social emotional spiritual parenting 4 june 2016
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Building Family Sakinah through Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting
(Another Dhuha Workshop Series)
SPIRITUAL DETOXYour Family Experience
the Difference !
Hours of FUNAt MPR1, Saturday, 4 June 2016, 8.30am to 12.30pm
REMOVESelf Sabotaging Blocks & Emotional Virus in
Your Family Life
UNLOCKYour Family Full Potential
DISCOVERYour True Family Life
Purpose
Neuro Linguistic Activity includes Baking Session with Cake Couture II0830-0930
Amanah Programme Description0830-0930
60 minsPURPOSE & AIM What motivate children to behave
the way they do (Intrinsic & Extrinsic)
0930-100030 mins
BAKING SESSION(Chef Sikin Supelan)
Activities 1, 2 and 3 Hands-on Coaching Constructive Emotion
1000-104545 mins
MODULE1: NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
Neuro (Thoughts), Associative (Connected/Relate) Conditioning – Trained, Used to, Conditioned to,
1045-111530 mins
DHUHA-BREAK BREAK (Mee Goreng, Drink & Dhuha-Optional)
1115-114530 mins
MODULE2: GLOBAL METAPHOR
Words Used in Our Thoughts MatterWords We Use Daily Matter
1145-123045 mins
NEURO ACTIVATION Application Begins
WORKSHOP PROGRAMMEParenting Workshop II
0830hr-1230hr, Saturday, 4 June 2016, MPR1
“The best among you are those who bring the most benefit to mankind.” (Prophet Muhammad SAW) 0830-0930
0830-0930
“How do I know whether the hardship befalling me is a punishment or a test for me?”
“Do not educate your child to be rich
Educate him to be happy.So when he grows up,
He'll know the value of thingsNot the price.”
(FB sharing from sister DiDi Mardiana)
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop(Dhuha Series)
1130-121531/32
SELF-REFLECTION OF SELF-FULFILMENT
ON THE POST ITDefine “what is happiness” to you ?Define “what is disappointment” to you?Can Happiness and Disappointment happen simultaneously to you ?
0830-0930
AVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
Permitted Safe Level
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting WorkshopAVERAGE LEVEL & PERMITTED SAFE LEVEL
Average Singaporean Parents' Anxiety & Stress Level
(IMH Random Survey 2001- 2010)
0830-0930
HAPPINESS INDEXSelf-Chart Radar (Before)
PERSONAL
PRESENT
TARGET
NAME: _______________DATE: _____________
GAPS
GAPS
GAPS
GAPS
GAPS
RESO
URCE
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URCE
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URCE
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FAMILY
PARENTINGWORKING LIFE
SPIRITUAL
Activity 1
0830-0930
“Amazing is the affair of the believer, verily all of his affair is good and this is not for no one except the believer. If something of good/happiness befalls him he is grateful and that is good for him. If something of harm befalls him he is patient and that is good for him” (Saheeh Muslim No. 2999)
Spiritual & Emotional Coaching
0830-0930
LIFE MOTIVATION(Fitrah – Internal Compass)
PAIN PLEASURE
DECIDE
ACTION
MeaningConnection
BELIEFSYSTEM
Discomfort
FulfillmentSatisfaction
0830-0930
CRITERIA OF SELF-FULFILMENT(Fitrah – Internal Compass)
In Life, We Do Things Which We Find Meaning / Purpose (Internal Compass)
Who Decide this “Purpose” Or “Meaning”?
To Direct-Coach a Child to Be a Khalifah fil Ard, A Parent Must First Commit to Strive to Practice the True Values
0830-0930
Recipe of Holistic Excellence(Every Excellent Family Starts with Excellent Parenting)
Child's Disciplined Action
Disciplined Action without Disciplined Ummah is impossible to sustain, and Disciplined Action without Disciplined Thought is a recipe for disaster.
