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Please note: this is a pre-publication draft of the paper that came it in the Journal of Applied Philosophy (2014). Refer to that version for page numbers and final text. Stop Thinking (So Much) About ‘Sexual Harassment’ 1 Abstract This paper explores two related widespread mistakes in thinking about sexual harassment. One is a mistake made by philosophers doing philosophical work on the topic of sexual harassment: an excessive focus on attempting to define the term ‘sexual harassment’. This is a perfectly legitimate topic for discussion and indeed a necessary one, but its dominance of the literature has tended to prevent philosophers from adequately exploring other topics that are of at least equal importance, particularly that of bystanders’ responsibilities. The other mistake is one made not just by philosophers but by most people attempting to deal with real- world behaviour that is either sexual harassment or closely related to sexual harassment: an excessive focus on whether or not formal charges of sexual harassment are possible or appropriate. (This is clearly related to the first mistake in that a part of deciding whether charges are appropriate is deciding whether the behaviour meets the definition of sexual harassment). I argue that these are not merely unfortunate errors in attempting to conceptualise certain problematic behaviours; they have extremely damaging real world effects. 1 I am very grateful to an enormous number of people for the discussions that have informed this paper. In particular, I’d like to thank Louise Antony, David Archard, Elizabeth Barnes, Helen Beebee, Laura Beeby, Samantha Brennan, Josep Corbi, Michael DePaul, Peggy DesAutels, Ray Drainville, Sally Haslanger, Jules Holroyd, Chris Hookway, Rae Langton, Heidi Lockwood, Paul Lodge, Jose Medina, Mari Mikkola, Kate Norlock, Lindsey Porter, Cristina Roadevin, Komarine Romdenh- Romluc and Joe Saul. I’d also like to thank audiences at Birkbeck, Bristol, Oxford, Reading, Valencia, Western Ontario and the APA’s Diversity Conference in Dayton. Finally, I’m grateful to the anonymous referees for this journal who made very useful suggestions about how to improve this paper. I’m also grateful to many people I won’t (and in many cases can’t) name who have trusted me with their stories in confidence.

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Page 1: Stop Thinking (So Much) About ‘Sexual Harassment’1/file/V8StopThinkin… · Stop Thinking (So Much) About ‘Sexual Harassment’1 Abstract This paper explores two related widespread

Pleasenote:thisisapre-publicationdraftofthepaperthatcameitintheJournalofAppliedPhilosophy(2014).Refertothatversionforpagenumbersandfinaltext.StopThinking(SoMuch)About‘SexualHarassment’1AbstractThispaperexplorestworelatedwidespreadmistakesinthinkingaboutsexualharassment.Oneisamistakemadebyphilosophersdoingphilosophicalworkonthetopicofsexualharassment:anexcessivefocusonattemptingtodefinetheterm‘sexualharassment’.Thisisaperfectlylegitimatetopicfordiscussionandindeedanecessaryone,butitsdominanceoftheliteraturehastendedtopreventphilosophersfromadequatelyexploringothertopicsthatareofatleastequalimportance,particularlythatofbystanders’responsibilities.Theothermistakeisonemadenotjustbyphilosophersbutbymostpeopleattemptingtodealwithreal-worldbehaviourthatiseithersexualharassmentorcloselyrelatedtosexualharassment:anexcessivefocusonwhetherornotformalchargesofsexualharassmentarepossibleorappropriate.(Thisisclearlyrelatedtothefirstmistakeinthatapartofdecidingwhetherchargesareappropriateisdecidingwhetherthebehaviourmeetsthedefinitionofsexualharassment).Iarguethatthesearenotmerelyunfortunateerrorsinattemptingtoconceptualisecertainproblematicbehaviours;theyhaveextremelydamagingrealworldeffects.

1Iamverygratefultoanenormousnumberofpeopleforthediscussionsthathaveinformedthispaper.Inparticular,I’dliketothankLouiseAntony,DavidArchard,ElizabethBarnes,HelenBeebee,LauraBeeby,SamanthaBrennan,JosepCorbi,MichaelDePaul,PeggyDesAutels,RayDrainville,SallyHaslanger,JulesHolroyd,ChrisHookway,RaeLangton,HeidiLockwood,PaulLodge,JoseMedina,MariMikkola,KateNorlock,LindseyPorter,CristinaRoadevin,KomarineRomdenh-RomlucandJoeSaul.I’dalsoliketothankaudiencesatBirkbeck,Bristol,Oxford,Reading,Valencia,WesternOntarioandtheAPA’sDiversityConferenceinDayton.Finally,I’mgratefultotheanonymousrefereesforthisjournalwhomadeveryusefulsuggestionsabouthowtoimprovethispaper.I’malsogratefultomanypeopleIwon’t(andinmanycasescan’t)namewhohavetrustedmewiththeirstoriesinconfidence.

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We’llbeginwithsomestories,allofwhicharefromWhatisitLiketobeaWomaninPhilosophy(www.beingawomaninphilosophy.wordpress.com).

Story1“Earlyinmy1styeartherewasadepartmentmealout.Towardstheendofthemeal…Iwentovertothetableallthemalelecturersweresittingattochattothem.Westartedtalkingaboutpartytricksandoutoftheblue…theheadofthedepartmenttoldme“arealpartytrickwouldbeifIcoulddriphotwaxonyournipples”!Alltheotherlecturersatthetablelaughedloudly.Iwasabsolutelystunnedandutterlyhumiliated.Iwentbrightredanddidn’tsayanything.AssoonasIcould(withoutitbeingobviouswhy)Iwentbacktomyowntable.FromthatpointonwardsIavoidedhimasmuchasIcouldandwouldgoredandgetembarrassedeverytimeIsawhim.AsaresultthetwomandatorycoursesofhisItookweremylowestgrades…ever.”

Story2“Mydepartmenthousesadistinguishedsexualharasserwhoisrelentlessinhisretaliationifconfrontedabouthisbehavior.Ihavewitnessedandexperiencedhisharassmentfirst-handandhaveheardnumerousfemalegradatestudentstellofhishittingonthem,evenstickinghistonguedownone’sthroatataparty.Hisinappropriatebehaviorextendstostaffandundergraduatestudentsaswell.Thereexistsaclearuniversitypolicystatingthatsuchbehaviorwillnotbetoleratedandtherealsoexistthetrappingsofprocedureforreporting.However,becauseoftheprotectionthattenureandstatureinthefieldaffordhim,thereisnotruerecourseandanyonewholodgesacomplaintbecomesatargetforarelentlessandinsidiousdefamationcampaign.”

Story3“Freedom.Afterdealingwithdirectsexualharassment,rumorsspreadbyamalecolleaguethatIsleptwithhimtoreceiveattentionataconference–Iwasinadeeplycommittedrelationshipandratherdisgustedbythecolleague–thenhavingtodealwiththefalloutofothermalefiguresmakingsexualjokesaboutmeattheconference,listeningtocommentsaboutmybreasts,weight,faceand‘fuckability’,accusationsthatIreceivedscholarshipsbecauseIamawoman–notduetoanyskillonmypart–andthegeneralapathyofmygraduateadviseraswellasthemajorityofmyprofessors….Iamfree.Ihaveleftmydepartmentandamchangingmycareer(despitehavingtoearnanewbachelors/MAinmynewcareer).”

