Oradell/New Milford, NJ Roman Catholic Church Saint Joseph

*MEN’S CORNERSTONE SIGN-UPS—TODAY (AFTER ALL MASSES)

*REL.ED. STUDENTS INVITED TO JOIN

OUR CHOIR —SEE PAGE 2

PASTOR:

Msgr. David C. Hubba

PAROCHIAL VICARS:

Rev. Roy Regaspi Rev. Joseph Montes de Oca

DEACON: George Montalvo

PASTOR EMERITUS:

Rev. George M. Reilly

MASS SCHEDULE

Saturday 5:00 pm Sunday 7:30am,

9 am, 10:30 am, 12 noon

DAILY Weekdays 7:00 am

& 8:30 am Saturday 8:30 am

HOLY DAYS as announced

Miraculous Medal Novena

Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Eucharistic Adoration First Wednesday of Month

9 am—5 pm in Mary’s

SACRAMENTS

Confession: Saturday, 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Baptism Contact the Parish Office.

Marriage Arrangements should be made

with a priest at least one year in advance.

Office Hours: Parish Office—Mon-Fri.: 9 am - 5 pm; Rel. Ed.—Mon-Thurs: 10 am-4 pm; closed Fri.; also by app’t.

Homebound/Hospital Call Parish Office

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA Contact Parish Office

PARISH REGISTRATION Contact Parish Office.

Office Location Phone Email/Fax Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org Fax #: 201-261-0369

sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 relgioused@sjcnj.org sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph School

the greenhouse (PreK)

305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time ~ February 11, 2018

February 14

February 14

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SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

OUR 3rd ANNUAL PARISH

BEEFSTEAK DINNER & RAFFLE

—FEBRUARY 24

Saint Joseph Church’s very popular Beefsteak Dinner and Raffle will take place on Saturday, February 24 at 6:15 pm in the School Gym. Tickets are $45 a person and include a wonderful dinner by Clifton’s Nightingale Catering (serving the finest in beefsteak & chicken banquets since 1938) with music by our own Peter Greco. The name of the 50/50 raffle winner will be drawn at the dinner. Proceeds of the event will go toward repair and maintenance of our church.

FOR TICKETS, contact Betty Kern at 201-385-9116 or by email at response@sjcnj.org

DEADLINE to reserve your seat is Monday, February 19. If you did not receive your letter from Msgr. Hubba along with a raffle book and a chance to reserve a seat at our dinner, please contact the parish office at 201-261-0148.

Paisley Jean Belbol Child of April & Joseph

with siblings (L-R) Alana, Parker, Madison, Greyson, Noah & Matthias

Tristan David Downey

Child of Christopher

& Jaime

with siblings (L-R) Brennan,

Shay &

Nolan

Patrick Robert Murphy (left)

& Brian Joseph

Murphy (right)

Children of Erin

& Brian

SACRAMENT OF BAPTISM February 4, 2018

God bless our newest Christians and their families.

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SIXTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ FEBRUARY 11, 2018

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK Marriage has always been a central concern both to the Church and to civil government, even when the State has been at its most

horrifying worst. Before Hitler married Eva Braun, the official registrar asked them, in keeping with the most punctilious German legality of the Nazi eugenics laws of those dark times, whether they were both of pure Aryan descent. Because they ended their lives right after the wedding, they didn’t, like other German newlyweds of the era, get a copy of Mein Kampf, paid for by govern-ment funds. (Hitler got rich from his book’s royalties, which were worth $5 to $8 a copy in today’s money.) Because this Wednesday is Valentine’s Day, it is a good time to reflect on the importance and blessing of marriage. For Catholic believers, married life is meant to draw its inspiration and strength from Jesus Christ, mirroring his relationship with the Church. In their deep commitment to their spouses, in the depth and permanence of the love they pledge to one another, in the joys and sacrifices they accept, and in the bringing of their children into the world, husbands and wives stand at the heart of the kingdom God is constantly striving to build. The Catholic philosopher and theologian David Schindler has said very aptly that the measure of the marital state “is the free-intelligent act that says forever.” His remark, which solidly represents our tradition’s view of marriage, is much in keeping with a delightful phrase from the Mozarabic Sacramentary, the Catholic ritual book that was used in Spain until the 11th century, when it was largely replaced by the Roman Rite (although the older usage is still allowed there today). The Mozarabic Rite describes marriage as “the duty of inseparable love.” The modern Spanish poet Antonio Machado has lines that say:

I chat with a companion with me to the end— who speaks alone may hope to speak to God one day ….

