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3535 Manchester Ave • Cardiff By The Sea, CA 92007 • Tel 760-436-8900 • Fax 760-436-8911 Belmont Village at Cardiff by the Sea May 2016 Our Team Sadie Harness Executive Director x101 [email protected] Melissa Lopez Director of Resident Care x102 [email protected] Kristen Van Middlesworth Activity Programs Coord. x107 [email protected] David Kraft Memory Programs Coord. x123 [email protected] Erik Fredrikson Human Resources Generalist x103 [email protected] Don Callahan Building Engineer x128 [email protected] David Soto Chef Manager x120 [email protected] Melissa Wood Sales and Marketing x104 [email protected] Paula Lemkuil Sales and Marketing x105 [email protected] Barbara Shockley Sales and Marketing x105 [email protected] Sadie’s Corner Happy Mother’s Day! Moms –you love and cherish them when you’re little, you push them away as a teenager, you ask their advice as a young adult, and if you’re lucky you become their friend when you’re older. My mother taught me many things growing up. Some of her phrases that I hear in my head today include, “Hold your head up high, be proud of who you are.” She said this routinely around school. Kids can be so cruel to each other and I would come home and feel so insecure. She’d shower me with love and then tell me to hold my head up high. It made me feel strong. My mom is a feminist and at no time growing up did this slip my attention. She’s a Gloria Steinem fan, she worked outside of the home, and she taught me that a girl can do anything a boy can do – often better! My mom was also a homemaker and though she was gone during the day, she cooked, cleaned, and did the grocery shopping; she did it all. I have my own family now and hardly believe how hard and long she must have worked for our family. And like me learning from my mom, I am teaching my daughter that she can be a bus driver, a pilot, a ballerina, or anything else she wants to be. Another phase I heard all the time was, “Be kind to others, always.” This made me compassionate. I learned to put myself in other’s shoes and see things from someone else’s perspective. Compassion lead to empathy which lead me to senior living. When I was 14, I was working the early shift in a bakery and my customers were all residents at the YMCA. They were all retired and many had mild cognitive impairment. I learned to help people as a way of being kind to others; I felt it was my duty to make their day brighter. Hearing my mom say, “Be kind to others” encouraged me to behave with compassion and integrity. To all the moms out there, I salute you – your job is never ending and thankless. But it is the most rewarding job I’ll ever have. Sadie, her daughter, and her mom having a good time roller skating!

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Page 1: Sadie’s Corner - Belmont Village...3535 Manchester Ave Cardiff By The Sea, CA 9200 7 Tel 760-436-8900 Fax 760-436-8911 Belmont Village at Cardiff by the Sea May 2016 Our Team Sadie

3535 Manchester Ave • Cardiff By The Sea, CA 92007 • Tel 760-436-8900 • Fax 760-436-8911

Belmont Village at Cardiff by the Sea

May 2016

Our TeamSadie Harness

Executive Director [email protected]

Melissa LopezDirector of Resident Care [email protected]

Kristen Van MiddlesworthActivity Programs Coord. x107

[email protected] Kraft

Memory Programs Coord. [email protected]

Erik FredriksonHuman Resources Generalist [email protected]

Don CallahanBuilding Engineer x128

[email protected] Soto

Chef Manager [email protected]

Melissa WoodSales and Marketing x104

[email protected] Lemkuil

Sales and Marketing [email protected]

Barbara ShockleySales and Marketing x105

[email protected]

Sadie’s CornerHappy Mother’s Day! Moms

–you love and cherish them whenyou’re little, you push them awayas a teenager, you ask their adviceas a young adult, and if you’relucky you become their friendwhen you’re older.

My mother taught me manythings growing up. Some of herphrases that I hear in my headtoday include, “Hold your headup high, be proud of who youare.” She said this routinelyaround school. Kids can be socruel to each other and I wouldcome home and feel so insecure.She’d shower me with love andthen tell me to hold my head uphigh. It made me feel strong. Mymom is a feminist and at no timegrowing up did this slip myattention. She’s a Gloria Steinemfan, she worked outside of thehome, and she taught me that agirl can do anything a boy can do– often better! My mom was alsoa homemaker and though she wasgone during the day, she cooked,cleaned, and did the groceryshopping; she did it all. I have myown family now and hardlybelieve how hard and long shemust have worked for our family.And like me learning from mymom, I am teaching my daughterthat she can be a bus driver, apilot, a ballerina, or anything else

