session 25 mp3 96k - amazon s3 · 2012-07-02 ·...
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ELAINE NEUGEBAUER: Okay, good morning. I’m Elaine Neugebauer, educational consultant at the PaTTAN Pittsburgh office. Welcome to A Cultural Competency Journey. We have three folks here today that are going to share their journey and their roles in that journey. And we’re going to start with Dr. Gretchen Generett, and she comes to us from Duquesne University’s Educational Foundations department. And through her teaching and qualitative research, she prepares teachers to effectively instruct a diverse population of learners.
We also have Mr. Dennis Cullen, who’s an educational consultant out of the King of Prussia office. And we also have Dr. DeVoka Gordon, who’s an EITA, early intervention consultant out of the PaTTAN Pittsburgh office. And both consultants support teachers in providing effective instruction supports to their learners.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Thank you so much, Elaine. I appreciate that. And welcome. Thank you all for taking time to come and be with us today. It is a real pleasure to be here to share with you a journey, a process that I was blessed to be a part of with PaTTAN consultants from this great state. You see our title, so we’re just going to go through. I’m going to take some time to talk about the process, how it was developed, how I came to meet all these wonderful people.
And then I’m going to have Dennis and DeVoka chime in and talk a bit about their experience. And we also have some folks in the audience who was a part of our learning group, and they too will be called to share their experiences. It’s not a surprise to them. I told them about five minutes ago. So they have been warned.
Okay, so how did this all get started? Dr. Jim Palmiero, who is the director of PaTTAN Pittsburgh, contacted me about over a year and a half ago. And Jim and I were colleagues working in previous lives before I joined the faculty at Duquesne and before he came -‐-‐ before he became the director at PaTTAN. We had worked on a project together around culture issues before.
And so when Jim called me, he said, Gretchen, we need to talk. So I said, sure Jim, let’s talk. It’s been a while. I haven’t talked to you in a couple years. He said, you know, I think we have some issues, we have a problem that we’ve identified, and I want to get your take on it, all right? So I came out to the office. And so anytime you’re embarking upon a journey, a process, you have to identify the problem, right? I didn’t identify the problem. The folks at PaTTAN did, all right. And I was just invited in, which is why I felt so fortunate to be a part of this.
So we’ll talk a bit more about the problem later on. He said to me when I met with him, and I also met with Donna Westbrooks-‐Martin at that time, he said to me, look, there’s some disparities that we’ve identified. We want to do a better job of training and working with folks to address those issues. And we want to start with the consultants, so we want to kind of do this process to see if we have our consultants go through an experience, that we might be able to replicate out in our work. So I said, okay, talk a little bit more.
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And he said, I want us to engage in an authentic learning process. I looked at Jim and I said, really? And he said, yes, I want it to be authentic. And I asked him again, I said, really? He said, yes. I said, Donna, you hear that? And he’s like, yeah. Because generally when people say they want an authentic learning experience, what they really want are the outcomes that they’ve predicted that they need, right? And if you’re going through anything authentic, you can’t predict what the outcomes are going to be, right?
So I wrote that down because I knew I would need it later. So engaging in an authentic learning process, that’s what we did, all right? And so we’ll talk more about that, okay. So what I said to him, I said, okay, let’s think about what we want to do. And he said, well, let’s talk about cultural competency. I said, okay, let’s talk about cultural competency.
Now in my field where I work, there are lots of different ways of talking about cultural competency, lots of different names. You might have heard culturally relevant pedagogy. Anybody heard that? Culturally relevant, culturally responsive. Right, we’ve heard all those. What are some other names that you’ve heard when you think about cultural competency? You are all in the field. You all know, right? They can come to mind.
We were working from a definition of cultural competence, all right? And we were thinking about it in broad terms because we want people -‐-‐ we wanted -‐-‐ we knew, again, if we were being authentic, that we wanted people to be able to hook into it, right, to hook into this definition. But we also needed a common starting place. So this is -‐-‐ this was our common starting place. Cultural and linguistic competence is a set of congruent behaviors, attitudes, and policies that comes together to assist an agency or among professionals that enables effective work in cross-‐cultural situations. Very broad, very general, right? And so I said, okay, that’s where we’re starting. We’re going to dig in deep into that. That’s where we started, with our definitions.
All right, so one of the things I said to him, I said, look Jim, you can’t make people come to this. He said, why? I’m the director. I can make people come. And I said, no, authentic, remember? We want people to want to come because they also believe there’s a problem. And he said, okay, Gretchen, but we know. I said, wait Jim. I said, I’ve done this long enough to know that I don’t want to have to convince anybody that there are disparities in schools. I said, fortunately I’m in a position now where I get to work with people who actually think that there are and who actually are wanting to address those disparities.
And I said, and that’s who we want to start with. I said, we want to start with those folks because you said you want to model behaviors that you want to see out in the field. All right, so I said, we want to create, we want to invite people to come, all right? We want to say, come be with us. Come learn with us. Let’s learn together.
All right, so this was a very open process. Now I will say to you and you will hear from Dennis and DeVoka and Michael and David and Donna, I don’t know what was going on behind the scenes at PaTTAN, right? But I believe that everyone wanted to be there. And that’s the story I’m sticking to.
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So creating a trusting and transparent learning community, we have asked Jim and Donna to send out invitations to people to say, look, we’re doing this. This is who we’re working with. So we had some volunteers to come and say, okay, we’ll do this. And we started off with a nice, intimate group of people. And I rode down to Harrisburg in October the following year, so fast forward a year after my initial conversation with Jim and Donna. And we started off. So we did a couple things. We set some group norms and we set an agenda during that first day based upon some of the disparity data that we had. I’m going to move over here, so I think that’s okay with the camera. Okay.
So some group norms. These are group norms that I put together because I knew we were going to be talking about difficult issues. Anytime you put people in a room to talk across differences, and I mean any kind of difference, right? You can talk across gender. You can talk across race. You can talk across socio-‐economics. You can talk about sexual orientation. Anytime you put people together in a room where you have difference, you need to -‐-‐ and you want to be honest, right, in a professional context, you need to establish some group norms.
All right, and so that’s what I did. I put down a list of norms and I said, can we all agree to this? All right, so here was our list. Listen actively, meaning don’t text. Don’t write your to-‐do list for when you get home that includes picking up a dozen eggs, right? So really actively listening. Speaking from your own experiences. It’s really hard in a professional context to talk from your own experiences. We’ve been told to take the self out of this, right? But we need to do that in this kind of work. So speaking from your own personal experiences, not being afraid to respectfully challenge.
One of the best things in my life is my group of critical friends. That’s what I call them. They love me enough to be honest with me. Gretchen, that dress looks awful. Do not go out like that. Because then when I go out, I’d be like, why’d you let me go out like that? Right? So critical friends, right, this idea that we want to respectfully challenge one another. Now you can imagine how hard that can be at work, right? Participate to the fullest of your ability. And there are more if I can get this to click. Okay. All right, there we go.
So this idea too -‐-‐ now here’s something that is really hard, right? Because we’re all educators and want people to feel good about what they’re saying, right? So we’re like, yeah, validating other people by sharing, you know -‐-‐ by focusing on their story. So we wanted people to think about instead of validating someone else’s story with your own spin on what you think you heard them say, right, share your own words and your own experiences. Okay, this happens a lot. It happens very quickly where people will reword what you say, right, as opposed to speaking from their own positions. Okay?
I let people know that I believe that the goal of our group was not to have to agree, but that we were really looking for a deeper understanding and more meaningful learning in the process. And I also said, be conscious of your body language. Oh, this is so hard. I do it all the time. I have this exercise with my students where I tell them where they’re doing an interview or they’re listening to someone, and they can’t make any body movements at all. They can’t -‐-‐ have to be totally stoic, right?
