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I am responsi-ble when any-
one, anywhere, reaches out for help, I want the
hand of A.A. always to be there, and for
that I am respon-sible.
MARCH 2019 Volume 43, No. 3
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Step 3 of our 12-Step program is based on a simple principle: Change your attitude toward life, and you can change your life. A Question of Willpower The third stage on the road to sobriety is one of the most important. It can also be one of the most frightening and difficult steps for recovering alcoholics to confront. That’s because it is the first step that asks us to take concrete action. Step 1 demanded honesty. It forced us to recognize our powerlessness over our addiction. In step 2, we acknowledged a power greater than ourselves, whether that be A.A. itself, a vision of our ideal self, a counselor, or God. Both of these initial steps involved recognition and acceptance. Step 3 brings willpower back into the equation. If that sounds confus-ing (after all, didn’t willpower cause the prob-lem in the first place?), think of it this way: There is a difference between willpower and willfulness. We display willfulness when we demand our independence from everyone, when we naively believe we are in control of everything, when we refuse even the sin-cerest offers of help. When A.A. speaks of willpower, on the other hand, it means the willingness to accept help from someone or something outside of ourselves, even if our whole mind and heart rebel against the idea. More Than Empty Words Simply put, Step 3 demands that we take the first two steps and put them into action. This is where we trans-form a desire for reform into a decision to surrender. It’s one thing to admit our own helplessness and pay lip service to a higher power. Actually surrendering often takes a greater leap of faith. To put it another way, it’s easy enough to search for affordable alcohol treatment centers and sign the papers on the dotted line. It’s more difficult to commit ourselves wholeheartedly to the recovery process. In order to surrender, we must let go of our grand plans, our inflated pride, and our exaggerated concept of self-control. We must relinquish negative feelings and let go of all those things we cannot hope to control. Harnessing the Power of Surrender In the end, if alcohol has taught us anything, it is that we have encountered a problem greater than ourselves. Only by harnessing a power that is equally great can we hope to free our minds and bodies from the vice-like grip of alcoholism. When we put our foot on the third rung of the ladder, we commit ourselves to a lifelong struggle, a struggle that will demand enduring resolve and continual action. Thankfully, Step 3 also reminds us that failure is never final. No matter how many times we fall down, we can rediscover hope as long as we are willing to seek help.
https://www.yellowstonerecovery.com/2016/12/27/a-deeper-look-at-the-12-steps-step-3/
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Taking Step Three Anonymous | Mar 2, 2017
STEP 3: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
We claim spiritual progress rather than spiritual perfection. Our description of the alcoholic , our personal adventures before and after make clear three pertinent ideas:
a. That we were alcoholic and could not manage our own lives. (Is this you – yes-no?) b. That probably no human power could have relieved our alcoholism. (Are you beyond human aid – yes-no?) c. That God could and would if He were sought. (Are you willing to believe – yes-no?)
Being convinced (of a, b and c), we were at Step Three, which is that we decided to turn our will and our life over to God as we understood Him. Just what do we mean by that, and just what do we do? The first requirement is that we be con-vinced that any life run on self-will can hardly be a success. (Are you convinced – yes-no?) (AA p. 60)
Selfishness, self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of our troubles. Driv-en by a hundred forms of fear, self-delusion, self-seeking, and self-pity, we step on the toes of our fellows and they retaliate. Sometimes they hurt us, seeming-ly without provocation, but we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt.