she wants to be.Another phase I heard all the

time was, “Be kind to others,always.” This made mecompassionate. I learned to putmyself in other’s shoes and seethings from someone else’sperspective. Compassion lead toempathy which lead me to seniorliving. When I was 14, I wasworking the early shift in a bakeryand my customers were allresidents at the YMCA. They wereall retired and many had mildcognitive impairment. I learned tohelp people as a way of beingkind to others; I felt it was myduty to make their day brighter.Hearing my mom say, “Be kind toothers” encouraged me to behavewith compassion and integrity.

To all the moms out there, Isalute you – your job is neverending and thankless. But it is themost rewarding job I’ll ever have.

Sadie, her daughter, and her momhaving a good time roller skating!

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May Happy Hours5/5 Mariachi Fiesta Mexicana

5/12 Sundance Band5/19 Billy Harper Band

5/26 MusicStation

Salon Hours9 a.m.–4 p.m., Tuesday throughFriday, Located on 3rd Floor.

Please schedule directly with theSalon. (760) 632-4667.

Monthly SupportOptometry/Podiatry

By appointment only via ournurses (Wellness Center, 2nd

Floor).Podiatrist In-House

Third Thursday,10 a.m. Assisted and

Independent Living (CR, L2)Audiologist

Last Thursday,2 p.m. (CR, L2)

1:30 p.m. NeighborhoodParkinson’s Support

First Wednesday,1 p.m. (TH)

Things to RememberDoctor Drives

Tuesdays (North)Thursdays (South)

*15-mile radius (each way)*48-hour advance notice

Dry CleaningPickup/Drop-Off:

8 a.m. Mondays and ThursdaysChurch Runs

Sundays: 8:30 a.m.- 12 p.m.

May OutingsWed., May 4th at 11:00am:

Lunch OutingThe Prado at Balboa Park is

nestled in the heart of BalboaPark. This restaurant takes

advantage of its beautiful buildingand scenic surroundings.

Wed., May 11th at 10:00am:Afternoon Tea and Train RideWe will be hopping aboard the

train once again to have afternoontea in San Juan Capistrano.

Fri., May 13th at 10:00am:Barona Casino

Are you feeling lucky? Try yourhand at blackjack or maybe a slot

machine!

Wed., May 18th at 4:30pm:Dinner with Robert

We will be heading back toChandler’s restaurant in Carlsbad.You can’t beat the sunset view, notto mention their delicious food!

Wed., May 25th TBD:Movie Outing

Movie will be selected closer tothe date. Suggestions welcome!

Employee of the MonthLet’s give a big round of applause to our

fabulous nurse Briana. She was born in Tucson,Arizona and recently moved to California withher husband Jerry, who is a Marine stationed atCamp Pendleton. She loves animals; she hastwo small dogs and two rabbits. When she’s notworking, her very favorite thing to do is to go toDisneyland where they are season pass holders.She also enjoys relaxing on the beach. Herfavorite football team is the Detroit Lions andher favorite baseball team is the LA Dodgers.

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Mother’s Day MemoriesFrom Belmont Residents

By: Katrina B. and Therese F.This year on May 8th people all

over America celebrate the gift ofmothers. The history of Mother’sDay originated with a womannamed Anna Jarvis in 1908,following the death of hermother. She organized an eventon a Sunday at a Methodistchurch in West Virginia forfamilies to celebrate theirmothers. After its success shedecided to petition lawmakers toadd a day to the calendar devotedto honoring moms. She felt theexisting holidays were biasedtoward male achievements. Herpersistence paid off and in 1914President Woodrow Wilson signeda measure adopting the secondSunday in May as Mother’s Day.

We are grateful for her effortsand every May our special momsat Belmont Village receive calls,cards, flowers, candy, and visitsfrom their families. Our residentshave some fun insights to shareregarding their own belovedmatriarchs:

“My mother was more like anangel than a human being. Everylesson was taught with love. Shenever raised her voice.” - Resident,Lea D.

“She would always make hotcross buns, every Easter.”-Resident, Martha L.

“As a mother, I remember thefun days deployed in France and

watching my son become a man.”-Resident, Anita A.

