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18 Rules For A18 Rules For A

Successful LifeSuccessful Life


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TIPS TOTIPS TODEVELOP GOODDEVELOP GOOD

INTERPERSONAINTERPERSONAL SKILLSL SKILLS


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We deal with people and notWe deal with people and notmachines!!!machines!!!


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Why InterpersonalWhy Interpersonalskills?skills?

To improve

elationships

ood Work environment

"eadership skills #rod$ctivity

%$ccess

&o$ are liked 'y others


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%(I")%(I")


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BE APPRECIATIVEBE APPRECIATIVE


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PAY ATTENTION TOPAY ATTENTION TOOTHERSOTHERS


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PRACTICE ACTIVEPRACTICE ACTIVELISTENINGLISTENING


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BRING PEOPLEBRING PEOPLETOGETHERTOGETHER


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RESOLVE CONFLICTSRESOLVE CONFLICTSAMICABLYAMICABLY


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COMMUNICATE CLEARLYCOMMUNICATE CLEARLY

S S O


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HAVE A SENSE OFHAVE A SENSE OFHUMOURHUMOUR

SEE IT FROM THEIR SIDE


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SEE IT FROM THEIR SIDESEE IT FROM THEIR SIDE-EMPATHY-EMPATHY


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DONT COMPLAINDONT COMPLAIN


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in"ivi"!$&s '$n 'n#r&in"ivi"!$&s '$n 'n#r%eir $##i#!"es $n"#%eir $##i#!"es $n"

$'#ins () '%sin* #%eir$'#ins () '%sin* #%eir

se&+-#$&, #%!*%#s.se&+-#$&, #%!*%#s.


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O(/e'#ive0O(/e'#ive0

T i"en#i+) %1 ne*$#ive#%!*%#s &e$" # #%e &sers2si#in3

T i"en#i+) %1 2si#ive #%!*%#&e$" # #%e 1inners 2si#in3

T "i++eren#i$#e (e#1een1inners $n" &sers '%i'es3


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)vent * esponse +)vent * esponse +What yo$ ,etWhat yo$ ,et

1- What yo$ ,et. what happens to yo$ is a res$lto actions yo$ take-

2- &o$r actions are a res$lt o yo$r eelin,s orattit$des-

- &o$r eelin,s or attit$des are a res$lt o yo$rvoca'$lary. the words yo$ $se orally landsilently seltalk3-

4- What voca'$lary yo$ $se is a choice yo$make


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Winners vs LsersWinners vs Lsers

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"es n# &e# !s ,n1"es n# &e# !s ,n1 HOWHOW#%e) "#%e) "

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Se'n"5 #%e) re'*ni8e #%$# #%ere $re$&1$)s 6re 2si#ive $s2e'#s #%$nne*$#ive3

T%ir"5 #%e) 2i', !# #%e 2si#ives $n"

'n'en#r$#e se&+-#$&, n #%ese3


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2si#in9:

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)vent * &o$r esponse +)vent * &o$r esponse +What yo$ ,et eample 3What yo$ ,et eample 3

L You and a friend Negative thoughts

O plan to go to the -nothing ever turnsS movie on Fri. out right for me.

E -he must not like

R Fri afternoon the me very much.

friend calls and -he proaly found

says they aren!t someone else he

going. "anted to e "ith

to do something.

-if # can!t go to the movie tonight #

don!t "ant to do

anything.

Feelings

-ummed out

-negative aout self -othered$ irritated

Actions

-sit around the house -have a ad time

and complain -are in a ad mood

-not find something -have a oring eve

else fun to do -turned control of

your life over to

someone else


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)vent * &o$r esonse +)vent * &o$r esonse +What yo$ ,et eample 3What yo$ ,et eample 3

%ositive &houghts Results'

( -sometimes plans -have a good time

# change -are in a good mood

N -there are lots of -have a nice eve

N other things # can -took control of

E do this eve your life

R -there are other people

# can e "ith todo fun stuff

Feelings

-accepting

-positive aout self

-content

-eager aout finding a ne" activity

Actions

-find something else to do

-find someone else to do something

-en)oy your o"n company


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Negative &houghts FeelingsL Your divorced - # "ant my real mom -angry

O %arent gets * dad to e together -frustrated

S remarried - this "ill never -hurt

E "ork out -resentful

R You no" live in - #!ll e left out -left out

a ne" family - # am not going -neglected

"+ a stepparent to like this ne" -unhappy

* steprothers family

*stepsisters

Actions

-"ithdra" from ne" family

-not cooperative "+ ne" family

-not friendly to"ard ne" family memers-get in a lot of troule at home

-live in a family "ith a lot of strife and stress

-are preoccupied "+ negative thoughts aout your family situation * that

drains your energy

-don!t feel goodaout yourself * that keeps you from getting on "ith

your life


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%ositive &houghts Results'( -# understand my - are not al"ays in troule

# real parents made - have an easier life at home

N a choice not to live - live in a family that

N together anymore gets along etter *

E -# "onder ho" "e can there is less fighting

R all "ork together - have positive thoughts

-# don!t kno" this ne" aout your family situation

family very "ell so you have more energy* can focus that energy

in "ays that "ill help you

Feelings - feel good aout yourself

-acceptance * that allo"s you to get on

-calm "ith your life

-open-minded

-content

-cheerful

-positive

Actions

-participate in ne" family

-cooperative "ith ne" family

-friendly to"ard ne" family memers


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ro$p ctivityro$p ctivity

Ge# in# *r!2s + #1 $n"'62&e#e #%e si#!$#in s%ee#3

Fi&& !# +rn# $n" ($',3

T%en s%$re 1i#% *r!23


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WELCOME to SAMETIWELCOME to SAMETI


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WELCOME to SAMETIWELCOME to SAMETI

EMPLOYEESEMPLOYEES

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