So our troubles, we think, are basically of our own making. They arise out of ourselves, and the alcoholic is an extreme example of self-will run riot, though they usually do not think so. Above everything, we alcoholics must be rid of this selfishness. We must, or it kills us! God makes that possible. And there often seems no way of entirely getting rid of self without His aid. Many of us had moral and philosophical convictions galore, but we could not live up to them even though we would have liked to. Neither could we reduce our self-centeredness much by wishing or trying on our own power. We had to have God’s help. This is the how and the why of it. First of all, we had to quit playing God. It didn’t work. (Would you agree – yes-no?) Next, we decided that hereafter in this drama of life, God was going to be our Director (yes-no?). He is the Principal; we are His agents. He is the Father, and we are His children. Most good ideas are simple, and this concept was the keystone of the new and triumphant arch through which we passed to freedom. (AA p. 61-62)
Step 3: Instruction - PRAYER We were now at Step Three. Many of us said to our Maker, as we understood Him:
God, I offer myself to Thee — to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bond-age of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear wit-ness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of life. May I do Thy will always!”
We thought well before taking this step making sure we were ready; that we could at last abandon ourselves utterly to Him. (yes-no?) (AA p. 63) If you can answer yes, then let us take this prayer together and we will have taken step three.
Step 3: Paycheck - PROMISES When we sincerely took such a position, all sorts of remarkable things followed. We had a new Employer. Being all pow-erful, He provided what we needed, if we kept close to Him and performed His work well. Established on such a footing we became less and less interested in ourselves, our own little plans and designs. More and more we became interested in seeing what we could contribute to life. As we felt new power flow in, as we enjoyed peace of mind, as we discovered we could face life successfully, as we became conscious of His presence, we began to lose our fear of today, tomorrow or the hereafter. We were reborn. (AA p. 63) https://renascent.ca/taking-step-three-3/
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MARCH 2019 Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat
1 Brian B.,12yr
(Cove Point )
2 Bruce O., 5
yr (Waldorf)
3 Ben (Mad
Dog) L., 5 yr
(Kiss Group)
4 Dave H., 4 yr
(Monday Night
Traditions)
5 6 7 8 Sean G., 1yr
(Leonardtown
Group)
9 Craig R., 21
yr (We Wuz
Wurz)
Karen G. 1yr
(Laurel Grove)
10 Charles D.,
22yr (Kiss
Group)
11 12 John O.,
11yr (Lexington
Park Big Book)
13 14 15 16
17 18 Dan H., 25yr
(Beginners@
Noon)
19 20 21 22 23 Trish D, 2yr
(Saturday Sereni-
ty)
Doug S, 7yr (Early
Bird)
Tim S., 22yr
Charles B. 20yr
(Early Risers)
24 25 26 27 28 29
Sara E., 2yr
(Beginners at
Noon)
30
31
Bob E., 25 yr
(Solomons
Group)
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1 2 3 4 5 6
7 8 9 10 11
Gisela R., 28yr
(Almost Normal)
12 13
14 15 16 17 18 19 20
21 22 23
Chelsea B., 6yr
(Tuesday Night
Big Book)
24 25 26 27
28 29 30
SUN MON TUE WED THUR FRI SAT
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March 1
1939 -- Readers Digest declined to write article on AA.
1941 - Jack Alexander's Saturday Evening Post article was published and membership jumped from 2,000 to 8,000 by year's end.
March 3
1947 -- Nell Wing started work at Alcoholic Foundation, 415 Lexington Av-enue, NYC.
March 4
1891 -- Lois W. was born.
1947 -- Nell Wing met Bill W. for the first time.
March 5
1945 -- Time Magazine reported first of a series of Detroit radio broadcasts by AA members.
March 7
1940 -- Bill and Lois W. visited Philadelphia AA group.
1941 -- Boston newspaper reported that any drunk who wanted to get well was more than welcome at the AA meeting at 115 Newbury St., at 8 PM Wednesdays.
March 9
1941 -- Wichita Beacon reported on an AA member from NY who wanted to form a group in Wichita, KS.
March 10
1944 -- New York Intergroup was established.
March 11
1949 -- The Calix Society, an association of Roman Catholic alcoholics who are maintaining their sobriety through participation in Alcoholics Anonymous, was formed in Minneapolis by five Catholic AA members.
March14
South Orange, NJ, AA group held an anniversary dinner with Bill W. as guest speaker.