Child's Disciplined Action
Disciplined Action without Disciplined Ummah is impossible to sustain, and Disciplined Action without Disciplined Thought is a recipe for disaster.
Disciplined UmmahDisciplined Ummah
Child's Disciplined Thought
Parent learn to manage self-thoughtLearn to generate constructive environmentLearn to coach child's thought
Child's Disciplined Thought
Parent learn to manage self-thoughtLearn to generate constructive environmentLearn to coach child's thought
Visionary Parents focus primarily on winning (bettering) themselves.
Collins, J. (2001). Good to great. HarperCollins Publishers Inc
0830-0930
THANKS YOU
VERY GOOD
I WILL KILL YOU
YOU ARE NO GOOD
A MESSAGE FROM WATERPROF MASARU EMOTO
(NEURO-LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING)
0830-0930
A MESSAGE FROM WATERVIDEO CLIP: THE RESEARCH
0830-0930
A MESSAGE FROM WATERVIDEO CLIP: THE MOVIE
0830-0930
HUMAN BODY COMPONENT 66% WATER(ON AVERAGE 37 LITRES OF H2O)
SCIENTIFIC FACTS:
~ Human brains are 75% water.~ Human bones are 25% water.~ Human blood is 83% water.
CRUCIAL QUESTIONS:
~ Can you feel the words we speak affect us first ?
~ Can you feel our recitation of dzikir, selawat, Quran affect us ?
~ Can you feel our recitation during our solat?
0830-0930
INTRODUCTION NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
NEURO – THOUGHTSASSOCIATIVE – RELATECONDITIONING - TRAINED
0830-0930
OUR BELIEF SYSTEM IS MADE UP OF NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
Our neurons are conditioned to associate situations into not so pleasurable (negative) or pleasurable (positive):
Storm – Not a Bright Day, Bad Day (Negative Mood)Monday – Working/School Day (Down Mode)Holiday – Rest Bonding (Positive Emotion)Watch Movies – Exciting Mood (Positive Emotion)Homework - ??? MoodCA1/SA1/CA2/SA2 - ??? MoodCane – Fear Mood (Negative Emotion)Red Mark in Child's Report Book – Child has a Problem (Negative Emotion)
0830-0930
We are conditioned to associate these with not so pleasurable (negative) or pleasurable (positive): “Life is a Test” - Hardship – Not so pleasurable“Children are mischievous” - Parenting is not pleasurable“Life/Children are Gift” - Very PleasurableWork – Hardship – Not pleasurableWork is an Amanah/Ibadah – Very Pleasurable
OUR BELIEF SYSTEM IS MADE UP OF NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
0830-0930
We are conditioned to associate these with not so pleasurable (negative) or pleasurable (positive): Serving – Hardship – Not so pleasurableHumble – Will always be bullied – NegativeAchievement – Needs highlight – Must be appreciated – PleasurableDifferences in Thoughts – DisobedienceNegative
OUR BELIEF SYSTEM IS MADE UP OF NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
0830-0930
These Words are Damaging: Late Bloomer, Stupid, Fat, Playful, Hyper, Slow, Old Man, Queen Control,Donkey, Monkey
These Questions are Damaging:“Where did you put your brain?”“Where am I going to hide my face?”“What is your problem?”
OUR BELIEF SYSTEM IS MADE UP OF NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
0830-0930
METAPHOR
METAPHOR ~ TWO VERY DIFFERENT OBJECTS ARE COMPARED
~ THE OBJECT OF COMPARISON AFFECT DIFFERENT EMOTIONS / FEELING
~ TO COACH / DEVELOP APPRECIATION FOR ABSTRACT CONCEPTS BECAUSE IT CONNECTS WELL WITH YOUNG MINDS
~ QURAN CONTAINS LOTS OF METAPHOR
0830-0930
EXAMPLE METAPHOR
HEART SMASHED – NOT THAT THE HEART IS BROKEN
MY HEART STOLEN – LOVE SICK
DISASTER – JUST ANOTHER BAD NEWS
“TRAPPED” - MAKE FEEL DESPARATE
0830-0930
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
Your Tour Agent says, “All booked ! If you don't mine...?”
