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Page 1: S6 Margriet  Heijdemann - The emotional needs of children - 1 july 2014

FAMILY VALUES AND THEIR LINK TO ECONOMIC WELL-

BEING AND SOCIAL OUTCOMES

www.neufeldinstitute.com

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POTENTIAL

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OUR HUMAN POTENTIAL

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THREE CORE ASPECTS OF MATURATION

emergence

adaptationintegration

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THE FRUITS OF:

Emergence: interested, curious, discovering, full of plans, creative, assume responsibility, value uniqueness…

Adaptation: learn from mistakes, benefit from correction, resourceful, accept limits, resilient, not aggressive, recover from loss or trauma…

Integration: self-control, courageous, persistent, patient, considerate, civilized, morals…

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A WARM AND SAFE RELATIONSHIP

WITH A CARING ADULT

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being known

significance

belonging& loyalty

SENSESsameness

love

6 phases of attachment

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BEST PRACTICES FOR ATTACHMENT

Collecting: make personal contact – get the eyes, a smile and a nod.

Bridging: in the face of separation focus on the next point of contact.

Matchmaking: introduce the adults with whom the child will interact.

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STRENGTHEN FAMILIES

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