March 15
1941 -- First AA group in New Haven, CN, was formed.
March 16
1940 -- Alcoholic Foundation and Works Publishing moved from Newark to 30 Vesey St. in lower Manhattan.
March 21
1881 -- Dr. Bob's wife, Anne, was born.
1966 -- Ebby T., whom Bill W. called his sponsor, died sober.
March 22
1951 -- William Duncan Silkworth, MD, died at Towns Hospital. He helped more than 40,000 alcoholics during his lifetime.
1984 -- Clarence S., "Home Brewmeister," died at 81.
March 23
1936 -- Bill & Lois W. visited Fitz M., "Our Southern Friend," in Maryland.
1940 -- Lois W. paid her first visit to the office on Vesey Street in NYC.
March 25
1898 -- Jim B. ("The Vicious Cycle") was born.
March 29
1943 -- The Charleston Mail, WV, reported on Bill W.'s talk at St. John's Parish House.
March 31
1947 -- 1st AA group formed in London, England.
http://www.cmia32.org/archives/daybyday/march_aa_history.php
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CHECK OUT THESE AMAZING MEEINGS!
PRIME SERVICE OPPORTUNITY!!! The P.I.C.P.C. Committee is looking for fellowship members who would like to join the committee and do service work in District
36.
New womeN’s meetiNg
Begins Monday March 4, 2019 - 7pm
Patuxent Presbyterian Church
23421 Kingston Creek Rd.,
California, MD
Not Quite Right Group
is in need of support and home group members
Friday, 8:30pm 21760 Great Mills Road
Lusby Big Book Cove Point Step
Happy Destiny Daily Reflections Because it’s not always about what we can get
from a meeting, but also what we can bring to it...
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We will sud-denly realize
that God is
doing for us
what we could
not do for
ourselves.
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February 2019 Grapevine
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Esperanza Lanes - 22645 Three Notch Rd.
April 19, 7:00pm. For more info Contact bud-
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Poem From An AA Member I found myself in a bottomless pit, of sorrow and woe and despair.
When a ray of light revealed to me the steps of a winding stair.
In vain I tried to reach those steps, by myself it could not be done.
I cried for help and a voice replied, "You are standing on Step Number One."
"Who's that?" I asked. "What do you want?" "Can you tell me what to do?"
"Give me your hand," the voice answered, and you'll be on Step Number Two."
I help up my hand. I decided that I alone could not set myself free.
But I trusted that voice and it suddenly said, "You are standing on Step Number Three."
I stop there and rest, and look at myself. I don't think I can do anymore.
From somewhere above the voice came again, "You are standing on Step Number Four."
Wherever you are, you don't understand, I don't de-serve to be alive.
For I am a liar, a thief and a con. The voice said, "You're on Step Number Five."
I'm not well, I'm not right. There's a lot wrong with me, Is there anything you can fix?
The voice came again and so gently replied "You are standing on Step Number Six."
All right then, I'll ask ~~ can you take these away? Can you make me feel closer to Heaven?
"I love you," the voice said. "Your Heaven's in you, and you're standing on Step Number Seven."
There's so many I've harmed, my family I've hurt-- all the pain and the grief and the hate.
"It's alright my child," the voice calmly said, "You are now on Step Number Eight."
"You must tell them you're sorry. You must make things right. And then in their eyes you will shine."
"I'll do it," I whispered. And then the voice calmly said, "You're standing on Step Number Nine."
I must keep a close eye on my motives and self 'cause there's wrongs that I may do again.
"Look at you," the voice said, "at how far you've come! You are now on Step Number Ten."
I pray and I ask for knowledge and strength. I want to keep my direct line to Heaven.
The voice is so close ~~ it's as if it's right there, saying "You're standing on Step Number Eleven."
And so here I stand, almost at the top. Into all of my past I did delve.