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So if I’m interviewing you and you’re telling me -‐-‐ I ask you a question about, tell me about your experience at the implementer’s forum? You’re telling me and I just have to look at you. That’s very hard to do, right? People are like, that’s really scary, Dr. Generett. You look really mean and evil when you do that. But the idea is that we’re always giving people unconscious feedback through our body language, right? Whether we agree, like yeah, keep going with that. Or like, I don’t really agree with that. Let me write my to-‐do list, right?
This idea of being conscious of your body language again. So here’s the thing about group norms. And Dennis and DeVoka will speak to this and maybe right now. Should we go -‐-‐ so it was hard sometimes to keep up with the group norms, so.
DENNIS CULLEN: Yeah, absolutely. The one thing that I can say is that we did accomplish the goal of not do it great. We made that one, which was great. The other thing that was challenging, and I think we’re going to talk about this a little bit later, is that it was -‐-‐ we ended up having to do some virtual meetings or go-‐to meetings, video conferences. So it was really hard to have that authentic experience when you are doing this via video.
It was also sometimes challenging when you work with these people, you’re friendly with these people and when you had to call somebody out on not, you know, going by the norms. We had an experience one day, and it was a video conference. We had an experience where someone was typing during our conversation. And you could hear the click, click, click, click, click, click. And I said, wow, you know, that’s really loud when you’re -‐-‐ and the person said, how did you know that was me? I’m like, I can hear it through the -‐-‐ and I can see your hands doing this. So calling folks out when they were not meeting our expectations was challenging.
And I think one of the other challenges, and I’ll let DeVoka speak, and I think this is going to come up again too, is having somebody who’s in a position of authority in the group and having to relinquish that position of authority to be a member of this group so that the idea was that we were all supposed to be equal members in here. And so having to call somebody out who is a supervisor or a director when he or she is not meeting the norms can present some challenges. Because while, yeah, you’re in that role during that time, outside of that time, you know, that person’s still the boss. So that’s something to think about if you are going to go on a journey like this whether you are an administrator or you’re going to be working with an administrator that your role is going to be very different as a part of this group. You’re all equals.
DEVOKA GORDON: Thanks, Dennis. I work for the EITA, which is the -‐-‐ I’m sorry, I have allergies this morning, so I sound like I’ve been crying, but not really. Which is the Early Intervention Technical Assistance. So when this is -‐-‐ our cultural group consists of school-‐age and it consists of preschool and Head Start. So I work with the younger children. [inaudible]. Interesting putting this group together because everyone in the group had their own perspective and was coming from a different experience. So supporting those experiences -‐-‐ and sometimes it was blood on the walls when we left. I mean, because it was just you had to open up the doors and let the heat out because it was just that intense.
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And that’s okay. And that’s okay to agree to disagree. It’s okay to come away -‐-‐ because then what it did was in the next meeting, you came back, you said, you know, I do understand now. You know, I do see. So you go away grumpy, and you come back and you think about it. And you come back with a different experience. It’s okay, like I said, to agree to disagree. And even if you never come to a consensus, that’s all right because that’s your experience. And to allow that person to speak from experience, you cannot negate that because it’s mine and I’ve taken that step of trust with you. And that was when the group started to trust that confidentiality [inaudible] I know something in the group, but I can’t share it with you. What was going outside, we can’t tell. We can’t tell you. You know, but that confidentiality and that trust that you have with one another that I’m baring my soul to you, in part, and I expect you to keep that confidentiality.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: And the other awesome part about this and why it was such a privilege for me to work with this group is because I truly was a facilitator, right? And so there would be times when in the group norms, I also would have to be called to the carpet. And I remember actually after our first session going, oh gosh, I didn’t do -‐-‐ I didn’t stop somebody, right, from doing something they weren’t supposed to do. And I came back and apologized to the group and said, hey, let’s go back over the group norms. You see how easy it is to mess this up, right, or not to do it? And so -‐-‐ or to relearn behaviors or unlearn certain behaviors. So that part was also quite nice for me as well.
So what we know from the data, I mean, that’s a whole other session, right? But I just want to share a bit about some of the places that we started. We started because, you know, cultural competence, culturally responsive education, whatever you want to call it, it is potentially -‐-‐ I actually believe it is, is a way for us to address these disparities, right? A way for us to really begin to think about why are we having so many students of color, so many poor kids, right, getting referrals regardless of what their context is. Right?
So this is not just an urban problem or a rural problem. We know from research that even when kids are middle class and in suburban areas, if you’re brown in those contexts, you are more likely to be referred for behavior issues. Right?
So what we need -‐-‐ what we said in this process was we want to figure out what is it that we can do. We can’t change home environment. We can’t change external factors before they come into the room. Okay, let’s just put that out. I don’t want to hear anything about parents, right? I don’t want to hear anything about the economic crisis, right? I want when they walk through the door, right, what can we as educators do?
So we just started with the data, and we also spoke intentionally about what it means for kids to become a part of these behavior paradigms. Like if a kid is suspended in third grade, what does that mean for him or her by the time they’re 18 years old, you know? And people are basing real decisions on outcomes that we have. So policymakers are deciding how many jails to build based upon how many kids are suspended in fourth grade. We know that from data, all right? So we have a crisis, folks, and we need to figure out what we can do to stop pipelines in the prison systems, for example.
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So this data, if you don’t know it, go learn it, okay? Go learn it. And so that’s why we were doing this work. Now some of my other work as a professional looks at powerful learning experiences for adults, right? So what do we do? Like we know we can talk about how we get -‐-‐ how we motivate kids, right? But it’s much harder to work with young adults as I do when I get like 18, 19-‐year-‐olds in my class who think LBJ stands for LeBron James, all right? Like no, it doesn’t. No, no, I’m talking about my undergraduates.
To graduate students, right, we’re talking about folks who have already had certain learning experiences. They’ve been somewhat successful at learning, right? They know they’re smart. They’ve been validated in certain ways. And so how do you craft meaningful learning experiences so that you have outcomes?
And so I’ve worked with the National Group and we’ve put together some things. And so this is where I was pulling some of my curriculum decisions from based upon what I know about powerful learning experiences working with adults. And what we know is they do need to be authentic. Again, why I felt so privileged. They need to be authentic, meaningful, relevant to the profession, relevant problems. And they have to find links between theory and principal practice, right? So the idea that you need to find theories -‐-‐ oh, did I do that? No? I’m unplugged, okay. You need to find connections between the theories that you have heard about or are learning about, to what is actually happening in the building, okay, where you’re working or in your office. Okay? There’s some other stuff.
Okay, so we’ll go down. It requires collaboration and interdependence. We don’t like to work so low, right? This idea that you really need to create an experience that centers this idea that we learn from and with each other. Okay? You have to create something that empowers learners that also demonstrates that they are responsible for their own learning. Okay? So this might sound familiar with some of the work that you’ve done with your own -‐-‐ in your own education arenas.
Involve sense-‐making around critical problems of practice. You look there to the far right, develops confidence in leadership. We are all leaders. So it doesn’t matter if I’m working with undergraduates or graduate students. You need to see yourself as having the potential, if you already are not, to be a leader, all right? That’s how you feel good about what you’re saying and confident in what you’re saying.
Places both the professor or facilitator and the student in a learning situation. So nobody’s all-‐knowing. I’m not depositing any information into people, right? I’m building upon experiences. Going down to that bottom-‐right, it has a reflective component. You look there in the middle column at the bottom, it shifts perspective. When we’re thinking about schools, right, it shifts perspective from the classroom to the school to the district to the state level. Okay, so when we’re working in education, we have to be able to understand how the problem that we are looking at is impacted and affected at every level. Okay, so cultural competence, what is the impact in the classroom? What’s the impact in the school building? What’s the impact at the district level? And what does it look like at the state level? Okay?