“She gave great hugs and shewas always there when I washungry.” -Resident, Bill M.

“She passed away when I was10. But I remember she taught meright from wrong.”-Resident,Dora B.

“I played violin with anorchestra for many years. Mymother wasn’t able to attendmany performances, but Iremember one Christmas she wasthere in a beautiful red dress andmink stole with her makeup done(compliments of me). When Ilooked at her after the program Iremember knowing how proudshe was of me, and I rememberfeeling how proud I was of her.-Resident, Genevieve P.

“What I remember about beinga mother is that is was a lot ofFUN! We were blessed withextended family nearby and wemade some great memories.”-Resident, Carolyn G.

Jean B. and her daughter are agreat pair! Hope both of you have a

magical Mother’s Day!

Life’s Great at theCoast

Make a wish Laurie G.

Sadie and resident Don S. showingoff their fun pajamas

Happy Birthday Carol F.

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May 2016TH Town Hall GR Great Room OutingSR Screening Room TF Town Hall Foyer Special EventC Club Room CF Center for LearningB Bistro JK Josephine's KitchenP Pool MBA

Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday

19:30 TH Weekend Exercise

10:00 TH Trivia: Every Grain Counts12:30 TH Nondenominational Bible

Study1:00 SR Daily Movie1:15 Outing- Coastal Communities Concert

Band: Salute to Young Musicians3:00 GR Renata at the Piano7:00 SR Evening Movie

29:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Sharpen Senses10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:30 SR Music Appreciation3:00 TH Stone Age Doctor: Osteoporosis:

Calcium Is Not the Answer7:00 SR Evening Movie

Northbound Doctor Drives 39:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance10:30 CF Computer Tutor

1:15 TH BINGO3:00 TH Activity Chat/MBA7:00 SR Evening Movie

49:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:30 TH Cultural Studies2:00 GR Scrabble2:30 GR History of Cinco De Mayo with

Latin Dances Performed3:15 GR SING-A-LONG7:00 SR Evening Movie

Southbound Doctor Drives 59:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance1:30 TH Laughing with Robert2:30 B Extended Happy Hour:

Cinco de Mayo- MariachiBand

7:00 SR Evening Movie

69:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:15 TF BRIDGE1:30 Great Room Game Show2:00 B Mother’s Day Tea3:00 B Harpist4:00 SR Armchair Astronomy: Mars Geology:

Rocks, Rills, & Residues4:30 TH Shabbat Blessing7:00 SR Evening Movie

79:00 Walking Club

10:30 Scenic Ride1:00 SR Daily Movie1:00 B Kentucky Derby- Mint Juleps and Big

Hats1:15 TH BINGO2:30 GR Giant Crossword2:30 Shopping3:00 GR Sheldon at the Piano4:00 Communion Room Visits7:00 SR Evening Movie

Mother’s Day 89:30 TH Weekend Exercise

10:00 TH Trivia: Every Grain Counts11:00 JK Mother’s Day Brunch12:30 TH Nondenominational Bible

Study1:00 SR Daily Movie1:30 Scenic Ride3:00 Rosemarie at the Piano7:00 SR Evening Movie

99:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Sharpen Senses10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:30 SR Music Appreciation3:00 TH History Remembered: A Woman

President: What United StatesHistory Has Taught Us!

7:00 SR Evening Movie

Northbound Doctor Drives 109:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance10:30 CF Computer Tutor

1:15 TH BINGO3:00 Welcome Social: Meet the New

Residents7:00 SR Evening Movie

119:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:00 Outing: Train Ride to San JuanCapistrano for Afternoon Tea

2:00 GR Scrabble2:00 GR Diane at the Piano3:15 GR SING-A-LONG7:00 SR Evening Movie

Southbound Doctor Drives 129:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance1:30 TH Cafe Gratitude3:00 B Happy Hour: Sundance

Band7:00 SR Evening Movie

139:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:00 Outing: Barona Casino10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:15 TF BRIDGE1:30 Great Room Game Show3:00 TH Nancy’s Taste and Learn4:30 TH Shabbat Blessing7:00 SR Evening Movie

149:00 Walking Club

10:30 Scenic Ride1:00 SR Daily Movie1:15 TH BINGO2:30 GR Giant Crossword2:30 Shopping3:00 GR Robert Parker at the Piano4:00 Communion Room Visits7:00 SR Evening Movie

