Prison Love

BY JAMI CRAWFORD

Why would a person marry someone in prison?

Rescue fantasies Need to nurture The perfect boyfriend: she knows where he is at all times,

and while she can now claim that someone loves her, she does not have to endure the day-to-day issues of most relationships; she can keep the fantasy charged up for a long time.

Need for drama: during the trial, the daily events in the lives of serial killers may attract women who want to get close to the adversarial atmosphere and the possibility that something surprising may occur.

Low self-esteem: some man/women believe they cannot find a woman/man and since men in prison are desperately lonely, it's an easy way to get involved

Continued…. Attention: when they do something like get

involved with a killer, people talk about them and often the media puts a spotlight on them

They evolve from Nobodies into Somebodies The chance to show their mettle: they align

themselves against the world in a heated defense of their beloved

Beauty and the Beast syndrome: they like the idea of getting close to danger that will probably not hurt them, but there's always the slight chance

BUT WHY SHOULD I CARE?

Daughter or Mother

Sister

Friend Dad

PAM BOOKER

http://youtu.be/pfqAr6yLCGM

Her parents didn’t think she would fall in love with an inmate!

How Does one find a prison soul mate?

They might have know them before they went to prison.

They might know someone in prison and that prisoner puts them in contact with another inmate.

They could go searching for them on one of the many website setup for inmate dating.

Juli Cummings

Knew Ric years before he went to prison. Lost contact but found him again once he was in prison. http://youtu.be/5BQ_nbX63Wk

Julie says that she was lonely before Ric came back into her life and now her life has meaning. Ric calls Juli every day from prison.

http://youtu.be/G5ADetfomdI

Why do you have to live this way?

HE COMMITTED A CRIME JULI!!!!

Grace

Grace met Dave threw another inmate that was in prison with him. http://youtu.be/Kn_b-ssMBLk

Did anyone notice what Grace said that was odd?

She said that she was nervous about writing Dave because she hadn't wrote anyone in prison......ummm... didn't you meet Dave by writing your boyfriend in prison?

Internet prison inmate dating is the best and most effective way to meet

the prisoner of your dreams

John Essary http://loveaprisoner.com/profiles/male-inmates/john-essary/

Sandi Nieveshttp://loveaprisoner.com/profiles/female-inmates/sandi-nieves-2/

Tim found the love of his life from a inmate dating site.

http://youtu.be/591ULNdn6PM?t=23m

CREEPYBut maybe Tim is just suffering from the rescue fantasy?http://youtu.be/591ULNdn6PM?t=28m

Nope still creepier then his wife who cut out some guys heart.

Some know facts about Tim before we start this video. • He is a retried wealthy airline pilot • Had a wife and kids before he went on this site • He is now divorced from old wife and married to

prison wife

A MARRIAGE IN THE PRISON

MARY AND JONNY’S WEDDING AND A ANOTHER

LUCKY COUPLE

http://youtu.be/591ULNdn6PM?t=2m13s

http://youtu.be/591ULNdn6PM?t=42m1s

ON ALL OF THESE MARRIAGES ONLY

1% End up working.

But…. One of these lucky couples marriages is still going strong since their spouse got an early release from prison.

JULI AND RIC

This is Zed giving Ric his first haircut in Seattle since his release on Oct. 18th, 2012. Ric is the first and currently only person featured in the Prison Wives series to be released from prison. We are going on 6 months following release. Our lives have been truly blessed. Ric was the last man out of prison in Oklahoma with the early release consideration system of parole. Sadly the parole board is being wrongly attacked by a crazy DA in Oklahoma. We are still in shock and disbelief at how close we came to not seeing Ric released from his 71 year sentence for a non violent drug crime for which his codefendant served 10 months.

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