GLOBAL METAPHOR 1
0830-0930
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
Your Tour Agent says, “All booked ! If you don't mine...?”
GLOBAL METAPHOR 1
What makes you cry?What makes you so upset?What is the last thing in your mind before you sleep?What is the first thing in your mind when you get up in the morning?What is in your mind when you perform your solat?
0830-0930
We Make Duas for Allah to Grant UsSuccess in “This Life” and “the Hereafter”
GLOBAL METAPHOR 1
Which is Which? Which is a Means ? Which is an End?But Our Thoughts Focus So Much “This Life” Joy & Happiness
Leaving No Room for “the Hereafter”0830-0930
NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING(Check Your Emotion)
2/5
GLOBAL METAPHOR 2
"Be in this life as if you were a stranger or a traveler on a path." [Reported by al-Bukhârî]
0830-0930
GLOBAL METAPHOREverything Serves Its Purpose, Including Our Hearts
2/5“I created man and jinn for no other purpose than to worship Me only.” (Dhariyat 51:56)
GLOBAL METAPHOR 3
0830-0930
GLOBAL METAPHOREverything Serves Its Purpose, Including Our Hearts
2/5“I created man and jinn for no other purpose than to worship Me only.” (Dhariyat 51:56)
GLOBAL METAPHOR 3
"Say: 'If your fathers or your sons or your brothers or your wives or your tribe, or any wealth you have acquired, or any business you fear may slump, or any dwelling-places which please you, are dearer to you than Allah and His Messenger and fighting hard in jihad in His Way, then wait until Allah brings about His command.'" (Quran 9:25)
0830-0930
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
A Boy & the Dream CarMETAPHOR 4
0830-0930
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
CAN YOU SEE THE RIGHT PATH?METAPHOR 5
0830-0930
PAINTING: A SCENE OF AN OLD FISH MARKET
0830-0930
POWERFUL PROCESS: FISH PHILOSOPHY
0830-0930
Choose
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Emotion 'Play' with them
Be there Make your
childrens' day
The FISH! Philosophy
“Catch the Energy & Release the Potential”0900-0945
0830-0930
Baking SessionEmotional Coaching
Activity 2
Parenting Workshop, 4 June, 8.30am-12.30pm(Facilitator Chef Sikin Supelan,Cake Couture II)
0930-1000
Baking SessionEmotional Coaching
Activity 2
Recipe:(1) Bismillahirohmanirohim. In the name of Allah, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate.(2) Imagine you are baking for the love one.(3) Imagine how much he/she will enjoy eating it.(4) Do this baking with passion. Trigger sense of significance.(5) Put a little smile into this baking. Trigger sense of connection.(6) Alhamdullillah. All ingredients are meant to make the best. Whether it is salt, sugar, floor, etc.
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop, 18 May, 9am-1pm
(Facilitator Chef Sikin Supelan,Cake Couture II)
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0930-1000
0930-1000
Anchor & Metaphor (Figure of Speech)(Learning Points)
(1) You began with “Bismillahirohmanirohim”, as you remind yourself that all ingredients (all experience which make you life wholesome) comes from The Most Merciful & the Most Compassionate - Salt, Sugar, Flour (are there to make your Tart tasty!) (2) METAPHOR: Life is like the salt, sugar, and the rest of the other ingredients which serve as filler of your life, which make your life more exciting (delicious) (3) Put a little of your smile at the beginning of every activity, snowball your smile into unstoppable passion.