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Philosophyhasasexualharassmentproblem.It’snotaproblemuniqueto

philosophy,andwedon’tevenknowforsurethatitisworseforphilosophythanfor

otherfields(suchisthedifficultyofgatheringaccuratestatisticsonthesubject).But

thestoriesonthe[nameofblogomitted]makeitabundantlyclearthatPhilosophy

hasaproblemwithsexualharassment,andonethatislikelytobeplayingarolein

perpetuatingthelowlevelsofwomeninthesubject.2Regardlessofwhethersexual

harassmentisworseinPhilosophythanotherssubjects,thoughandregardlessofits

roleinkeepingthenumbersofwomenphilosopherslow,sexualharassmentisa

seriouswrongwithseriousconsequences.Anditneedstobeaddressed.

Forthelastfewyears,IhavebeenrunningWhatisitLiketobeaWomanin

Philosophy,atfirstpseudonymouslyandmorerecentlywithwidespreadknowledge

ofmypseudonym.Asaresult,Iknowallthestoriesontheblogaswellasmany

more—thosepeopledon’tfeelcomfortablepostingbutcontactmeaboutanyway.

AsIreadthestories,andasItalktopeople,acommonthemeemerges.If,forone

reasonoranother,it’snotpossibletopressaformalsexualharassmentcomplaint,

people—genuinelywell-motivateddecentpeople3—feelthatnothingcanbedone.

Sometimespeoplethinkacomplaintisn’tpossibleduetofalsebeliefsaboutthe

procedures:manypeoplefalselybelievethatonlyavictimcanfileacomplaint,but2Forstatisticsonthis,seeBeebeeandSaul;alsoseehere:http://www.apaonlinecsw.org/workshops-and-summer-institutes.3MyfocushereisexclusivelyonpeopleofgoodwillwhorecognizethatthebehavioursIdiscussarewrongandwouldliketoseethemstampedout,andwhoalsocareabouttheunderrepresentationofwomeninphilosophy.Forthatreason,Iwillnotbeprovidinganyargumentforthewrongnessofsexualharassmentorforcaringabouttheunderrepresentationofwomeninphilosophy.Thoseareprojectsforanotheroccasion(forthesecond,seeSaul2013).

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witnessesgenerallymayalsodoso(andindeedsometimestheyarelegally

obligatedtodoso).Morecommonly,though,theproblemsaredifferent:everyone

withsufficientknowledgetofileacomplaintisfrightenedtospeakup;thereisnot

enoughcorroborationforacomplainttosucceed;thebehaviourisnotaclear

enoughcaseofsexualharassmentundertheinstitution’sregulations;orthe

behaviour,whileproblematic,doesnotseembestdealtwiththroughaformal

procedure.Somemightmaintainthatevenunderthesecircumstancesoneshould

pressaheadwithacomplaint,butIthinktheworriesinthesecasesarerealones

andthatitisfarfromclearthataformalcomplaintisthewaytogoinallcases

(thoughitsurelyisinsome).Theproceduresformakingsuchcomplaintsareoften

onerous,anduniversitiesvarygreatlywithregardtohowhelpfulorobstructive

theyare.Moreover,fearofretaliationisrealandsadlyjustified.But—andthisis

thecruxofthispaper—Ithinkitisagravemistaketosimplyaskwhetherone

shouldfilesexualharassmentcharges,andtogiveuponactingifanegativeanswer

isforthcoming.Thispaperexploresourresponsibilitiesasbystanderstosexual

harassmentandrelatedbehaviours,withparticularattentiontoresponsibilities

otherthantheformal.Thisisatopicwhichhasbeencuriouslyneglectedinthe

literatureonsexualharassment,whichhasfocussedlargelyonhowtodefine‘sexual

harassment’andondescribingwhatiswrongwithsexualharassment.Ithinkthis

neglectisanextremelydamagingone,whichunfortunatelyfitswellwithour

tendencytoneglectnon-formalsolutionswhenconfrontedwithreal-worldcasesof

thissort.

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Importantly,thispaperwillmakeacaseformoreaction,notless.WhenIsaythat

formalmeasuresarenottheonlythingtoconsider,thisisnotbecauseIthinkwe

shoulddolessaboutsexualharassment.Weabsolutelyshouldtakeformalactionin

thosecaseswhereit’spossibleandappropriate.Butthat’snotall:weshouldalso

takeactioninmanycaseswhereformalactionisn’tpossibleorappropriate.My

focushereontheneedforinformalactionalsoleadstoafocusonindividual,not

institutionalaction.Institutionalaction,andinstitutionalchange,areobviously

extremelyimportant.Buttheyhavenotbeenneglectedintheliteratureintheway

thatinformalactionhasbeen.Myfocushereisonrectifyingthisneglect.

Inthispaper,IfocusonphilosophersinpartbecausetheblogIhavebeenrunningis

aphilosophyblog,andinpartbecauseIamveryconcernedtoimprovethesituation

ofwomeninphilosophy,whoaredramaticallyunderrepresented.Buttheclaims

thatIargueforapplynotjusttophilosophers,buttoothersaswell.

1 TheCurrentSituationAsthingscurrentlystand,anenormousnumberofwomeninphilosophyare

reportingextremelyproblematicbehaviorlikethosedescribedinthequotations

withwhichIbegan.Asaphilosophershockedandhorrifiedbythis,onemightvery

muchhopetofindenlightenmentinthephilosophicalliteratureonsexual

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harassment.Andonedoes.Onefindsagreatdealofthoughtful,excellentworkon

whatexactlysexualharassmentisandwhat(givenwhatitis)iswrongwithit.But

whenweturntothetopicofwhatoneshoulddoaboutsexualharassment(other

thannotengaginginit,becauseit’swrong),thereisverylittleenlightenment.There

isagreatdealofdiscussionoflegalandinstitutionalremediesforsexual

harassment,however,leadingonetobelievethatthisisallthatonecanorshould

do.

2Problemswithexcessivefocusonformalmeasures

Themainargumentofthispaperisthatwehavefocusedtoomuchonformal

measuresagainstsexualharassment.Thissortoffocus,Ithink,preventsusfrom

fightingsexualharassmentinthemosteffectiveways.Also,relatedly,thefocuson

sexualharassment—andso,onwhethersomebehaviorissexualharassment,has

sometimesdistractedusfromthemoreimportantissueofhowtocreateabetter

environmentinphilosophy.Inthissection,Ilookatshortcomingsofanexcessive

focusonformalmeasuresandontheconceptofsexualharassment.Later,I’llturn

towhatelsecanbedone.4

4Forotherexcellentcriticismsofthewaysinwhichsexualharassmentisdealtwithbyuniversitybureaucracies,seeCrouch2012,Forbes2012,Schroer2012,Slagter2012.Akeythemeofthesepapersisthewaythatcorporate“auditculture”preventsuniversitiesfromdealingproperlywithsexualharassmentcases.Crouchalsodiscussesthewaythatimplicitbiasmaypreventuniversitiesfromtakingcomplaintsasseriouslyastheyshould.These,then,provideyetmorereasonforlookingbeyondsimplyformalmeasures.