I hope all the married couples of our parish, and all who aspire to the beautiful vocation of marriage, will cherish their lives and dreams with renewed vividness this Valentine’s Day. We all need your witness of committed love. Msgr. David Hubba

ASH WEDNESDAY—FEBRUARY 14 DISTRIBUTION OF ASHES

7:00 am Mass 8:30 am Mass 10:30 am School Mass (All are welcome.) 12:00 noon Prayer Service 4:00 pm Prayer Service 7:30 pm Mass

2018 LENTEN REGULATIONS 1. The days of both Fast and Abstinence during Lent are Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. The other Fridays of Lent are days of Abstinence. On a day of Fast, one only (1) full meal is permitted, and two (2) smaller meals, which, if added together, would not exceed the main meal in quantity. Those between the ages of 18 and 59 are obliged to fast.

On a day of Abstinence, no meat may be eaten. Those who have reached the age of 14 are obliged by the law of abstinence.

2. The time for fulfilling the Paschal Precept (Easter Duty) extends from the First Sunday of Lent, February 18, 2018 to The Solemnity of the Most Holy Trinity, May 27, 2018.

ARE YOU CELEBRATING A SPECIAL WEDDING

ANNIVERSARY IN 2018? The Archdiocese would like to honor those couples who celebrate five, twenty-five and fifty years of Christian marriage in the year 2018. These anniversary liturgies will take place in the Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart in Newark on the following dates:

April 29 at 3:00 pm (5 years and 25 years) May 6 at 3:00 pm (50 years)

We extend our warmest congratulations to those who are celebrating one of these special anniversaries and hope you will be able to attend the liturgy. Please be sure to notify our parish secretary Gerry Carolan no later than April 16 so we can send your name to the Archdiocese.

COLLECTION FOR RETIRED PRIESTS —ASH WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 14

Please be generous in the Ash Wednesday collection for the retired priests of the Archdiocese of Newark who have walked with us through many a Lenten journey and been there for us in good times and in bad.

THE MAGNIFCAT® LENTEN COMPANION —YOUR GIFT FROM SAINT JOSEPH PARISH

This handy little book provides a series of original reflections to guide you through every day of Lent. Let the profound yet practical insights you will find in this little spiritual treasury form and focus your spiritual life, filling it with new conviction and purpose. Be sure to pick up your free copy of this wonderful booklet available at the doors of the church or from the ushers this weekend.

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SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

SHARING GOD’S BLESSINGS ANNUAL APPEAL

Last weekend was our Commitment Weekend for the 2018 Sharing God’s Blessings Annual Appeal. This year, our parish goal is $80,111. The Annual Appeal provides the poor with food, shelter and clothing; makes religious education, spiritual guidance and CYO programs available for the young; insures the future leadership of the Church with seminarian education and training; and most importantly, brings Christ’s Good News to the people of the Archdicoese. Our own parish also benefits by receiving a rebate from the appeal if it exceeds its goal. If you have not had a chance to make your pledge, you can fill out a pledge envelope available in the pews today and drop it in the collection basket or at the parish office/rectory. Thank you!

MEN’S CORNERSTONE SIGN-UP THIS WEEKEND

Representatives from Men’s Cornerstone will speak at all Masses this weekend. Registration forms will also be available. The Men’s Cornerstone Retreat XXVI will take place at Saint Joseph from Mar. 23-24.

WOMEN’S CORNERSTONE Registration forms for Womens’s Cornerstone Retreat XXVI (Mar. 2-3) are available in the church literature racks and at the parish office/rectory.

SHAWL MINISTRY MEETING —FEBRUARY 13

Saint Joseph’s Shawl Ministry will meet on Tuesday, February 13 from 2:00-4:00 pm

in the Parish Life Center on Grove Street. All knitters & crocheters are welcome to join us in making shawls…or bring your current yarn project and spend a relaxing afternoon with us. Our ministry has shawls available for those experiencing illness, confinement, bereavement, or other situation. For further information, please contact Barbara Piersa at 201-261-0298 or Pat DeNicolo at 201-261-4323.

TIME TO FILL YOUR “RICE BOWL” Cardboard “rice bowls” to help Catholic Relief Services support those in need around the world are available at the doors of the church (or at the Parish Office/Rectory). All donations (in the form of a check made out to “Saint Joseph Church) must be dropped off or sent to the Religious Education Office located at 105 Harrison Street, New Milford, NJ 07646 by Wednesday, March 28. (Please do not send in actual boxes or coins.)