(4) The joy of making tart can become an ANCHOR (To enjoy a PROCESS)
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop, 18 May, 9am-1pm
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TRIGGERING PLEASURABLEEXPERIENCE
EMOTIONAL COACHING
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1000-1045
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1000-1045
1. Certainty – feeling of comfort. Predictable2. Uncertainty – variety, surprise3. Significance – sense that we are unique in some
way4. Love and Sense of Connection with others5. Growth – everything that is alive is either
growing or dying… we need to grow6. Contribution – a need to grow beyond ourselves
What make them “Feel Good” behaving (Simplified)Children's Six Basic Source of Motivation
3/231000-1045
Experience Feel Good
Good for Me
Good for Immediate
Others
Serve greater Ummah
Class1 + + + +Class2 - + + +Class3 + - - -Class4 - - - -
Experience Class MatrixPleasurable & Fulfillment
Children look forward
Children try to avoid
‘Pleasurables’ butdestroy quality of life (e.g. Some Computer Games)
‘Negative’ thru & thru(e.g.smoking does not feel good at first)
Turn all Class 2 to Class 1 experience4/23
1000-1045
• The key to a happy and fulfilling life is turning Class 2 experiences – the ones your child try to avoid despite them being good for them and others – into Class 1 experiences.
Key to your child’s Happy & Fulfilling Life
5/231000-1045
ACTION : YES NO
Certainty – feeling of comfort. Predictable
Uncertainty – variety, surprise
Significance – sense that we are unique in some way
Love and Sense of Connection with others
Growth – everything that is alive is either growing or dying… we need to growContribution – a need to grow beyond ourselves
Seek Pleasure of Allah
Feel Good
Good for Me
Good for Immediate Others
Serve greater Ummah (Jemaah Synergy)
Decision Matrix for Each Action for a Child
6/231000-1045
ACTION : Baking Session YES NO
Certainty – feeling of comfort. Predictable
Uncertainty – variety, surpriseSignificance – sense that we are unique in some way
Love and Sense of Connection with others
Growth – everything that is alive is either growing or dying… we need to growContribution – a need to grow beyond ourselves
Seek Pleasure of Allah
Feel Good
Good for MeGood for Immediate Others
Serve greater Ummah (Jemaah Synergy)
Coaching* Emotion for Each Action
Coaching* - Each item may be based on individual perception therefore there is a need for coaching
Activity 3
7/231000-1045
PARENTING LIFE IS A CUP OF COFFEE
9/231000-1045
Parenting Life is Like a Cup of Coffee ! The happiest parents don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything. Live Simply. Love Unconditionally. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly. Don't miss to smile to your child daily.Above all, Alhamdullillah !
PARENTING LIFE IS A CUP OF COFFEE
10/231000-1045
ARE WE IN ATTENDANCE NOT ONLY IN PHYSICAL BUT MENTAL EMOTIONAL SPIRITUAL ?
DISCONNECT TO CONNECT !
11/23 1000-1045
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
SpiritualSocialEmotion
Response to Parenting StyleFamily Response-AblePersonal AccomplishmentMindful & Heartful Parenting
PARENTS' STATE
NEURO ASSOCIATIVE
CONDITIONING
12/23 1000-1045
Tarbiyah Parenting Recipe• Major tarbiyah objective for parenting is to Major tarbiyah objective for parenting is to
nurturenurture strong character strong character withinwithin our children. In our children. In other word, strength of a Muslimin comes from other word, strength of a Muslimin comes from within. within.
Ruhiyah(Spiritual)
Khuluqiyah (Moral)
Amaliyah (Operational)
Jasadiyah (Physical)
Fikriyah (Intellectual)
13/23 1000-1045
PREPARING & COOKING WEDDING FEAST
(1) Imagine that you are preparing a feast for 5000 guests
(2) You take charge of every part of feast preparation
(3) Trigger the feeling / emotion of joy of preparation
(4) Trigger the feeling of connection to your guest
(5) Trigger the feeling of how significance this event is
(6) Trigger the feeling of passion.
(7) Are you Fueled ? Are Driven ? Are you excited ?