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2.1Criminalisationofminororinnocentbehavior—thoughnotasoftenasyou’dthink.

Theproblemthatmostpeopleprobablythinkoffirst,ratherunfortunately,isthata

legalisticapproachtosexualharassmentcanleadtothecriminalizationofminoror

eventotallyinnocentbehavior.5And,ofcourse,thisispossibleanditsurelydoes

happenoccasionally.However,itisfarlesscommonthanispopularlybelieved:

manyofthewidelypublicizedexamplesofoverreachhaveturnedouttobevery

poorlyandinaccuratelyreported(Clark2001,Schultz1998).Andit’sextremely

commonforevenhorrendouscasesnottobeconsideredserious(Schultz1998;

Zalesne1999)

Nevertheless,Ithinkthefearofcommittingsexualharassment(orofbeingseento

becommittingsexualharassment)canhaveachillingeffect.Ifoneisawareof

universityregulationsasbroadasthoseabove,andconcernedaboutnotfallingfoul

ofthem,onemightwellfeelveryhesitantinone’sdealingswithfemalestudents.

Andindeedtherearemanyanecdotalreportsofmenfeelinguncomfortableinjust

thisway,andthismayplaysomerole(thoughclearlynotallofit)inwomen’s

reportsofinadequatementoring.6

5It’simportanttonote,ofcourse,thatthisisnevergoingtobeliterallycriminalization,sincesexualharassmentisnotlegallyacriminalmatter.6Implicitbiasisalsolikelytoplayasignificantrole,assuggestedbyMoss-Racusin2012.

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2.2Clearcasesnotdealtwith—whenretaliationisfeared,etc.

Alltoooften,eveninthemostextremeandclear-cutcases,formalcomplaints

proceduresforsexualharassmentfail.Veryoftenit’sbecauseeveryoneisafraidto

bringcharges.Sometimestherearenocorroboratingwitnesses.Sometimes,asin

Story2,it’sbecausetheharasserhassomuchinstitutionalpowerthatallofthosein

authoritypositionshaveaninterestinlookingtheotherway.Sometimes,

institutionshavepoorprocedures(e.g.institutionsIhaveheardofwherea

conversationbetweenvictimandharasserisanabsolutelyrequiredfirststep,or

whereanon-disclosureagreementmustbesignedbeforeanyinvestigationcantake

place).

Alltoooften,thereactiontosuchfailuresbygenuinelycaringbystandersisasad,

resignedsigh;asustainedboutofswearing;oragoodstiffdrink.Now,there’s

nothingwrongwithanyofthesereactionsofcourse.Butthere’ssomethingdeeply

wrongwithstoppingthere.AndinthenextsectionI’llbediscussingwhatonecan

doinsteadofstoppingthere.

2.3Problematicbutnotextremesexualbehaviornotdealtwith—leering,innuendos,comments.Infact,manyofthebehaviourslistedinthethirdexample—thestoryofwhatmade

awomanquitphilosophyaltogether—areofthesortoftenconsideredminor—a

joke,acrudecommentaboutappearance,arumour,anaccusationofnotmeritinga

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scholarship.Althougheachoftheseisverylikelytocountaspotentiallyharassing

undersexualharassmentcodes,eachonitsownwouldprobablyfailtorisetothe

levelofseveritywhereacomplaintwouldbeupheld.Moreover,anindividual

behaviourofthissortisnotthekindofthingmostofuswouldwanttofileaformal

complaintabout—eitherbecausewethinkthateventhoughthebehaviouriswrong

aformalcomplaintwouldbeinappropriate,orbecausewedon’tthinkit’sworththe

enormouseffortoffilingacomplaint.Butindividualbehavioursofthissortaddup.

Andinthiscasetheyadduptoanenvironmentthatmadeawomandecideshehad

togetoutofphilosophy.Something,then,shouldbedone.

Nowthereisinfactplentyofroomformakinganexcellentsexualharassmentcase

outofacollectionofbehaviourslikethis:iftheyalltakeplacewithinthesame

department,astrongcasecanbemadethatthedepartmentiscreatingahostile

environmentforwomenbylettingbehaviourlikethisflourish—hostile

environmentsareoftenmadeupofcollectionsofbehaviours,eachofwhichonits

ownmaynotbethatsevere.Butthecollectionofbehavioursmightwellbespread

acrossdifferentdepartments(takingplacesatconferences,forexample),making

thissortofcomplaintunworkable.Moreover,I’dliketoarguethatweshouldbe

thinkingabouthowtotakeactionbeforewegetacollectionofbehavioursthat

constitutesaformallyactionablehostileenvironment.

Onereasonfortakingactionofsomesortregardingtheindividualbehavioursthat

makeupthehostileenvironmentinStory3isverysimplebutneedstobestated

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nonetheless:thesebehavioursarewrong,andwhenbehaviourthatiswrongis

takingplaceweshouldceterisparibusdowhatwecantostopit.Anotherreasonis

morespeculative,butIhavebecomeincreasinglyconvincedofitthroughmywork

onsexualharassment:thereseemtobesomeplaceswhereharassmentofthemost

serioussortflourishes,andwehavecaseaftercaselikethosedescribedinStory2.

Theseplacesalwaysturnouttobeonesinwhichsexistcommentsandjokes,and

remarksaboutstudents’appearance,alsoflourish.Thishasmademesuspectthata

cultureofpermissivenesswithrespecttothemoreminorsortsofsexual

harassmenthelpstocreateanenvironmentinwhichthemoremajorsortof

harassmentisseenasacceptable.EmpiricalworkbyO’HareandO’Donohue(1998)

confirmsthissuspicion:theyfindthattwokeyriskfactorsforsexualharassmentare

widespreadsexistattitudesandanunprofessionalatmosphere.Aphilosophy

departmentthatisrifewithsexualcommentsandjokessurelyqualifies.Ifthisis

right,thenthereisfurtherreasontostrivetoeliminatetheseseeminglyminor

behaviours.

2.4Problematicbehaviorthatdoesn’tmeetdefinition:consensualyetproblematicrelationshipswithstudentsThestartingpointforthispaperwasactuallyacaseofjustthissort.Afriendin

anothercountrysoughtmyadviceregardingsomeoneinhisdepartmentwhohad

manyapparentlyconsensualaffairswithwomenstudentsandbraggedpublicly

aboutthem.Thiswasnotagainsthisuniversity’sregulations,butawoman

student—notoneofthoseinvolvedintheaffairs—hadtoldhimthatitmadeherand

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othersuncomfortable.Hecouldseewhytheywereuncomfortable,andthatthere

wassomethingproblematic,buthedidn’tknowwhattodo.Initially,myresponse

wasthattherewasnothingtobedonesincenouniversityruleshadbeenviolated.