SACRAMENT OF PENANCE IN LENT Individual confessions are regularly heard every Saturday from 4:00-5:00 pm in the Reconciliation Room in the Upper Church (near the main entrance). There will be a Communal Penance Service at St. Peter’s Church on Monday, March 12 at 7:30 pm.

STATIONS OF THE CROSS DURING LENT

The Stations (or Way) of the Cross is a Catholic devotion during which the faithful

make a “spiritual pilgrimage of prayer through meditat-ing on the chief scenes of Christ’s sufferings and death”— images of which are typically hung on the walls of the church. The Stations of the Cross will be held at Saint Joseph Church EVERY FRIDAY IN LENT (except Good Friday) at 7:00 pm. All are welcome to attend.

SEPARATED/DIVORCED HEALING MINISTRY Saint Joseph’s healing ministry for those who are separated or divorced welcomes newcomers. The group meets Monday evenings at 7:30 pm in the Jackson Room in the lower church. Please contact facilitator Annette Ziegler in advance to register either by phone at 201-338-4841 or via email at aziggy314@gmail.com Be sure to include your name, phone # & email address.

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Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am 10:30 am 7:30 pm

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday

7:00 am

8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:30 am 9:00 am 10:30 am UC 10:30 am MC 12:00 pm

PRAYER REQUESTS Let us remember those who are ill:

Tom Moran, Catherine Thompson

Let us remember those who have recently died: John Wallace, Josephine Fitzsimmons,

Mary Carrico Christianson, Mary Houlihan, Rev. John J. Gibbons

Let us remember those serving in the military.

BREAD & WINE INTENTIONS

The bread & wine for the week of February 11, 2018

is offered in loving memory of

Mary and Arthur Potter as requested by

Ray Potter.

SIXTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME ~ FEBRUARY 11, 2018

STEWARDSHIP REFLECTION “Brothers and sisters, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God.”

—1 Corinthians 10:31

Do a quick check of your priorities. Where does God rank in that list? If He’s not first, you have some work to do. Putting God first in everything helps us from putting other “gods” (like our pride and ego, money and possessions to name a few) before God. Before making a decision, ask yourself if I’m doing this for the glory of God or for the glory of me?

SUNDAY COLLECTION

Feb. 4, 2018 Feb. 5, 2017 BASKET $8,865 $8,673 ELECTRONIC GIVING $4,823 $4,754 TOTAL COLLECTION $13.688 $13.427

BISHOP BARRON’S NEW FILM SERIES —FEBRUARY 21

Saint Joseph Church continues to show this six-part film series on Wednesday, February 21 with Michelangelo: The Artist after the 8:30 am Mass in the Jackson Room (lower church). This film is slightly longer than the others at 80 minutes. Join Fr. Barron as he illumines these saints, artists, mystics and scholars who not only shaped the life of the church but changed the course of civilization. FREE. Please Note: There will be no viewing on Wednesday, February 14 as it is Ash Wednesday.

Visit us on our websites: CHURCH: sjcnj.org SCHOOL: sjsusa.org RELIGIOUS ED.: sjcnjre.org

Saint Joseph Parish Staff

Parish Trustees………..Mr. Brendan Walsh/Mrs. Carol Winkler Parish Pastoral Council…………….Mr. Martin De Benedetto Dir. of Religious Education ……….Deacon George Montalvo Sacraments Coordinator …………..Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Director of Music ……………………..Mr. Monroe Quinn Youth Minister ………………………...Mrs. Donna Cirino Facilities Director ………………….....Mr. Tom Meli Business Manager ……………….…. .Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Parish Secretary ……………………....Mrs. Geraldine Carolan

Principal of Saint Joseph School…Dr. Paula Valenti Dir. of Comm./ Bulletin Editor…...Mrs. Diane Hellriegel

February 10, 2018 People of the Parish

February 11, 2018 James & Theresa Santaniello Salvatore Pignio Hugh J. Flanagan Mary Bernadette Sweeney (Birthday Remembrance) John D’Agnese

February 12, 2018 Thomas S. Curtin Hugh J. Flanagan

February 13, 2018 Bill Sveridovich Mr. & Mrs. William Johnson

February 14, 2018 Ash Wednesday John J. Mc Mahon Lloyd De Nicolo People of the Parish Daniel O’Grady (2nd Anniversary Remembrance)

February 15, 2018 William Rini Leonardo & Carol Tavarone

February 16, 2018 For the living & deceased members of the Prior and Plinio Families

February 17, 2018 Flora C. Acosta People of the Parish

February 18, 2019 Luke Bonte Lourdes Gonzales (Birthday Remembrance) Stephen J. Dazza May Del Bove (12th Anniversary Remembrance) Frank Dooley

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See our bulletin in full color at sjcnj.org

KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS St. Joseph Council #3814

MEMBERSHIP RECRUITMENT BREAKFAST

All men, 18 years of age or older, are welcome to nourish their Catholic Faith by exploring membership in this wonderful Brotherhood of the Knights of Columbus.