159:30 TH Weekend Exercise

10:00 TH Trivia: Every Grain Counts12:30 TH Nondenominational Bible Study

1:00 SR Daily Movie1:30 TH Ceramics Class2:00 Outing: Butterfly Release Memorial at the

Flower Fields3:30 B Polished for a Purpose: Nail

Painting7:00 SR Evening Movie

169:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Sharpen Senses10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:30 SR Music Appreciation3:00 TH Art for All Ages: All Skill

Levels Welcome!7:00 SR Evening Movie

Northbound Doctor Drives 179:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance10:30 CF Computer Tutor

1:15 TH BINGO3:00 TH Flower Arranging7:00 SR Evening Movie

189:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:30 TH Cultural Studies2:00 SR Resident Council2:00 GR Diane at the Piano2:00 GR Scrabble3:15 GR SING-A-LONG4:30 Outing: Dinner with Robert7:00 SR Evening Movie

Southbound Doctor Drives 199:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance1:30 SR Hooray for Hollywood3:00 B Happy Hour: Billy Harper

Band7:00 SR Evening Movie

209:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:15 TF BRIDGE1:30 Great Room Game Show2:30 GR Helen Woodward Animal Visits3:00 JK Chat with the Chef4:30 TH Shabbat Blessing7:00 SR Evening Movie

219:00 Walking Club

10:30 Scenic Ride1:00 SR Daily Movie1:15 TH BINGO2:30 Shopping2:30 GR Giant Crossword3:15 TH The History Lady4:00 Communion Room Visits7:00 SR Evening Movie

229:30 TH Weekend Exercise

10:00 TH Trivia: Every Grain Counts12:30 TH Nondenominational Bible

Study1:00 SR Daily Movie1:30 TH Jewelry Class2:00 Scenic Ride3:00 GR Local Music School: Piano Recital7:00 SR Evening Movie

239:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Sharpen Senses10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:30 SR Music Appreciation3:00 TH Guided Autobiographies

w/Katrina7:00 SR Evening Movie

Northbound Doctor Drives 249:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance10:30 CF Computer Tutor

1:15 TH BINGO3:00 TH The Travelin’ Game

Show7:00 SR Evening Movie

259:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

12:00 Good Night! Health Presentation on SleepAwareness

1:00 Outing: TBD Movie Outing2:00 GR Diane at the Piano2:00 GR Scrabble3:15 GR SING-A-LONG6:30 B Peter Seltser Performs7:00 SR Evening Movie

Southbound Doctor Drives 269:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance1:30 B Coffee Klatch with

Sadie3:00 B Happy Hour: Musicstation7:00 SR Evening Movie

279:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:30 P Aqua Aerobics11:15 JK Birthday Lunch1:15 TF BRIDGE1:30 Great Room Game Show3:00 TH Nancy’s Taste and Learn4:30 TH Shabbat Blessing7:00 SR Evening Movie

289:00 Walking Club

10:30 Scenic Ride1:00 SR Daily Movie1:15 TH BINGO2:30 Shopping2:30 GR Giant Crossword3:00 GR Vincent at the Piano4:00 Communion Room Visits7:00 SR Evening Movie

299:30 TH Weekend Exercise

10:00 TH Trivia: Every Grain Counts12:30 TH Nondenominational Bible

Study1:00 SR Daily Movie1:30 Scenic Ride3:00 GR Mark Mayville Performs7:00 SR Evening Movie

Memorial Day 309:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:30 Shopping9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Memorial Day Presentation10:30 P Aqua Aerobics1:30 SR Memorial Day Drive3:00 Current Events w/Therese7:00 SR Evening Movie

Northbound Doctor Drives 319:00 TH Stand and Be Fit9:45 TH Sit and Be Fit

10:15 TH Everybody Balance10:30 CF Computer Tutor

1:15 TH BINGO3:00 C Book Club Chat7:00 SR Evening Movie

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MayCelebrations

Resident Birthdays1st Ross W.9th Joel L.11th Julie G.12th Greg S.13th Bonnie S.15th Violet M.20th Sandy M.22nd Edson H.31st Margaret D.

Employee Birthdays12th Michael N.19th Manuel F.20th Christiana H.30th Jacqueline A.