ButasItalkedtohim,webothbegantorealizethatourmoralrepertoireextended

beyondtheresourcesofferedbyuniversityregulations.Myfriendrealizedthat

therewereseveralthingshecoulddo,rangingfromexpressingdisapprovalwhen

hiscolleaguebraggedtoactuallygoingtohiscolleagueprivatelyandtellinghimwhy

hisbehaviorwassoproblematic.Thisisthemomentthatbothmyfriend,andI,

realizedthatasking“isthissexualharassmentaccordingtouniversityguidelines?”

isnottheonlyquestiontobeasked.

Thereisnoconsensusoverhowtodealwithconsensualrelationshipsbetweenstaff

andstudents.Someuniversitiesforbiditcompletely;someforbiditwhenthestaff

memberisinapositionofdirectauthorityoverthestudent;someallowsuch

relationshipsbutrequirethattheybeofficiallyreportedandthatthestaffmember

shouldnotbeinvolvedine.g.assessingthestudent’swork;others,likemyfriend’s

university,havenoregulationsatallagainstsuchrelationships.7

Thereislittledisagreement,eitherlegallyortheoretically,thatnonconsensual

relationships(includingbutnotlimitedtothosebetweenstaffandstudents)are

impermissible.Andthereisagreatdealofpotentialforstaff-studentrelationships

tofailtobegenuinelyconsensual.Theremaybe,andalltoooftenare,implicitor7Foranargumentthatstaff-studentrelationshipsarealwaysmorallywrongandconstituteaformofdiscrimination,seeSuperson2001.

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explicitthreatsthatcoerceastudentintoanappearanceofconsent.DavidArchard

(1994)hasarguedthatwealsoneedtorecognizethecategoryofexploitedconsent,

inwhichtheconsentisdueeitherwhollyorpartlytothepowerrelationsbetween

theparties.Inthesecases,Archardargues,studentstendtoendupworseoff

becausethepowerimbalanceinfectstherelationship,leadingtoalackofcontrol

overitstermsonthepartofthestudent.

Thereisalsoverylittledisagreementthatsexuallypredatorybehavior—thesort

displayedbythevisitingprofessorwhosays“ShowmeagradstudentIcanfuck”

(http://beingawomaninphilosophy.wordpress.com/2010/12/11/show-me-a-grad-

student-i-can-fck/)ismorallybad.Evenifwegrant—asmaynormaynotbethe

case—thatthesearetrulyconsensual,theredoesseemtobeaproblem.Apartof

theproblemistheatmospherecreated:womeninthedepartmentcanreasonably,

andinfactdoreasonably,worrythattheywillbeexpectedtohavesexual

relationshipswiththestaffmemberinquestion.Ihaveheardmanyreportsof

womenavoidingtheclassesofsuchserialpredatorsbecausetheyworrythatthey

willdopoorlyiftheyturndownthepredator’sadvances.Andsomeofthewomen

whoconsentmaydosooutofpreciselysuchfear—renderingtheirconsentrather

problematicaswell,evenifitwasnotdeliberatelycoerced(andeveniftheperson

theyconsenttoisnotawarethattheconsentwasduetofear).Moreover,

environmentswheresexualpredatorsflourishareoneswherewomenfeelthatthey

arenotbeingvaluedfortheirminds,butfortheirbodies.

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Sothereisverygoodreasontowanttodosomethingaboutpredatorybehavior.But

manyuniversitysexualharassmentcodesstruggletodealwithit.Obviously,codes

whichforbidallsexualrelationshipsbetweenstaffandstudentsdoforbidit,but

manyfeelthatsuchcodesgotoofar.Thereareavarietyofverydifferentreasons

onemightthinkthis:Sometimesastaffmemberandastudentdosimplyfallinlove,

anditseemswrongtoforbidtheirrelationship.Somesuchrelationshipsareinany

caseinevitable,andtheharmsthatcomefromforbiddenrelationshipswilloftenbe

greaterduetotheirundergroundstatus.Alternatively,onemightsimplythinkthat

itisexcessiveregulationofone’sprivatelife(thoughthisistrickytomaintaingiven

thattherelationshipisobviouslynotpurelyprivate.)Ihaveyettoseeauniversity

(orother)codeofbehaviorthatsucceedsindrawingapermissibilitylinebetween

sexuallypredatoryconsensualrelationshipsandotherconsensualsexual

relationships.Itisaverydifficultborderlinetocodify.

Thedifficultyofcodifyingthisboundarymeansthatitisdifficultifnotimpossibleto

formallyrecognizethedistinctionbetweenpredatoryandotherconsensualsexual

behavior.Anditbecomesevenmoredifficultwhenwerealizethatevenserial

relationshipswithstudentsmightnotbepredatory.Take,forexample,thecaseofa

youngsociallyunskilledfacultymemberwhoisunsuccessfulatdatingnon-

philosophersandwho(perhapsduetodemographics)doesn’tmeetanysinglenon-

studentwomeninphilosophy.Ashemovesfromonefailedrelationshipwitha

studenttoanother,hemaybegenuinelyseekingloveratherthanexploitinghis

positionofpower.Itseemsrighttosaythatthisman’sbehaviorisn’tpredatory;he’s

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verydifferentfromthemanwhosays“showmeagradstudentIcanfuck”.(Though

hisbehaviormaystillhaveseriouslyproblematicunintendedeffectsonthe

environmentforwomen—sincewhateverhisintentionsitmaybeperceivedas

predatoryandhavesomeoftheeffectsofpredatorybehavior.)Itwouldbealmost

impossibletoformulateapractical,useable,definitionof‘predator’thatdoesn’t

includesomeonelikethis.

Inanyinstitutionthatdoesnotbanstaff-studentrelationships,then,therewill

inevitablybethepossibilityofserialsexualbehaviorthatcreatesaproblematic

environmentforwomenstudents,whetherthisbehaviorisofthepredatorysort

firstdiscussedorthesortengagedinbythesociallyunskilledmanabove.Andthere

islittlehopeofformulatingregulationsthatwilldistinguishthesefromeachother

orfromlessproblematicconsensualrelationships.But—importantly—itdoesnot

followthatoneshoulddonothing.Whenonerecognizesthatsomethinglikethisis

happeninginone’sdepartment,oneacquiresanobligationtoatleasttrytoact.Not

everyonewillhaveaneffectivewayofacting.Butthosewhodo—suchascolleagues

orsuperiorsofthepredator,orevenofthesociallyunskilledman—canandshould

act.Possibleactionsarenotconfinedtoformalones;theyspanthefullrangeof

humanbehavior,includingeverythingfromsubtleexpressionsofdisapprovalto

confrontationswiththepredator,toconversationswithwomenstudentsinvolved

intherelationships.Inthecaseofthesociallyunskilledman,obviouslyadifferent

approachiscalledfor—gentlyalertinghimtotheconsequencesofhisbehavior,and

perhapssomeadviceonhowtomeetwomenoutsidephilosophy.Whatoneshould

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dowillalsodependagreatdealonwhooneis.Inpartthisisamatterofone’s

institutionalpower,butinpartitisalsoamatterofone’sownpersonalskills.In

differentways,conversationswithpredators,theirvictims,andthesocially

unskilledmanarealldifficult,andallrequirebothcarefulthoughtandparticular

humanskills.Thisisnoreasontoavoidthem,butitisareasonthatnogeneral

prescriptioncanbegivenaboutwhatoneshoulddo.