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And I saved this one in the middle for last because it’s in the center. It’s at the center of everything that we do right now for powerful learning experiences for adults. Explores, critiques, and deconstructs from an equity perspective, right? That’s got to be at the center of everything you do when you’re looking at problems, critical problems in education right now. All right? So it can go across race, across culture, across language, across abilities. But you’ve got to look at it from an equity perspective, right? How are kids experiencing this in equitable ways? Or are they? You got to ask that question.
Okay, so here’s an example of one of our days together: November 9th, 2011. We started out talking about our own development, right. We started out the title of that workshop that day -‐-‐ and we were together four hours that day? I think four hours, a four-‐hour timeslot that we were together. We were looking at individual, systematic, and structural barriers.
So individually, we might have our own barriers based upon our own narratives. We did a lot of deconstruction of personal narratives, whether you come from a position of privilege, talked a lot about privilege, around race, around ability, around socio-‐economic class. Or oppression, looking at how you have been historically marginalized as an individual or as a member of a historically oppressed group, okay?
So we said that this work is dynamic, it’s complex, and it’s multi-‐faceted. Hard stuff. This is one DeVoka was talking about stuff on the walls. This is where we got into it. So we talked a bit again, defining words. And I said to people, I said, you may not like all these words we’re going to use, but I’m going to give you some tools to get past that. Because we need a common language, okay? Again, we need some language that we can use to describe experiences.
So one of the words, one of the common words we used was to talk about oppression. And that’s not a pretty word, right? Nobody feels warm and fuzzy when they hear the word oppression, all right? But again, they volunteered, right? I always fall back on that. So oppression, what is oppression? By definition, it’s a system that maintains advantage and disadvantage based on a stereotypical social group of membership.
Now it also operates on individual, institutional, and social and cultural levels. Now one of the things we knew from previous work was that we oftentimes stop with this definition at the individual level, right? I’m not a racist, dot, dot, the end. I’m not sexist. All right? That’s where we stop with that analysis, okay? So we wanted to dig deeper into that. What’s happening in institutions, right? What’s happening on our social cultural level?
All right, so what does it create? So we talk about definition. Well, what happens if, again, we all agree that there are disparities and there’s some oppression going on? What does it create? Well, what it creates are disadvantages for certain groups and privilege for other groups. One plus one equals two. That’s what happens. It’s just [inaudible]. If that oppression exists, then we have advantage and disadvantage.
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And what we have by definition, if we understand that there’s disadvantage and privilege, what privilege equals is unearned, unasked for, and often invisible benefits and advantages not available to members of the marginalized group. So in your work, think about who’s disadvantaged, right? And in your work, think about their experiences and think about how they struggle to navigate what is not visible. Okay? One plus one equals two.
So we start -‐-‐ we worked around these definitions in that way. Again, this is all happening November 9th, 2011. Different levels of marginalization. We talked about how it could happen. Individual acts, institutional policy, practice and norms. And then at the cultural level around cultural assumptions, norms, and practices. And I want Dennis and DeVoka to maybe talk about how we deconstructed these different levels as a group. Because we worked at every level to begin to make visible the invisible. Okay? So we didn’t want to walk out of that room with people guessing about, you know, Casper the friendly ghost who we can see, right? We wanted to make visible what is generally invisible, okay. So Dennis, talk a little bit about that.
DENNIS CULLEN: Just from a personal level, this was probably the most powerful day for me in the journey that we went through. And I’m not sure, you know, this is kind of an afternoon at the improv. I’m not sure how this is all going to go and where we’re going to be ending, but one of the things that -‐-‐ and I think it was around this day that I started to realize for me, or I started to realize just how white I am and what that really means. Just not being aware of my own race and the privileges that came with -‐-‐ comes with that until this day.
So one of the things, we read an article, and I forget which article it was. It wasn’t the Macintosh one, I don’t think so, but it was one -‐-‐ and perhaps it was. But there was a statement in the article that -‐-‐ something to the effect that we are -‐-‐ it was the Macintosh one. That whites are systematically taught their privilege, something around that line. And I really had a hard time with this statement. And I brought it up in our group and I said to Gretchen, you know, I don’t -‐-‐ it’s not like somebody gathers us all together and says, listen, you’re white, and with that comes this, that, and the other thing.
And I didn’t understand what the statement really meant until Gretchen described it as part of, you know, when you think about curriculum and you think about history books and you think about what is being taught to our kids, it’s very much from a white perspective. And so, oh, okay, that like -‐-‐ but reading that article and just reading that sentence, if I was by myself during this journey, would have been very a different experience for me. But having the experience of the facilitator here with a different perspective on it and able to give me the information that I needed to make more sense of that was really helpful.
So this was a really, really powerful day for me to think about, because you’re absolutely right. I mean, I think, you know, I’m not racist, and that was the end of my sentence. And then when I started thinking about it, you know, well institutionally and culturally, you know, with regards to curriculum and things that would affect the students with whom I’m working each day, it was very different. David?
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DAVID: I’m actually not prepared for this at all. Gretchen asked me to speak about my experience relative to this. And I was at some disadvantage because I missed a couple of the meetings, but the ones that I attended, I always prided myself into being -‐-‐ at least thinking that I was very much attuned and experienced and knowledgeable about diversity. And I had -‐-‐ I have to be very honest with you. When I first heard the concept about white privilege, I never really thought of it. I truly never really thought of it that way.
So as we went through the process and we had various stories being told, I was like, oh yeah. Yeah, exactly. And I’m still kind of wrestling with this because I really kind of thought I knew what I was doing and thinking in this respect. But I was truly clueless on a couple of things, so it was a real eye opener to me. And it was -‐-‐ I just thought it was a process that everybody should go through, truly. And I mean everybody, support staff, professional staff. It was just -‐-‐ it was very emotional because you really -‐-‐ it’s a self-‐reflection. And that’s hard to do. I mean, know thyself, it’s very, very tough to be very critical and honest with yourself sometimes. And this makes you do that if you’re willing to go down the journey.
And it’s not easy, and it’s really not easy at all, but I think it’s so important for folks to just become, if nothing more than become more aware of your own feelings and your own reactions and your own behavior, and how you treat other people and how you envision or as you interpret other people. You know, dealing with other folks. It was just -‐-‐ I think it was very worthwhile. And I’ll think of a few other things to say later.
DONNA: And I think part of the process that was probably the most powerful for me was to watch colleagues of mine watch -‐-‐ I watched them, and then they watched me go through what ended up being a painful process. And it was interesting because some of the conversation as a result of this process has changed drastically, dramatically. And we see some of that, the changes, in the work that we are now doing.
And so when we started this process, I was having a conversation with a colleague. And when I mentioned the notion of being privileged, because here I was, an African-‐American woman talking to a white man who so easily just threw this stuff out and couldn’t understand why I was sitting back, not really contributing. And he’s just going on and on and on and on and on. And when I finally said, wow, that’s all of your white privilege talking. I don’t have that. I can’t contribute to this conversation because I don’t have it. And the look in his eyes was just kind of stunned. And then it became very painful.
But the plus in all of it is that as we all went through this painful process, I watched each and every one of us kind of evolve and kind of change. And the way we address the work that we do now is very different as a result of the painful process. But it was certainly worthwhile. It was very much worthwhile, absolutely.
MICHAEL: I wanted to follow Donna. I wanted her to go first. A self-‐reflection on me, about two or three meetings into this, I talked to Donna, who’s a colleague. And she says, you know, every morning I wake up and I say to myself, I am a black person, I’m a black woman, and I’m going to go through my day. And
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I just looked at her and I don’t do that. I don’t wake up and say, I’m a white guy and I have privilege. And it was just -‐-‐ it just really stuck with me.