Employee Anniversaries6 yrs. Melissa W.5 yrs. Paloma M.4 yrs. Marelene S.3 yrs. Justin B.3 yrs. Therese F.2 yrs. Maria V.

Hearing Aid ServicesWe would like to welcome Rose Hearing AidCenters here at Belmont! They will be coming

in the last Thursday of the month for yourconvenience. Some of the services they offer:

* Audiometric hearing test*Hearing aid fitting and programming* Hearing aid cleaning and checking

* RepairsThey accept most insurances. You can scheduleyour in-house appointment via the concierge

desk.

Nurse’s NoteOccupational Therapy MonthOccupational Therapy is

therapy based on performing themeaningful activities of dailyliving (self-care skills, education,work, and social skills), especiallyto enable or enhance participationin such activities despiteimpairments or limitations inphysical or mental functioning.

Older adults benefits fromoccupational therapy becausetheir goal is to assist withregaining or maintaining a level ofindependence that will allowthem to age in place for as long aspossible. Occupational therapyhas been proven effective forseniors living with variousmedical conditions or recoveringfrom surgery. In addition toworking with individuals toincrease strength or regainimportant life supporting skills,occupational therapists work

throughout the community,counseling families, localgovernments, and communitygroups to ensure that each isdoing what it can to help olderadults maintain theirindependence.

Belmont Village offers bothoccupational therapy and physicaltherapy services. Our WellnessCenter nurses work closely withour therapists to identify thoseresidents who would benefit fromthese therapies and contacts thefamilies and physicians tocoordinate care.

We encourage, educate, andpromote healthy living.

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Neighborhood News

Neighborhood residents admiringthe Flower Fields.

This past month we did notreceive as many of the “AprilShowers” we needed or expected,but that is not going to stop the“May Flowers” from blooming inthe Neighborhood.

One fun and engaging activityresidents enjoy doing during thespring is getting their hands dirty!This month the NBH residentswill be taking a trip to BalboaPark’s Botanical Garden for someinspiration, as the residents willbe planting their own garden inthe NBH Courtyard. This activityallows those residents who enjoythe gardening a chance to beoutdoors during sunny days,providing great sensorystimulation. In addition, it willallow those who have nevergardened before a chance to learnsomething new; provide a sense ofownership and a sense offulfillment, as they see the firstflowers begin to blossom or thefirst tomatoes start to ripen. Comeby and view our garden!

Circle of FriendsOur Circle is growing! This

month in May you can expect tosee our Activities Assistant,Heather, lead a class of her own,as we are introducing a muchanticipated third group. Group 3will be meeting on the 3rd Floor;previously occupied by Group 1lead by Kathleen.

With this expansion of the COFprogram here at Cardiff, itprovides an optimal opportunityfor this new group to continuewith the activities that are tailoredand just right for each participant,addressing their abilities andneeds.

Collectively as a team, we arecurrently brainstorming on newinnovative and creative ideas forour activities and outings. In thepast I have been approached byfamilies with their suggestionsand input, and would like to takethis opportunity to include youall. Please let me know what yourlove ones’ favorite things do are,their hobbies, places they enjoyedfrequenting. Your input is mostwelcome and valued.

Circle of Friends having lunch atOlive Garden.

Monthly HighlightsFriday, May 6th at 3:00pm:

Mother’s Day TeaOur fourth annual Mother’s Day

Tea will be held in the Bistro.Join us for finger sandwiches,scones, and of course lots andlots of tea. Please make sure toreserve your spot early. Space

is limited.

Thurs., May 12th at 1:30pm:Café Gratitude with Clare

Last month we hosted our firstCafé Gratitude and it was a

major success. Each month Clarewill be raising some thoughtprovoking questions while

putting a smile on your face!Don’t forget to bring your

journal!

Mon., May 23rd at 3:00pm:Guided Autobiographies

Join us as we tell the stories ofour lives. Each of you will

receive a journal to use as weexplore your “stories.”

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The Village Scene

Joann D. and Joan H. out and aboutat Moonlight Beach.

Enjoying dessert at The ChampagneBakery!

The residents exploring the San JuanCapistrano Mission.

Looking good Concierge Clare andBuilding Engineer Don!

Judy S., Sophie S., and Judy L. lookgreat in their pajamas!

Driver Therese and resident Carroll S.are birthday twins!

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