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Special Approaches of Scientific MatchMaking

In India, we consider two factors of supreme importance while matching horoscopes of the prospective bride and groom forthe purpose of marriage: -

1. The prospective bride and groom may have a compatible and peaceful relationship after marriage.

2. Families of both the prospective bride and groom may have a peaceful and lifelong relationship after marriage.

POPULAR METHOD OF MATCHMAK!"# $

sually, it is observed that people consider astrological matchma!ing with incredulity when on the other handmedical science has also come up with a new way of matchma!ing which suggests matching of blood groupsbefore marriage. The matter of the fact is that most of the astrologers and astrology softwares matchhoroscopes in a cursory manner by ta!ing into consideration "ust two factors: -

1. #hether both the prospective bride and groom are $angli! or not%

2. &ow much the prospective bride and groom score in guna matching with a score of 1' and above

considered favourable for mutual compatibility.

USUAL PRO%LEMS AFTER THS K!D OF MATCHMAK!"#

sually, it is observed that even after astrological matchma!ing based on a study of these two factors there are:-

(. $isunderstandings and )uarrels among husband and wife which sometimes results in divorce as well.

*. +ne of them dies.

. +ne of them suffers from ill health.

. ouple is childless despite being physically fit.

/. Family is unable to progress well.

'. 0oth are indifferent to each other.

If all these problems persist after matchma!ing it means match was not underta!en correctly.

&HAT ARE "U!AS'

unas are studied based on ' astrological factors in the horoscopes of prospective bride and groom.

. 3arna

14. 3ashya

11. Tara

12. 5oni

1(. rahamaitri

1*. ana!uta



1. 0ha!uta

1. 6adidosha

7ll of these ' astrological factors have been assigned scores: - 3arna- 1, 3ashya- 2, Tara- (, 5oni- *,rahamaitri- , ana!uta- , 0ha!uta- /, 6adidosha- '. These total upto 1828(8*888/8' 9 ( unas.+ut of these, The gunas which match positively are added to the score and the points for any doshas blemishes;

are deducted.

&HAT S LA"!A MA!"LK'

#hen $ars is placed in the 1 st, *th, /th, 'th or 12th houses from the <agna in the horoscopes of prospective brideand groom, it becomes a $angli! horoscope.

&HAT S CHA!DRA MA!"LK'

#hen $ars is placed in the 1 st, *th, /th, 'th or 12th houses from the $oon in the horoscopes of prospective brideand groom, it becomes a handra $angli! horoscope.

S T SUFFCE!T TO MATCH MA!"LK A!D "U!AS ALO!E'

sually it is observed that even when una matching shows points greater than 1' upto ( and $angli! or non-$angli! match is also compatible, couples have mutual differences, suffering in marriage life and they act againsteach other=s wishes.

HO& TO MATCH HOROSCOPES# $

&ow should $angli! matching and una matching be carried out so that a prosperous life may be ensured for the

prospective bride and groom.

FACTORS TO %E CO!SDERED ! MA!"LK MATCH!"# $

1. #hether both are $angli! or not.

2. If they are $angli!, is there any neutrali>ing factor as well%

(. #hether $ars has changed positions as per detailed calculations or not%

*. #hether $ars is combust or not.

. #hether $ars is eclipsed by ?ahu or @etu or not.

. #hether $ars is debilitated or not.

SPECAL FACTORS TO %E CO!SDERED &HLE MATCH MAK!"# $

1. &ow are both the horoscopes of prospective bride and groom disposed in relation to marriage life%Aosition of planets in the house of marriage / th house; and the disposition its lord.

2. If the house of marriage and its lord is not well disposed in both the horoscopes of prospective brideand groom, then they will have a problematic marriage life.

(. &ow are the combinations for progeny in both the horoscopes of prospective bride and groom. Isthere any indication of problem related to progeny%

*. &ow is the house of fortune disposed in both the horoscopes of prospective bride and groom. Fortune

will give progress or not.



. #hat is the )uotient of anger in both the prospective bride and groom because. If both have losetemper then also situation can go to any eBtent.

. If both of then share the same <agna one of them will prosper and the other one $ay facedifficulties.

/. 7 host of other combinations also need to be ta!en in account before finali>ing Finali>ing the match

for marriage.

OTHER FACTORS TO %E CO!SDERED &HLE MATCH MAK!"# $

1. 7naly>ing character of both the prospective bride and groom.

2. &ealth of the prospective bride and groom.

(. #hether both have dominating nature.

*. whether one or both of them have combinations for death of spouse or not.

. Is any emotional involvement possible which can disturb marriage life%

7ll of these points should be considered by scholars before finali>ing any match for the purposes of marriageastrologically.

ERRORS ! MATCHMAK!" TA%LES FOU!D ! PA!CHA"AS (!DA! EPHEMERDES) # $

Crrors can be found in the matchma!ing tables found in panchangas which also need to be considered : -

1. If both the prospective bride and groom have 7shwini na!shatra constellation; which means sharingthe same $oon-sign and 6a!shatra, the matchma!ing table in panchangas assign 2' points and ' points arededucted for nadidosha and a number of eligible prospective couples are considered ineligible. #hereas Aauranicscriptures have stated that: -

C!na!shatra"ataanam nadidosho na vidyate7nya!shapativedheshu vivaho var"itah sadaa

#hich means that if both the prospective bride and groom share the same na!shatra there is no nadidosha and if they have different na!shatras whose lords have mutual 3edha they should not marry. Then why are ' points are

deducted in panchangas for nadidosha%

Aauranic scriptures have also stated that : -

6adidoshastu vipranaam varnadosho mahibhu"aam, anadoshashacha vaishyanaam shudranaam yonidosha!ah

#hich means that 6adidosha is considered especially harmful for brahmans, varnadosha for !shatriyas,ganadosha for vaishyas and yonidosha for shudras.

0ut usually it is observed that nadidosha is considered especially harmful in every case which is not correct.

+n the other hand, 0ha!uta dosha is considered in relation to progeny but the impact of 6avapancham dosha is

not found in panchangas, whereas there are two variations of navapancham dosha: -

1. #hen the moon-sign of girl is th as counted from the moon-sign of boy and moon-sign of boy is th

as counted from the moon-sign of girl.

2. #hen the moon-sign of boy is th as counted from the moon-sign of girl and moon-sign of girl is th as counted from the moon-sign of boy.

Aanchangas deduct / points in both of the above stated instances, whereas our pauranic scriptures have statedthat: -



$aranam pitrimatroscheta samgrahyam navapancha!am3arasya Aanchame @anya !anyaya navame varahCtat tri!ona!am grahyam putrapautrasu!havaham

Dhadashta!e 0havenmrityuryatnatastam 3icharyeta

#hich means that if father of the prospective groom and mother of the prospective bride have eBpired then6avapancham dosha loses its power to do evil and marriage can be consummated because 6avapancham doshais thought to affect them only.

Dtill, if the moon-sign of girl is th as counted from the moon-sign of boy and the moon-sign of boy is th as

counted from the moon-sign of girl, it is considered positive and gives happiness of children and grandchildren asit is not supposed to bring negativity.

CO!CLUSO!# $

Whereas it is usually observed that points for both of the abovementioned types of

navapancham dosha have been deducted which is not correct and hence it is desirable that

astrological matchmaking for the purpose of marriage should be undertaken by takinginto consideration not only the prospective bride and groom but their families as well.

Instead of matching merely Gunas and Manglik dosha a comprehensive matchmaking as

outlined above can help ensure a successful marriage life as well as prosperity and

progress in life

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