2.5Problematicbehaviorthatdoesn’tmeetdefinitions

2.5.1Patternsresultinginobjectification

Verycommonly,Ihearaboutdepartmentsinwhichmalegraduatestudentsshowno

interestindiscussingphilosophywithfemalegraduatestudents,butgreatinterest

inhavingsexwiththem.Atdepartmentsocialoccasions,themenhitonthewomen

agreatdealbutnevershowanyinclinationtodiscusstheirwork(whiletheydo

discussworkwithothermen).Inatleastsomecases,noneoftheindividual

behavioursareproblematic—we’llassumethatthesexualinvitationsarenon-

coercive,andthattheyarenotrepeatedafterbeingrebuffed,forexample.And

there’snothingwrongwithchoosingnottodiscussphilosophywithsomeoneata

socialevent.Butthepatterncreatedisoneinwhichwomenendupwithouta

friendlyphilosophicalgraduatecommunity.They(quitereasonably)feelobjectified

andnottakenseriouslyintellectually,andtheyarealikelytobeuncomfortable

aboutattendingsuchsocialevents.Yetthebehaviorviolatesnorules.

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2.5.2ImplicitbiasandmicroinequitiesJustasWhatisitLiketobeaWomaninPhilosophyhasalertedtheprofessionto

sometrulyegregiousinstancesofextremesexualharassment,ithasalsomadeclear

thepowerofsmallthings—microbehavioursormicroinequities—tocreatean

unwelcomingenvironment.Someofthesebehavioursarethemselvessexual,some

ofthemnot.Andindividualswilldifferintheirjudgmentsofhowseriousthe

behavioursare.Thesortsofsexualbehavioursthataregenerallythoughtofas

relativelysmallareoneslikeleering,lecherouscommentslessextremethanthehot

waxexample,andinnuendos.Suchbehavioursare,infact,consideredsexual

harassmentundermostinstitutionalcodes,butformalcomplaintsareonlyrarely

broughtonthebasisofthem,andtheyarenotterriblylikelytosucceed.

Othersmallbehavioursincludemakingeyecontactwithmenbutnotwomen,not

noticingthequalityofanideauntilit’sexpressedbyaman,notcallingonwomen,

andsoon.

I have been ignored, talked over, and talked down to on many occasions.

When I gave an objection to a view in a philosophy seminar, just ten

minutes later, the teacher credited and praised a male student for having

come up with the objection. The male student had not even spoken. After

conference talks and elsewhere, I have had speakers talk to the other

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men in a group, but ignore my comments and questions or give cursory,

dumbed-down responses.

(http://beingawomaninphilosophy.wordpress.com/2012/10/23/the-life-of-

a-woman-in-philosophy/)

Thesearenotsexualbehaviours,buttheyareproblematicbehavioursandtheyhave

seriousconsequencesregardingtheclimateforwomeninphilosophy.Itwouldbe

verydifficultifnotimpossibletomakeformalcomplaintsonthebasisofthem,

however.

3.Howtorespond:AskingnewquestionsTheoverarchingpointIwanttomakeinthissectionisthatwearemakingamistake

ifweconsiderthesortsofcasesunderdiscussiononlybyaskingwhethertheyare

sexualharassment,andwhetherformalchargescanandshouldbebrought.These

areindeedquestionswemustask.Buttheyarenottheonlyquestions,andwe

mustn’tjustgiveupifwegetnegativeanswerstothem.Instead,weneedtoalsoask

whatelsewecanandshoulddo.Onewayofemphasizingthispointistothinkabit

abouthowstrangeitisthatsomanyofhavetendedtoassumethatweshouldstop

afteraskingthequestionsaboutsexualharassmentandformalcharges.Afterall,in

otherareasoflife,whenconfrontedwithaproblem,wedon’tjustaskaboutour

formalresponsibilities.

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3.1Ourresponsibilities

3.1.1OurprofessionalobligationsApointIhaveemphasizedrepeatedlyisthathumanbeingshaveawiderangeof

moralbehavioursopentothem.Institutionalorlegalproceedingsareonlyoneof

manyoptions,andwemaybeprofessionallyobligatedtopursueotheroptions.To

seethispointmoreclearly,let’sconsidersomecasesofverydifferentsortswhere

thisisobvious.

• Supposethatyou’reHeadofDepartmentanditcomestoyourattentionthat

acolleagueisteachingextremelypoorly—mumblingsothathecan’tbe

heard,takingfartoolongtoreturnhisstudents’work,andnotallowing

studentstoaskclarificatoryquestions.There’snoquestion,reallythatyou

don’tsimplysighwithresignationonceyoulearnthatnostudentswantto

fileaformalcomplaint,orevenputthisintheirwrittenevaluations.Painful

anddifficultasitis,yougotoyourcolleagueandhaveachatwithhimabout

histeaching.Oryouputinplaceasystemofmentoringandobservation.Or

yousendhimonatrainingcourse.Andthere’snoquestionthatyouhavean

obligationtodothis,evenifnouniversityorlegalregulationsarebroken.8

8OnemightsuggestthataHeadofDepartmentdoeshaveadutytointervenewhensomeoneisteachingpoorly,sinceensuringadecentqualityofteachingissurelyapartoftheHeadofDepartment’sjob.ButarguablyaHeadofDepartment’sjobalsoincludesadutyofcarefortheacademicwell-beingofstudents,andfortheprofessionalityofthewaytheyaretreated,whichwouldsupportinterveningincasesofsexuallypredatorybehavior.

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• Supposeyoucomeuponaconfusedlookingstudentinthehallwayfrantically

turningamaproundandround.Thereisclearlya(defeasible,obviously)

obligationtoofferdirectionstothisstudent.Andthisissoeventhoughthere

isnouniversityregulationstatingthatyoumustdoso,andnoprocedureby

whichastudentcouldfileacomplaintagainstyouifyoufailtodoso.

3.1.2OurmoregeneralresponsibilitiesJustaswedon’ttakeourprofessionalobligationstobelimitedtothoselaidoutin

universityregulationsandcomplaintsprocedures,orlaws,wedon’ttakeourmoral

obligationstobecircumscribedinthiswayeither.Therearenolawsagainst

deceivingourlovedonesonimportantmatters(exceptinalimitedsetofcases),but

wenonethelessthinkwehaveanobligationnottodoso.Therearenolaws

requiringustohelpclosefriendsthroughbereavement,butagainwehaveno

difficultyrecognisingtheobligation.Andsoon.