15/23 1000-1045
PREPARING A CHILD'S WEDDING CEREMONY
(1) Exhausting process, a lot of sacrifices but you are passionate about it.
(2) You are very certain you have given your best
(3) Nothing to regret
(4) Outcome is very fulfilling
16/23 1000-1045
PREPARING & COOKING HARI RAYA FEAST
(1) Imagine that you are preparing a Hari Raya feast for guests
(2) Trigger the feeling / emotion of joy of preparation
(3) Trigger the feeling of connection to your guest
(4) Trigger the feeling of how significance this event is
(5) Trigger the feeling of passion.
(6) Are you Fueled ? Are Driven ? Are you excited ?
17/23 1000-1045
EMOTIONAL TRANSFERTRANSFER YOUR PASSION TO AN ACTIVITY YOU
WOULD LOVE TO ENJOY DOING
(1) Imagine that you are preparing a Hari Raya feast for guests
(2) Trigger the feeling / emotion of joy of preparation
(3) Trigger the feeling of connection to your guest
(4) Trigger the feeling of how significance this event is
(5) Trigger the feeling of passion.
(6) Are you Fueled ? Are Driven ? Are you excited ?
GLOBAL METAPHOR: PREPARING A FEAST18/23
1000-1045
Activity 4: Scenario 1Chart Your Feelings
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NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
20/23 1000-1045
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NEURO CRITERIA (Experience Reference)
- When “this” happens it means “this”- Becomes “SOP” - Standard Operating Procedure- Establish into personal standards- Ensure [No Violation] of standards
NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONING
21/23 1000-1045
Activity 4: Scenario 1Chart Your Feelings
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NEURO LINGUISTIC (WORDS) IMPACT ON OUR LIFE'S EXPERIENCE
(Prof Alfred Korzybski)
Prof Alfred Korzybski, "I have just demonstrated that people don't just eat food, but also words, and that the taste of the former is often outdone by the taste of the latter."
23/23 1000-1045
DHUHA BREAK30 Minutes
1045-1115
Four Common Responses to Emotion
EXPERIENCE
EMOTION(1) Avoid emotion
(2) Deny emotion but pile up in the heart
(3) “You think That you are feeling bad, I will show you how I feel.”
(4) Take “Emotion” as Action Signal and change state
1115-1145
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Four Common Responses to Emotion
EXPERIENCE
EMOTION(1) Avoid emotion
(2) Deny emotion but pile up in the heart
(3) “You think That you are feeling bad, I will show you how I feel.”
(4) Take “Emotion” as Action Signal and change state
2/321115-1145
EMOTIONAL WARDROBECoaching in the Conditioning of Neuro Association
Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
ANGRYANGRYANGRYANGRY
One-Size-Fits-All-Emotion
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Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
EMOTIONAL WARDROBE(Colourful Clothing for Different Weather)
FEARFUL
REGRETFUL
HOPEFUL
JOYFUL
PLEASURE
HONOURED
EMO WARDROBE
4/32
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Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
EMOTIONAL WARDROBE(Colourful Clothing for Different Weather)
PROCESS
Change your current thinking about life's situations.
When you change your thoughts (ones that you believe to be true) your emotions change - your mood changes.
You can do this by re-evaluating the situation; redirecting your focus to more balanced and realistic and compassionate thoughts. 5/32
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Spiritual Social Emotional Parenting Workshop
EMOTIONAL WARDROBE(Colourful Clothing for Different Weather)
Remind yourself that
- "People are doing the best they can do at every moment; given their current circumstances."
- "I don;'t know what others are going through and perhaps they need patience from me at this moment - just like I may need patience from others at times."
- "We are all the same at heart - we just want to live better lives."
- "Everyone is just like me - they are trying their best and sometimes accidents happen." etc...