DENNIS CULLEN: I just want to say one thing about -‐-‐ I mean, folks keep talking about what a painful process it was. It wasn’t like root canal or surgery without anesthesia. But what made the process less painful, and I’m going to actually disagree, I didn’t think it was painful. I found it really exciting and challenging. It was challenging I think might be a better word. For me, for my experience it was challenging. But the trust that was built through Gretchen’s facilitation and establishing those norms and making sure that we kept to those norms made the process less challenging. I can’t say painful. It wasn’t painful for me. And again, that’s my experience.
DONNA: Can I just say this about the painful part? I do believe it was painful initially, because anytime you turn around and look at yourself and the things that you’ve been doing for 40-‐some years -‐-‐ Dennis is 47 years old. For 40-‐some years, and you’re thinking that you were walking through this earth doing certain types of things and you think you were positively impacting. And then when you turn around and look at yourself through someone else’s lenses, it’s painful to go, oh wow, I can’t believe I did that. I can’t believe I said that. I can’t believe I believed that. And that was the painful part.
But I do agree with Dennis in that through facilitation and talking and building trusting relationships, it went from being very painful to becoming very challenging to then becoming very rewarding in that now we have this trusting relationship where we can have these conversations. And they are more rewarding than they were ever painful in the end.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: I think one of the things too that in my own work and my own experiences I have come to believe is that, you know, I work with teachers, I work with educators, you know, administrators. This idea that, you know, most of us are wounded, like our biggest wounds are through relationships, right? And truly the only thing that can heal those wounds are better relationships.
And so if we start from that as educators in the work that we’re doing, whatever content, whatever materials we’re trying to get students to learn or adults to take on, we know that they’re more likely to retain the information. Right? So that’s what this work ultimately is, and it goes right back to when we want people to have positive behaviors, right? To have those outcomes that we ultimately want to look at.
So we talked about looking at people’s practice in a classroom, looking at how we might have these disparities come out year after year after year. You know, we’re looking at 50 years’ worth of disparities since people have been keeping track on certain data points, right? We talked about this matrix. And this matrix was helpful in helping us think about sort of how people maybe sort of isolated it -‐-‐ or I shouldn’t say isolated. May be a part of a privileged social group, right? Or they may be a part of an oppressed social group.
So if we looked at this, and I handed out a -‐-‐ I have a handout that we gave you which was part of one of the exercises that we did on this day. And there’s a stack at the end of the table for you. But
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from this work, you might see like -‐-‐ you might be privileged in one area, right, and oppressed in another. Right? So this idea that everyone is in every context privileged is not true. I’m a university professor. When I stand in front of my students, you know, I might be an African-‐American woman, right? But at that moment, I’m in power in front of those 20 students, right? Because I’m in charge of that curriculum. I get to determine their grade. So in that context, that oppression doesn’t fit.
So we have to be mindful of the ways in which we are positioned. We talk about in theory some certain positionalities. So while, you know, David said, I never thought of myself as privileged. Well, you don’t have to think of yourself in that way in order to get the benefits that come with it, right? I don’t have to think of myself as able-‐bodied to be able to walk in through the steps on the steps into this building and not have to make sure that it’s wheelchair accessible.
So again, when we’re in a classroom, when teachers are in there and they’re making some assumptions or they’re having certain practices, kids are taking in everything that they’re doing and they are repeating, what we call repetition. They’re repeating what they see and hear teachers do and how teachers are interacting with kids all the time. Right? So we see that happen.
So that matrix was a way -‐-‐ oh, I’m sorry, I went backwards. Now the worksheet that you have allows for you to sort of think about your own identity. And if you look on one side, it gives an example of sort of you looking at whether or not you see yourself as advantaged or targeted. That’s the language that this worksheet uses, but we talked about privileged or marginalized. But advantaged or targeted based upon those social categories that are there on the sheet on the left side. Okay?
And so we had people during this day sort of do their identity wheel on the other side. They had to slice up their pie based upon how often they did -‐-‐ you know, he doesn’t wake up and see -‐-‐ think of himself as a white person. So his slice of the pie for that had to be really thin, right? Around race. And then once you slice up your pie, then put in there whether advantaged or -‐-‐ or targeted or advantaged goes with that slice based upon the groups that you did, okay?
And invariably, what you will see is that if you are advantaged, that slice is a lot smaller, right? If you’re targeted, your slice is a lot bigger because it takes up -‐-‐ as Donna said, that energy that you’re using each day to navigate the world as a person who’s been historically marginalized is a part of just how you operate, right? So that exercise was really powerful. I see Michael back there. You want to share any and all? You can come around. Again, I’m pulling people in because I think their words are much more powerful than mine. But that exercise was quite eye-‐opening to people, as you can imagine. Do you want to share a little bit about that?
MICHAEL: Sure. It truly was a five-‐minute warning, but I’m glad you asked me about this piece because this was one of the parts of working through this group that was really meaningful for me. Because in the work that we do, there are times that I felt I’m trying to support others in their growth along this journey, but sometimes it felt like opposition in terms of just what was being said earlier. I am not a racist, sexist fill in whatever that is.
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But through this activity kind of I came to that realization that some people identify so strongly with one piece of their pie that it makes it harder for them to see the other pieces. So in fact, they may very much feel privileged in one area, but there’s another area that they feel so targeted over that it kind of blinds their moving forward. So then into my work it was, how do I share that with others and help them get past that part? Or to at least open themselves and take a nice look at themselves to see where they may be privileged or how that can come into their work in other areas?
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Okay, so this work -‐-‐ when Donna said painful and Dennis said challenging, again, I always -‐-‐ I don’t believe you put people on a plane and push them out of it without a parachute, okay? You got to give people a parachute, right? That’s what teaching is, right? It’s like take risks but you can land safely. So challenging a comfort zone, we talked about what it meant to do that. Now if we go back to that powerful learning experience I gave you, learning we know comes at the edges of our knowing, right?
And so a comfort zone is generally where we stay. We like math, we take all the math courses, right? Get my math, get my pre-‐service math educators into a writing intensive class and they’re like, oh my god. Don’t make me write, right? But that’s where they really learn. Like they may earn a B in that class, you know, but that’s where they’re really learning something, right? So at the edges of our knowing.
And so what we talked about, moving outside of your comfort zone was, yeah, you might feel threatened, you might be afraid, right? But also what you’re getting at the same time that you have those emotional feelings is you’re getting new information, right? You feel a little threatened because this is information you may not have tapped into earlier, and some of you might feel very much like, how come nobody ever gave me this? How come nobody ever gave me this information, this language, this -‐-‐ I mean, why haven’t I had this before? Okay, right?
And then there’s awareness, right? There’s this place of awareness where, okay, now that I’ve got this information, what do I do? What do I do and how do I do it? And what ultimately will be the result of me taking this on? Okay? So that comfort piece we talked a bit about, and so we talked about what triggers our -‐-‐ I’m going to just go through this really fast and this information will be available to you. But we talked about triggers, right? So we get triggered by stuff all the time. I mean, anybody knows like there’re certain things you can say and do, people can say and do to you to trigger. Somebody can just say, you know, certain things about -‐-‐ say certain foods to me and I’m like, oh my god. Right? Say certain places, I’m like, oh no. And it’s based upon a previous experience that I had. So responses to triggers.
So we talked about, what do you do when you know you’ve been triggered? Somebody’s just gotten under your skin. They said something and they don’t even know what they said. So we talked about what were some responses to what people do. They leave the room. How many people get up and go to the bathroom? I’m glad nobody’s done that in here today, right? But people always leave. They’ve got a certain itch they’ve got to scratch at a certain time when the facilitator’s saying something
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they don’t like. All right? They don’t want to hear it, right?. I just see it all the time. Or they just have siloed. I can see students shut down, right? So there are different responses to triggers. And so we went through that piece about how people respond. And so there’s a long list.