Butofcourse,itisonethingtosaythisandanothertodoit,especiallywhenit

comestoourresponsibilitiesasbystanders.Peopleofgoodwillwhoarewitnessesto

thebadbehaviorofothersarenotoriouslyreluctanttointervene.Ihavefound

particularlyilluminatingdiscussionsofbystanderresponsibilitiesinHoward

McGary(2008)andThomasHill(2010).HillusesKantiantheorytoarguethat

bystanderstooppressionhavetheresponsibility“toexerciseduecarein

deliberation,toscrutinizeone’smotivesforpassivity,andtotrytodevelop

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virtueconceivedasstrengthofwilltodowhatisrightdespiteobstacles”

(2010:28).McGaryarguesthat“decentpeoplehaveamoralresponsibilityto

takejustandviableavenuesthatareavailabletothemtoreduceoreliminate

actsofracism”(2008:300).Inbothcases,thefocusisonthesystematic

mistreatmentofagroupofpeople(victimsofoppressioninHill’scase,

victimsofracisminMcGary’scase).Inthecaseofsexualharassment,the

primaryvictimswhoaremyfocusarewomen,andwomenareindeed

systematicallymistreatedviasexualharassment-relatedbehaviours.Indeed,

theoristslikeCatharineMacKinnon(1979)havearguedthatthisisakeyway

inwhichwomenareoppressed.Inparticular,sexualharassmentoften

functionsinmale-dominatedworkplacesasawayofmaintainingmale

dominance—andtheanecdotalevidenceofwomenleavingphilosophydueto

harassmentcertainlyfitswellwiththisidea.Itseemsquitereasonable,then,

tosupposethatbystandershavethesortofobligationMcGaryandHill

discusswhenitcomestosexualharassmentofwomen.Butwhatabout

sexualharassmentofthosewhoarenotwomen?Inmanycases,thesexual

harassmentofnon-womenactuallyfunctionsasasortofgender-policing—

e.g.whenitisdirectedatmenwhoareviewedasinsufficientlymasculine.

This,too,caneasilybeseenasthesortofsystematicmistreatmentthatHillis

concernedwith.Sometimes,however,theremaybecaseswhichdon’tfitthis

paradigmeither.Myviewisthatthereisstillaresponsibilitytointervenein

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thesecases,astheyarecasesofmistreatment.Butthenatureofthe

responsibilitymaybesomewhatdifferent.

Thedifficultiesforbystandersareheightenedwhenwearetalkingaboutbystanders

tosexualharassment.Intheir(2005),socialscientistsBowes-SperryandO’Leary-

Kellyprovideahelpfultaxonomyofthefactorsthatcanencourageordiscourage

bystanders’interventionincasesofsexualharassment.Theyofferoneofthefew

discussionsIhavefoundofinterventionstrategiesbeyondtheformalones,

includingat-the-timeconfrontation,distraction,andafter-the-factdiscussion.(They

alsonotethatthepotentialforsuchinterventionshasbeenlargelyoverlookedinthe

sexualharassmentliterature.)Buttheynotethatsuchinterventiononlytakesplace

ifobservers(a)identifythesituationasrequiringanintervention;(b)take

themselvestohavearesponsibilitytoact;and(c)decideonanaction(2005:293).

Althoughitistruethatobserversofsexualharassmentoftenexperienceuncertainty

aboutwhattheyarewitnessing,myfocusinthispaperislargelyonthetendencyof

observerstodeny(b),andtobeconfusedabout(c).Mycontentionisthatan

excessivefocusonformalmeasurescontributestothisbyleadingthoseobservers

withoutanofficialresponsibilityforsexualharassmentcomplaintstoconcludethat

theydonotpersonallyhavearesponsibilitytointervene.9Thisalsoleadstoa

problemwith(c).Aslongasitiswidelybelievedthatformalmeasuresaretheonly

options,therewillinalltoomanycasesseemtobenoappropriateactiontotake.

9ThisfitswellwiththefindingsofBowes-SperryandO’Leary-Kelly.

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3.2ThePowertoInterveneIhavearguedthusfarforaprimafaciedutytodosomethingwhenbehaviourslike

thosediscussedhereareoccurring.Buthowoftenwilloneactuallybeabletoact

onthisprimafacieduty?Domanypeoplehavethepowertodoanything?The

answeris‘yes’inmanyifnotmostcases.First,moststraightforwardly,thosein

positionsofauthorityhaveapowertointervene.AHeadofDepartmentcanand

shouldintervenewhenstudentsarebeingmistreated,includingintheways

discussedhere.Theycandothisthroughofficialchannels(universitycomplaints

procedures),buttheycanalsodothisbyinformingstaffmemberswhentheir

behaviourisunacceptable.Thiscanbedonethispubliclyorprivately,individually

orcollectively.Althoughmuchofmyfocushereisonmoreinformalsituations,one

shouldnotunderestimatethepowerofpublicdeclarationsregardingacceptableand

unacceptablebehaviour,frompeopleinpositionsofauthority.

Insituationswhereauniversityharassmentcodeisviolated,itisveryimportantto

recognisethatmanypeoplehavetheability,andsometimesobligation,tocomplain.

Anyonewhohaswitnessedbehaviourthatviolatesuniversityharassmentcodes

alsohasthepowertointervenebyfilingacomplaint—afactthatisalltoolittle

known.Dependingonthecountry,theorganisationalstructuresandthenatureof

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theharassment,certainpeopleinpositionsofauthority(e.g.HeadofDepartment,

DirectorofGraduateStudies)mayalsohavealegalobligationtofileacomplaint.10

Butthepowertodosomethingextendsveryfarbeyondthesepeople.11AsI’ve

notedabove,manypeoplehavethepowertoindicateunacceptabilityinother

ways.12Thosewhoknow,forexample,thatacolleagueistreatingstudentsinan

inappropriatewaycantellthatcolleaguesoexplicitly.Buttheycanalsoconveyit

non-explicitly.We’llbediscussingthisoptioninmoredetailinthenextsection.

Non-explicitexpressionsofdisapprovalareoneofthemostinterestingavenuesto

pursue.Aswesawabove,microbehaviourscandoagreatdealtocreatean

unwelcomingenvironmentforthosewhoweshouldbewelcoming.Importantly,

though,theycanalsocreateanunwelcomingenvironmentforbehavioursofthesort

we’dliketostampout.ThisissomethingthatChrisBennettcallsattentiontoinhis

paper“VarietiesofRetributiveExperience”(2002).Therehedescribesindetailthe

waythathumanbeingscanpowerfullysignaldisapprovalbyakindofsocial

withdrawal—notgreeting,notmakingeyecontact,andsoon—notingthe

transformativeeffectthiscanhaveonwrongdoersastheyrealisewhytheirfriends

andcolleaguesarewithdrawing.Bennettdescribesthisformofsocialwithdrawal10Itisaverygoodideatocheckontheseobligations,whichdifferenormouslyfromcountrytocountryandevensometimesinstitutiontoinstitution.11Infact,theformalreportingobligationsofthoseinauthoritymaymeanthatpeoplearereluctanttobringcomplaintstothem,thusplacingmoreoftheburdenofrespondingonthosewithouttheformalpositionofauthority.12Manyofthesemethodsarediscussedintheemergingliteratureon“activebystandertraining”.Seeforexamplehere:http://web.mit.edu/bystanders/strategies/index.html.