Now I want to help others who are still in the pit. And the voice said "This is Step Number Twelve."
http://www.singaporeaa.org/PDFs/newsletters/newsletter_oct2011.pdf
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Opening: The meeting was opened by John L. with the Declaration of Unity.
New Members and visitors: Kathy S. and Hal C.
Board Members and Committee Chair: John L., Vice Chair; Bruce O., Parlia-
mentarian; Bill L., Treasurer/Webmaster; Buddy F., Secretary; Keenan W., Bookstall/Picnic Chair; Emme J., Telephone/Hotline;
Pat P., Where and When Chair; Keith H., Lifeline editor; Wallace S., Archivist
Groups Represented Andy X., Keeping it Green; Emme J., Graceful Sobriety; Jim D., Awakenings; Kaki B., Hughesville; Kee-
nan W., Sunday Morning Eye Opener; Buddy F., Basic Text; Rene W., Inspiration Group; ; Wallace S., Sobriety First; Jeff A.,
Waldorf Group; David Y., Solomon’s Group; Ann G., Friday Night Alive; Lunch with the Big Book., Dan H., Beginners at noon;
Joyce S., Drunks R Us and District 36 Representative; Bill L., Sunderland; Pat P., North Beach; Dee E., New Life; John M., Early
Bird; Chuck G., Daily Reprieve; Hal C., Kingston Creek; Keith H., Almost Normal; Rick W., Graceful Sobriety; Janine G., Sobriety
Sisters; Kim L., District 35 Representative; Kathy S., Today’s Group;
Secretary’s Report: Buddy F. gave Secretary’s Report, The minutes for January were accepted as read with no changes or cor-
rections.
Treasurer’s Report: Bill L. gave the February 2019 Treasures Report the report was accepted as read with no corrections.
Bookstall: Keenan W. bookstall sales for the month was $675.20; he will be placing an order soon.
Telephone: Emme J. there was a total of 5 calls: 2 looking for rides, 3 needed to talk to someone.
Lifeline: Keith H. stated things were going well; reminded all that any submitted materials are always welcomed and to please let
him know if any misprints/errors are discovered.
Bridging The Gap: Still looking for a volunteer to take over. Big thanks for Chuck G. for stepping up as new chair. Keith will
update Chuck on program procedures.
Website: Bill L. there were 3,757 visits to the website up 26.80%; top visited pages were Homepage, Where & When Calendar,
and Where & When Search.
Corrections and Treatment: Calvert: Fred W. stated that they only had 2 men taking the meetings to the jail. Charles: Kim L.
stated that they need more women to help carry the message on Tuesday nights 5:45 pm and that the men meet on Saturdays
5:45 pm, ST Mary’s: John M. stated that Becky B. had passed her position over to Linda M. for the women, while Kim K. will
oversee the men’s meetings. Overall there is a fair amount of participation at this time.
PI/CPC: Calvert: No Report Charles: No Report ST Mary’s: Buddy F. gave report for Mary F., who was able to get literature to
the Great Mills High School. All literature racks elsewhere are being maintained and volunteers are still needed to help.
Gratitude Dinner: No Chairperson
Serenity Breakfast: No Chairperson
Picnic: Keenan W. Nothing to report, looking into new location for the event
Where and When: Pat P. stated New Booklets were printed. We received 3200 copies at a cost of $1,477.64. Please take a mo-
ment to review the information and submit any changes, corrections, etc. to him via the Web form, email or hard copy. Any
changes or corrections will be incorporated into the online version. The next printing will be in July 2019.
Old Business: We are still looking for people to volunteer for the Election Committee.
New Business: Chuck G stated that he would take the Bridging the Gap Chair. Thank you for your service, Chuck. We now
can accept nomination for the Vice Chairperson and the Treasurer’s position. Requirements include:
(1) 2 years continuous sobriety, (2) willingness for 2-year commitment, and (3) cannot be a Home Group Rep. simultaneously.
Kim L. nominated Jim D. for the Co-Chairman’s position.
