s6 margriet heijdemann - the emotional needs of children - 1 july 2014
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The emotional needs of childrenTRANSCRIPT
FAMILY VALUES AND THEIR LINK TO ECONOMIC WELL-
BEING AND SOCIAL OUTCOMES
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POTENTIAL
OUR HUMAN POTENTIAL
THREE CORE ASPECTS OF MATURATION
emergence
adaptationintegration
THE FRUITS OF:
Emergence: interested, curious, discovering, full of plans, creative, assume responsibility, value uniqueness…
Adaptation: learn from mistakes, benefit from correction, resourceful, accept limits, resilient, not aggressive, recover from loss or trauma…
Integration: self-control, courageous, persistent, patient, considerate, civilized, morals…
A WARM AND SAFE RELATIONSHIP
WITH A CARING ADULT
being known
significance
belonging& loyalty
SENSESsameness
love
6 phases of attachment
BEST PRACTICES FOR ATTACHMENT
Collecting: make personal contact – get the eyes, a smile and a nod.
Bridging: in the face of separation focus on the next point of contact.
Matchmaking: introduce the adults with whom the child will interact.
STRENGTHEN FAMILIES
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