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asacentralcaseofretribution,anddefendsitagainsttraditionalcriticismsof

retribution,arguingthatitisakeywayinhumans,associalanimals,expressour

disapproval.Andbeingthetargetofsuchexpressionsisanimportantwaythatwe

cometoimproveourselvesandourbehaviour.

Allofusashumanbeingshavethepowertoengageinthesekindsofsocial

withdrawals,inmajororminorways.Itisimportanttonote,though,thatit’snot

necessarilyadvisableforallofustodothis.Thosewhoareinparticularly

precariouspositionsmayfeel—quitelegitimatelyandcorrectly—thatit’ssimplytoo

riskyforthemtodothis.Andit’sabsolutelyvitalthatwerecognisethelegitimacyof

this.Peopleinprecariouspositionsmustnotbeblamedforfailingtoactinthese

ways.However,peopleinsecurepositions—andthiswillmeandifferentthingsfor

differentpeople—canbeblamedfornotacting.Aresignedsighisreallynotenough

whentherearethingsonecansafelydo.Moreover,asmorepeopletakeaction,

eveninsmallways,thesocialcostoftakingactionisreduced.13

43.3CasesWithallthisinmind,let’stalkaboutwhattoactuallydo.

3.3.1Story1:ThedepartmentheadandthehotwaxFirstwe’lltakeStory1above.It’sashockinganecdote.I’veneverseenjawsfailto

dropwhenItellit,especiallywhenInotethatithappenedinthelastfewyears.And

13Formorediscussionofthepossibilityandimportanceofsuchinterventions,SeeScullyandRowe2009.

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yet,itisintheendjustasinglecomment.It’sashockingcomment,withwitnesses,

andit’ssoobviouslyinappropriatethatIwouldhopethere’dbenoquestionasto

whetherit’sacaseofsexualharassment.Presumablyacomplaintwouldbeupheld

quiteeasily.Butasitisjustacomment,manypeoplewouldnotfileaformal

complaint.Moreover,theposition(HeadofDepartment)ofthepersonmakingthe

appallingcommentmightwellmakeothershesitatetoact.Nowofcourseoneway

torespondistoinsistthataformalresponseisappropriate,andthatpeopleshould

bebraveenoughtodoit.Inparticular,it’simportanttonotethatitdoesn’thaveto

bethevictimmakingtheformalcomplaintandtherearemanywitnessesina

positiontodoso.ButwhatIwanttonotehereisthatthisisn’ttheonlyusefulor

legitimateresponse.

Inthinkingaboutthis,Iwanttothinkaboutthebystandersinthepub—allthose

lecturerswho“laughedloudly”.MaybeI’moverlycharitable,butmystrong

suspicionisthatsomeofthis(atleast)wasnervousandappalledlaughterbypeople

whowereactuallyshocked.Onethingwecanalldoistodosomethinkingabout

howtoreactifwefindourselvesinasituationlikethis,startingwiththefactthat

laughingisreallyoneoftheworstthingstodo—itlookstobothvictimandharasser

likeendorsementoftheharassment.Sonotlaughingwouldbeagoodstart.

Moreover,it’sanespeciallyeffectivewayofexpressingdisapprovaland

discouragingsuchjokesinthefuture.Ifyoudoubtthis,reflectforamomentona

timewhenyoutoldajokeandnobodylaughed,andrecallhowitfelt.

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Thereareofcourseothermoresociallydifficult(butperhapsevenmoreeffective)

options.Clearly,itwouldbegreattosimplyconfronttheHeadofDepartmentonthe

spotbysaying,forexample,“that’sanappallingthingtosay”.Noteveryone,

however,isinapositiontodothis,eitherbecauseoftheirstatusinahierarchyor

becauseoftheirpsychologicalmakeup.Andit’snottheonlyusefulthingtodo.A

separateconversationwiththeheadabouttheincidentcouldalsobeeffective.As

couldaseparateconversationwiththevictim—it’sclearfrommyconversations

withherthatitwouldhavemeantagreatdealtoknowthatothersdisapproved.

Failingthat,evenadisapprovingglancecanberemarkablyeffective,asresearchon

microaffirmationsandmicroaggressionsshows.Thesearethewaysthat

communitiessetstandardsofappropriateness,creatingeitherapermissiveor

forbiddingenvironmentforsexualharassment.

3.3.2Story2:ThedistinguishedsexualharasserThisstoryisofamanwhosefame,tenureandvindictivenessseemtoprotecthim

againstanyrepercussionsforhisseriallyharassingbehaviour,whichincludes

“stickinghistonguedownthethroat”ofanunwillingvictimataparty.14Theauthor

ofthepostclaimsthatnobodycandoanythingaboutit.Buttheyare,infact,wrong.

Itmaywellbethatthismanpicksonlyonthosewhoaretoojuniortosafelytake

action.Butotherswitnesshisbehaviourorhearaboutit,andsomeofthemhave

theprotectionoftenureandperhapseventheirownfame.Thefirstthingsuch

peoplecoulddoisinfacttofileaformalcomplaint,anditwouldseemverymuch

14Thequotationdoesnotactuallyspecifythattherecipientofthetonguewasunwilling.Iamassumingthis,basedoncontext.EvenifIamwrongaboutthiscase,though,thereareplentyofothersinwhichtherecipientwasunwilling.

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warrantedinthiscase.It’svitaltorememberthatthevictimneednotbetheone

whocomplains.Otherscanalsospeakup,regularlyandloudly—eitherinpublicor

inprivate.Theycanprovidesupporttovictims.Andsoon.Oncemore,thesense

thatnobodyisinapositiontoactismistaken.Andtheacceptanceofthisclaimis

whatallowsappallingbehaviourtocontinue.Ifenoughbystandersspeakupand

takeaction,evenauniversitythatwishestolooktheotherwaywon’tbeableto.(It

isvital,however,thatmeasuresbetakentoprotectbothvictimsandcomplainants

fromretaliation—andimportanttoknowthatsuchretaliationisillegal.)

3.3.3Manysmallproblemsforceawomanout

Inourthirdstory,awomanleftphilosophyafterexperiencingfortoomanyinsults,

sexualcomments,rumoursandlackofrespect.Togetheralloftheseundoubtedly

adduptoaclearlyhostileenvironment,andthissortofenvironmentisrecognised

assexualharassmentlegally.However,shewritesofsomeoftheseexperiences

beinginherdepartmentandothersatconferences.Itisentirelypossiblethatthey

arescatteredenoughthatnooneinstitutionorindividualcouldbethesubjectofa

formalcomplaint.Butonceagain,formalcomplaintsarenottheonlymechanism.