For the Good of the Order: Kim L. stated District 35 will sponsor a 4th Step Workshop and they need the District GSR’s partici-
pation. Wallace S. asked what type of experience was needed to fill the Treasurer’s position and it was noted that Bookkeeping
experience would help a lot. Jim D. stated that the Carol Porto facility has change their name to Avenue Recovery Center. Their
Wednesday night meeting has been discontinued, while the Sunday 8:30 am meeting now meets at 4pm on Sunday.
There will be a guest speaker from Area 29 on Bridging the Gap at the next SMIA meeting, Saturday March 9. All are invited!
Adjournment: Meeting was adjourned at 10:35 pm with the Responsibility Pledge
Submitted by Buddy F., SMIA Secretary
SMIA MEETING MINUTES
FEBRUARY 12, 2019
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After recovering the Bookstall receipts from the past 3 months, the SMIA is on solid financial footing. For the first time in months, we are reflecting a fiscal year net gain. This does not account for the funds we transferred from the Prudent Reserve into the Oper-ating Account. Though our Operating funds exceed the Prudent Reserve right now, I am reluctant to move that back until the Where & When publication costs and the pending Bookstall purchases have cleared. After the expected March contributions and Bookstall sales have been deposited, we’ll have a better picture of our true financial standing. We would like to extend our sincere appreciation to our mem-bership for encouraging your groups to support the SMIA core responsibilities.
Treasurer’s Report - February 2019
Tradition 7: Self-support lent me a sense of freedom of thought and of action. As an AA member, I knew, I was not bound by what other people thought. That helped me to open up my mind and start to think for myself--for the first time in a long time. AA gave me proof that
money and spirituality can mix. http://silkworth.net/downloads/pdf/
spiritual_principles_of_the_12_traditions.pdf
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Southern Maryland Intergroup Association Inc
Revenue by Donor Summary
January 25 - February 23, 2019
Contributions
Today Group 165.72
Sobriety First 161.00
Beach Beacon 128.00
Living Sober 125.00
KISS Group 100.00
Twelve Steps Home Group 100.00
Nomad Group 89.00
Drunks R Us 80.00
Happy Hour 67.50
Saturday Evening Serenity 30.00
Wits End 25.00
St. Charles Step Group 15.60
As Bill Sees It 5.00
Friday Night Alive 5.00
Lunch With The Big Book 5.00
TOTAL
1,101.82
Southern Maryland Intergroup Association Inc
Top 10 Contributor Honor Roll
May 2018 - April 2019
Contributions
Beach Beacon 1,255.00
Anonymous Donor 1,000.00
Sunday Morning Sobriety 540.00
Sunday Morning Eye
Openers 450.00
Solomons Group 375.00
Inspiration Group 372.70
Back to Basics 335.00
Way Of Life 332.00
La Plata 328.20
Drunks R Us 305.00
Statement of Financial Position
As of February 23, 2019
Total
ASSETS
Current Assets
Bank Accounts
Bookstall Cash on hand 100.00
Business Savings (1168) 5,439.37
Petty Cash 57.70
Primary Business Checking (6806) 6,375.01
Transfer from Prudent Reserve -1,552.90
Transfer to Operating Fund 1,552.90
Total Bank Accounts $11,971.11
Total Current Assets $11,971.11
TOTAL ASSETS $11,971.11
Opening Balance Equity 11,762.54
Retained Earnings -442.43
Net Revenue 651.00
Total Equity $11,971.11
TOTAL LIABILITIES AND EQUITY $ 11,971.11
Statement of Activity
February 2019
Total
Revenue
Bookstall Sales 1,708.10
Contributions 1,101.82
Total Revenue $2,809.92
Gross Profit $2,809.92
Expenditures
Lifeline Printing 49.87
Phone Answering Service 200.77
Rent & Lease 300.00
Total Expenditures $550.64
Net Operating Revenue $2,259.28
Net Revenue $2,259.28
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DISTRICT 1 CALVERT COUNTY
District Meeting:
7 PM, 3rd Mon-
day
St. Paul’s Episc.