But ultimately, we wanted to talk through, how do you -‐-‐ once you know you’ve been triggered about something, then how do you work through not having that response the next time, okay? Or how do you pass that? Okay, so what I want to begin to do, so where does this fit in with the work of PaTTAN? And I would love for our consultants to talk about what this means for their work. Because I know people are like, okay, Dr. Generett is doing all of this stuff and it’s, you know, all getting people to reveal themselves and to put themselves in these very vulnerable positions. You know, we’ve got a boss in the room, like are you serious? You know, but what does this actually mean for the work, right? Where does it fit, okay? And so I’d love for the consultants to share their experience with that.
DENNIS CULLEN: Okay. One of the things that -‐-‐ before I talk about where it’s going with PaTTAN, one of the things that I learned through this experience, and I don’t -‐-‐ I say that this experience is just starting and it’s not even anywhere near done. When I thought about cultural competency in the beginning of this, I thought, well, first off all, how do we define culture? And secondly, how can you be culturally competent when there’s so many cultures to think about? And depending on what schools you may be working in, you could have, you know, up to 70 languages perhaps spoken in your district, you know, with all these cultures. And then you think about the cultures within that culture.
So what my greatest take away from this was that being culturally competent does not have anything to do with understanding each and every individual culture that you’re working with, but understanding that the experiences that people bring to the table may be different than my own experiences, understanding them, acknowledging them, validating them, and incorporating them into the work is what being culturally competent is really about for me.
And that was a big learning experience for me. And it was kind of like a relief. Oh my gosh, I don’t need to know everything about every culture in the world? Thank goodness. Training would never end. And it probably is never going to end anyway. One of the things that in the behavior initiative -‐-‐ we just finished our next training plan. And this coming year for development is culturally responsive classroom management. So I don’t know what that’s going to look like yet, but I am project lead and Donna’s going to be working with me on that, and so I’m really, really, really excited about it. I, again, don’t know what it’s going to look like yet. One of my concerns is that we’re calling it culturally competent classroom management, and I’m going to say this and I wish we weren’t on camera, I think we’re doing that from a marketing perspective because it’s going to bring people in. But really what we’re talking about is just best practices. It’s just best practices, but we’re going to use the marketing ploy.
DEVOKA GORDON: My perspective is from the early childhood perspective, and so we’re looking at Head Start, we’re looking at early intervention. So some of our -‐-‐ that I work with, some people are in homes. And so going into people’s homes, we have to respect where they are. And you can’t -‐-‐ and
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there’s a quote, I forget who the author is, but she said we don’t look through our eyes and we don’t hear with our ears. We look through the lens of our culture. So I go into your home and I say, well, you’re not doing it the way I feel that -‐-‐ then I’m disrespecting, I’m not honoring you.
And accepting those families and those parents, we’re working with infants and toddlers from zero to the three, and then they go on from three to five and school age. So you have to go in and looking at families, we look from our experiences. And so what Gretchen has broadened, has helped us see more, is that sometimes when you’re privileged, you look through -‐-‐ and I’m coming to you and I’m saying, well you know, look, I want an equal part. That sometimes generates fear because if I gain something, that means you have to give up something. And that’s not necessarily true. Why can’t we all have? Instead of like looking at if I have an equal footing, then I’ve taken something away from you.
So looking at those families and looking at the cultures there, there’s a lot of cultures within a culture. And culture’s not defined as looking at a race or ethnicity per se, it’s looking at my values and looking at my beliefs. Looking at, when I do workshops, I start from where you are. I do a class background and say, look at how you were brought up. Because in all purposes, you’re probably operating in that same, just a little bit maybe more. You’re operating in the same values that your parents instilled within you. And so we’ve taken our professional selves and we’ve imposed them upon those families when we may not have the same experiences or have the same knowledge.
So looking at how my work and learning more can affect, you know, the families, and that I go into that and I am imposing my will on those -‐-‐ because we’re looking as professional. You know, because I’m black and the family may be black does not mean we think the same and we have the same experiences and we do the same. And instead of lumping everybody in one pot.
DAVID: Just to reiterate something that Dennis said, this is a journey for me as well, and I’m just starting, truly just starting. But one of the things that really kind of rang home to me is there are many parts of Pennsylvania, and I’m sure you folks in the audience understand this and realize it because you’re from those parts, that, you know, when we’re training and we have 50, 60, 70 people in the audience or whatever, there’s no diversity at all in that audience, absolutely none. And prior to this experience, I probably would not have thought too much about that. Okay, I did my thing, you know, train, do whatever I need to do. Now I have a totally different perspective about that. Not that I’m going to lecture them or talk about cultural competency, but it helps me, it helps me to understand what I’m doing and helps me understand the audience much better, too, as well. So it’s just -‐-‐
GRETCHEN GENERETT: I think one of the other pieces that is quite powerful is, you know, there is this sort of heightened awareness, right? When we talked, we think about that kind of fits in. That -‐-‐ so one of the things I wanted for the group to come out of this experience with is a heightened awareness of sort of the ways in which they were operating in their professional context. And so that they could model and speak to the ways in which they could support the people who they were training to do better, quote unquote.
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And so for me, where does it fit? It really is in this piece of helping people to create within themselves the capacities to do, to address the issues that they see. So if I’m looking out at an audience, right? And what David said tonight, I look out and I don’t see any diversity and they are thinking he means specifically referring to racial diversity there, right? So if I’m looking out and I don’t see this, then I have to, again, make visible the invisible. So this conversation needs to happen where you speak to what’s not there, right? You speak to those categories, those groups that have been rendered invisible.
Now we can do an analysis of why the group -‐-‐ you know, why there’s nobody in the audience that may look a certain way or whatever, right? That’s not -‐-‐ but if you can help people understand that just because there’s no one visibly as a representation in the group, but we are still all responsible as educators to address those issues, then in my mind, you begin to develop capacities for people to do certain work.
So for example, we had an example one day where we were talking about, how do we incorporate this work into long-‐term strategies? And what became quite interesting, and I think it was David who said, you know, I’ve gone into meetings, I think he said this, and there’s nobody sitting at the table who’s speaking for, right, and you fill in the blank. Who may be speaking for the poor kids or who might be speaking for the black kids or might be speaking for, you know, the Latino kids, depending upon where you’re at, right? So nobody’s there speaking. And because there’s nobody there making those people visible, then their issues don’t get addressed. How many times have you been in a room where there was strategic meetings about what needs to get done, and because people are rendered invisible because nobody -‐-‐ that their issues are not addressed at all? Right?
So that’s what this heightened awareness does. We’ve even had situations during our training, people are like, oh my god, I can’t believe I didn’t bring that up in the meeting, right? Because even though you’re reading it -‐-‐ I mean, I had them going through a curriculum where they read, they wrote, you know? I’m a professor, I was like, you know, I’ve got a captive audience, right? So even though they’re going through these processes, they’re sitting at the table and groups are rendered invisible, and it still didn’t make it on the agenda. Who’s missing from your agenda? Okay, that’s where this group fits in, to bring to a certain level of consciousness, right? Because we are responsible for all kids. We’re responsible for -‐-‐ and we’re almost at the end because we want people to talk.
Okay, so some successes, right? I think we’ve talked a bit about that, right? We’ve gotten there, and I think we -‐-‐ is there anything you want to add? Or did we talk about our successes? Our struggles, our team struggles, did we get to all of these? Of course.
DAVID: Just one thing. If you’re going to go through a journey like this, if somebody says, I know I’m violating the group norms, but, stop them right there. Stop them right there. And just because you’re announcing it doesn’t make it okay.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: [inaudible]. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We all learn from that. All right, so we talked about potential outcomes a bit. Did we speak to that as well? I think we just did.
