psy 311: family costs of divorce 1) negatives: l (societal stigma) l loss of a parent or parenting...
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Psy 311: Family Costs of Divorce 1) NEGATIVES: l Host of potential problems –Family conflict –Stressed out parents –Fewer parenting resources –Change, disruption, confusion –Loss of confidence in relationshipsTRANSCRIPT
Psy 311: Family
Costs of Divorce1) NEGATIVES: (Societal stigma) Loss of a parent or parenting unit
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Costs of Divorce1) NEGATIVES: Host of potential problems
– Family conflict– Stressed out parents– Fewer parenting resources– Change, disruption, confusion– Loss of confidence in relationships
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Consequences of Divorce Short-term: Very hard on children
– School, acting out at home, peers– Peaks at one year– Boys may be more affected than girls
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Consequences of Divorce1) NEGATIVES: Long-term: Much recovery; effects smaller
but still there.– Lower school achievement– More psychological problems
• Boys: externalizing• Girls: internalizing
– May be permanent– Girls more affected by remarriage
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Consequences of Divorce (cont)
2) POSITIVES: End to parental conflict Can promote independence
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How does divorce affect children?
It depends Many factors influence how a
child adapts to divorce.
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Influencing Factors
1. Adequate financial support 2. Adequate parenting by custodial parent
– Warm, consistent, respectful 3. Emotional support from the non-
custodial parent– Affectionate contact with both parents– Protected from any parental conflict
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Influencing Factors (cont.)
4. Additional social support– Children: friends, support-groups– Parents: friends, family
5. Minimum additional stressors– Moving, changing schools, losing contact
with grandparents, etc.
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Most Important Factor
Quality of relationship with the non-custodial parent.
Why?
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Film Clip: Divorce & Children’s Development
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FAMILY VIOLENCE
1. Child abuse– Verbal abuse– Physical abuse– Sexual abuse– Neglect
2. Spouse abuse 3. Elder abuse
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Consequences of Family Violence
1. Things you get that damage you Physiology- stress reactive View of self Aggression and violence
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Consequences of Family Violence (cont.)
2. Things that you don’t get that damage you
Lack of cognitive stimulation Attachment disturbance Self-regulation (self control) problems
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Consequences of Family Violence (cont.)
Long Term Risk for: Emotional problems (e.g., depression) Difficulty relating to others (e.g., peers) Poor social skills Impaired cognitive development Poor school performance
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WHY DOES ABUSE HAPPEN?
A vulnerable individual faces overwhelming stress with
insufficient resources
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WHAT MAKES A PERSON VULNERABLE?
The complex interaction of personal and social variables
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WHO PHYSICALLY ABUSES CHILDREN?
1. “Normal” people– Young, single mother, with multiple young
children 2. High stress
– Poverty (80% of cases)– Dangerous environment– Unwanted or difficult children
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WHO PHYSICALLY ABUSES CHILDREN (cont.)?
3. Low resources– High strung temperament– No partner– Violent relationships– Little social support
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WHO PHYSICALLY ABUSES CHILDREN (cont.)?
4. Low skills– Immature– Little knowledge about children or
development– Few techniques for discipline– No role models
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INTERVENTIONS
1. Target individuals and personal traits 2. Areas
– Social skills– Parenting skills– Child development education– Counseling
3. Reduce stigma of seeking help– Parents Anonymous
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INTERVENTIONS
What about social and political factors?
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INTERVENTIONS
1. Prevention of unintended pregnancies 2. Prevention of poverty 3. Education 4. Job availability 5. Community resources
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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:
Get support from society
1. Collective responsibility– Children as a value of society– Child-rearing as a valued activity
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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:
Get support from society
2. Financial support– Single wage-earner makes enough
to support family– Two half-time jobs make enough to
support family
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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:
Get support from society
3. Job flexibility– Part-time or flex-time jobs– Maternity and paternity leave– Child sick leave
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HOW TO BE A GREAT PARENTStep Two:
Get support from society
4. Child care support– Education on child-rearing– Quality affordable child care– Community centers– Crisis interventions
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LAST NAME, first name
1. Name 3 factors that influence children’s adjustment to divorce.
2. What is the most important factor? 3. What are the long-term effects of
abuse for children? 4. Name 3 factors that increase the risk
of abuse.
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Psy 311: Family
LAST NAME, first name
1. What are the short-term effects of divorce for children?
2. What are the long-term effects of divorce for children?
3. Name 3 factors that influence children’s adjustment to divorce.
4. What is the most important factor?