Church
Prince Freder-
ick, MD
District 1 Trust
Fund
PO Box 234
Barstow, MD 20610
www.calvertaa.org
DISTRICT 35 -
CHARLES COUNTY
OPEN SERVICE
POSITIONS:
• Public Info
• Secretary
• Hospitality Chair
District Meeting:
7 PM, 1st Thurs
Peace Lutheran Church
Waldorf MD
District 35, PO Box 1981, La
Plata, MD 20646
DISTRICT 36 - ST. MARY'S COUNTY
GREAT 12-STEP OPPORTUNITY!
New treatment center needs support. Local groups from all districts are
needed to take meetings. Meeting calendar flexible This is a unique oppor-
tunity to help local Newcomers build a solid foundation and learn about
strong sponsorship. Contact Pat. S. for more info - 301-481-2090
District Meeting: 6:30 PM, 2nd Tuesday
@ Hollywood Rescue Squad Bldg., Hollywood
Mailing Address: District 36, PO Box 1334,
California, MD 20619
“We ask that we be given strength and direction to do the right thing, no matter what the
personal consequences might be.” Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 79
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SOUTHERN MARYLAND INTERGROUP ASSOCIATION
CHAIR: Pat S.
VICE CHAIR: John L.
SECRETARY: Buddy F.
TREASURER: Bill L.
PARLIAMENTARIAN: Bruce O.
Where & When: Pat P.
Lifeline: Keith H.
Telephone: Emme J.
Website: Bill L.
Bookstall: Keenan W.
The Lifeline is an unofficial newsletter published by Southern
Maryland Intergroup Association, Inc. Any opinions expressed are
those of the writers. They are not endorsed by SMIA, any group
or AA as a whole. Group secretaries and individuals are encour-
aged to send group news, anniversaries and events. Material may
be edited for space and content. Please send all Lifeline corre-
spondence to:
THE DEADLINE FOR ALL LIFELINE SUBMISSIONS IS THE
27th OF EACH MONTH.
Please send any updates for the Where & When to:
Current Where and When meeting guides are available at the monthly SMIA meeting.
“Our leaders are but trusted
servants, they do not govern.”
One of the most important things in recovery is helping the still suffering alcoholic. The
SMIA is committed to this principle and provides a 24x7 Telephone Service. But phone
support is of no benefit if we do not have service committed people to call . We have a
simple and secure method for you to add your name to the SMIA 12-Step Call List. This
information is protected and will only be shared with the Phone Committee Chair. Go
online to the intergroup website, www.somdintergroup.org (the 12-step Phone List link
is on this page). Click on the link to access, complete the online form, and discover
the benefits of this valuable service opportunity by connecting with others throughout
the local community. You will be amazed before you’re half way through.
SMIA PHONE REPORT
FEBRUARY
2019
“And above all, let us remember that great legions who still suffer from alcoholism and who are still without hope. Let us, at any cost
or sacrifice, so improve our communication with all these that they may find what we have found.”
Bill Wilson, ©The AA Grapevine, February 1961
County Want to
Talk Need a Ride
Meeting Info
Other* Total Calls
Calvert
Charles
St. Mary’s
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TWELVE SPIRITUAL PRINCIPLES / VIRTUES
Bill W. considered each step to be a spiritual prin-ciple in and of itself. However, he outlined the spiritual principles behind each step. Reading these principles and actually practicing them in your day-to-day lives are two entirely different things and the latter requires vigilance and willing-ness.
#3 FAITH – Complete confidence; belief and
trust.
“Practicing Step Three is like the opening of a
door which to all appearances is still closed
and locked. All we need is a key, and the deci-
sion to swing the door open. There is only one
key, and it is called willingness.” 12x12, p. 34
https://www.aacle.org/twelve-spiritual-principles/