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DENNIS CULLEN: They give me a mic and they’re giving me access to a mic and forget about it. If you were listening to Lucille today, and she was talking about that young man, Ben, okay? She never talked about culture, never talked about cultural competency, but what she was talking about was validating the experiences of that family, which is truly cultural competency. And that’s where I’m hoping that we see this move, that we’re not necessarily talking about culture, but we’re just inviting everybody to the table and honoring their experiences.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: And another piece of this. When Dennis says this is just about best practices, he’s right. He is absolutely right. But, and here’s my but, but because we live in a place where there’s oppression, where there’s privilege and disadvantage, we have to name and be specific what we mean when we talk about best practices. Because what DeVoka said about we might go to a place and we might say, oh, this would look better if you arranged your house this way, or this would be better if you, you know, set things up for your kids this way, that is because we’re privileged, right? And we’re looking at it from our vantage point, from our lens. And so what’s best practices for us might actually not be possible for other families.
I do this example with my students. Duquesne University’s located next to the Hill District in Pittsburgh. And if you know anything about the Hill District has this awesome history about African-‐American community, but it has been depressed since 1960s and the riots in Pittsburgh. And what you’ll know is, you know, we talk about childhood obesity and we talk about health issues and diabetes and families. And so, you know, my students are very passionate and they want all the kids to be fit and everything. And so we go and take them on a tour of the Hill District and I say, you see any grocery stores in this community? You see any grocery stores? Where would a family shop to buy their groceries? And there is family dollar store, there’s like a Quikimart, and a Sunoco. Now what kind of foods can you buy in those places?, right?
So if you go into those communities and you go into that home and you tell Ms. Johnson to pick better choices for her kid on a budget, and she can get to the grocery store once a week on three buses because the transit system has been cut, right, what you’re saying to her might be what she actually knows she needs to do, but is not actually possible.
So best practices means that, yeah, we want people to do what’s best for them and what is possible for them. Can we create other possibilities? Absolutely. That’s why we’re doing this work, right? Because we want to create other possibilities. We want to petition for a grocery store, we’re going to do all this other stuff. But until then, we’ve got to think about best practices in this cultural context. Okay? So those are the tools that we need to have with folks.
All right, so here’s where you all get to ask us some questions, where we get you all really engaged. So our next steps, you know. So I hear that this work has been incorporated in the three-‐year training plan, and I’ll hopefully learn more about how it is. We have some resources that’s available for you on the master site. Unfortunately, I didn’t get all of them on there, so blame me. But I have my card, so if you want them, I can shoot them to you. So just let me know. And you know how to get in touch
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with these folks as well. But I’d like to open it up for Q&A right now. I don’t know, what time do we have? How much time do we have? Oh, perfect. Oh, that’s good. Okay, that’s really good. Okay, so if you have any questions, comments, your own experiences with this, some ways in which you might add to our learning and to our experience would be great. I get to be Oprah.
AUDIENCE MEMBER: My question is, I’m a first grade teacher and I was wondering how, as a first grade teacher with students who are very young who are starting to notice different things in the world they’re observing and they notice things and they say things that they see without really having any kind of competence about other people’s feelings or being able to take perspectives, and I’d love to be able to develop group norms for students in class. That way we can talk about things and not worry about hurting people and being able to listen to other people. But I wonder how successful -‐-‐ like for the folks I guess who work with young children, how can I do that successfully?
GRETCHEN GENERETT: So I have a great resource for you. It’s called -‐-‐ it’s a book by Vivian Paley, and it’s called You Can’t Say You Can’t Play. All right? And she’s been a classroom teacher for years and she writes wonderful books. You Can’t Say You Can’t Play is an experiment she did in her classroom. And again, we’re really talking about modeling behaviors. Your kids -‐-‐ Dennis, I took this straight from you. They don’t do what you say, they do what you do, right? And so what she did was she set her classroom up and said there’s certain things that you just cannot do, that are not a part of our classroom. And so because what you see are kids beginning to group in these ways, right, and to play in these ways.
I mean, it’s very real. If they’re not playing with Jerome in their home environments and Jerome doesn’t come in their home and they don’t see Jerome’s family ever, anybody looking like Jerome coming into their homes, then they think it’s not okay, right? And I hear this all the time. And this is real. If white kids don’t see their families interacting with people who are brown and black, then they somehow internalize that that’s not okay, right? And so in a classroom environment, if you don’t set it up so that those things seem very natural and normal, then they’re just modeling what they see. And so that resource is a good one. Do the consultants have others?
DEVOKA GORDON: I think that’s on the order. Has anybody, and I’m dating myself, seen was it Brown Eyes, Blue Eyes? Okay, that’s not an older [inaudible]. You may be too young, but it’s very, very old. And they go through and the woman -‐-‐ this was before culture was even really considered. I think it was maybe in the 60s? Okay. And she had her class set up where she decided, you know, because she saw some things going on. And these were white kids. I don’t even think any black or brown kids were in the -‐-‐ and it’s a movie, but it’s also a book. Maybe you can go to the library and get it because it’s hard to find now.
But she set her classroom up so that all the kids that were brown eyes had privilege. And she didn’t say anything to them, she just set it up and kind of let them follow through, you can’t do this, you can’t do -‐-‐ if you have brown eyes, you have to play this way. You can’t play -‐-‐ if I’m her friend and my eyes are brown, hers are blue, I couldn’t play with her. So it really divided the class. And then she
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switched it, she flipped it on them. When they started getting comfortable and kids saying, yeah I’m -‐-‐ look at me, she flipped it on them. And now it’s all the blue kids, the blue-‐eyed kids had the privilege.
And one guy, he was so happy that he was brown he took his glasses. And he wore glasses, really thick glasses, he took them off to show everybody his eyes. He was so prideful and so happy that he was -‐-‐ you know, he had gotten extra things to do. And later on they went back and they did when they like had kids of their own, so it’s a really powerful movie that she made. And like I said, she did this on her own and it was very good. It’s still used today.
DAVID: Gretchen, we never had this conversation, but I was so happy to hear you mention Vivian Paley because when I entered the world of early childhood and started reading Vivan Paley’s work, I started saying when I grow up, I want to be Vivian Paley. You know, that was the role model. So please -‐-‐ she really did, she was the first one to really look at group meetings with very young grades.
Also to your question, I think that in the PBS network and in that structure, we know that we’re -‐-‐ young children in particular, we want to teach those roles. Once they’re established, once you do your site-‐wide expectations and develop the rules, it’s very important for early childhood to spend time teaching those and what that looks like on an ongoing basis. And I think embedding into that this idea of respecting others and culture ties in very nicely.
AUDIENC MEMBER: I just want to speak about the movie that you had mentioned. My education was in Pennsylvania, but I went to teach in Florida, in South Florida, and that was my first year teaching. So I noticed it was a diverse group of students, but I saw little groups forming in the common, and so I actually did a little model of that video. And the principal called me in and said, how dare you do something like that. I got into a lot of trouble for it, actually. But it wasn’t -‐-‐ it was the parents who came back and the positive comments that they gave that helped. And then the principal said, well I guess it was okay, but don’t do it again. But I just thought I felt like I needed to teach those fourth grade students what the world would be like and what it should be like.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Good for you. So it’s interesting because when -‐-‐ I’m blanking on the woman’s name and I should know it. I could get that for you, though, so -‐-‐ she got in trouble as well. So in her community, this was a community in Illinois in the 60s. Her father had a business. People stopped going to her family’s business. You know, she -‐-‐ I mean, it was -‐-‐ she really got into a lot of trouble for this, but she was very committed to it. And ultimately she left the school and started doing some other work, but good for you, right?
