Romeo & Juliet: A Cultural Ideal

I get the feeling that he’s never read Romeo and Juliet

I’m getting tired of these one night stands,

But if you wanna make a real romance, I’m that kind of girl.–Patti Lovelace

The Experience of Falling in Love

Inspires us to move beyond the

family/familiar (outside ourselves)

O Romeo, Romeo, wherefore art thou Romeo?

Deny thy _____ and refuse thy ____!

Or, if thou wilt not, be but sworn my love,

And I’ll no longer be a _____. (2.2.33-37)

Love at First Sight: Truth or Fiction?

Juliet:I’ll look to ______, if looking liking move,But no more deep will I endart mine _______Than your consent gives strength to make it _____ (1.3.98-100)

Friar Lawrence:Young men’s love then liesNot truly in their hearts but in their _____(2.3.67-68)

The History of Romantic Love:Plato (428-327 B.C.E.)

• People were once quadrupeds, male and female joined in one animal.

• Angry gods separated us, each from his other self.

• Forever, we search and long for the lost part of ourselves.

» From the Symposium

More History of Romantic Love: The Troubadours of France (1100-1300)

• New concept: Fin amour (true love)

• Idealization of the woman• Debasement of the man• Deliberate cultivation of desire• Enhancement of desire through

obstacles such as distance (anticipation heightens desire)

More History of Romantic Love: Francesco Petrarch (1304-1374)

• Love enters at the eyes.“Love found me all disarmed and saw the way

Was clear to reach my heart down through the eyes

Which have become the halls and doors of tears.”– Petrarch’s canzone.

• The beloved is unattainable.

• She is cold and unresponsive.

Love at First Sight:Powerful Fantasy with Centuries

of Cultural Conditioning

•Response to an ongoing search for a soul mate•Product of psychological conditioning through literature and media•Involves an unconscious surrender to the fantasy of the soul mate or dream lover.

Romeo & Rosaline: The Miserable Petrarchan Lover

I have a soul of lead

So stakes me to the ground I cannot move . . .

I am too sore enpierced with his shaft

To soar with his light featurers, and so bound

I cannot bound a pitch above dull woe.

Under love’s heavy burden do I sink.

(1.4.15-22)

The Petrarchan lover is melancholy,

frustrated, obsessed and depressed

“Alas poor Romeo! He is already dead, stabbed with a white wench’s black ______” (2.4.13-14)

His lovesick poetry is melodramatic

Petrarch, Pleasure, and Pain

• Woman is placed on a pedestal—but immobilized and de-personalized: an ideal, not a real woman• Melancholy lover wallows in self-absorbed torment, taking pleasure in the image of himself as romantic victim.

Romeo: In sadness, cousin, I do love a woman (1.1.191)

Benvolio: Why, Romeo, art thou mad?Romeo: Not mad, but bound more than a madman is;Shut up in prison, kept without my food,Whipped and tormented . . . (1.2.53-55)

Romeo & Juliet: Reciprocal Relationship

• Palmer’s Sonnet --Equal dialogueROMEO: If I profane with my unworthiest ______

This holy shrine, the gentle _____ is this:My lips, two blushing _______, ready standTo smooth that rough touch with a tender ______.JULIET: Good pilgrim, you do _____ your hand too much,Which mannerly devotion shows in this;For ______ have hands that pilgrims' hands do touch,And ____ to ____ is holy palmers' kiss.ROMEO: Have not saints _____, and holy palmers too?JULIET: Ay, pilgrim, lips that they must use in _____.ROMEO: O, then, dear saint, let lips do what hands do;They ______, grant thou, lest faith turn to despair.JULIET: Saints do not move, though grant for prayers' sake.ROMEO: Then move not, while my ______ effect I take.Thus from my lips, by yours, my sin is purged. (1.5.90-103)

Juliet’s Development

• Infancy to Independence

• Achieves “agency”– Speaks her feelings– Initiates marriage

• Topples Petrarchan ideal of silent, unapproachablewoman on a distant pedestal

Marriage in Elizabethan England: A Hot Topic

#1 Arranged Marriage– Legal documentation of property and cash transactions

between the 2 families

Paris: What say you to my suit?