6/321115-1145
EMOTIONAL WARDROBE
You are here to make a difference in the life of others
Register these feelings:(1) You have received soMuch(2) Others are less fortunate than you(3) Every charityAllah multiplies
8/32 1115-1145
EMOTIONAL WARDROBE
Imagine Your Child's First Few Minutes After Birth
Register these feelings:(1) Pleasant Joy(2) Tremendous Amanah(3) Excitement(4) Looking Forward
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EMOTIONAL WARDROBE
Solat ExperienceUnderstand Al Fateha, Surah andAll Recitation in Solat
Trigger these feelings:(1) Fear(2) Shameful(3) Smallness(4) Loads of Shortcomings(5) This is Last Solat(6) Mikraj of Rasullullah SAW
Rasullullah SAW said, "To worship Allah as if you see Him, and if you cannot achieve this state of devotion then you must consider that He is seeing you."
10/32
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Imagine Your Excitement due to Your Departure(At Changi Airport Terminal 3)
Trigger the Feeling of Happiest Moment of Your Life
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NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONINGEverything Serves Its Purpose, Including Our Hearts
2/5“I created man and jinn for no other purpose than to worship Me only.” (Dhariyat 51:56)
GLOBAL METAPHOR 3
Condition Our Childrens' Heart to Associate
Seeking Allah's Pleasure as Child's Pleasure
Reciting Quran as Child's Pleasure
Solat as Child's Pleasure
Role Model of Rasullullah SAW as Child's Pleasure
13/32
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NEURO ASSOCIATIVE CONDITIONINGEverything Serves Its Purpose, Including Our Hearts
2/5“I created man and jinn for no other purpose than to worship Me only.” (Dhariyat 51:56)
GLOBAL METAPHOR 3
Condition Our Childrens' Heart to Associate
Allah's Words / Promise in Quran as Source of Certainty
Test of Hardship as Child's Pleasure
Spreading Truth as Child's Pleasure
Spreading Beauty of Islam thru Good Character as Child's Pleasure
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THIS IS NEURO ACTIVATION EXERCISE
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WHAT A PERSON DOES TO EMOTION MATTERS(SELF-SABOTAGE - ZHALIM)
2/20 1145-1230
FOR THE AMERICAN, THIS IS THEIR ICON OF SUCCESS
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EMOTIONAL RESPONSE CAN CAUSE SELF- DESTRUCTION
4/20 1145-1230
A family of a father, a mother and 3 children driving across a highway, and met 4 people along the way,bro 'Money', bro 'High-Pay-Job', bro 'Deen', Mr :(
DEATH METAPHORTHE STORY OF A JOURNEY
1/20 1145-1230
“The day whereon neither wealth nor sons will avail, but only he [will prosper] that brings to Allah a sound heart (Qolbun Salim).”
(Al Quran 26:88–89)
Qolbun SalimQualities of Heart and Mind
9/20 1145-1230
USE
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NMANIPULATIVE(S)
STRING/RIBBON, WHITE CLOTH, CARD
MY JOB SCOPE
HOW LONG HAVE I LIVED?
1145-1230
NEURO ACTIVATIONWASIAT FROM MY MUM
5/20 1145-1230
If you can ONLY write 3 last reminders to yourchildren, what would that be:(1)(2)(3)
Spend last 3 minutes of your life, pen your thoughts from your heart.
ACTIVITY 5THE LAST MESSAGE
WASIATS
6/20 1145-1230
PARENTING IS A GIFT FOR LIMITED TIME ONLY
11/20 1145-1230
PARENTING IS A GIFT FOR LIMITED TIME ONLY
12/20 1145-1230
You are not able to choose how you die. BUT you can choose how you live.13/20
1145-1230
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Imagine . . .(Reflection)
15/20 1145-1230
Imagine . . .(Reflection)
16/20 1145-1230
WHEN EVERYTHING IS TOO LATE
17/20 1145-1230
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HEART ACTIVATION TIMEFOR PEAK PERFORMANCE
19/20 1145-1230
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