So that’s another one of those examples of the institutional piece. So individually, you might be at a place where you want to incorporate it, but you have to be mindful. And we say this, I don’t want anybody to like lose their jobs, right? So you have to be mindful of the institutional barriers. So we talked about barriers at different levels. You have to be mindful of the institutional barriers. Now are there ways to get around that? Yeah. Okay, I won’t put that on camera. But we need to -‐-‐ you do need to be mindful of that.
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DENNIS CULLEN: Just one resource that you might consider which might be a safe way to start approaching this is The Sneeches, the Dr. Seuss book, The Sneeches. You know, real easy, real, you know, not talking about anybody’s color, sexuality, ability, but it’s a real nice way to start talking about that. And it can go across multiple grades.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: And I also want to say that you also -‐-‐ this idea of calling people out and calling colleagues out, you know? That callout sounds like aggressive, but it’s not. So if you’re thinking about it, like my son gets this all the time. And I have to push back on his seat because he’s a tall kid, right? So I’m always like, oh, William, I bet you’re really good at basketball.
Now his mother has a PhD, his father has a law degree, you know, like really? Like yeah. So we say to -‐-‐ what I say when I hear this, when people are saying this all the time, I say, he’s really good at math as well, you know? So people say it and they really think they’re complimenting him, right? But really you’re using a stereotype of African-‐American males and you’re not modeling these other things, right? So that kind of awareness -‐-‐ and so if you hear colleagues say this, you know, just say, and he’s really good at, you know, and put in an academic thing. I mean, that kind of individual stuff to address when you hear it, again, making visible what people have rendered invisible. Let’s go back here.
DONNA: It’s a Class Divided, that blue-‐eyed, brown-‐eyed experiment. And it’s Jane Elliot is the teacher. And also I just -‐-‐ another resource. I’ve been doing a lot of work with the Annie Casey Foundation and the Race Matters Institute, so if anyone has an opportunity to attend any of those sessions, I would highly encourage you to do so. They really pave the way for you to have these conversations with young children, other educators.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: That’s right, thanks.
DEVOKA GORDON: And another resource for early childhood that I have used as my textbook for teaching college was Roots and Wings by Stacy York, as well as The Anti-‐Bias Curriculum, Louise Derman-‐Sparks.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Yeah, we had -‐-‐ with the Annie Casey, the other thing they had that’s really good is they like track families who may come back like from World War II, right? And sort of look at economic disparities and opportunities based upon whether the people can get loans and where they might have been forced to live because of it. I mean, so that resource is a great one. I’m going to get to -‐-‐
AUDIENCE MEMBER: I don’t even know if I can say this in a microphone, but as a mother of a gay man, I think that invisible is a word that really -‐-‐
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Oh no. Yeah, I understand. I mean, you know, and here’s why this is so important, right? Because we have families, right, who have to operate in systems and structures. They entrust their kids to us every day. And there are families, there are mothers who know that they’re sending their kids into harm’s way because people are not aware of them. And that’s what -‐-‐ that’s what
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we’ve got to address, right? So thank you very much for sharing. But that’s what invisibility does, right? So absolutely.
AUDIENCE MEMBER: I kind of have a question about -‐-‐ in the groups that I sit in, I wonder if they’re even able to identify the invisible. And what we do -‐-‐ and I’m just saying the invisible that are the -‐-‐ maybe even that aren’t as talked about as often, but the invisible. And is there -‐-‐ you know, is there something that you can use to kind of stimulate the conversation so that other people, okay, okay, we’ve got some other kids we’re not talking about here. We’ve got some -‐-‐ I think that’s a concern, that you can’t even identify them.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Yeah, I mean, here’s the thing. And I’m not tooting my own horn because I have colleagues who are much better at this than me. But you’ve got to have a good facilitator, okay? You’ve got to have someone who -‐-‐ I think of my grandmother because she was such an influential person and is an influential person in my life. And I would say to my grandma at times, you know, this person is really making me angry. I don’t like this, I don’t want to do this anymore. And she would just say, baby, you got to love them the most.
And that’s really hard to do, right? And when I first started doing this, I was not good at it at all, and I didn’t even want to do it, right? Because it was so painful for me to bare my soul, because that’s what I felt like I was doing, I was baring my soul because I’m bringing in my own personal experiences. They even shared one of my own publications with the group, right, that goes through my own personal experiences. And it is hard, right? And people walking away and not validating that, okay?
But if you can approach this where knowing that you are in it for kids and for the mothers and for the fathers who entrust their kids to you, and that you are right, you are absolutely right when you say that you can’t talk to Jalynn that way because he has special needs. You are right when you say you can’t treat this kid this way because he’s black or because his family’s poor or his mom’s a drug addict or all of these reasons why we think that these kids are less than. We have a whole list and we know who the kids are who you treat differently. I know who the kids who get extra because they’ve got cute little bows in their hair. And you’ve got to get beyond that because they’re kids. And that’s what we’re here to do.
So yes, it’s hard. But if you get a masterful facilitator who can call people out in loving ways -‐-‐ because it truly is. I mean, a lot of folks have never had this material. That’s what privilege does. You don’t have -‐-‐ you don’t have to deal with me if you’re privileged. There are communities in Pittsburgh where you don’t have to see me if you don’t want to, meaning I’m not your neighbor, I don’t go to your church, you can go to medical offices and not see me, right? That’s what privilege does. But in the schools, that’s not the reality. So if you don’t want -‐-‐ and there are people, there are colleagues tell them absolutely, go do that somewhere else. But don’t hurt any more kids. And that’s how you have to approach it.
AUDIENCE MEMBER: Well, I have to say that I like what I’m hearing from this group because, number one, you’re using this word, journey, and it is a process. And I can relate to your experience, you know,
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as an immigrant. I mean, I was raised and born overseas and I’ve been around for 20 years, and I know what you’re talking about. It’s a journey. The second idea that I take from you is the fact that you’re talking about making the invisible visible. And for me, you know, this journey is an inside-‐out process. You know, you start dealing within yourself and then you try to adapt, you know, to the environment. And also, in my case, you know, you will say making the familiar unfamiliar, and the other way around. You know, when I first came here and I looked at behaviors and all kinds of stuff, making that unfamiliar familiar.
And let me finish with one question. In your group and in this initiative, how are you trying to integrate the experience of immigrant families? You know, I’m an assistant principal in [inaudible] school district and I’m in charge of what we call, quote, international schools. So I deal with 500 kids, and half of them are recent immigrants. And talking about diversity within diversity, you know? We have more than 80% of Latino students. And being Latino myself, you know, Latino’s come from 20 plus different countries, and we are an ethnic group with all the races. So we are, I can say, you know, the one particular ethnic group with all races involved.
And a lot of the issues take place when the families come talking to the faculty. And sometimes I sit in those conferences and they are talking, you know, at different levels. And one of the things, and this can be a resource, you know, there’s a lot of research out there on the mainstream American values and the values people from overseas, you know, bring into the equation. So there’s a group from UCLA working with a district where they have a lot of English learners, and it’s called the Bridging Cultures Initiative.
And basically, you know, my faculty members are talking from a very individualistic, competitive, you know, point of view, and dealing with economies that are very collectivistic, where identity is we as the helping and stuff like that. So even though, you know, we go through this process and we have good intentions, sometimes we don’t see it, what is behind. You know, and just listening very clearly and talking about classroom management, you know, there are some issues also as well. And I have found some teachers, you know, celebrating Cinco de Mayo, but violating, you know, blatantly the collectivistic perspective of those students. Thank you.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Does someone want to speak to what’s the immigrant piece? So he was asking how that might be incorporated. Has it been incorporated in any way?