Capulet: But saying o’er what I have said before:

My child is yet a _________ in the world;

She hath not seen the change of fourteen years.

Let two more ________ wither in their pride

Ere we may think her ripe to be a _______. (I.2.6-11)

– “Dowry” or “Portion”: property, jewels, pewterware, etc. from bride’s family to couple

– “Jointure” = settlement (usually land) groom’s family agrees to award to bride if she is widowed

– Dowry : Jointure = 5 : 1

O brother Montague, give me thy hand.This is my daughter’s jointure, for no moreCan I demand. But I can give thee more,For I will raise her statue in pure gold

(5.3.296-99)

#2. Enforced Marriage

  How now, how now, chop-logic! What is this?'Proud,' and 'I thank you,' and 'I thank you not;'And yet 'not proud,' mistress minion, you,Thank me no _______, nor, proud me no ________,But fettle your fine joints 'gainst Thursday next,To go with Paris to Saint Peter's _________,Or I will drag thee on a hurdle thither.Out, you green-sickness carrion! out, you baggage!You tallow-face!(3.5.149-157)

#3. “Free Marriage”

Three words, dear Romeo, and good night indeed.If that thy bent of love be ________,Thy purpose _______, send me word to-morrow,By one that I'll procure to come to thee,Where and what time thou wilt perform the rite;And all my fortunes at thy foot I'll layAnd follow thee my lord throughout the _______.(2.2.142-49)

Tools Make the Man: The Role of Violence in Romeo and Juliet

The BroadswordCapulet: What noise is this? Give me my long sword, ho!

(1.1.62)

The Rapier• Newly available in Elizabethan England• Lightweight and portable• Fashionable for gentlemanly attire

Draw thy tool . . . My naked weapon is out . . . Draw, if you be men. (1.1.26-27;50)

• Violence preserves clan/kinship groups

• Violence preserves male dominance of women

SAMPSON:   A dog of that house shall move me to stand: I will take the wall of any man or maid of Montague's.GREGORY:   That shows thee a weak slave; for the weakest goes to the wall.SAMPSON:   True; and therefore women, being the weaker vessels, are ever thrust to the _____: therefore I will push Montague's men from the wall, and thrust his maids to the wall.

(1.1.10-21)

•Verbal Abuse of Women

Preserves Male Dominance

An old hare hoar,And an old hare hoar,Is very good meat in Lent.But a hare that is hoarIs too much for a score,When it hoars ere it be spent(2.4.108-13)

Romeo and Mercutio: Male-Male vs. Male-Female Bonding

“You gave us the counterfeit fairly last night” (2.4.38)

If love be blind, love cannot hit the mark.Now will he sit under a medlar tree,And wish his mistress were that kind of fruitAs maids call medlars, when they laugh alone.Romeo, that she were, O, that she wereAn open et caetera, thou a poperin pear!Romeo, good night: I'll to my truckle-bed;This field-bed is too cold for me to sleep:(2.1.34-41)

Romeo’s Development:Rejecting the World of Men & Boys in Verona

Thy beauty hath made me effeminate

And in my temper softened valor’s steel! (3.1.101-102)

Mercutio dies because Romeo marries and declines to accept Tybalt’s challenge.

The Religion of Love

Romeo: What shall I swear by?Juliet:   Do not swear at all;Or, if thou wilt, swear by thy gracious self,Which is the god of my idolatry,And I'll believe thee.

Compare: Language of Palmer’s Sonnet

Shakespeare’s Asks His Audience . . .

• Is there such a thing as love at first sight?• Is it compatible with reciprocal relationships?• Can love between a man and a woman characterized

by equality, passion, and honorable commitment last in this world?

• Do prevailing notions of manhood require aggressive displays and the verbal abuse of women?

• Can young men reconcile the need for male bonding and the requirements of heterosexual love?

• Does the journey toward independence for young women cause an emotional rift with parents?

Bibliography• Callaghan, Dympna. Introduction and “Between Men” in William

Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet: Texts and Contexts. Ed. Dympna Callaghan. Boston: Bedford/St. Martin’s, 2003.

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