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Andrea Weckerle Y'all Connect Presented by Alabama Power July 23, 2013 Birmingham, Alabama Online troublemakers come in many different variations. Some are simply disgruntled individuals who have a complaint and want to be heard. Others wreak havoc online because they enjoy getting a strong and emotional reactions out of you. Still others are intent on intentionally doing damage to your company or brand. Knowing how to deal effectively with each type of online antagonist is paramount in today’s online business climate. Takeaways: • Learn how to identify each different type of online antagonist. • Find out what makes each of the different types of antagonists tick. • Learn how to best manage each of the different type of antagonist. • Develop the emotional management skills that allow you to stay in control when the attackers come after you.

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Page 1: Psychology of Online Antagonists, by Andrea Weckerle

Psychology of

Online Antagonists !!

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Andrea Weckerle Founder, CiviliNation Y’all Conference July 23, 2013

CiviliNation

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CiviliNation Web: http://civilination.org/

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Facebook: CiviliNation

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Twitter: @aweckerle and

@civilination

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Where We Are Today

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“world map 3D” by kcp4911 http://www.flickr.com/photos/29712230@N08/2861478881

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What’s the Problem?

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“Hey guess what?” by Rick http://www.flickr.com/photos/spine/2442711126/

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Where Is It Happening?

“Blue Earth” by Catalina Olavarria http://www.flickr.com/photos/catikaoe/144550404/

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Who Are The Troublemakers?

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“Bedsite Table”” by Rachel Scotland http://www.flickr.com/photos/66400171@N06/6155043473/

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TrollsCiviliNation

“Trolls“ by Cali4beach http://www.flickr.com/photos/cali4beach/6039415545

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“Troll under the bridge“ by ngader http://www.flickr.com/photos/49503047029@N01/229841717

Trolls

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“Troll Ave” by Andrés Monroy-Hernández http://www.flickr.com/photos/amonroy/2379870487

Trolls

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Trolls

John Lindsay http://dontevenreply.com/view.php?post=95

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Trolls

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TrollsCiviliNation

Photo by Patrick Africanus in the public domain via Wikimedia Commons

DNFTT

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SockpuppetsCiviliNation

“Sock Puppet Art” by Ann Larie Valentine http://www.flickr.com/photos/sanfranannie/3952700754

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SockpuppetsCiviliNation

“The Ultimate ‘Mean’ Sock Puppet” by Teresa Trimm http://www.flickr.com/photos/7714612@N04/3306167992

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SockpuppetsCiviliNation

“checkuser sockpuppet” by Cary Bass http://www.flickr.com/photos/bastique/3396034823/

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DefamersCiviliNation

“Pants on Fire” by Mike Licht http://www.flickr.com/photos/notionscapital/4218906145/

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DefamersCiviliNation

“The evil ‘I‘ “ by Janos-Csongor Kerekes http://www.flickr.com/photos/30420396@N03/8039318200

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DefamersCiviliNation

“Lie” by Kathleen Conklin http://www.flickr.com/photos/79865753@N00/506425051

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Difficult PeopleCiviliNation

“kiss_my_ass” by fsecart http://www.flickr.com/photos/8647615@N03/1007195669

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Difficult PeopleCiviliNation

“Jerk - Brighton Black Rock” by Perry French http://www.flickr.com/photos/28536896@N02/2903043044

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Difficult PeopleCiviliNation

“Day 041/365” by Paul Heaberlin http://www.flickr.com/photos/85795462@N00/3310285373

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CiviliNation Difficult People

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What is Conflict? CiviliNation

“Trolls)” by Cristian V. http://www.flickr.com/photos/shyald/409601105/

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Is Online Conflict Inherently Bad?

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“chess” by Tom Goetze http://www.flickr.com/photos/riverofgod/210426424/

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CiviliNationThe Different Types of

Online Conflicts

Source: Civility in the Digital Age (Que, 2013), page 60

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CiviliNationPermutations

“Colora” by CurveTo http://www.flickr.com/photos/86637070@N00/2698598542

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Conflict Issue Categories

Content-based

Personality-based

Power-based

Identity-based

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Conflict Issue Categories

Personality-based

Power-based

Identity-based

Content-based

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Conflict Issue Categories

Content-based

Personality-based

Power-based

Identity-basedPersonality-based

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Conflict Issue Categories

Content-based

Personality-basedIdentity-based

Power-based

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CiviliNation

Conflict Issue Categories

Content-based

Personality-based

Power-based

Identity-based

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“Question Mark Sign” by Collin Kinner http://www.flickr.com/photos/colinkinner/2200500024/

What Can You Do?CiviliNation

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Some Foundational Skills CiviliNation

“Concrete Foundations” by Chris RubberDragon http://www.flickr.com/photos/65219016@N04/6270207121

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Some Foundational Skills #1CiviliNation

“Anger” by Caleb Roenigk http://www.flickr.com/photos/56858900@N03/5510505990

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Online Conflict Style Quiz: Which One Are You? - quiz on pp. 122 of the book

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Some Foundational Skills #1:

Conflict Style

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“2008-12-04 15-36-49_JCS_0111” by B Hartford J Strong http://www.flickr.com/photos/10964711@N06/3271564220

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Some Foundational Skills #1:

Conflict Style

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Some Foundational Skills #2 CiviliNation

“Olympus Trip focusing” by George Rex http://www.flickr.com/photos/36692623@N06/3814863064

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Some Foundational Skills #3CiviliNation

“Wrong Way Highway Sign” by Kristin Nador http://www.flickr.com/photos/83251575@N04/7696089276

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Some Foundational Skills #4CiviliNation

“Ear” by Travis Isaacs http://www.flickr.com/photos/tbisaacs/3911558890

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Do you need to respond? !If When How

CiviliNation First Step

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CiviliNation Next...

“Triage, First Aid Tent” by Brian Gratwicke http://www.flickr.com/photos/briangratwicke/5898801173/

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CiviliNation Next...

“Problem” by r000pert http://www.flickr.com/photos/r000pert/136999467

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CiviliNation Next...

“Crowd” by James Cridland http://www.flickr.com/photos/18378655@N00/613445810

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CiviliNation Next...

“Solutions House” by James Mitchell http://www.flickr.com/photos/19916528@N00/2149876991

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CiviliNation Is the other side open

to resolution?

“handshake” by buddawiggi http://www.flickr.com/photos/buddawiggi/5987710858/; “hand” by jakub http://www.flickr.com/photos/75227967@N00/98193355

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 Is the other side open to resolution?

“keep calm and carry on” by Jelene Morris http://www.flickr.com/photos/70831250@N00/2966591130

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Web: http://civilination.org/ !

Facebook: CiviliNation !

Twitter: @aweckerle and @civilination

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Available at: !

• civilination.org/civility-in-the-digital-age !

• Amazon.com !

• barnesandnoble.com