DEVOKA GORDON: I was just talking with Mike, just asking him a question. And EITA, we do, in early childhood we do look at families, and all because we are going into those families’ homes, so we have to acknowledge. I don’t think it’s as strong as it will be from today. I will go back as our group and we will make sure that that’s brought to the table so that it’d be more visible. You know, I just whispered to Mike, do we have it? And we do have some consultants that are, that’s their job to work with, only because we don’t have it across the state. And our group covers, PaTTAN covers -‐-‐ we cover one end of the state to the next. So that will be more so on our agenda, our table. We just have a little piece, but it needs to be brought more to the surface.
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AUDIENCE MEMBER: One of the things I’m wondering is, you know, you’ve been on a journey. Is there a plan in your training plan to do some turnarounds so that those of us who are in roles where we touch a lot of folks, are we going to have an opportunity to develop some of those facilitation skills? Maybe not to the expertise level that you are, but at least become better or growing facilitators in important conversations. And that seems to me to be a real significant piece of training at the state level for many people.
DENNIS CULLEN: I’m really glad that you asked that question. I’m really excited to answer that question so that I can go back and say, hey, guess what we got a request for? Because the plan is in development right now, so anything -‐-‐ it’s categorized under needs development. So Donna’s and my job will be to develop these things. So we are just starting. We’re just starting to have conversations, just started thinking about how we’re going to approach this.
My dream is to do this and to start doing it in schools. If you are -‐-‐ and there’s been a lot of talk about SWIS, school-‐wide information systems. If you’re in a school or working with schools that are using SWIS, if they’re not using -‐-‐ it’s mislabeled, just called the ethnicity report. It should be the race report. But if they’re not using that, they need to start using that so that you can start getting some data. And you’ll look at, you know, the disparity in office discipline referrals.
And so that’s my dream where I see this going is for us to be doing the same work in schools who are tracking this data so we can start closing that achievement gap. But I’m so glad that you asked that because I can now tell them.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Yeah, that piece is really important. You know, we didn’t just -‐-‐ again, we started with data. And one of the things we do know is that certain districts, there are districts that are not collecting this data because they don’t want to have to report the data, okay? So in your work, encourage people to disaggregate that data. Because I’m not anyone who operates from -‐-‐ you know, I wouldn’t be doing this work if the disparity didn’t exist. But again, you have to speak to people and say, look at what it is. Look at what we have. You know, because people, they don’t think it exists because they’re not disaggregating the data. Or they know it exists, but they can ignore it because they haven’t disaggregated the data. So again, get that information into that system so that you can begin to disaggregate.
AUDIENCE MEMBER: I’m happy to see the people in this room that are here because I think that you want to be culturally sensitive. But the last slide you had up there about the LEAs, my concern is how are you going to roll out to the LEAs? And I just feel that this presentation needs to be in the Chocolate Ballroom, not here. Because we came with a group, I know that we split up and tried to cover everything, but I’m very disappointed that there aren’t more people here.
AUDIENCE MEMBER: We talked about the younger children, but as he was talking about the immigrants, we need to also look at the high school, the middle school and the high school. Because the high school students are very shortly going out there if they’re already not parents themselves. So they need to learn that too.
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GRETCHEN GENERETT: One of the powerful learning moments for myself that recently was I’m sure you all heard of Hunger Games, right? So did you all hear the conversations going on around race in the Hunger Games about the character Rue? So that was an awesome opportunity with middle school aged kids. Like my son had read the book. He said, we had this wonderful conversation about what people read, and when they are reading through their lenses.
In the book, the character is described as brown, having dark eyes. Like all the people from that -‐-‐ forgetting what their community -‐-‐ district. I did read all three books, though. From that district were brown. And they had dark eyes because they were out in the sun and blah, blah. So the author describes this. So when the character is cast as black, a lot of white kids were tweeting, why did they make Rue black? It really made me not like her as much and blah, blah. You know, why did they -‐-‐ if she wasn’t that in the book. Right, I mean this is -‐-‐ you can go follow the tweets and all the stuff online, right? And the reality is is that the kids, it didn’t click in their brain they read that. But because of their lens and privilege, you know, maybe they thought she was Italian, I don’t know. But they didn’t read her as black. Or Cinna as black either. They didn’t read the characters that way.
So that is an awesome example of lenses that you could use with that age group. It’s everywhere in our work. You just -‐-‐ again, once you’re aware and you have the skills, you can pull it in and kids, they get it. They are like, oh, okay, right?
AUDIENCE MEMBER: I come from Pittsburgh public schools, and so we’ve been fortunate enough to have a disagreement with some racial disparities and a lawsuit. We’ve actually brought in Glenn Singleton to do Courageous Conversations. So if you’ve had an opportunity to pick up his book, to do any training, or if you’re looking at that to bring about in your district, that’s an excellent opportunity.
Through that, I hear people saying in conversations, let’s have a little [inaudible] conversation now. You know, and so that opens the door to really talk about some of the disparity that people may not actually realize that is existing or that they’re perpetrating. But it’s kind of like one of those -‐-‐ the master kind of meetings, you know? And let’s really talk about what is actually going on instead of, you know, just making it invisible, bringing it to be visible.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: We have time for a couple more questions, five more minutes.
AUDIENCE MEMBER: I just wanted to -‐-‐ I recently was reading an article, and I feel like I’ve been doing -‐-‐ I’ve been trying to do a lot of this kind of like cultural competence and race relations and gender relations, and this and that and the other thing for the past few years. But then I -‐-‐ so I felt really like confident and I felt like I understood a lot of this stuff and I was like a sensitive person. And so I was really excited I’m actually going to move to the South and teach in rural Arkansas, population very poor, mostly African-‐American. I was really excited.
And then I read this article about a guy who did something similar, and he was feeling the same way. And he got down there and then realized he knew he was a sensitive person who, you know, understood his privilege, but no one else did. And so the kids, his own students, were looking at him as
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the white, privileged man who was in the same group as the people who had historically oppressed them. And I was like, oh my god, no. Like they’re not going to know! And so then I really started to wonder.
So now that I have done this -‐-‐ and I mean, it’s a journey that’ll never end, right? So now that I have done this, how am I going to prove to my students that I am their ally? Like that is my biggest question.
GRETCHEN GENERETT: Be different from what they know. I mean, reality is is that -‐-‐ again, I go back to that statement that the wounds are in relationships, right? They’re wounded from relationships. And they don’t even have to be their own relationships. They could be their parents’ relationships, right, the historical relationships. I mean, I actually believe, you know, that there are experiences in our DNA. I mean, I hear this all the time with my students’ stories. If their grandparents came as immigrants, right, you know, they have a certain sensitivity to -‐-‐ well, that wasn’t their experience, wasn’t their parents’ experience. But that gets passed on, right?
And so we have to, again, honor it. But be the opposite relationship. So be the relationship that heals that wound. Okay, so just be something different. Continue to do it. I mean, again, if you have privilege and you’re trying to, quote unquote, prove to people that you’re aware of it, then you are having to do what I think people of color have to do every day, and that is to prove that you belong in that room and that you have the credentials and all that to be there.
So it’s, again, that awareness, right? M.K. Asante, who’s a poet, he’s at the University of Delaware, he says -‐-‐ in a poem he wrote, he said, if you make an observation, you have an obligation. Okay, if you make an observation, you have an obligation. So you can’t just see something and not do anything about it, okay? So if your kids see you doing that, then they’ll say, oh, Ms. Catherine, she’s a good one. They will tell people, don’t mess with her because she’s, you know. They will know, right? And you will -‐-‐ you will then be that model for them of how they can then trust other people, okay?
I think we are -‐-‐ are we out of time? We are out of time. I will be around. Thank you so much for your presence. To Mike, to the consultants, you guys are the best.