Fellowconference-goerswhoarepartytotheevaluationsof“fuckability”,orwho

hearthesexualcomments,are—atleastsomeofthem—perfectlycapableof

speakingup.Orifnotspeakingup,atleastplacingadisapprovingexpressionon

theirface.Orifnotthat,atfailingtolaughorsmile.Andtheyarealsocapableof

showingsolidarityinprivatetothewomanwhowrotethepost.Enoughofthese

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relativelysmallactscanchangetheenvironmentinsignificantways.Atamore

institutionallevel,educatingbothstudentsandstaffaboutacceptableand

unacceptablebehaviourwillalsohopefullyhelptoreducethefrequencyofthissort

ofthing.Finally,itmaybeworthwhileforconference-organiserstolaydown

guidelinesregardingbehaviour.Thisdoesn’trequireconferencestogetintothe

businessofbringingformalcharges,soittoocanbeviewedasa(relatively)

informalmeasure.15

4.Objections

4.1Dowitnessestothesebehavioursreallyhaveadutytoact,evenifnorulesarebroken?ItmayseemthatIhavearguedforquiteastrongclaim:thatevenwhennorulesare

broken,witnessestothesortofbehaviorIamdiscussinghaveadutytoact.Butthis

isactuallynotquiteright,andinaveryimportantway.WhatIhavearguedisthatin

suchcaseswehaveadutytoconsiderwhatactionswecanorshouldtake.We

shouldn’tsimplyacceptthatthere’snothingwecanorshoulddobecausenorules

arebroken.Nor,however,shouldwethinkthatwehaveanobligationtospeakup

everytimethatwe—forexample—seeacolleaguestaringatanothercolleague’s

breasts:itmightmakethesituationworsebydrawingattentiontoit;itmightputus

inanuntenableposition;itmightbebettertosaveourfireforsomethingelse;and

soon.Thenagain,itmightbeaverygoodideatospeakup,ortospeaktooneorthe

otherofthesecolleagueslater.Inadditiontobalancingpracticalities,wemayalso

15Althoughsuchguidelinesarerareforacademicconferences,theyhavebecomewidespreadincertainothercommunities.Foranexample,seehere:<https://www.ucon-gaming.org/convention-details/policies/>.

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havetobalanceconflictingduties—theprimafaciedutytotakeactionmightwell

conflictwithadutytoprotectastudentfromretaliation.16Ourobligationissimply

tocarefullyconsiderwhatactionsarepossibleandwhatwouldbebesttodo.This

seems,perhaps,whollyuncontroversialoncestated.Butmyexperiencehasbeen

thatthisobligationisonealmostcompletelyignoredbothinreallifeandinthe

literatureonsexualharassment.

OneimportantfeatureofmanyofthecasesIhavediscussedisthatthebehaviours

maynotonlybenotbreakinganyrules,butalsorelativelysmall.Anditmayseem

strangeformetosuggestthatwehaveanobligationeventothinkaboutwhattodo

insuchcases.However,AsSamanthaBrennanhasargued: “Ifitturnsoutthat

someratherlargedifferencesintermsofwomen’sparticipationinthedisciplineof

Philosophycanbeexplainedastheaccumulatedeffectsofmany,manyactionswith

smallresults,mostofwhichwereunintentionalharms,thenweoughttopaymore

attentiontomicro-inequitiesbothintermsofunderstandingthemasamoral

phenomenaandintermsofpracticalsolutions.”17

4.2Butaren’tsocialoccasionsaverydifferentmatter?Someofthecasesthatconcernushereinvolvebehaviorthat’sactuallyoutsidethe

philosophydepartment—atapub,oraparty,orareceptionataconference.One

worryaboutthelineatI’vetakenhereisthatpeopleshouldbefreetodoastheylike

intheirsociallives,aslongastheydon’tbreakanylaws:whathappensintheir

personallivesisnotthebusinessofanyoneelse.

16Dependingonwhereoneis,legaldutiesmaybeveryclearlylaidout.Butdutiestotakeinformalactionwillbelessclear.17Exactlyhowtohandleobligationsrelatedtosmallwrongsisathornyissue.(For

moreonthis,seeBrennan2012.)

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Oneresponsetothisbeginsbynoting,withseveralgenerationsoffeministscholars,

thefuzzinessofthepublic/privateboundary.Ifnetworkingisanimportantpartof

professionalsuccess(asnearlyeveryonetakesittobe,forbetterorforworse),then

thedepartmentalparty,thepubaftertheseminarpaperandthereceptionata

conferencearenotreallywhollypersonalaffairs.Itis,infact,apartofprofessional

life.It’snotgovernedbyexactlythesamerules,andindeedthepreciserulesmaybe

difficulttostate.ButadistinctadvantageofmyapproachisthatIamnotinthe

businessofsettingdownrulesandmandatingwhattodowhentheyareviolated.

Instead,myviewisthatweallneedtoreflectonhowbehavioursthatwewitnessor

engageinareaffecting,forexample,women’sabilitytoflourish;andtothinkabout

howtoimprove.Sowhenweseethevisitingspeakerhavingonedrinktoomany

andstartingtogropethefemalestudentsatthepub,weshouldrealizethismay

createaproblematicenvironmentforthem—evenifthebehaviorofavisiting

speakerdoesn’tfallunderourinstitution’ssexualharassmentcodes.Andweshould

dosomethingaboutit—attheveryleastbundlethespeakeroutthedoorintoacab

byhimself.Becausemyapproachdemandsonlyattentiontoandconsiderationof

theseissues,itcanaccommodatethemessinessofthepersonal/professional

boundary.

Aniceillustrationofthiscomesfromwhatmayseemlikeoneofthetrickiestcases:

themalegraduatestudentswhohitontheirfemalecolleaguesonsocialoccasions

butdon’ttalkphilosophywiththem.Noneofthisbehaviorisagainsttherules,and

ittakesplaceatsocialevents.Soitmightseemthatthisisapurelypersonalmatter.

Yetanimportantpartofwhatweareteachingourgraduatestudentsishowtobe

professionalsinourfield.Thisprettyobviouslyincludesnetworking,anditshould

alsoincludehowtoconductoneselfatthesortofsocialoccasionsthatareinfact

alsoprofessional.Andthisshouldincludecallingattentionto,andeducatingabout,

thedestructiveeffectsofpatternslikethis.

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Similarly,thisapproachiswell-suitedtoaddressingconcernsaboutfreedomof

speech.Sexualharassmentregulationsareoftencricitisedasrestrictingfreedomof

speech.Ithinkthiscriticismislargelymisguided,butIcan’tandwon’targuethis

here.NordoIneedto:thefocusonthispaperhasemphaticallynotbeenon

regulationsrestrictingspeech,butonhowweshouldrespondinformallytocertain

sortsofharmfulspeechandbehaviour.Andnoadvocateoffreespeechhasever

beeninthebusinessofsuggestingthatweshouldn’te.g.tellsomeonethatwedon’t

likewhatthey’resaying.(Iftheydidsuggestthat,they’dbesuggestingarestriction

onspeech.)

Inshort,then,Iamarguingthatweneedtothinkagreatdeallessaboutthe

definitionofsexualharassmentandtheformalmeasuresavailableforcombattingit,

andagreatdealmoreabouthowtocreateenvironmentsinwhichpeopleofallsorts

canflourish.

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