Drop by before or after each Mass on Sunday February 25 (9:00 am-12 noon)

for a delicious hot breakfast and a chance to hear a presentation and receive important literature.

Want more information now? Contact Grand Knight Robert Luongo at

201-539-7726 or by email at bluongo761@yahoo.com

A SPECIAL MARIAN DEVOTION —BEGINS FEBRUARY 20

All parishioners, especially those who feel a special closeness with the Blessed Mother, are encouraged to find out and take part in a special devotion called Total Consecration. The consecration is accomplished through a 33-day exercise of prayer (about 5-10 minutes per day) prior to the Marian Feast of the Annunciation on March 25. The preparation will begin on February 20. Members of the Legion of Mary have the necessary materials available at no charge. Contact Pat at 201-599-2123 or email LOM@sjcnj.org for more info.

2018 SJAA TRACK REGISTRATION TODAY, FEBRUARY 11 (10-11:30 am)

or by mail until March 9 —open to any child in Kindergarten through Grade 8 enrolled in Saint Joseph School or in our parish Religious Education Program. There are no try-outs or cuts! In-person registration will take place in the Saint Joseph School GYM FOYER TODAY, Sunday, February 11 from 10:00-11:30 am. Registrations can also be mailed to or dropped off at Saint Joseph School Main Office, 305 Elm St., Oradell, NJ 07649. Please put “Attn: Jen McKeague/ Saint Joseph Track on envelope. Registration fee is $60 per child/$95 per family and must be received by March 9. A late registration fee (after 3/9) increases the cost to $70 per child/$105 per family. For a copy of the registration form, please go to sjaaathletics.blogspot.com For additional info you can contact Jen McKeague at 201-967-2439 or at jenmckeague@hotmail.com

WOMEN’S COMMISION DAY OF REFLECTION Come for a day of Faith, Sisterhood and Prayer!

—MARCH 3 8:00 am-4:00 pm, Seton Hall Univ., $25

This year’s theme is “Alive in Christ: Renewing Our Families.” The keynote speakers are Hallie Lord, author of On the Other Side of Fear; Gloria Purvis, creator of Authentically Free at Last on EWTN; and Sr. Brittany Harrison, FMA, contributor to the Catholic Hipsters Handbook. His Eminence Joseph W. Cardinal Tobin will celebrate the Mass. Event includes continental breakfast and lunch. Go to www.rcan.org/womenscommission to register. For more info, email CatholicWomen@rcan.org or call 973-497-4545.

CATHOLIC MEN’S CONFERENCE Revive your spirits and build your faith!

—MARCH 10 8:00 am-4:30 pm, Seton Hall Univ., $25

This year’s theme is “Be Not Afraid: The Victory is Christ’s.” Speakers will be Joe Lombardi, Jr., quarter-back coach for the New Orleans Saints; Jesse Romero, founder of On Fire Evangelization Apostolate; and Hector Molina, who has over 25 years of experience in pastoral ministry. Event includes continental breakfast and lunch. Go to www.njcatholicmen.org to register. For more info, email CatholicMen@rcan.org or call 973-497-4545.

THANK YOU FROM CWV The members of Fr. Washington Post #1710 of the Catholic War Veterans want to express our thanks for your generous donations during our Cross of Peace fund–

raiser in June 2017. Your monies were used last month to help support various charitable organizations and the Archdiocese of the Military. Your donations enabled our post to allocate and disperse funds to the following: NJ State Veterans Home, Paramus ($400); Wounded Warriors ($350); Catholic Relief Services ($375); Homes for Heroes ($350); and the Archdiocese of the Military ($400). Because of you these organizations are able to provide special services and care to veterans in need, and to assist seminarians and new chaplains serving in the military services. THANKS again! GOD BLESS YOU. Yours in Christ, Kurt Strobach, Judge Advocate Catholic War Veterans, Fr. Washington Post

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