Crown back to Rockland Avenue!

Now scouting competitive players, (16+) availableon Sunday mornings, from April to October.

HS Varsity and College experience a plus!

The Team will hold practices on March 25 and April 1at 9:30am at Gillie Field #2 in White Plains–weather

permitting. Interested players should attendat least one of these practices.

For more information, contact:Art Kaplan, 914-948- 1178; [email protected] Kaplan, 914-522-7870; [email protected]

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Saturday Morning, April 28All WJC members invited to participate

If interested, please contact:Carol Fasman [email protected] Fasman [email protected] Greenberg [email protected]

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